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writes:I never thought i'd be one of those girls that are so in love they would put their life on the side for a guy. I cant say no to my best friend.I love him so much,even though he doesnt want to commit.I always end up givng in and messing around with him.He is my first love,and it seems i will never find someone like him that i love so much.He is all i think about!OMG! i sound like a freak! but these are my feelings,and it really hurts! I just want to know if guys ever get over their "being a player" stage..thanks.xxoo
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Men who do that are called players. Women who do that have unfortunately earned the name sluts. Most men and women who act like that will eventually get over that stage. The problem that I see is for the partner knowing that they have really gotten over their playing around. Men and woman like that can, and most probably do, eventually become very faithful and loving partners, perhaps even more so than the ones who never went through that stage. They realize that the one who they end up with is better than all of the ones who came before him or her.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (12 June 2008):
 Yes we do get over it. It is called death. Happens to all of us so there is hope after all girls.
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (12 June 2008):
Some guys will grow up and learn what they want in another person. They will realize that they want to have a family but their are guys that never want the family though. At your age it is very normal. He is still learning what he wants out of a long term partner and especially what he doen't want. However I wouldn't wait around because this process might take months years or decades!
One other note is that if he can mess around with you whenever he wont commit because he doesn't need to to get any action.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (12 June 2008):
 I have many guy friends in their late twenties and early thirties that I catch saying "I'm over the partying crap, I want to buy a home, settle down, get married." They get to that age where they see everyone around them settling down, and they are ready to do so too. I'm almost 26 and I notice guys even my age are married and happy, with kids ect. So, there is hope.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): When there old and lonley and relize that they are in there late 30's early 40's and can't act like a kid anymore. Or are so old that they are not getting the young girls anymore! haha
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