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Do I have to say in front of mom that I've had sex

Q.   I'm going on bith control, my mother will be in the room with the doctor as well but do i have to tell him that i've already had sex as my mother does not know and i dont want her to. will it do any harm if i say no i've not and sex?? ...

A.   4 January 2009: It is important to tell the doctor because if you have had sex then they will do a pregnancy test and STD test before they put you on the pill. They will also encourage u to get a papsmear to make sure everything is ok. Keep in mind that your m... (read in full...)

Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?

Q.   Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?...

A.   4 January 2009: My guy loves doing it. He just loves the taste. There are times he will just ask out of the blue if he can and i say i'm not in a sexual mood and he says thats fine he just wants to be down there so i let him. There are men who just love it for ... (read in full...)

Love at first sight - do you believe?

Q.   do you guys believe in love at first sight? ...

A.   3 January 2009: I dont. I Believe in a crush or lust at first sight, but i believe that to love someone you must know and except their faults.... (read in full...)

Could lovesickness and obsession eventually lead to mental health disorders...?

Q.   Could lovesickness and obsession eventually lead to mental health disorders such as multiple personality disorder, axiety, or depression? I'm very concerned about this - so please provide me with an answer ASAP. I'm finding it very difficult to move ...

A.   3 January 2009: At your age you dont have developed coping skills and thats why you think that everything is the biggest deal. With time you will learn that people come and go in your life and you will be able to handle it. As far as depression and anxiety you will ... (read in full...)

Can you get pregnant while on your period or like within three days after???

Q.   Can you get pregnant while on your period or like within three days after???...

A.   3 January 2009: yes everyone ovulates at different times.... (read in full...)

I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is?

Q.   My fiance and I have been together for 3 years and are getting married in March. We recently switched to the withdrawal method of birth control (before that I was on the depo shot). I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is? Has ...

A.   29 December 2008: The depo can take up to 1 year to get out of the system. The pull out method is very unreliable due to the fact that there is some sperm that comes out of the penis before an actual climax. That sperm is enough to get pregnant. As far as stats I'm ... (read in full...)

Can swallowing sperm harm one?

Q.   I gave my boyfriend a blow job last night and swallowed when he came, this won't effect me in anyway will it?...

A.   27 December 2008: No there is nothing wrong with it.... (read in full...)

Her boyfriend is planning on cheating and I want to tell my daughter

Q.   I just found out that my 21 year old daughter's boyfriend is planning to cheat on her, only the way I found out was dishonest on my part. When he came to pick her up tonight he left his cell phone at our house. We immediately called her and they ...

A.   27 December 2008: I think that it is best that you tell your daughter and hope that the mesages are there. I would want my family to tell me if they knew for certain if my boyfriend was cheating. Welcome your daughter home and help he through the break up.... (read in full...)

Can men get pregnant?

Q.   I also have another question.. My dad told me to clean the inside part of my ''p-nis''. I cleaned it out, like he said. ( he wasn't watching by the way ) And then a few moments ( when i was cleaning it ) sperm came out. I was in the bath tub, the...

A.   27 December 2008: Im not sure how but if you go to post another question just ask how and the people who run the site will tell you if you can and how.... (read in full...)

Can men get pregnant?

Q.   I also have another question.. My dad told me to clean the inside part of my ''p-nis''. I cleaned it out, like he said. ( he wasn't watching by the way ) And then a few moments ( when i was cleaning it ) sperm came out. I was in the bath tub, the...

A.   26 December 2008: there is no way in hell that you are 26-29 otherwise you would know female and male anatomy and know that males can not get pregnant.... (read in full...)

What is the normal age for the following sexual activities?

Q.   I'm curious as to at what age certain sexual activites start to happen. If some one could tell me the average age for the following: Seeing a girl naked (in person obviously and not a baby or something) Fingering Oral (to a girl) Oral (recivi...

A.   26 December 2008: Ok the previous poster was wrong in that not all guys dont like or dont know how to give oral. My fiance is only 21 and we have been sexually active since he was 17 and after he learned my body he was great at oral sex. Every person experien... (read in full...)

Can you stick things 'down there' while masturbating?

Q.   im 13 and i was wondering if u can stick things up "down there" while u are masturbating? tips things that are best to suggestions? thanks...

A.   21 December 2008: You just put them inside and move them however you like. There are toys but you aren't old enough to buy them... (read in full...)

Can you stick things 'down there' while masturbating?

Q.   im 13 and i was wondering if u can stick things up "down there" while u are masturbating? tips things that are best to suggestions? thanks...

A.   21 December 2008: Yes you can but you might want to start with fingers.... (read in full...)

Every time I see him I think about what sex would have been like with him...is that wrong?

Q.   Is it wrong to want an ex-boyfriend because he has an excellent body? Every time I see him I think about what sex would have been like with him... is that wrong?...

A.   21 December 2008: Its normal to be curious. As long as you are single its fine to fanatise about whoever you want.... (read in full...)

Can I place a warrant out against him?

Q.   Hi I was married to my husband for fifteen years and he have 2 beautiful children! He was a deadbeat, he didnt work work the last 6 years of our relationship while I was and he was stealing money from me for drug use. It took me a few years to ...

A.   19 December 2008: In many states you can file for divorce in the paper and after so many days of running the ad and you ex not responding the divorce is final. Thats what my dads ex wife did. Consult your lawyer about that method or if it comes down to it next time ... (read in full...)

Should I get him a PSP for Christmas and maybe some games to go with it?

Q.   Hi Cupiters! I know this isn't related to relationships..but in a way it is. :) My bf wants a PSP for X-mas and I want to get him (1) or maybe (2) games to go along with it. Any suggestions?...

A.   17 December 2008: If you can afford it then figure out what kind of games he likes because there are so many different types. Grand theft auto was good, the sims cast away, and madden 09. However keep in mind that he is going to play the PSP and pay less attenti... (read in full...)

Are ladies turned off by heavy guys?

Q.   Im over weight, How much does that turn ladies off?...

A.   17 December 2008: My guy is a bigger guy and i think he looks so much better than when we first got together and he was skinny. Every girl has different taste.... (read in full...)

Do penis pills work?

Q.   does anyone know if those penis pills work? and if they do which ones will work?...

A.   16 December 2008: No they dont work but sex store sell extensions that make you longer and thicker... (read in full...)

Should I date my daughter's boyfriend's father?

Q.   Help me please! My daughter is 20 and she has been dating this young man for a year and a half. I went to high school with his Dad. Well me and his dad went out this weekend and had an amazing time. I really believe this relationship could go ...

A.   16 December 2008: I would go for it but understand that it can get weird in two way. If you get married then it makes your daughter dating her step brother and if your daughter doesn't stay with this guy it means that they are still family. Talk those issues out as a ... (read in full...)

Does lube help for the first time if you're too tight?

Q.   Me and one of my past boyfriends tried to have sex but i was wayyyy too tight so it hurt so bad. We tried like 4 or 5 times but every time it just hurt too much or it wouldn't even go in!! Would lube help? Also, if you are on birth control will you...

A.   16 December 2008: Yes lube will help also beening really turned on and relaxes. And yes if you haven't already brioken you hymen you will bleed birth control doesn't affect that.... (read in full...)

Vaginal sex!

Q.   What does vaginal sex with no clitoral stimulation feel like for a girl? Does it just feel like a massage or does it provide stimulation but just not sufficient enough to climax?...

A.   16 December 2008: Vaginal sex is good enough to climax without clitoral stimulation. Some of the best climaxes don't involve clitoral stimulation.... (read in full...)

Poll question: What is the most arousing part of a mans body?

Q.   Poll(for women/gay men): Whats the most arousing part of the mens body? Shoulders, Abs, Penis, Ass, Back, Legs, Face...

A.   12 December 2008: I love their face because it has their eyes smile and hair. You can tell a lot about a man if you just look deep into their eyes.... (read in full...)

What should our anniversary date be - when we met online or in real life?

Q.   Hello, i met my boyfriend on internet, we are very happy, just that we are in long distance relation, my doubt is what counts for a anniversary date, the day we met online o the day we met in real? thanks so much for your answers guys!!!! Kiss ...

A.   12 December 2008: The date that you announced that you wanted to be a couple and only be with one another.... (read in full...)

I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?

Q.   I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?...

A.   12 December 2008: Unfortunately in america yes she can. Americans sue for the stupidest stuff like the woman who sued 7-11 because her coffee didn't say it was hot and she spilled it on her kid and won. Thats just dumb!! So sadly she can sue you for a lot of money.... (read in full...)

When a woman has an orgasm. how much fluid is normal?

Q.   When a women does ejaculate, how much fluid is an average amount?...

A.   10 December 2008: It can be anywhere from nothing that you would notice to a huge wet spot in the bed that you have to figure out who has to sleep in it. Every woman is different and every orgasm is different you could be drenching the bed one time or barely making ... (read in full...)

What is the best sex toy for a guy, while masturbating?

Q.   which is the best way for a guy to masturbate and which is the best sex toy for a guy to use for masturbation?...

A.   10 December 2008: they make sleeves for masterbating try google(ing) masterbation toys and you should get a lot of site.... (read in full...)

Am I anorexic?

Q.   People say that Im under weight and that I'm anorexic because im 5'6 and I only weigh 118 lbs.. Even my family says I am..am I where I'm supposed to be??...

A.   10 December 2008: You are a little bit underweight but anorexic is when you dont eat or starve yourself so as long as you are eatting you are fine.... (read in full...)

I crave chocolate when I'm upset, is that nomal?

Q.   Hello I'm a 13 year old girl... I get very frusterated very quickly. When im P---ed off, I crave chocolate or i want to play gears of war2 and blow things up. Mostly chocolate though. Why is it that i crave it soo much when im upset is that ...

A.   9 December 2008: The only way that it can become bad is if you start putting on a lot of weight. If you start to gain 5/10 pounds in a month then you are affecting your health. However if it is not affecting your health or body image then there is nothing wrong with ... (read in full...)

My wife is an automechanic and it's embarrassing!

Q.   My wife is an auto mechanic and she also fixes everything around the house. It's kind of embarrassing because my friends always tease me about it. Like once we when on a rode trip with our friends and the car broke down. My wife repair it on 30 ...

A.   9 December 2008: I think that you should be greatful that you have someone who saves you so much money. As for your friends tell them that you got the best of both worlds a wonderful loving woman who can fix the car and satisify her man. Also tell your friends... (read in full...)

I crave chocolate when I'm upset, is that nomal?

Q.   Hello I'm a 13 year old girl... I get very frusterated very quickly. When im P---ed off, I crave chocolate or i want to play gears of war2 and blow things up. Mostly chocolate though. Why is it that i crave it soo much when im upset is that ...

A.   8 December 2008: coffee is addictive because of caffine. Caffine is a legal drug that can be found in many things: coffee tea soda and chocolate to name a few. It too sets off the chemicals and in most people caffine gives them an energy boost which they start to ... (read in full...)

I crave chocolate when I'm upset, is that nomal?

Q.   Hello I'm a 13 year old girl... I get very frusterated very quickly. When im P---ed off, I crave chocolate or i want to play gears of war2 and blow things up. Mostly chocolate though. Why is it that i crave it soo much when im upset is that ...

A.   8 December 2008: Chocolate sets off a chemical reaction in the brain that makes you feel happy so it is very normal. Food often sets off those chemicals and thats why some people over eat.... (read in full...)

Can you get pregnant while on birth control if you have sex on your period?

Q.   um question... can you get pregnant while on birth control if you have sex while on your period?? are the pills un-effective?? and if you are pregnant will it kill the baby if you drink?? please help me!!!...

A.   5 December 2008: Yes you can get pregnant while off the pill for your period. Drinking can cause a miscarrage but it mostly causes birth defects, premature birth, and low birth weight.... (read in full...)

How can I get my wife pregnant?

Q.   How can I get my wife pregnant? Is there some sort of trick, a better position, pills? Tell me please!...

A.   5 December 2008: If you two are both healthy then after you two are done have her put her butt on some stacked pillows and wait 20 minutes. Good Luck!... (read in full...)

Opinions about perfume!

Q.   Hi, This isn't a problem or anything but I want peoples opinion. What kind of perfume do guys like more? (girls can answer too) Fruity, floral, or more musky?? (any specific perfume would be helpful too :D ) thanks...

A.   5 December 2008: my man loves vanilla and I do to. He also likes the smell of chocolate.... (read in full...)

Is fantasizing about other guys tantamount to being unfaithful?

Q.   Ladies! Imagine you were in a faithful relationship when a dashing, debonair, handsome, lean and lithe, sensitive, passionate, caring, tall, good looking, cute man with nice buns, nice smile, deep voice, great shoulders (and what's more he thinks ...

A.   5 December 2008: Its not being unfaithful but it is tacky. It is one thing when you are sitting alone to think to yourself about him asking you out and how good it made you feel but thinking about other people during sex is tacky however not unfaithful.... (read in full...)

I'm confused about discharge, is this normal?

Q.   Hey, I have been reading alot on here about a problem with discharge and im a bit confused. I just wondered if you are supposed to stop getting discharge after you have started your periods, or if it is at least supposed to happeen less often unles...

A.   4 December 2008: I felt the same way. I am 19 and I wont feel arousal at all and I'll go to the bathroom and pee and when i go to wipe I am soked down there for no reason. It is just something are bodies do and it is normal and healthy as long as it is either clear ... (read in full...)

Breast pain and an irregular period...

Q.   hey im 15 year of age, i started my period when i was 13 and i have been very irregular like i can skip 6 months at time with no period! i am c cup in breast but the reason i am saying this is because recently my left breast has been hurting quite ...

A.   4 December 2008: At your age there is a very good chance that it is growing pains. I used to get growing pains in my breast so bad that I couldn't breathe. However if you are really scared go to the doctor and find out what they say.... (read in full...)

Is it okay for me to eat meat in front of my vegan girlfriend?

Q.   I just found out that a girl I recently started dating is a vegan. She doesn't eat dairy (like cheese) and nothing from animals. I mean eat meat almost everyday. Is it ok for me to eat meat in front of her? ...

A.   4 December 2008: Its something that you are going to have to ask her chances are she is fine with it. If she is not you might want to look at if you can spend forever with her and not eat meat. Good luck... (read in full...)

How would you rate the durex vibrating rings?

Q.   Anyone ever try the durex vibrating rings? How do they feel? They worth the 10 bucks? Looking for girls opinions mainly but guys with any tips give us a shout;)...

A.   4 December 2008: I thought they sucked. You could barely feel anything because it kept moving away with every thrust. I suggest a bullet it stays put!... (read in full...)

Should I work full time and go to school full time??

Q.   I have a full time job and recently decided that i wanted to go back to school. I'm going to be a part time student but wanted to go full. i cant really work part time because i need the money. Should i work full time and go to school full time?? i ...

A.   4 December 2008: I tried doing both and quit my job all together. Try only part time for school because doing work and school will leave you will no time for friends as is. Its really hard to do both!!... (read in full...)

Can sex or sperm make someone fat?

Q.   Hi everyone, at there my question is this. Can Sex or Sperm make someone fat? Or can it make someone increase in hips. Because i argue this with my friends. please help ...

A.   3 December 2008: No sex can not make you gan weight. In fact it is exercise and can make you lose weight.... (read in full...)

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