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Do you like it when a guy kisses you all over?

Q.   Girls and ladies only! Do you like it when a guy kisses you all over? And where? ie. cheeks, lips, neck, ear, part of chest. I do it all over, so is this creepy or just passionate coz i alter the pace from very soft to all over :P please tell me...

A.   26 May 2009: I love it. It shows affection and appreciation for the body. It is great!!!... (read in full...)

What is an STD?

Q.   What is mean STD? yaar, Is it releted to pregnency or unsafe sex? pls tell me yaar what is meaning of STD and how it happends? ...

A.   26 May 2009: It is a sexually transmitted disease. It is an infection often not curable that can be caught through semen, vaginal, or blood fluid most often contracted during a sexual encounter (vaginal sex, anal sex, or oral sex). Very rarely is it contracted ... (read in full...)

Any advice on allergies?

Q.   This is a health question not a relationship question. I went to the doctor because I thought I had ear infections and tonsillitis, which I didn't I got diagnosed with hay fever or really really bad allergies that cause liquid behind my ears a...

A.   26 May 2009: Thank you to those who helped. As far as Armymedic I dont have health insurance and it was expensive enough to go to the first time. I have also heard that dry nose is not a reason to stop the medication just use something to help with the side ... (read in full...)

Can pre-ejaculation cause pregnancy??

Q.   if one has sex,but ejaculation is not done ,then does a women has chances to be pregnant without ejaculation.or is it natural that even if ejaculation is not done,then too sperms are released into a females body.plz help..!!...

A.   23 May 2009: Yes a woman can if she is ovulating. Studies show that 90%of all sperm is in the precum and the actual ejaculation has 10% and the seminal fluid. So if all it take is one and the pre cum is 90% of 180 million sperm there is a very good chance of ... (read in full...)

Should girls shave their pubic hair, or do guys find it attractive?

Q.   ok i hope no one thinks im nasty or something but should girls shave pubic hair? or do guys find it attractive for girls to have it? im not haveing sex or anything i just wanted to know? ...

A.   23 May 2009: It really depends on the guy. Almost no man likes it natural. A man at least likes it trimmed, however I see that you are 16-17 and I am 19 and it is a really big trend in our generations to shave it all of. A lot of men in our generation prefer ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is obsessed with my penis!

Q.   I know this may sound silly but it's true. My girlfriend is obsessed with my penis. I don't know why, maybe it's because she's never seen one in real life before me... or something, I don't know. She's so fascinated by it, she's always wants to ...

A.   6 March 2009: I think that she is falling in love with you but a lot of girls like an erect penis or to feel if it is erect because it makes us feel sexy and wanted. We love that. I also bet that she is so excited that she can please you that too makes us feel ... (read in full...)

A question strictly for the men aunts!!!

Q.   Okay guys, would you want a straight girl that would have sex with you or a bi girl that would let you have sex with her and her girlfriend?...

A.   5 March 2009: I know i am a girl but i just have to say i really like the men on this sight they definitely are mature men. Way to go to all of you who respect yourself and others!... (read in full...)

Is it cheating if I want to experiment sexually with a woman?

Q.   Is it cheating if I want to experiment sexually with a woman? My boyfriend said it's cheating even if it's just for experimentation. I on the other hand have no problem with him experimenting with a man if he so chooses. What do you think? ...

A.   5 March 2009: I am keeping this short yes it is cheating!... (read in full...)

Spermicide harmful to baby?

Q.   My bf and I have been having sex and only using spermicide(the foam). I found out today I'm 2 months pregnant and I was wondering if the spermicide we've been using could have caused harm to the baby? ...

A.   5 March 2009: Nope your baby is in a protective sack that keeps everything away from it. Even if you get an infection or AIDs your baby is fine. Talk to your doctor so you aren't so worried.... (read in full...)

15 lb weight gain in 3 months??

Q.   Okay so this may sound a little wierd, but I'm a person who most people call a "health freak". I jog in the summer and swim during the winter. Well for some reason over the past three months all I have done is gain weight! This is odd to me because ...

A.   5 March 2009: I'm making an assumption based on your info and saying that the last three months have been stressful. It sounds like you have IBS (irritable bowel syndrome) which is caused by stress. Chances are you are also getting acid reflux (the heart burn and ... (read in full...)

Why can girls turn down sex but guys cant?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Why is it that if a girl turns down sex with someone she just met it is seen as normal, but if a guy turns down sex then the girl gets really upset and/or thinks that he is gay? I dont like sleeping with girls I dont know properly but ...

A.   5 March 2009: Where ever you are meeting these girls stop going. The girls you are meeting are sluts with no self esteem. You turn them down they get burnt and fell poorly about them selves and then take it out on you. Me and my friends tend to like me with very ... (read in full...)

What is the average size for a Mexican's penis?

Q.   ummm i was wondering what the average penis size for a mexican was? because my hubby is a mexican. it isnt big but not to small....

A.   5 March 2009: I am guessing that your gender is wrong because if you were a man you would know if you are average and if he is smaller. An average male penis is 6-8 inches.... (read in full...)

Should I continue on these pills?

Q.   I need some advice. I have been dating a guy for some time now. He's 38 and I am 20. I am also a teacher and I am ready to have a child. The problem is I have problems ovulating and my doctor puts me on fertility drugs - which I am taking now. H...

A.   3 March 2009: If he is uncertain dont have one with him. Your doctor should have already told you that these pills often result in multiples. How much would it suck to end up pregnant with 6 and a father thats not even in this country. You are still young and its ... (read in full...)

I found my own sister in bed with my boyfriend!!!

Q.   My sister is having an afair with my boyfriend! I was going to his apartment and saw her car. When I got upstairs (I have a key) they were in bed. What should I do? I hate my sister now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

A.   3 March 2009: Dump the guy and family or not she is a person and if thats they kind of person she is then you dont need her in your life. Its really going to suck when you meet the right guy and she tries to get him in bed and he has to come tell you what a slut ... (read in full...)

Why does my weight fluctuate in this way?

Q.   Hi, okay so I'm so confused! All weekend I eat whatever I want, then I weigh less or the same (110). but all 5 school days I workout hard and eat really healthy, then I weigh myself and I'm like 112! What's up with that! I really want to get back ...

A.   3 March 2009: Well your update answered the problem. You aren't eating. If you dont eat your body goes into starvation mode and stores fat not knowing when it will get food again. You have to eat to lose weight.... (read in full...)

Is it too early to propose to her... I'm 14!

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now and I'm a sophmore in high school and she is a junior and she's going to enlist in the national gaurd and me in the navy but I really really love her and I was thinking about proposing march 31 her ...

A.   3 March 2009: I am 19 and got engaged when i was 15 after my fiance and i had been together 9 months and are still together. If you think you can make it work go for it but keep in mind things get hard and rocky after 1-2 years and thats when you really figure ... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a guy asks you if you'd like to go get coffee?

Q.   Here is my situation (sorry if it's kind of long.) I met this guy in a professional context (actually, in a job training class I assisted with teaching last year). They graduated. We got back in contact when he texted me wanting to know when the ...

A.   3 March 2009: Yes coffee can be just coffee. You just have to slide into the conversation in a none rude way your boyfriend. Your BF should be easy to bring up. Its harder to make friends as you get older and maybe he is looking for a friend that he can talk to ... (read in full...)

Is it selfish to want a child when we are dealing with marital issues?

Q.   It is over a year since I discovered my husband ws having an affair - we are still together and things are going pretty well - however, we still have more work to do in order to be able to fully move on from this. We are both keen to have another ...

A.   3 March 2009: In a way yes but taking your age into account you are sort of running out of time and increasing the chances of having a baby with a disability. You both want one so even if things fail it sounds like they will still have a father. I feel torn on ... (read in full...)

Cant make sex work

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been trying to have sex, but there have been a few problems. Twice he was unable to maintain an erection, and the other two times he came the instant he entered me. We were both virgins before these attempts. I have tried ...

A.   3 March 2009: It sounds like he is way to nervous if he is going soft before even touching you. Try to just do foreplay and thats it for a little while it will make him relax and not get scared that he has to preform which is what makes him unable to perform. ... (read in full...)

Black and love white boys

Q.   i'm "black" and i love white boys but they don't seem to like me all the time.i'm not a "gettho girl" at all.HONESTLY i act "white".Is it because i'm black? i don't really know can you help me?is it because i act white but not purposely.and i refuse...

A.   3 March 2009: I dont think that it is because your black. Maybe there is just something else that they dont like. Not everyone is attracted to everyone. I know that the person that you meet whether white black blue or yellow will like you for who you are. Just ... (read in full...)

I bought a ring to ask him to marry me..

Q.   My boyfriend thinks I am cheating on him; he came home and I was hanging out with one of the people he works with; but we've all hung out before ;and I didn't think anything of it. All me and this guy did was talk about tattoos, concerts, some ...

A.   26 February 2009: I think that if he trust you so little then maybe marriage is just not the right idea. The only thing you can do is let him no the truth and he can take it or leave it.... (read in full...)

We plan on getting married, but I want kids and he doesn't!

Q.   We plan on getting married someday he doesn't want kids and I want a big family and always have! How can we make this work?...

A.   26 February 2009: I think that that is a great reason not to get married. Its not fair of either of you to change the other. Its not he lied and married you then said he didn't want kids. He is saying i dont want kids take it or leave it and if you want kids you have ... (read in full...)

Why does he ejaculate so quickly?

Q.   me and my fiance have sex at least 8 times a day why does he release so quickly?...

A.   25 February 2009: Some men really just cant control there cum. Some men are just faster than others.... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with the man I love, but I am self-conscious!

Q.   I really want to have sex with they man i love, but i am so self conscious of my body, he is really in shape. and im not, im not an obese girl, a am slighty thicker than some. most guys like my shape, but i dont, i have ugly light strecth marks on ...

A.   18 February 2009: I know how you feel i have stretch marks all over my stomach and sides and my boyfriend loves me the way I am. If he truly loves you he will love all of you. Start with foreplay and take off your shirt if he is loving and sensitive then make love to ... (read in full...)

Do LDR relationships work?

Q.   ONE SIMPLE QUESTION: DO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS (LDR) WORK? answer however you like.. yes, no, youre opinions or experiences etc. anything would be helpful! thanks...

A.   17 February 2009: Yes it can work. My fiance and i were together for 4 months before i moved away and we spent 2 1/2 years apart on the phone everyday. We have no been living together a 1 1/2 and are very happy we lasted through the seperation. It just takes a lot of ... (read in full...)

Does he like receiving oral if he doesn't orgasm from it?

Q.   My boyfriend said he has never come from a blow job before. I want to give him oral during times when I'm on my period, but usually after a while he would stop me and say it's okay. He never asks me to finish him with my hands and he never finishes ...

A.   17 February 2009: I ask my boyfriend and he said it sound like you aren't good at it. While doing it use your hand to touch where your mouth cant and ask him what he like to to show you. Let him move your head or hand or do different sucking motions and ask him what ... (read in full...)

I'm 15, why do I REALLY want a baby???

Q.   Ok this may sound totally stupid and immature but yeah... I don't know why but for some reason I REALLY want a baby (A daughter mostly) I have been wanting one for almost a year now... I am 15 for gods sakes! What the hell! Out of nowhere last week ...

A.   2 February 2009: It is normal you are newly fertile and it is normal to want a baby. I was just like you when i was you age i am now 19 and i know that i need to wait so that my child can have the best life and i also need some time for myself. I still want a child ... (read in full...)

We're always fighting over the chores!

Q.   I'm a young mother of a3 month old baby and my boyfreind and I always fight now over everything but mostly chores. He runs away to his parents house for a couple days and leaves me here to take care of her. Than he says he wants to work things out ...

A.   1 February 2009: Yeah he'll be back in a week and after that he will leave again he is not going to grow up trust me its just a game to him. Move on and make a better life for your daughter! He wont change.... (read in full...)

Condom split! Chances of pregnancy?

Q.   i had sex last night and condom split i am 5 days into my cycle what is the changes of me becoming pregant. many thanks for help ...

A.   1 February 2009: the same as any other day go get plan b you have 72 hours to take it.... (read in full...)

Different position hurt--is that normal?

Q.   Hi, I have a bit of a strange question. Im sorry if this sounds awful. Last night whilst having sex we tryed a different position wth me bent over and I found it realy uncomfortable and i dont know if it was because he was going realy fast. it w...

A.   1 February 2009: There is a chance that he was hitting you cervix and it was shooting pain in you back. That position allows him to go in deeper so try lowering your butt closer to the bed it will make it not so deep or talk to him and have him try moving and say if ... (read in full...)

Explicit!! Guys: how much do you notice when a girl clenches her abs really hard during sex?

Q.   I can never tell the difference when I do kegels during intercourse, but I notice a TREMENDOUS difference when I clench my abs as hard as I can. There is a huge increase in sensitivity and pleasure for me, the female. So, I spend 60%+ of my time ...

A.   1 February 2009: As far as the ab thing my guy never notices. I dont even know i am doing it until my stomach aches and i have to release my abs so it feels good for you but he doesn't know. Kegals are different they make you tighter around him and he can feel that.... (read in full...)

Typical dating timeline?

Q.   I have been talking with a guy for a few weeks now. Having never been in a real relationship before I am unaware of the “typical dating timeline.” So far we have made out and done a bit clothes-on fondling, but nothing else. I really want him to ...

A.   31 January 2009: It is completely up to you. Its when you feel the time is right and the feeling comes natural. Dont force anything just go with the flow.... (read in full...)

Does she still like him and just want me for sex, or does she love me and just wants to really be friends with him??

Q.   I met this chick during summer school last year and we totally hit it off. Before school was out, I asked her if she wanted to hook up and have some fun, she enthusiasticaly agreed and so we got together. I really found her attractive and really ...

A.   30 January 2009: I think that you should talk to her and then if she doesn't want more then sex then move on to another girl!... (read in full...)

Anyone know what these pains might be?

Q.   hey, i know this probably isnt the right place to be asking this question but im just curious. im on the injection, have been on it for like a year now. but just recetly ive been getting pains which feel like period pains. im not due to go and get ...

A.   30 January 2009: They could but they would not be in the pelvic region. If it feels like period cramps then more than likely not.... (read in full...)

How will I know if I'm having real labor pains?

Q.   how will i know if i am having true labour pains instead of braxton hicks contractions??...

A.   30 January 2009: At your age it is very common for you to have fake labor pains. Your body and uterus are not ready to have a baby so you are going to be more uncomfortable. Talk to your doctor and also you will know when you are in labor.... (read in full...)

Do guys really like when a girl sticks fingers or toys up the males bum?

Q.   Do guys really like when a girl sticks fingers or toys up the males bum? I have a few guy friends that say they like it around but not in. I have another male friend that says to help my boyfriend out with the whole anal thing but I feel ...

A.   29 January 2009: Everyone likes different things some guys like it some guys dont some guys wont try it because they associate anal pleasure with homosexuality. No matter what though no guy will like it if you dont enjoy doing it. It will make him up tight and make ... (read in full...)

Why don't I want to have sex any more?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over a year. At first I wanted to have sex all the time and loved it. Now I don't feel like doing it that much and she thinks that I don't lover her. I do. What's with my decreased sex drive. ...

A.   29 January 2009: You dont give much insight to your life but my bet is that you are either stressed out with life or your relationship is a little rocky. That can decrease sex drive easily. Take a step back and look at your life or relationship and see what the ... (read in full...)

Does she still like him and just want me for sex, or does she love me and just wants to really be friends with him??

Q.   I met this chick during summer school last year and we totally hit it off. Before school was out, I asked her if she wanted to hook up and have some fun, she enthusiasticaly agreed and so we got together. I really found her attractive and really ...

A.   29 January 2009: It sounds like you are just sex. The next morning that she comes over have breakfast made and tell her you only want to talk. Then bring up the fact that she doesn't make time for you. Tell her you want to take a step back and get to know eachother ... (read in full...)

I'm worried I can't get pregnant.

Q.   I have been off my pill for 6 months and I am 20, still get periods, me and my partner have sex 3 times a week maybe more but I am worried I can't get pregnant any more. I did when I was 17 and I really didn't think it was right at the time but now ...

A.   29 January 2009: You need to talk to your doctor. Having an abortion can cause scarring in the uterus which means you can ovulate and it become fertilized but it wont be able to attach to the wall of the uterus and you will then bleed it out. Only a doctor can look ... (read in full...)

Anyone know what these pains might be?

Q.   hey, i know this probably isnt the right place to be asking this question but im just curious. im on the injection, have been on it for like a year now. but just recetly ive been getting pains which feel like period pains. im not due to go and get ...

A.   29 January 2009: I am on the shot and have been for four years. That happens to me all the time even when my shot is no where near due. If you are truly worried then talk to your shot provider and see what they say. ... (read in full...)

Is she being immature about this?

Q.   My wife and me had our first daughter (she's 6 weeks). I usually like to party after work with some friends so I can wind down (7 times a week) and won't be until 10:00 pm (my wife will be mad at me if I stay any longer). Anyway when I got home one ...

A.   29 January 2009: Your daughter needs to be feed every two hours that doesn't include how long it takes to feed her all the diaper changes baths clothes changes from spit up crying time from discomfort and the many other things a baby does so i would say if you are ... (read in full...)

How will I know if I'm having real labor pains?

Q.   how will i know if i am having true labour pains instead of braxton hicks contractions??...

A.   29 January 2009: Talk to your doctor they will tell you. Also if your water breaks that is a huge sign!... (read in full...)

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