What are anti-depressants?
Q. what are anti-depressants? My dad told me that they make you happier. I would like to go on them if thats the case but I'm too scared to ask for help. I've been depressed for a long time now. I really need help!...
A. 12 June 2008: Anti-depressants are medication that either creates serotonin or causes your nerons in your brain to not reuptake the serotonin naturally created in your brain. Serotonin is a feel good chemical naturally made in the brain. When someone is depressed ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to be a part of a remembrance for our lost baby?
Q. I need some help please. I had a miscarriage 5 months ago and my boyfriend of almost 3 years never seemed to upset about it. He never would talk about it and he wouldnt help me pick a name out for our baby boy. Now that what would have been my due ...
A. 12 June 2008: I think that you are wrong in thinking that it didn't upset him. He wont be a part of anything because it hurts. I think he is thinking that it will hurt less if he pretends it didn't happen while for you it will hurt less if it is aknowledged that ... (read in full...)
How do I let him know that I'm ready to try to get pregnant again?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have resenly experince a miscarriage, and im wanting to try again but dont know if he is wanting to try again or to wait. How would iapprotch him about it. The problam is that he dosent like to talk about things he never gives ...
A. 12 June 2008: You have to just ask if he is ready again or if he is still hurting. Just reassure him it is ok to say not yet and that you want the pregnancy to be happy not sad because he is not over losing the first baby. Just realize that until you are a few ... (read in full...)
What is up with this obsession of his with my work outs?
Q. My bf keeps talking to me about working out... He says (and acts which is even more important I guess) that I'm totally hot and attractive. He's more passionate now than he was when we started dating almost two years ago (maybe because I've los...
A. 12 June 2008: I dont think you are over reacting if he is telling you to work out then maybe he isn't as attracted to you as you think. However if he wants you to work out and he watches you then it might be a sexual fetish. Some men love to watch their girls ... (read in full...)
Guys, would you date her and kiss her? She was forced to perform oral sex by a previous boyfriend.
Q. If you see a beautiful girl that you really like and she also attends college. But she tell you that she was force once in the past to perform oral sex by a guy she was dating. she said she end it with the guy immediately after that. These are my ...
A. 12 June 2008: I think that the guy that really cares about her would grap her and give her one of the most soft passionate kisses ever and remind her that it wasn't her fault and there is nothing wrong with her. Also her would understand ANY hang ups she had with ... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriend break up with me because I performed one of his fantasies for him?
Q. Did my bf break up with me because I satisfied him sexually? My bf, he's shy, inexperienced, and also had his head screwed over a little by religion when he was younger I think but in the 6 months we were together I managed to get him out of all o...
A. 12 June 2008: I think that the distance is what messed things up not the sex. I think that maybe you might have issues with self confidence so you are scaring yourself. Dont worry it is normal I do it too. If I do something out of the ordinary for my fiance and ... (read in full...)
I'm very worried about this! My gf is on the pill and has been dripping with red and brown stuff...
Q. hi there i am worried and badly need help and a load of weight of me mind. bascially my girlfriend has been on the pill for about 2 to 3 weeks now and last night me and my girlfirend had sex without protection, she said it will be ok because she w...
A. 12 June 2008: The red brown fluid is blood mixed with dry blood. He body just might be responding to the pill with spoting but the pill isn't my choice of birth control. Way to many pill babies out there so I stick with the depo shot which is a lot more effective ... (read in full...)
My wife wants me to watch her with another man! What do you think?
Q. my wife wants me to watch her with another man. It really turns me on, but I don't want to ruin things. What do you think?...
A. 12 June 2008: My feelings on this that no one seemed to pick up on is that see wants you to WATCH her not be in there. I think that you are just opening the door to cheating but I could be wrong.... (read in full...)
Do guys ever get over "player" stage?
Q. I never thought i'd be one of those girls that are so in love they would put their life on the side for a guy. I cant say no to my best friend.I love him so much,even though he doesnt want to commit.I always end up givng in and messing around with ...
A. 12 June 2008: Some guys will grow up and learn what they want in another person. They will realize that they want to have a family but their are guys that never want the family though. At your age it is very normal. He is still learning what he wants out of a ... (read in full...)
What is the difference between having sex and making love?
Q. i was just wondering whats the difference betwwen making love and having sex..how can u tell???...
A. 12 June 2008: I think that tremor put it well, but to put it in different words: Sex is when you have to have that person now because your body cant wait. Making love is when you want to use you body to show someone that you love them. The difference in feeling ... (read in full...)
Is everybody lucky enough to find that special someone?
Q. I am 15, and dont have a boyfriend. I realise this is quite normal, but i still can't help feeling lonely. While my friends are all out with their fantastic boyfriends, im stuck, alone. Well anyways, i know a lot of you will say, "Your time will ...
A. 12 June 2008: I believe that if you dont find someone it was because you were to distracted by something else to look. If you really want love then it will find you. As far as your friends dont be jealous if it does last a long time they will learn that their men ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my boyfriend I want a baby?
Q. hi well i nned some help im 18 and i want to have a baby...i love kids n i have been taking care of them sence i was 13..or maybe even younger..i just dont know how to tell my boyfriend that i want a baby..whats the easiest way to tell some one u ...
A. 12 June 2008: I think that the first thing to do is see if you can really afford a baby. No matter how much you love a baby that doesn't feed or clothe them. The next thing to think about is if you and your boyfriend haven't talked about kids them you aren't very ... (read in full...)
Is there really love at first sight?
Q. Is there realy such thing as love at first sight or is it just lust? Do men say they love you after a couple of dates just so they can sleep with you? Come on guys be honest have you ever done this?...
A. 12 June 2008: I personally dont believe in love at first sight because I think that you have to know someone and know their faults to love them. A guy can be hott from a distance and then when you get to know him he might be stupid or mean. However there is a ... (read in full...)
Am I going in the right direction if I want to lose weight?
Q. i have a health problem as told from other people and i know this myself. i am quite over weight lets say around 45 pounds overweight and it's been 4 years since i was in great shape. now i am not in great shape. i've been thinking about my weight ...
A. 12 June 2008: First off what I was told for losing weight is start small on the excerising. Your body isn't use to it so you muscles will hurt. If you are really sore after doing the morning stuff cut back a little bit so that by the end of the day your legs dont ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make my pubic area smooth when shaving?
Q. I have a question about shaving. I shave evrey where including down there and I am allergic to every womans razor out there, but I did find a mans razor that only makes my under arms and my pubic area break out a little but my arms and legs are ...
A. 11 June 2008: Thank you for all the advice I will try all of it! Except the laser hair removal because I just cant afford that!... (read in full...)
Please help me find the strength to bin my cheating boyfriend.
Q. I need help. I've been in a relationship for almost 3yrs on and off. We live together and have a 16 month old daughter. During the course of our time together he has been bouncing back and forth between myself and his ex gf. He has also cheated on ...
A. 10 June 2008: I think you have to leave. I think part of why you are staying is jealousy and a little for your daughter. I'm sure you two are fighting a lot if he is being unfaithful and that just isn't fair to your daughter she deserves to grow up in a happy ... (read in full...)
Do I end it or not?
Q. so im dating(1.5 years) a guy 4 years older than me. lately ive been feeling a little disconnected and its starting to really bother me. the romance is dying, he's always busy, and he recently told me he was applying to a job which was on the other ...
A. 10 June 2008: I think you have answered your own question. He doesn't make you happy enough to only be with him. When you meet that right one you will know. I have been with my fiance for three and a half years and have never wanted anyone else. Even in the bad ... (read in full...)
How do I fix our friendship, even though I'm in love with her?
Q. Hello everybody i am a 16 year old male teenager. I seem to have a problem that occurs alot. I like this girl, shes 14 years old so a little younger, and shes my friend. In the past we have been together but broke up and forgotten about it. We broke ...
A. 10 June 2008: ok this one is a little hard. At your age you are more than capable of being in a serious relationship but it sounds like she is not yet mature enough. I think that you should say you are sorry for the comment that you didn't think it would be out ... (read in full...)
He is younger thus I was reluctant about dating him, suddenly he stopped talking to me, how do I get him interested again?
Q. A boy who is a few years younger than me gave me his number at a lacrosse game. We started texting and he asked me right away if i would go out with him. I told him that the age difference was pretty extreme (4 years) but i also said that i would ...
A. 10 June 2008: Ok based on your age it would make this kid what 12 or 13? He is way to young for a real relationship. You will be graduating as he enters high school. I would let this go and try dating guys a little closer to your age. He has a lot of growing up ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him due to his age?!? Or stay with him? He's everything I could ask for!!
Q. not to long ago i met a guy and he was everything i wanted,we really understood each other.up until last week i never asked him about his age but i recently did and he told me he was 16 thing is im 20 so i said i needed time to think about us and i ...
A. 9 June 2008: If he is comfortable with your age then it is ok. One thing is be careful not to have sex you dont want to end up in jail!... (read in full...)
Relationship problem's--he hit's me sometimes! Is he fixable?
Q. Hey i have a question, now i'm sure you've heard this god knows how many time's. But Let's start out short. I have a boyfriend and i'v been dating him for the pass 7 month's ( NOT THAT LONG ) And i really super love him, i feel that ther...
A. 9 June 2008: Ok i completely understand. I've been with my boyfriend for three and a half years and now i have no friends and not really any family. My boyfriend started hitting me when i moved in with him. He never hit me hard enough to leave bruises but then ... (read in full...)
I need some help understanding orgasms - help me please?
Q. hey all bascially im just want some help. i always read about how when females have orgasms its really powerful and stuff. i used to think i was having an orgasm but recently im not so sure anymore. My friend was telling me how sex is so much bet...
A. 8 June 2008: It feels different for different people and sometimes the orgasms for one person are different. I have orgasms where i soak the sheets but dont really feel anything and have ones that feel like my body just relaxes ones that feel like pulsing ... (read in full...)
Crush on Teacher and now I'm moving to new school!
Q. I have this problem. I like my social studies teacher, but now it is summer vacation and I am moving on to high school , and I'll probably never see him again! In class I would always get nervous when Ia was around him, my hands would get sweaty...
A. 8 June 2008: You have a crush nothing more! It is normal. I took a psychology class and i'm sure that you have hit puberty so what you are experiencing is the psychological part of puberty. Puberty means that you are now able to have babies and what you are ... (read in full...)
Creeped out when coach looks at me!
Q. Last winter 07-08 I had a basketball coach (I was 13/14 yrs old). I think that he liked me and now that I am playing for my high school team I saw him there watching me. What should I do? Should I be scared or just ignore it?...
A. 8 June 2008: Some teachers are pervs. I learned that growing up but you can do absolutely nothing unless he touches you or gives you written proof of his advances. It sucks but if you are really scared of him tell you parents and they will help keep you safe!... (read in full...)
What happens after a year?
Q. Hi I was just wondering if its possible for someone to still like you/ have feelings for you even if they haven't seen you for over a year? thanks for any help...
A. 8 June 2008: My ex hadn't seen or talked to me for more than 3 years and still wanted to be with me so it is very possible!... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex and I'm scared
Q. Last night, for the first time, i had unprotected sex with a bloke i dont know. im scared i may have a std or that im pregnant. i already hve a 3 month old daughter and i dont bellieve in abortions- im really scared to go to a gum clinic in case ...
A. 7 June 2008: First go get plan B. You dont want another baby and you 72 hours to take that. As far as an STD you have to wait six months before HIV would show up so wait six months and go in and say you want a routine STD check lots of people have them. Is it ... (read in full...)
I lied to my boyfriend and said I was pregnant? what now?
Q. Okay so i my boyfriend moved to another state and we decided to stay togetehr . he promised to call and he did ....FOR THEE FIRST WEEK . and then i started getting less calls . and recently he told me he was cheating on me but he was coming back to ...
A. 7 June 2008: Tell him the truth but really why would you want to be with a guy that cheats on you! You are still young and you dont deserve to be cheated on. Tell him the truth but also maybe you should find someone who will stay faithful because I bet that when ... (read in full...)
My GF's past is eating me up inside, partly because the long distance favours my idle mind to produce negative thoughts about her. Help?
Q. My gf and i have been dating for the past 1 1/2 years. I has been long distance relationship since we started going out. Every month i make a trip to see her and she does the same. After our 1 year anniversary we decided to have a conversation about ...
A. 7 June 2008: I think the real reason it bothers you that you haven't admitted to yourself is that you are worried that you wont be able to compete. You are a virgin and you are worried that because she has experience and you dont that you wont be able to please ... (read in full...)
I have an issue with my confidence that holds me back from socialising...
Q. i really feel like the time is right for me to get a girlfriend but i have an issue with my confidence that holds me back. i simply dont have the courage to talk to anybody i like the look of but when they speak to me i again do not have the ...
A. 7 June 2008: Everyone has that problem. Just try a lot of girls (the ones that aren't snobs) think it is cute when a guy has trouble talking. It makes us realize that you are nice and that you really are attracted to us. Some girls will be bitches but dont worry ... (read in full...)
I feel useless, can reach orgasm through masturbating, but not during sex - any ideas?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been having sex for about 4 months now and i haven't orgasmed. i do masturbate and do orgasum but by clitural stimulation.i have only come close once during sex but my boyfriend stopped before i could. anyone got any idea...
A. 7 June 2008: It sounds like your bf is a selfish lover. Your not the problem he is. It sounds like he cant last long enough to please you. The besti can say is try telling him what you want during sex and see if that helps and tell him to read up on how to last ... (read in full...)
How can we get privacy?
Q. I've only been with my boyfriend for almost 3months, but we've kind of been on/off before that as i've known him sinse i was about 6 even though he's in the year above. I know you young people arn't supposed to know what "love" actually is, but i ...
A. 7 June 2008: I think you should wait until you are not on and off. It will really hurt you if you do have oral sex and then you guys go into an off period. It will make you doubt yourself and could really mess you up. Dont do anything until you have been on for ... (read in full...)
Why would a guy choose to wear a condom even when we are using the pill?
Q. im not complaining about the fact my bf wants to wear a condom. we started with them then after 8 months we just used the pill now 6 months later he wants to use them again which i dont mind but why would a guy want to start using them again? he ...
A. 7 June 2008: He might have an STD. But if he doesn't last that long in bed maybe he learned that useing a condom will make him last longer. Maybe it is just to please you. You should hold off on having sex until you find out the really reason and get some STD ... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 7 June 2008: Just move on with your life. This guy will continue to do this. He will only want you when he cant have you and then when he gets you back he will not want you again. Find a man that wants you ALL the time. Dont fall for his game! It will only hurt ... (read in full...)
I have a new crush. Should I follow my passion?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years (since I was 18) and have fallen out of love with him. We are more like friends and live quite separate lives. Our sex life is non existent and I'm not sure where our future lies. I have developed a crush ...
A. 7 June 2008: There is no reason to be unhappy. If you dont love him anymore then it is time to move on. Everyone deserves to be loved and going without it can be very hard. I think you should move on but maybe if you did talk to him then things might get better, ... (read in full...)
Why am I so angry all the time? It's destroying our relationship.
Q. I love my boyfriend so much, but I find myself angry ALL the time. He's betrayed me a few times in the past and broken many promises, but now we have started our relationship a new and appart from my anger it's wonderful. I feel happy when I'm w...
A. 7 June 2008: I am in the same boat as you! If your boyfriend is anything like mine then he never wants to talk about the past and gets mad that you do. I bet that he never has explained why he did whatever it was that he did wrong and you cant trust him because ... (read in full...)
Men, what would you do if your partner came home with a sex toy?
Q. So I want to take a poll even if I only get a few answers its ok. The question. The senario. Just home from the local porn store. Just bought a new toy. One that is pleasurable for both individuals. This question is basically for men. Women you c...
A. 7 June 2008: I ask my boyfriend and he said C. If it was me i would talk to my significant other about the toy and if they felt comfortable with it I would go for it, but if they weren't then I would wait however long it took them to get curious to use it.... (read in full...)
Any ideas how I can get him to know I'm interested in him?
Q. hey, well theres this lad in my year at school and i really like him like have a massive crush on him. he's the same age as me, 16. He's in my music class i also see him around and about at lunch breaks, we talk sometimes mainly in music, but i wa...
A. 7 June 2008: What i would do is start things slow. Try saying hi out side of class! When you and your friends have plans for a movie ask him if he wants to go and start trying to be around him a little more. If he excepts your offers it will more than likely ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before I start dating again?
Q. I recently broke up with my girlfriend, we both left on good terms and agreed to each find someone who better suits us, my question now is how long should I wait until I start dating or looking for someone?...
A. 7 June 2008: It sounds like you are worried about hurting her. If you really seperated on good terms and you really want the other person to find happiness then whenever you feel ready it is the right time. The thing is if you are worried about hurting your ex ... (read in full...)
In love with the son of my father's friend. He might tell everyone if I tell him. What should I do?
Q. hey,actual i am in love with a guy,like hez son of my fathers friend, i dont know how to just express my feelings towards him, as i dont know much about him..if he teels everyone about me in his family so itz a really an insult for me and for my pa...
A. 7 June 2008: Ok. If you dont know him well enough to know if he is trust worthy with the information that you like him then you dont love him. To love someone you have to know a lot about them and that includes their faults. It is easy to love someone when you ... (read in full...)
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