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Can sex or sperm make someone fat?

Q.   Hi everyone, at there my question is this. Can Sex or Sperm make someone fat? Or can it make someone increase in hips. Because i argue this with my friends. please help ...

A.   3 December 2008: No sex can not make you gan weight. In fact it is exercise and can make you lose weight.... (read in full...)

How can I make her first time not hurt so badly??

Q.   im not a virgin but my girlfriend is. weve tried but it hurt her too badly. i heard that using lube or having her take a hot bath prior can help reduce pain. do these things work and is there anything else i can do to make it easier? ...

A.   3 December 2008: Lots of foreplay so she is really turned on and lube will help. If going slow isn't working try one fast push then stop and kiss her forehead and face and mouth as she waits for the pain to stop tell her you wont move until it stops and when she is ... (read in full...)

Is "queefing" during sex a turn off?

Q.   is it a turn off when a girl "qweefs" (air being pushed out of the vagina making a farting noise) during sex? or what do they think about it??...

A.   3 December 2008: No guys are not turned off by it. They are pushing air in you and anyone with a brain can figure out that air has to come out so dont worry about it.... (read in full...)

Do all girls get pleasured the same way or is everyone different?

Q.   Do all girls get "pleasured" in the same way, or is everyone different...? I'm just wondering because I'm a very curious person. Anything would help me....

A.   3 December 2008: Every person is different. Some girls might like sex where the guy hits the lower part of the vagina more in missionary or doggy which hits the up. Some girls like their nipples touched others dont, some like clitor stimulation others find it to ... (read in full...)

Parents caught us having sex, now we can't see each other.

Q.   my mom and dad just caught me and my bf having sex. we are both 18. we are very much in love and we been going out for a year. we were doing it but really quiet but they both walked in and saw us naked and i was on top of my bf. Both are pissed off. ...

A.   3 December 2008: It propably is a shock that made them realize you are an adult and not their baby girl anymore. I think that you need to respect your parents home and not have sex there. You are 18 so get a place of your own and have sex there. As far as seeing h... (read in full...)

Is it okay that I'm falling for an older man?

Q.   Im 27 and dating a 43 year old man? is that ok? i feel like all eyes are on me when we both go into public... what should i do?...

A.   3 December 2008: Age doesn't matter what matters is that you are happy. People can be mean and people act funny to anything that is different. If you know in your heart that he is right then look at him not people around you. You dont want to miss out on the man of ... (read in full...)

Is it cheating if he feels her breasts?

Q.   hey is it considered cheating on your girlfriend if your boyfriend feels another girls breasts? x thanks x...

A.   2 December 2008: yes it is cheating.... (read in full...)

How long does a penis have to be to break a hymen?

Q.   Can a three inch penis break a girls hymen? i wanted to know how much it takes, i know you can pop it fingering yourself or with tampons but how long does a dick have to be to pop it?...

A.   2 December 2008: the hymen is two inches in so yes three inches would work.... (read in full...)

I am petite, he is large, how can I make sex less painful?

Q.   I am a very petite woman, but my boyfriend's penis is too large for me. When we have sex, it hurts! He definitely gets to the end of the "tunnel." I have had partners before him, and I have never had this issue. Most of my girlfriends have the ...

A.   1 December 2008: When in missionary instead of having your legs wrapped around his waist tilt your butt down. This will make it harder for him to go in which will make the penitration less deep and the angle should feel good for him too. If he likes it from behind ... (read in full...)

Help! Dilemma!

Q.   I found out I am pregnant, for most this news would be exciting and happy as it should be for me. I was indecisive about what i wanted to do and when i decided i knew i had to tell the "sperm donor". The relationship I had with this person was at f...

A.   30 November 2008: As long as you are not trying to force him into being a part of this childs life then it is your body and your life and your choice. If you want this baby then it is your right to have it. To be on the safe side try taking him to court after th... (read in full...)

How do I stop my boobs from growing?

Q.   Okay i'm 15 years old, i'm 5'1 and my boobs are way too big already, i just want to know if there's anything i can do to stop growing anymore! I'm already a 32F, no 15 year old at my short height should have boobs that big, and i'm really quite ...

A.   30 November 2008: I completely understand I am 19 with 40H boobs. You cant stop then from growing. When I was 14 I was a 36D and I lost 40 pounds and and after losing all that weight I was a 34DD so losing weight doesn't help. I grew about a cup size every year with ... (read in full...)

Should I wait to go to the hospital or do I go now?

Q.   I have searched the web trying to find an answer to my question. 7 days ago I was almost at the end of my period. Went to work as usual, but when I came home there was no string??!! I tried to find it, then I was questioning if I used one or not. So ...

A.   29 November 2008: Go now tampons can lead to blood poisning and death if left in. Leave now!!... (read in full...)

Do boys like it when girls call them?

Q.   Do boys like when girls call them? ...

A.   29 November 2008: Yes now days the effort is mutual and I'm sure he will love to see your name pop up on his caller ID.... (read in full...)

I've recently been feeling ill and I don't know what's causing it.

Q.   Hey, I know this is a relationship advice kinda site but was wondering if anyone could give me some help on this issue. I've recently been feeling really ill after I have eaten, usually stomach cramps, nausea etc and I dont know what's causi...

A.   28 November 2008: It could be anything go to the doctor. It sounds like it can be acid reflux or an ulcer. Thats the side effects that I get from my acid reflux. If it is acid reflux then yes the smoking is making it worse. Go to the doctor.... (read in full...)

How do you tell someone to lose weight without crushing them?

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years now. We're going through a number of problems, which I addressed in another question, but in thinking about the possibility of us getting back together, there is one issue i just don't know how to deal ...

A.   28 November 2008: I think that this will ruin your relationship. You knew when you got with her that you weren't physically attracted to her and you knew that she was struggling with weight. Trust me no girl would chose being fat over thin if given a choice. I think ... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a lady plays with her ear lobe?

Q.   What does it mean when a lady plays with her earlobe when talking/flirting with a man?...

A.   28 November 2008: It is probably a nervous habit or maybe she thinks its sexy?... (read in full...)

5"8 160 pounds how much weight will I gain during pregnancy?

Q.   I just found out I am pregnant but I am sooo worried about weight gain. I know your suppose to gain a certain amount but i've known too many people who had an amazing body then after baby it was gone, but then again i know some people who lost all ...

A.   28 November 2008: I have never had a baby but according to doctors you are suppose to gain 25 pounds according to other women the average is 50 pounds. As far as getting your body back it will take time and effort but if you want it back you'll work at it... (read in full...)

Will it hurt the first time even he were to be really gentle?

Q.   Would it hurt the first time if he went gentle on me?...

A.   25 November 2008: It will hurt to a degree no matter what the first time. It will hurt less if you dont have your hymen which there is a good chance you dont because it can broken so easy: a tampon, falling funny, riding a horse, ect. My advce for you is to use lube ... (read in full...)

Can you still have sex and get access to her clitoris if her legs do not part very wide?

Q.   Can you still have sex and get access to her clitoris if her legs do not part very wide?...

A.   25 November 2008: Her legs will part enough she might be sore but the muscles will stretch and if you sit up you can reach her clitoris.... (read in full...)

Will my hubby record me?

Q.   Hi. I'm a 25 year old, married woman. For Christmas this year I have bought my hubby a digital camcorder with the intent of letting him film me pleasuring myself and the 2 of us together. We are both quite adventurous in the bedroom, but I a...

A.   25 November 2008: Get him a dirty card to go with the camera and let that be the hint. You could make your own card with you in something sexy and holding the camera. However i would be worried about sharing. If he is the jealous type it might upset him if you ask ... (read in full...)

Can I get pregnant if I've miscarried and had an abortion?

Q.   If I had an abortion and a miscarriage, can I still get pregnant?...

A.   25 November 2008: Yes you can and you can carry a full term pregnancy but it is very important that you go to your prenatal appointments!!... (read in full...)

Am I a virgin if I have used "man like" toys during masturbation?

Q.   This is something that has been plaguing me for ages . . . I have never had sexual intercourse with a man, but I have used man-like toys during masturbation and my hymen was ripped/broken. Am I a virgin? Sorry if this question is a bit g...

A.   25 November 2008: I believe the definition of losing your virginity is when you have sexual intercourse with someone else and you consent. You cant lose your virginity to rubber so dont worry.... (read in full...)

I get really nervous when doing a presentation, as my classmates always make fun of me! What could I do?

Q.   I get really nervous when presenting a presentation.For so many years I hate doing presentations. I don't like to present because my classmates will laugh at me once I start walking up to the front of the class, they make fun of me, and do sound ...

A.   23 November 2008: Talk to your teach and ask that they students be warned that if any rude comments are made then their will be a punishment. If your teacher wont do anything then have you and your parents go to the dean and princple in that order. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Do first relationships ever work first time for good?

Q.   Hi! I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 17 and nearly 18, lol, so I'm ten months older then her, though taller, and many have said considerably more mature :p lol I'm her 3rd boyfriend however she is my first. Her first one broke up with because she woul...

A.   21 November 2008: I'm sorry that I cant give you a longer range but my fiance and I have been together for 4 years i was 15 when we got together and he was 16. It has taken a lot of work and there were many times we both thought it wouldn't work but at the end of the ... (read in full...)

Does "never date your best friends guy" apply to this situation?

Q.   I have been friends with my current best friend for 5 years. We are completely inseparable, and have a pretty good relationship. She has had a crush on this guy for about 2 years and a year ago, they hooked up. They never turned into anything li...

A.   19 November 2008: You need to decide if you want the guy or your friend. You wont be able to have both. Even though they didn't date they had sex and I'm sure that she had sex with him hoping that it would bring them together. IF she doesn't want you around him and ... (read in full...)

Why can I not conceive when I'm perfectly healthy?

Q.   I'm 25, I have been sexually active for years, I have tried to concieve a child for so many years. I'm seeing doctors at my local heath department but they continue to tell me I'm disease free but yet I haven't concieved yet. I was told an ...

A.   17 November 2008: It could be the guy you are with however if you are serious about this then you might want to spend the money to go to a fertility clinic and have them do special testing they can find out if your egg isn't letting the sperm in or if your egg isn't ... (read in full...)

How do I put some spice into my kissing?

Q.   Hello everyone! I want your help on this. Tomorrow I'm gonna meet my bf. I haven't seen him for 2 weeks becuase of me going to uni. We're gonna be alone so I'm sure we're going to kiss and I wanna make it something special. I was wondering if you ...

A.   16 November 2008: I like lightly biting my fiance's bottom lip and then running my tongue over it and stucking on it then giving him a deep kiss. Also licking all the way around his mouth (all over his lips and the crease of each side) before a deep kiss. You could ... (read in full...)

Caught my daughter masterbating

Q.   I caught my daughter masturbating at her room with a dildo,and she was orgasming, she then noticed me and went to the bathroom crying. What should I tell her?...

A.   16 November 2008: Tell her that masterbating is normal and nothing to be ashamed of and that from now on you will knock. Also tell her its fine as long as she does it in her room. One question though how old is your daughter? If she is very young you might want t... (read in full...)

Can you become pregnant while on birth control?

Q.   Q. So, is it possible to be pregnant while taking birthcontrol? (Story) My boyfriend and I had sex back in mid-Oct. I'm taking birthcontrol, so we didn't think it was nec. to use a condom. I've missed my period, which is unusual. I've been sick v...

A.   15 November 2008: Yes it is possible there are a lot of pill babies out there. Maybe if you are not pregnant then you should look into another form of birth control the pill requires a lot of responsibility because it has to be everyday at the same time. I personally ... (read in full...)

Something came out of my vagina..after we had sex!

Q.   I had sex with a guy without a condom while I was intoxicated. I went to the bathroom after and went pee, and after I pee'd something came out of my vagina. He claims he didn't cum, and he promised if he did that he would pull out. I'm kind of ...

A.   11 November 2008: If it was a little white but mostly clear either you came or he did. ... (read in full...)

I'm fat, right?

Q.   Hey, I'm 16 years old. I'm 6 ft tall and weigh 98 kilograms. I'm F A T, right?...

A.   10 November 2008: You seem right on track to me.... (read in full...)

Any interesting ideas that we could do to celebrate our 4th anniversary together?

Q.   Hi I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas of something special or interesting I can do with my boyfriend tomorrow night! It's our 4 month anniversary and we always seem to do the same things such as going to a pub for a meal, going to th...

A.   10 November 2008: Cook dinner together at home and set up a table with some candles and music. For me the first time that my fiance and I cooked together it was an incredible bonding experience then after the dinner you two can dance and just spend some time ... (read in full...)

Any ideas for something sexy in the bedroom?

Q.   I'd love to dress up in something sexy for Vincent.....but I'm not quite sure in what. We been together for 7 months now, and I'm really wanting to give him something special..... Something sexy for the bedroom.... You know what mean? Anyone...

A.   10 November 2008: Anything lacy or silky will work. Also costumes for roll play like a nurse who needs to exam him, a cop who needs to teach him a lesson, or even a vampire who is turning him into her sex slave works. Those are just a few ideas.... (read in full...)

Am I so wrong for wanting to leave my husband and make a better life for me and my kids?

Q.   I still care about my husband but I am ready to move on and better my life and the lives of my children. I have been with my husband 9 years now but for the last 6 years my husband has not worked and I have been the one supporting our family ...

A.   9 November 2008: I say that its time to move on and worry about your kids and not your husband. You are not blindsiding him with the divorce the no money has more than likely been the cause of many fights. If you have your dad to depend on you will be able to ... (read in full...)

Can a man cumming inside of me hurt the baby?

Q.   during pregnancy if a man cums inside me can it effect the baby.. i'm only 4 weeks......

A.   7 November 2008: No your baby is in its own sake the sperm wont touch it and doctors incourage sex throughout your pregnancy because it helps with labor.... (read in full...)

He said 'it's not his fault' that I'm pregnant!

Q.   please can someone help me because i really dont know what to do! my boyfriend and i had been together for just four months and he knew i was no where near ready for sex, even though im 16 and legal n all that i didnt feel physically ready for it! ...

A.   3 November 2008: You need to tell your mom she wont be mad because you were raped. Since the guy seems to be such an A_ hole I would press raped charges. He doesn't have feelings for you and he thinks your feelings for him will protect him. Dont protect him. Press ... (read in full...)

He's obsessed with the 360!!

Q.   Help! My fiance of 6 months is obsessed with the 360 that's all he ever seems intrested in and its starting to make me question the relationship what should I do?...

A.   2 November 2008: Try to talk to him about it but if he says that he doesn't play it to much it wont change. You have to decided if you can be with a guy who plays video games for hours. They wont out grow it my brother is 32 and obsessed with video games still. I ... (read in full...)

How long does it take for birth control to be effective?

Q.   how long does it take for birth control to be effective?...

A.   27 October 2008: It depends on the birth control. The condom works immediately, the pill patch and ring take a couple days, and for the full effect of the shot it takes about 9 months or a little sooner.... (read in full...)

My bf thinks I have an eating disorder! What should I do?

Q.   So my boyfriend caught me making myself throw up and he freak out. Now he keeps asking me if I have a eating disorder. I mean can make myself throw up without having one. Plus I have a modeling contact and the agency that im with says I to be nee...

A.   27 October 2008: I think you have an eating disorder that is caused less by poor self esteem and more by the job you have. I think that what you need to do is leave that job and get a job that lets you be at a healthy weight. Maybe try modeling for another country ... (read in full...)

Cervical orgasms, are they possible?

Q.   I'm in an explorative state of a love affair, and I'm learning and improving my love making skills. The question I have is about cervical stimulation, or deep pelvic orgasm. How is this achieved? I'm already interested and practicing Karezza and ...

A.   26 October 2008: My advice for you is dont try to hit her cervics. It hurts really bad when a cervix is hit. When I had a pelvic exam dont to check to make sure my cervix didn't have blood i was sweating it hurt so bad. The best orgasm is g-spot so focus on those.... (read in full...)

Did I do something wrong during sex?

Q.   Sometimes when my boyfriend and I have sex, I'll get on top. But a few times when I was on top, out of nowhere, he said "owe". I immediately got off. Then he asks what is wrong and I don't answer him because I'm confused. Then he says that he thinks ...

A.   26 October 2008: You might have bent his penis funny or if both of you are skinny you could have hit him in a painful way with your bone. The only certain way to know is ask him. By getting off and not saying anything you are basically telling him that even if he is ... (read in full...)

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