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I lied to my boyfriend and said I was pregnant? what now?

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Question - (7 June 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *NqiE_iN_L0vE ? writes:

Okay so i my boyfriend moved to another state and we decided to stay togetehr . he promised to call and he did ....FOR THEE FIRST WEEK . and then i started getting less calls . and recently he told me he was cheating on me but he was coming back to me and i was still his babygirl. so i stayed with him and he br0ke iht off with that girl . we have been together for 7 months now and i recently lied to him about being pregnant just so he would come home sooner . what do i do now ? we are planning for his trip to come home but he thinks im almost four months pregnant and if i tell him thee truth he wont come home . WHAT DO I DO NOW ?

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A female reader, MziLuvPnk United States +, writes (9 February 2011):

Do what I did today, I told my fiance the truth. You wanna know how he reacted?..He's pissed, hurt, acting mean, but above all else he loves me..so he tells me that h'es angry at me, but it doesn't change the fact that he wants to be with me. He says he hopes I never lie to him like this again. Says this is the lowest of all low and evil lies a woman can tell..and until now, i disagreed.But he's absolutely correct. You need to tell ur man the truth also and whatever happens from there is meant to happen. It's hard to accept, but better than believing and living a lie!

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A female reader, lushlass93 United Kingdom +, writes (8 June 2008):

lushlass93 agony auntyou have to tell hi because if you dont it could get you into all sorts of trouble and if he has cheated do you think he is worth it mabey its not supose to bebut if you love eahc other you could wok this out just tell him the truth and see where it goes from there talk it all out and see what happens

good luck xxxxxxx

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (7 June 2008):

Tell him the truth but really why would you want to be with a guy that cheats on you! You are still young and you dont deserve to be cheated on. Tell him the truth but also maybe you should find someone who will stay faithful because I bet that when you tell him he will use it as an excuse to cheat again and completely blame you for him cheating which no matter what you said he has no right to cheat!

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A female reader, taina1980 United States +, writes (7 June 2008):

omg that was a big mistake you made... I've never heard of any baby that can keep a man anyway...basically your lie was pointless as well as very dumb...everyone is going to want you to tell the guy the truth but ultimately its up to you to do what rite for you... that is such a big lie it may take a miracle for him to forgive you but, he might you never know... its your risk to take again you took the risk of lying to him...i hope this serves you with a lesson never to lie like this again...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008):

I pretended that I was pregnant too when I was young to keep my boyfriend. I continued with the lie and when I had him living with me told him that I had had a miscarriage. He was devastated. It was the WORSE thing I have ever done and now 25 years on with a different man I still feel shame. Tell him the truth immediately. Say you loved him and wanted to be with him and that's why you lied and that you are sorry. He will be furious but he may forgive you whe he calms down as he will realise it took guts to tell the truth and his friends and family will tell him that too. I know lots of women who have played this dreadful game with men and it has not worked out for a single one of them. I know it is really really difficult but be honest. I will be thinking of you! All the best

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (7 June 2008):

rcn agony auntYou'll have to tell him the truth. It will be hard, but it has to be done. If he doesn't come home, it's not meant to be. If he does come home, it needs to be for you and not the misrepresentation of being pregnant. You know saying your pregnant, when you are not is wrong. Whatever he chooses to do is up to him and needs to be done with all correct and truthful information.

There was a hearing not long ago. A woman faked a pregnancy. The judge said he was considering sending her to prison for her misconduct. Remember relationships are built off honesty. One that is missing that is not really a true relationship.

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