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writes:Did my bf break up with me because I satisfied him sexually?My bf, he's shy, inexperienced, and also had his head screwed over a little by religion when he was younger I think but in the 6 months we were together I managed to get him out of all of that and get very comfortable with himself, like I am. A while back he described one of his fantasies for me (nothing complicated/kinky/freaky at all) and I performed it for him.We dont see each other often b/c hes busy w/ uni but he kept telling me how amazing I am and then after not seeing me for more than expected he basically shut down, told me that I'm the most wonderful person he's met, he was confused and scared, and kind of just left. I cant help but feel that the two events are related! Did me pleasing my bf in bed after being together for 6 MONTHS cause him to break up with me?!? I thought that if anything it would make him happy and show him how much I cared for him. Help!
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (12 June 2008):
I think that the distance is what messed things up not the sex. I think that maybe you might have issues with self confidence so you are scaring yourself. Dont worry it is normal I do it too. If I do something out of the ordinary for my fiance and the next day we get in a fight I think it is because I wasn't good enough the day before. Truth is that its not it was something else that did it. I just really think that it was the distance so if he comes back to town maybe try talking to him and ask more questions and you will find out it had nothing to do with sex. I'm almost sure of it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry, I realized I didnt clarify in my question, we already were having amazing sex for 4.5 out of the 6 months that we were together. It was just a special couple of nights that shouldnt have freaked him out.
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