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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello everybody i am a 16 year old male teenager. I seem to have a problem that occurs alot. I like this girl, shes 14 years old so a little younger, and shes my friend. In the past we have been together but broke up and forgotten about it. We broke up without even telling each other, and i said some stupid things which i really regreted. We are good friends today and i was idiotic enough to try and say shes pretty and then she kind of got freaked out on msn messenger and left without a word. I feel like a real idiot for it, i like her alot. I know that she might not like me back but i feel like a big idiot and i dont know how to fix it, can anybody help me?
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (10 June 2008):
ok this one is a little hard. At your age you are more than capable of being in a serious relationship but it sounds like she is not yet mature enough. I think that you should say you are sorry for the comment that you didn't think it would be out of line and that you now know what can be said and cant be said in the friendship. Tell her that you realize that you two dont work as a couple but that you think that you guys are good friends and want that. After all that you could ask her what she is comfortable with you saying. You just have to try really hard to push your feelings aside which wont be easy but from experience if you keep trying to be with her the friendship will end and you wont have her in your life at all. I hope that this helps!
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