Could I get pregnant by having sex during my period?
Q. i want to know, if i have my period and i have sex with it, could i get pregnant?...
A. 7 July 2008: Its not very likely but it could happen. Some woman do ovulate at the same time that they have their period its just rare, To make sure that you dont have a baby then just use a condom to be safe.... (read in full...)
How can we have sex without his religion causing him to feel guilty?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time a few days ago. Afterward, he felt guilty, which I guess is normal since it was the first time for both of us. However, my boyfriend was raised in a very christian family and, though he still really ...
A. 7 July 2008: It depends on how serious you two are and why you two aren't married. My fiance and I aren't married because it will affect my financial aid and we cant afford to put me through college by are selves. The only way I can think is to insure him that ... (read in full...)
Having sex, or being in a relationship, is there a difference?
Q. what is the difference between having a relationship and just having sex...
A. 7 July 2008: Being in a relationship is something that you do to figure out if you want to spend the rest of your life with and if they are the right person then you do. Sex is something that can be a physical impulse or if you are with someone you love it can ... (read in full...)
After a nightmare I wet the bed with my boyfriend in it!
Q. OK, this is pretty embarassing. In bed with the boyfriend last night, fast asleep. I have a weird dream that involves me taking a pregnancy test. Next thing I know, I wake up, and it's all wet... Yeah, turned out that dream was a little more real...
A. 7 July 2008: Dreams are all brain impulses. One of the impulses slipped from your brain to your bladder. As long as it doesn't normally happen then it is fine. Consider yourself very lucky to have such an incredible boyfriend and laugh about what happened. Hope ... (read in full...)
What does he want when he moves my hand?
Q. during foreplay my boyfriend moves my hand towards his penis. What does he want? A full blown hand job or just some touching? If the latter in what way does he want me to touch him? ...
A. 7 July 2008: To make asking more comfortable make it a role play thing. When my fiance and I first got intimate we were both virgins and to learn the others body without getting shy we played a game where we the others sex slave so we told eachother what to do ... (read in full...)
Bruising after sex, why?
Q. Hey :) Great site you have here... Okay well basically me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday... all went well and we were fine (i wasnt a virgin, he was) and all was fine until today when i showered and found bruising...anyone have any ideas on...
A. 7 July 2008: My guess is that you are both skinny so your pelvic bones kept hitting and left bruising. Not much you can do except have soft sex or gain weight. Hope that helps!... (read in full...)
Are there other ways of getting an STD, besides intercourse?
Q. This will seem like stupid question but, can you get an STD just by giving your bf a handjob???...
A. 6 July 2008: It is very very rare. The only way is if you had an open sore on your hand or a fresh cut, then the sperm would have to get on that one spot and travel through your blood stream. Your chance is like one in a billion! Your fine!... (read in full...)
I saw my 44 yearold mother having sex - surely she is too old?
Q. I am 24. My mom is 44 she had a divorce after long married life of 28years.She was shattered and had lived a lonely life all alone for a year in her small parental town. When I got setelled with good job in a bigger town she came to live with me in ...
A. 5 July 2008: You are 24 and my guess is that you are still very much at your sexual peak. You started you sexual peak 8 years ago and your mom started hers 9 years ago. Woman hit their sexual peaks at a much later age than men. Your mom will more than likely ... (read in full...)
I've lost 12lbs in two weeks. I'm still overweight and I need to lose more. What's the best way?
Q. I havent really been on a diet or anything ive just cut down on how much ive ate and ive lost 12lb in about 2 weeks im not sure if thats good or bad?! but i defintley need to lose somemore weight! As im still overweight. I've cut down to one meal a ...
A. 5 July 2008: Dont just eat one meal a day. You will shock your system into stavation mode and you will start to gain weight. I know I've done that so many times. You have to eat three small meals a day and have snacks in between like a low fat yougert or a snack ... (read in full...)
"Love. but not in love." What does it mean?
Q. WHAT do men mean when they say They love you but arent IN love with you? This sounds very confusing and have had it recdently said to me. What is the difference please and why say it and what is the meaning? Thanks...
A. 5 July 2008: It means that he cares about you the way you would care about a friend or family member, but he doesn't have intimate feels for you. Basically he cares for you as a friend not a life long partner.... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriend rape me? I told him I was ready but during the act I realised it wasn't so.
Q. im really confused!! i really dont know what to do, did my boyfriend rape me?! or is it down to me, ive been with him for just three months, not long i know, but i thought i loved him, i thought i was ready for sex, hes 17 and im 16. last friday, i ...
A. 3 July 2008: It wasn't your fault and everyone on here who says it was is wrong. Even if you were in the middle of it No always means no and he should be able to stop. Animals dont rape eachother it doesn't work that way in the animal kingdom. Only humans do ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex, but my nervousness is interfering, with my performance, any suggestions?
Q. So I'm an 18 yo guy, and still a virgin. I've had the opprotunity to have sex twice. Both times I was nervous as hell. Like beyond nervous if you can imagine. There was very little to no forplay going on before we tried, and both times I went limp. ...
A. 3 July 2008: It is normal. You need to have sex with someone that you trust and love so it takes some of the pressure off. If you know that the person loves you then it is a lot easier. The first time that my fiance and I tried to have sex we were both virgins ... (read in full...)
I really don't know who to be with....Oh, and I'm pregnant with twins!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 yrs. Things keep going well then they will get bad again. I'm pregnant with his twin boys. I'm not happy with him. He tells me what to do, tells me he doesn't find me attractive and puts me down. I've found so...
A. 3 July 2008: Life is too short to stay with someone you aren't happy with. Your boyfriend doesn't seem like a nice guy and this other guy seems great if he wants you even though you are pregnant. The choice is yours and only you can walk away but you should be ... (read in full...)
Is a curved penis a problem, or am I over reacting?
Q. my penis curves slightly to the left (about 9 inches if that means anything) is this normal?...
A. 3 July 2008: Completely normal. My fiance curves slightly to the left too and our sex life is incredible! So dont worry!... (read in full...)
My penis burns after having unprotected sex. What should I do?
Q. i had unprotected sex with a woman last night, now my penis burns on the inside, not when i urinate or ejaculate just all the time, it fades in and fades out but is pretty constant.. what is this and what should i do?????...
A. 2 July 2008: Go to the doctor but it sound like she might have had a yeast infect and passed it on to you. I dont know what they call a yeast infection for a guy but what you are discribing sounds like how i felt when I got mine. You aren't going to die or never ... (read in full...)
Is there a cure for split ends? My hair looks like it has died!!
Q. is there a cure for spit ends cause i have a million i dont want to get 5 inches cut off but my hair looks so dead!.. i used to use a straitener alot and thats why i think i have so many!! any solutions?...
A. 2 July 2008: youre going to have to cut it for it to be healthy again. 2 inches should be ok but after that go get special conditioner that is for people who use a lot of heat on their hair. Good luck!... (read in full...)
How do you get rid of a sunburn really quickly?
Q. Sorry, this isn't a relationship question BUT basically I got really sun burn at Glastonbury Festival and its SO SORE and RED and painful!!! im slapping on the after sun like there's no tomorrow but the problem is im supposed to be getting a t...
A. 2 July 2008: Dont get the tattoo right now. Wait until your skin heals. In fact I dont think the artist will do it because you are at a high risk of infection. Use aloe vera. I had a sun burn so bad on my back that if i rolled onto it, it woke me up from a dead ... (read in full...)
What do I say to him at his sentencing?
Q. My soon to be ex-husband and I were together for six years. After three months he started being physically and emotionally abusive, I stayed, married him, and had his child. Stayed for another year and a half after our daughter was born. The ...
A. 1 July 2008: Your last sentence just said what you want to say. Add that you loved him and that he needs help and that you hope your baby doesn't remember. Only you know what you want to say.
I wish you the best of luck and cant wait for you to meet the man ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend complains that it hurts to shave "down there" but I don't want to go down on her if she doesn't!
Q. Hi, I have been dating my girlfriend for 8 months now and i have gone down on her twice. The first time i did it was the first time ive ever done it. So i liked it. But then te second time i realized that i didnt like it so much. Mainly because of ...
A. 1 July 2008: I shave completely and it does get sore. After she does it give her a good soft lick to help with the burn. Remind her to use lotions to help with razor burn and realize she can only probably shave once every three days at the soonest or she will ... (read in full...)
Is it safer to use 2 condoms?
Q. is it safer to use 2 condoms at a time?...
A. 1 July 2008: Two condoms will rub together and break both. One is all you need and if you use two you might as well use none because it puts you at the same chance of getting pregnant.... (read in full...)
What's the best contraceptive?
Q. i need help. i'm getting married next month and i want to find the best way to avoid getting pregnant. i heard that the pills sometimes has some side effects is it true? what r they? thanks....
A. 30 June 2008: I myself am also on the depo. I never decided to try the pill because my sister-in-laws friend got pregnant with ferternal twins while on it. The side effects of the shot are no periods, except a little spotting sometimes when the shot is due, sore ... (read in full...)
Ladies: Tell me how you would react to this?
Q. Ladies..if I saw you for first time and bumped into you and said "can I just say something, your eyes are so pretty" and walked off? How would you react and what would you think? [Moderator note: major spelling and grammar corrections, next tim...
A. 29 June 2008: I would look at you weird while you said it and then after you walked away and I realized that you weren't trying to pick me up I would smile and think about it all day.... (read in full...)
No bleeding after using the dildo, am I still a virgin?
Q. ok i dont know if i am still a virgin....my friend told me to use a dildo to ease my first time with my b/f. I did use the dildo but it really hurt and there was no bleeding. i had read that you could lose my virginity without bleeding but i am not ...
A. 28 June 2008: Do you still have your hymen? no. Are you still a virgin? Yes. I believe that you dont lose your virginity until you have consenting sexual intercourse with someone. I dont believe you can lose your virginity to an object or to someone who raped ... (read in full...)
I had a comtraceptive implant in March and now I'm torn between being safe and dirty or unsafe and clean
Q. First a little background info. I had the contraceptive implant back in March and the doctor did say that it would take about three months for my periods to sort themselves out. In the first couple of weeks my period was constant then stopped but ...
A. 28 June 2008: Try the depo instead. You have regular periods for about 6-9 months and then they stop for however long you are on the shot. You might get a little spotting when the shot is due but the shot is only once every three months. I have sex with my fiance ... (read in full...)
No period yet. What can I do?
Q. hi im 14 and i havent stared my perid yet what should i do ...
A. 28 June 2008: Be thankful. I started when I was 11 and got on the depo at 15 and stopped having my period which I was so glad it stopped. Cramps are not fun. When my period first started the cramps had me in a ball on the floor and everything was ok with me. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to wait to have a baby!
Q. I am 16 year's old going on 17 and my boyfriend, that's 18 and we've been together for about a year in a half, we want to have a baby or babies. People say that were to young and crazy because we both love kids so much.. we watch my neice and neph...
A. 27 June 2008: Ok I was just like you. I really lost my interest in having a baby when I moved on my own after I graduated from high school. I am in college and I am getting a double major in nursing and psychology with a minor in child development. It is hard to ... (read in full...)
How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women?
Q. How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women? At the moment, I feel like a) I'm not good enough for him and b) upset that he'd even want to look at these I need advice, please....
A. 27 June 2008: If you are not ok with it tell him. If he loves you he will stop. I'm just like you and have had low self esteem since I was 8. When my fiance and I got together I was at a new low and had been bulimic for almost a year. When I found out about his ... (read in full...)
I'm sick of the attention I'm getting because of my boobs!
Q. I am 16 only just, and i have massive boobs (30G/H). All the girls in my year hate me for it and all the lads only want me for them. Im not very confident as im not a popular girl just normal, im not ugly either though. Im not getting to the stage ...
A. 27 June 2008: I am just as big as you same size and I have natural blonde hair. Everyone thought I was a slut when I had never had sex and since I lost my virginity it was to my fiance who I am still with almost 4 years later. All you can say to the girls is, ... (read in full...)
I want to use tampons for the first time and need some advice
Q. I'm 13 and I really want to try using tampons. I've had my period for 1 year and a half and I'm ready to switch to tampons now. I find pads annoying. I'm going on a camping trip soon and by then it'll be my time of the month! I don't want to use ...
A. 27 June 2008: Ok I was 11 the first time I used one. The first one I used hurt so bad because I broke my hymen with it. My advice is to go to a rite aid or another drug store and get the light flow tampons since they will be thinner and if they aren't big enough ... (read in full...)
My mum wont let me stay the night at my boyfriends!
Q. how unfair is it to not let you'r 16 year old daughter stay at her boyfriends for one night? my mother wont trust me, even tho she was stayin over at my dads all the time when she was my age. she refuses me to stay over at my boyfriend. ho...
A. 27 June 2008: Yeah I'm 19 and my bf started staying over at 15 and we were having sex. Your mom knows that if you are not having sex now then you are more likely to do it if you stay the night. She isn't being unfair she is being protective. Sorry but I'm on your ... (read in full...)
When should I have my first pap smear?
Q. I just need some clarification about when you should have your first pap smear. I found on a web site that it says: "All women who have ever had sexual contact should commence having Pap smears between the ages of 18 - 20, or within two years ...
A. 25 June 2008: At 18 you should start having them only if you have had your first sexual incounter. Your papsmear would really hurt if you still had your hymen. After that it is once a year. You should have one done it can detect any early problems and just make ... (read in full...)
How to I make my daughter a lady and not a tramp?
Q. Help please!! I am a single dad and live with my daughters. (4 of them. I love them all very much and until last week it was not a problem. My oldest daughter is 18 years old and is a very strong minded thing. Anyway last week I finished up work...
A. 25 June 2008: I hate to tell you this but you cant do anything to make her stop. I'm 18 about to be 19 next month however I have only been with one person and I'm engaged and living with him. None of this is your fault at all. At her age she is a new adult and ... (read in full...)
How do I ejaculate quicker?
Q. how do i ejaculate quicker? it always takes a very long time and i was wondering does anyone know how i could ejkaculate quicker?...
A. 25 June 2008: My boyfriend has that problem. I tend to get sore because most times when we have sex its like an hour and a half. Try not thinking and stressing out about it because that makes it worse. Also i don't know if this will work for you but my bf can cum ... (read in full...)
I saw my ex forcing my friend to have sex, but she doesn't want me to tell anyone!
Q. My friend got raped by my ex. I am 16 and so is my friend. My ex, he is 19 in a few days. Just yesturday my friend and I had a party because we had just graduated from school. yea we r young don't ask. Ok so we threw a party and I invited my...
A. 25 June 2008: You need to report it but you need to get your friend on board. If you report it and she doesn't then the cops cant file charges because they dont have a victim. Stupid law but understandable. They will think that since he is your ex and she is your ... (read in full...)
If he took off with my daughter I would be devastated! Please help!!
Q. I have a daughter that is about to turn 7. Her father and I split up in November 2005. He has not helped us at all. He has moved on and married another woman that has 3 kids. He has seen my daughter a handful of times and all but one my olde...
A. 25 June 2008: I think that you need to find out exactly where she will be. Make a plan that she calls you every night to say good night and to make sure that she is ok. It is normal to get worried when your baby is so far away. I think she will be fine but I ... (read in full...)
Why can't I seem to get pregnant?
Q. i tired gettin pregnant for 7 months. my period is off and on. does this mean i cant get pregnant or can i?...
A. 25 June 2008: You can still get pregnant with a period that is off and on. However since you are having so many problems then I would go to the doctor and see if their is anything else wrong. If there isn't then have you bf or husband checked to make sure that ... (read in full...)
Advice on looking after children under 5!!
Q. This isn't a relationship, sex or dating question but I've got a new sunday job working with little children, just to get me some money. The only thing, they are exhausting and I can't seem to connect with them. It's not like I'm a naturally scar...
A. 23 June 2008: Just have plenty of activities and snacks. Kids that age get bored easy. Just try to take part in the activities and show them that you like to have fun too.... (read in full...)
Fallen for a man aged 50...should I trust my judgement and leave it alone...or should I go for it??
Q. I am 27 yrs old - been single for about a year after a serious relationship with someone my own age (this ended amicably) now ive fallen for a man thats a lot older than me (50) althogh he doesnt know how i feel about him. when we are together ...
A. 23 June 2008: I think that if you are looking for a fling then it is not a good idea. However if you want to be with someone for a long time then he will be mature enough to know what he wants and not go messing around. ... (read in full...)
Help!!! I feel like I'm losing the plot!!
Q. I am very unhappy at the moment, I am6months pregnant by a man who doesnt love me at all, i love him 2 bits but there are things about him that are beginning to get too much for me 2 take. We met in Jan 08', and i found out I was pregnant in March, ...
A. 23 June 2008: You have to leave him. Stay with friends or family until you can get on your feet after the baby is born so there isn't a chance of you going into labor alone. Also this guy sounds like he will sign his legal rights away so you can have him do that ... (read in full...)
My only problem here is that I cannot orgasm during sex, and it's causing a lot of stress and guilt for both of us.
Q. I am a 28 year old woman and have been married for 4 years. My husband and I don't have any children. We are very happy together and don't really have any complaints about our relationship. My only problem is that I cannot orgasm during sex. My...
A. 23 June 2008: Have you had problems the entire 4+ years or just lately?... (read in full...)
Which guy is the father?!??
Q. well basically i split up with my boyfriend christmas just gone and started to have another sexual relationship with someone else. I slept with him once (few times that night) january 8th den got bk with my original boyfriend febuary 14th. I then ...
A. 23 June 2008: It sounds like it is your bfs. However something is wrong with the time line because if you are twelve weeks then you found out you were pregnant the day you conceived which isn't very likely. You should ask the doctor to try and guess a new due ... (read in full...)
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