What is the contraceptive coil like?
Q. I am living with my boyfriend and we both have no STDs but we use condoms for contraceptive purposes. However, I do not like the feel of them as I find the way they crease uncomfortable. Plus I find them a hassle to always think about, they decrease ...
A. 6 September 2008: ok in response to the person who said you dont have to have a slightly larger uterus than normal.
I tried to have it put in and after having a lot of bleeding during the insertion and having my uterus push it back out because my uterus which is... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be virgin at 18?
Q. I'm a male, 18, and still a virgin but all of my friends aren't. I'm afraid that i will be made fun of for being a virgin if they ever find out. Is it normal to be a virgin at 18?...
A. 6 September 2008: Who cares what is normal! Be proud that one day you will have a very special connection with the woman you love because she will be the only one who you have ever be with. My fiance and I lost our virginities to eachother and it is something tha... (read in full...)
My pomeranian wont stop peeing on our couch!
Q. We got out male pomeranian when he was 8 weeks old. He is now 2 years. We crate trained him when he was a baby and he has always let us know when he needs to go to the bathroom. For this whole week, he just stopped letting us know and went right on ...
A. 6 September 2008: Ok if you got a new pet he would do that or if there is a lot of new "excitement" in the house. If there is someone new or a lot of fighting. Is there anything new going on in your life?... (read in full...)
Help! He will kill me...how do I escape safely?
Q. I have a 16 month old daughter who has had to live with my parents because of the relationship i am in. I just dont know how to get out of it, he always tracks me down.. even in a womans refuge and when he is nice, he is lovely but my body cant cope ...
A. 6 September 2008: Go to the website that Waz put up. I know that people are telling you to call the cops but if the uk is anything like the USA that wont really help that will put him a way for a little while but it really could make things worse. If i were you ... (read in full...)
Is it considered cheating if I masturbate to porn?
Q. I have a question for the aunts and uncles of DearCupid. I'm a 18 year old male starting university in a few weeks. I have a girlfriend, the same age as me, who is also going to uni, but its a 3 hour distance and i wont get to see her as much. The...
A. 6 September 2008: It is normal however you need to ask your girlfriend if she thinks its cheating. A lot of girls feel differently about porn. I am the kind of girl who doesn't let my fiance look at porn because I consider it cheating but your girl might feel ... (read in full...)
When I finally gathered the courage to ask her on a date, I learned that she found someone else, have I waited too long?
Q. Well basically I have a friend, we used to work together and we talk to each other a lot. I always wanted to ask her out, but I was nervous. You see every girl I have ever had any involvement with has ended in disaster, usually really really ...
A. 6 September 2008: I think you waited to long. She thought that the movie was a date. Her response was a: I would have gone out with you but you never asked and now there's someone new thing. Dont actually wait for her but stay good friends with her and if you dont ... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of getting an abortion but I would like some information about it first.
Q. I am pregnant and considering having an abortion. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 22. I drank and smoked reguarly the first month of the pregnancy because I didn't know I was pregnant (I'm a college student). I've probably already harmed the baby since ...
A. 6 September 2008: Planned parenthood does abortions and they have a program so if you are low income it pays for it. My friend had it done and she just had a hard time emotionally. There are chances of bad things happening. Death or not being able to have a baby ... (read in full...)
The problems in our relationship is making me think if I should terminate my pregnancy!
Q. me and my boyfriend were together for 3 years ive been pregnant befor with him, i didnt keep the baby....later im now pregnant again....we were having some major problems befor we knew and he wanted to move far away, i found out i was pregnant and ...
A. 6 September 2008: Keep the baby. You wont have to deal with him that much if you dont want to. Who knows maybe he wont want the baby and he'll sign his rights away and you wont have to deal with him at all. You do need to leave you boyfriend and meet someone bet... (read in full...)
Am I a normal teenager?
Q. I am a 19 year old boy. I am starting my 2nd year of university, and I know what this means to a lot of people "parties, sex, alcohol etc." But this doesn't concern me. When people are out going crazy Im at home studying. I recently asked a girl ...
A. 6 September 2008: what was your other question?... (read in full...)
What is the contraceptive coil like?
Q. I am living with my boyfriend and we both have no STDs but we use condoms for contraceptive purposes. However, I do not like the feel of them as I find the way they crease uncomfortable. Plus I find them a hassle to always think about, they decrease ...
A. 5 September 2008: Ok my country calls it and IUD so thats what i'll call just because thats what I am used to. Anyway the only way that it works is if you have ever been pregnant. The uterus has to be over 6 inches which its not if you have never been pregnant bu... (read in full...)
How tight is a normal vagina?
Q. I am 19 and i am a virgin but my boyfriend and I have discussed it and we have both decided we are ready for sex and I am excited but also very worried because I have some concerns about my vagina I have been fingered a couple of times and both peo...
A. 5 September 2008: Ok lube is not bad. I am a girl who is tight. I have only been with my fiance and he with me however even after 3 1/2 years of sex with him it is still uncomfortable to stretch to his size. I'm the kind of girl who you have to start with one finger ... (read in full...)
Am I a normal teenager?
Q. I am a 19 year old boy. I am starting my 2nd year of university, and I know what this means to a lot of people "parties, sex, alcohol etc." But this doesn't concern me. When people are out going crazy Im at home studying. I recently asked a girl ...
A. 5 September 2008: No you are normal. I'm 19 as well and starting my secound year of college as well and I dont go to parties. I take on so many classes that I prefer to go to classes come home do home work and curl up in bed with my fiance who I have been with for ... (read in full...)
I have anxiety issues, and can't cope well with the changes after moving states...
Q. Hi everyone, This question isn't about dating, love or sex, but I could really use some advice. 2 weeks ago, I moved states (Adelaide to QLD), and I start a new school on Monday. Back in Adelaide I have some really close friends who I don't thin...
A. 5 September 2008: i had to move my sophmore year and I was determined to move back and not make any friends. This made my sophmore and junior year suck. My senior year after having an oppertunity to move back fell through I realized that I wasn't going an where until ... (read in full...)
What are the chances of pregnancy if you have sex while the girl is on her period?
Q. me and my girlfriend has sex while she was on her period and didnt use a condom but i did not cum in her what are the chances she could get pregnent?...
A. 5 September 2008: There is a small chance. Their is a chance that she could be ovulating and there is a chance you could have gotten precum in her. There is a chance that that egg could meet that precum and make a baby. This is a small chance but next time wear a ... (read in full...)
Will it be possible for me to concentrate on my school while I am training to become a medical assisstant? Should I try to do both?
Q. Hi. this isnt a relationship question..but i think that it can change my life. I am a full time student in college and I want to become a medical assitant. My Dad thinks that it is a bad idea but I dont seem to think so..later on in life i plan to ...
A. 4 September 2008: Ok if I were you (I too am going to school to be an RN) I would do the medical assistant thing first not while going to school. The medical assistant program is very fast pasced with a lot to learn and you wont be able to handle both it and ... (read in full...)
Is a four year age gap acceptable in a relationship?
Q. Is 17 and 21 an ok age difference? My cuson is nearly 17 and she likes a guy whos 21, is 4 years an ok age differnce? we live in the UK so its legal...
A. 4 September 2008: I agree with everyone that age is a number and that every persons maturity is different. But also one fact that I heard (which is true in some cases not all) is that men are 4 years behind women in maturity (when still maturing). So that age gap ... (read in full...)
Please help me choose my wedding dress!
Q. I've posted problems here before and tonight I'm going to keep it lighthearted and happy! I'm having a real hard time picking out a wedding dress. Me and my fiance havent set a date yet but me being typical female means i'm already looking ...
A. 4 September 2008: They are all beautiful but I think you should go to the store that sells them or sells something similar and try them on. I think then you will know which one because after seeing it on your body and not the model that got fitted for it you will ... (read in full...)
She dumped me because I lied about my virginity! What do I do now?
Q. ok i told my good friend that i wasnt a virgin and told her to not to tell anyone... then i started dating this girl i really like and care for... and one day she asked if i was a virgin and i told her yes and she said ok.. then today my good ...
A. 4 September 2008: Ok if I read the story right didn't you lie to your friend not your girlfriend? You told your girlfriend you were a virgin and you are so how did you lie to her? I got the story right right? Anyway tell her why you were ashamed of being a virgin a... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that my two best friends are dating each other?
Q. Hi....My best female friend is dating my best male friend...is there anything i should worrie about? She thinks im mad and He wont talk to me. thanks...
A. 4 September 2008: The only thing at your age to worry about is if they break up they might try to make you chose but a good friend shouldn't.... (read in full...)
I can't come and don't stay wet for long some times, why is this?
Q. me and my fience' have been together almost two years, the sex is great, but there are two problems.i cant cum, and sometimes when we have sex for a while i get dried up. why is that?...
A. 4 September 2008: I have that problem too. It is partly due to being on the depo. However my biggest problem is my relationship. If you are having any problems outside the bedroom it will cause problems inside the bedroom. Try using lube and if you are having p... (read in full...)
I fear that if I say "no" to his advances that he will leave me!
Q. Ok so, I've been going out with this amazing guy for almost 7 months. He is my first real boyfriend. I love him more than anything. But, I just found out a few months ago that he wants to..."explore the south" as in the sexual kind of way if you ...
A. 3 September 2008: If he is as "amazing" as you say he will wait as long as you want to. Its not worth being with a guy who wants sex. Trust me sex changes a relationship and guys tend to expect it after they get it the first time. Either he'll keep waiting or move ... (read in full...)
When did you first have a boyfriend/girlfriend - that actually lasted a few months?
Q. Poll: When was the first time you had a relationship, and what age did you have your first kiss? I'm not talking about a peck on the cheek or peck on the lips type of kiss, I mean a toungue kiss? And when did you first have a boyfrien...
A. 3 September 2008: I had my first kiss when I was 12. I had my first and so far only long relationship when I was 15 that has lasted almost 4 years.... (read in full...)
I met a man my age at the restaurant, we then talked by phone every night for almost a week, is it possible to feel something so special so soon? What do you recommend?
Q. I recently went to restaurant for breakfast, and I met a man my age. He came to sit by me, and we talked about our jobs. He gave me his phone number,and paid for my breakfast which I did not know he did. I called him back that evening to thank ...
A. 3 September 2008: I believe that you can feel something special very soon. I bet that he is just busy with family at the moment due to the family death and that as soon as that calms down he will call again. Or you could call and say I know that you are busy I just ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my girlfriend is pregnant?
Q. I have a slight problem. I am 19 years old and my girlfriend is 17. we just started having sex about two and a half weeks ago. the second time we had sex my condom broke and i didnt know it until we were done. then i told her what happened. she has ...
A. 3 September 2008: Have her take a pregnancy test. If she is pregnant i'm sure she will tell you. If you dont think she will in about a month she starts throwing up a lot and doesn't want her breast touched then she is probably pregnant. However no girl likes to face ... (read in full...)
We've been trying to conceive with no results. Is there something wrong with us?
Q. I Recently got married and me and my Husband have been trying to concive for the past 3 months and we've had no luck. Im a little worried that maybe theres something wrong with me or him, I was checked out not to long ago and told everything was ...
A. 3 September 2008: If you are that scared then have your husband checked out but chances are that you will concieve on your own and that nothing is wrong.... (read in full...)
Will she come back or is this her way to make me feel better?
Q. I have been with my wife for 17 years. We're compatible in lots of ways but sexually. The time we've been together I have found sex elsewhere. ( a man has needs) My lastest affair she has found about and is now leaving and has since bought a ...
A. 2 September 2008: Your wife isn't coming back. There isn't a way she can forgive you. There is also a good chance that she doesn't have sex with you because you have been unfaithful. You might as well move on because if she bought a house that is her way of starting ... (read in full...)
How do you find out if a woman has had anal before?
Q. I would like to know if there is a way to find out if the woman had had anal sex before ? Well, lets say you can find out if she had vaginal intercourse by asking doctor to check her vagina. Now, I want to know if there's any way to find out i...
A. 2 September 2008: No the only way to find out is if you ask her. There isn't a sign like the vagina.... (read in full...)
Am I putting on too much pregnancy weight?
Q. hey there, Well i'm 30 weeks pregnant with my first baby(A boy!!). Before getting pregnant i was slightly underweight...About 100 lbs..(i'm 5'4)...i'm naturaly slim so this was a normal weight for me. in the early stages of pregnancy i didn...
A. 2 September 2008: Ok doctors say that you are suppose to gain 25 pounds. This wrong! The average pregnant woman gains about 50 pounds plus or minus. You are fine in the weight department. Just remember that the body craves things because it needs something out of... (read in full...)
What happens if you just don't pay rent for a month?
Q. I need to get some answers regarding rent payment in an apartment. My 2 roomates and I live in an apartment in orange county, ca. We are moving out on september 26th because we bought a home. yay!!! The thing is, our leasing office is horrible. They ...
A. 2 September 2008: Yes it will go against your credit score. They will also take you to court and sue you for the september rent. Its stupid that is the law in california.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend may possibly be infertile but I want a child with him. Should I be positive or negative about this?
Q. my boyfriend has undescended testicles which increases the risk of infertility. This really upsets me and although he's been too embarrased about it in the past, I have got him to see a specialist where he should hopefully take a sperm count. Th...
A. 2 September 2008: You have to stay positive. Its not his fault. Its not like he is telling you no he was born with a birth defect. There are other ways of having a baby that you can talk about. I know that this is harsh but if you really loved this guy you wouldn't... (read in full...)
My post pregnancy body is putting me down!
Q. I had a baby about 6 months ago and actually lost the weight very early on without really trying. Problem is my pre-pregnancy perky breasts that were full of cleavage and looked great naked, got HUGE during my pregnancy and now have stretch marks ...
A. 2 September 2008: No surgery is the only way that i know of. However before you take that very expensive step make sure you dont want anymore babies. I really hope that things work out and who knows maybe they seem worse to you than they really are.... (read in full...)
How can I tell my dad I'm pregnant?
Q. i have a great feeling that im pregnant, because i have the symtoms. but i am not sure what i should do. you see im 15 turning 16 in oct. and it was my first time having sex non the less it was unprotected. i dont know how i should tell my dad. so ...
A. 2 September 2008: Ok before you tell your dad go to a store and get a test. No point in giving the guy a heart attack without more proof than symtoms. If you are pregnant then take a moment when he is alone and just say dad I have something to say and tell him. Gi... (read in full...)
Should I tell people my step-dad touches me inappropriately?
Q. when i was about eight years old my step father began touching me in rude ways. i was to young to understand so i didn't tell anyone he is still doing it should i tell people and do you think they will believe me?...
A. 2 September 2008: Tell your mother. Get her alone and have a heart to heart with you. I dont believe any mother would believe a daughter would lie about this. Your mother will then make him move out and/or press charges. If for whatever reason telling your mot... (read in full...)
I have some questions about sex for the first time.
Q. hello i'm 17 teen right know and i was talking to my mother about sex cuz i was inrested and i was just wondering if it really hurts the first time? and if you can really bleed? i didnt want to belive my mom a whole lot cuz i was just thinking she ...
A. 2 September 2008: Yes the first time does hurt especially if he is a bigger guy down there. My boyfriend is 8 1/2 inches and after having sex with him for 3 1/2 years its still a little uncomfortable when he first goes in because I have to stretch to fit him, but the ... (read in full...)
Would my boyfriend go to jail if I had a baby?
Q. my boyfriend is 16 and im only 15. would he go to jail if i had a baby? (but i would be 16 when the baby arrives)....
A. 2 September 2008: No he would only go to jail if your parents pressed charges. Young kids have babies all the time. So it's really up to your parents if he goes to jail but considering the age gap isn't big I dont see them putting him in jail just keeping you two ... (read in full...)
We want to have sex but I am on the pill and REALLY don't trust it! I dislike condoms, too, thus?
Q. Okay, this is so stupid.. But I've got a new boyfriend, and soon we're going to be having sex soon for the first time, and although I'm on the pill I REALLY don't trust it. (The morning after pill failed on me) I'm assuming they've got different ...
A. 1 September 2008: Talk to your doctor about the shot. I dont like condoms either and I have been on the shot for 4 years having sex without a condom (with the same partner that we both lost eachothers virginities to) and have never been pregnant. I too dont trust ... (read in full...)
Can you get an STD from giving oral?
Q. Can you contract an STD by giving a blow job?? ...
A. 1 September 2008: Yes you can. It sounds like you have done it so go get tested and get tested agin in 6 months. Also a sure sign of one kind of common STD at your age is sores in your mouth so watch out for that.
I think you should hold off on that stuff. O... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant on your week break from the pill?
Q. hi all is it true that in the seven pill free days that your waiting for your period that if you have sex you wont be pregnant because you taken the pill even if you have sex when your on your period ??...
A. 30 August 2008: Yes you can get pregnant. On that break you dont have protection so if you have sex use a condom. Some girls ovulate at the same time as their period.... (read in full...)
Does this white discharge indicate an infection?
Q. Lately I've been finding I've been getting a lot of discharge on my knickers. I know they say if it's a yellowish colour, then you mhgit have in infection, but this is pure white. There's no smell either. Am worried by how much of it there is. ...
A. 30 August 2008: It is normal chances are that you are becoming aroused during the day and not knowing it. If you really are scared you can go to the doctor but it is just more than likely normal discharge.... (read in full...)
Why would my friend not mention his family anymore while deployed? Should I ask if his family's OK? I'm worried about them.
Q. I have a friend who's military, He's on assignment away from home (here in the US but far from his current base). I asked him if his countdown for going home started since he's finishing the time assigned. He said that his duty is indeed coming t...
A. 30 August 2008: There is a chance that his home life isn't that good but if i understood you right he is almost done with his tour and he will go home for good. Maybe he will miss the idea of feel so important. He might be missing the idea of being a soldier. I ... (read in full...)
Any ideas for spicing up sex during pregnancy? Also, how can I feel sexy or romantic again?
Q. Does anybody have any ideas for spicing up sex during pregnancy? My fiance and I still have a very active sex life but im 37 weeks along and most positions are getting very difficult or impossible. Also, I don't feel sexy or romantic so does anybody ...
A. 30 August 2008: I looked on google and got a website that says why it is good to have sex while pregnant and it says that you should try either woman on top, doggy, or spooning. I would also try laying on your side with the top leg bent and up toward your stomach. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I love her online or to her face?
Q. hi, i know a girl for 3 weeks and she lives near my house, i had a long conversation through one night and i got out with her one time and we walked through the city, i gave her flowers and she said that is very kind of you and she huged me. ...
A. 30 August 2008: If she is telling you that she is too busy to go out then that is her way of say she isn't interested. I wouldn't tell her at all until you even know if she is really in to you because it sounds like she's not. But if you do tell her tell her face ... (read in full...)
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