Why are people disgusted by prostitution, but acceptant of celebrities that are basically just high class prostitutes?
Q. This is just an out of the blue question really, something that often confuses me when I see questions or comments on the subject of prostitutes and related subjects. I do not by any means agree with prostitution, what baffles me though, is peoples ...
A. 27 October 2011: So in your logic, everyone is a prostitute, then? Because I don't work outside of home, and my husband does, I am his prostitute, because I sleep with him and he pays my bills, is that it? So every stay at home mom on the planet is a prostitute.... (read in full...)
Advice for an English girl moving to America?
Q. Hey I'm an English Girl looking into doing one of my university years abroad in the US. There are 2 parts to my question really: 1) I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. we are in a fairly long-term comitted relationship, and this i...
A. 25 October 2011: My girlfriend is English and she is planning on moving here permanently after she graduates. She's also in Uni (over here we usually call in college :-P) It might take a few hours for me to get a message from her, but I will email her and ask her ... (read in full...)
I need tips on gaining weight!
Q. please help me... i am a 19 year old female who is five feet tall and weighs 100 lbs, i recently had a son and i thought i would have gotten fatter but i didn't. people often times say that i look like around 15-16 and it makes me sad as i went thr...
A. 25 October 2011: Protip from an ex model-
Milk.
I'm not kidding. It's a super easy bodybuilder's secret. It's cheap and it's full of proteins, fats and vitamins that your body needs in order to put on weight.
Drink a glass with every meal. You should put on ... (read in full...)
Ladies: How important are a man's looks in a relationship?
Q. Hello. This is not a "problem" as such, but i have a question for the ladies.... TRUTHFULLY, how important are a mans looks in a relationship? I ask this for 2 reasons. Firstly women always say that its personality, kindness, empathy, sense o...
A. 25 October 2011: My first answer wasn't allowed through. Possibly it was too harsh. Let me soften up my answer but still maintain what I was attempting to say. You say yourself that you are not that good looking, that you avoid the gym and you have a big nose.... (read in full...)
Is everyone capable of finding love?
Q. Do you believe anyone and everyone is capable of finding love if they put in effort to do so? Thanks for answering :)...
A. 24 October 2011: I don't agree, worldly, and this is why.
If you look at TV shows like "Millionaire Matchmaker" those people DO have perfect movie lives, yet they almost always have some sort of character flaw that has prevented them from finding that "lottery... (read in full...)
Is everyone capable of finding love?
Q. Do you believe anyone and everyone is capable of finding love if they put in effort to do so? Thanks for answering :)...
A. 23 October 2011: Simply? Yes.
A longer answer: Absolutely. Although many people are not mature enough to put forth the effort to find a suitable partner and be WORTH loving.... (read in full...)
It irritates me that my sister in law won't go to my church but instead goes to her own
Q. Hi guys. I am staying with my sister-in-law. when she first came to live with us, she would go with me to my church. then all of a sudden she decided to go to her own church on a different day. why do i feel undermined and irritated by it?is it ...
A. 23 October 2011: Um, what?
You're angry at your sister in law, a grown adult, who goes to the place of worship that SHE enjoys going to?
Really?
And you're 30?... (read in full...)
I'm worried my husband is embarrassed of me!
Q. Okay, what do you think. My husband is pretty popular on social networking. A while back I posted my picture on my social sites that are linked to his (like twitter.) He quickly told me to take down all pictures of me because people would tak...
A. 21 October 2011: Why did you marry this guy? He sounds like a real charmer.
He doesn't respect you and he's completely thoughtless when he comes to you.
Let me repeat some things YOU'VE said about him:
--*He's told me before he thinks the things [I] do... (read in full...)
I want to be a partner, not a mother or a sounding board
Q. I am 43 and am dating a 46 year old man for 9 months. We are both divorced (5 years and 10 years) and both have kids. I have really been enjoying getting to know him. When we first met, he had just moved from a rental house into a house he had ...
A. 21 October 2011: If he's worth fighting for, make sure he knows you have to fight for him. He will assume you're okay until you tell him otherwise, hon.
Let him know that his schedule is unacceptable. Tell him that he NEEDS to take time off or lessen his work loa... (read in full...)
Sex with my younger boyfriend sucks. How much time should I give him to improve?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend and I have known each other for almost a year. He is a very lovely and caring guy. He is also tall, handsome, dark hair, and muscular (ok he's really my type). He just moved from Poland to US when we first met. Since I came fro...
A. 21 October 2011: Have him bring you to orgasm BEFORE he penetrates you. That way, you'll be satisfied and it won't matter how quickly he ejaculates. You have to continue teaching him what YOU want. You can't expect him to read your mind or just "figure it out... (read in full...)
What advice do you have for an ugly girl?
Q. What advice would you give to an unattractive girl? Not beauty advice but life and dating advice...
A. 21 October 2011: Play up your strengths. Are you good at something? Talk about that. Be positive. No one likes a Negative Nancy. Diversify your interests. Make sure you can talk to almost anybody about -something-. Dress your body well. No matter what shap... (read in full...)
Why don't girls look at me the way I look at them?
Q. hello. i just have a kind of weird question to ask you all! first of all i consider my self being a good looking guy, i have dark features and i get compliments about my look and my charme. but the thing is. i dont feel like i get so much female ...
A. 21 October 2011: Girls are socialized in today's culture to not be forward when they're interested in someone. It falls to the man to peruse the woman. Unfortunately there's no getting around it. You're just going to have to be the assertive one and start talkin... (read in full...)
I don't want to get feelings for somebody who really doesn't want a relationship.
Q. I've recently developed a sort of fuck buddy type deal with a guy who I started out dating. Not serious dating or a relationship,but just dating as in going out for dinner and what not. I kind of got pissed off because he would want to make plans ...
A. 21 October 2011: Yes, absolutely talk to him. Be HONEST with him and tell him that if he wants no strings, he can't shower you with affection because you won't be able to help falling in love with him.
Tell him that from now on, it's just sex, no cuddling... (read in full...)
Does drinking and forgetting to take my b/c mar its effectiveness?
Q. This is a question about the birth control pill. I usually take my pill between 10 and 11 pm, but I go to parties almost every weekend, get drunk, and forget to take it until 5 or 6 am. These are often nights that I have sex as well. How much does ...
A. 19 October 2011: If you're drinking so much that you're forgetting to be responsible for your future and health, you should stop drinking, period. It's obviously putting you at risk, alcohol is not worth getting pregnant over.... (read in full...)
I slept with his friend after we broke up, now we're back together and he's upset about it.
Q. About 10 months ago my boyfriend and I of a year split up. It was a horrible split up and instead of dumping me he ignored me for a month until i gave up. A month later i met one of his friends on a night out and ended up going back to his and ...
A. 19 October 2011: He has no right to be upset. You two were BROKEN UP. He had no claim to you. Period. He needs to grow up.... (read in full...)
Does he really care... so confused!!
Q. ok heres my problem, i have known this guy friend of mine for five years and we have always been just friends but, he is the sweetest thing such a gentleman always bought me presents never asked for anything in return. we lost contact for a couple ...
A. 19 October 2011: Talk to him. We can't read his mind, this is best for you two to figure out amongst yourselves.... (read in full...)
Why are people disgusted by prostitution, but acceptant of celebrities that are basically just high class prostitutes?
Q. This is just an out of the blue question really, something that often confuses me when I see questions or comments on the subject of prostitutes and related subjects. I do not by any means agree with prostitution, what baffles me though, is peoples ...
A. 19 October 2011: Because the actresses in those movies are not sleeping with the actor "for real". It's just ACTING. No sex involved. That's completely different than prostitution. Selling their BEAUTY and selling their BODY are different. That is why it's accepta... (read in full...)
Not sure of my sexuality, can you help me??
Q. Im 17 years old and i don't know if im lesbian or not. I really really like guys but i think i might also be attracted to girls. i don't know if this would be the best thing or not for me Please Help!!!...
A. 16 October 2011: You're either bisexual, heteroflexible or pansexual.
If you are equally attracted to men and women, you are bisexual.
If you are more attracted to men, you are heteroflexible.
If you are equally attracted to ALL permutations of gender i... (read in full...)
She had sex before we met, now I can't trust her.
Q. Hi everyone. I need some advise on what I should do. I have been with this girl for the last 5 years. The problem is that I cant resepct her or do anything nice for her. She has a past, she lost her virginity when she was 15 years old and stayed in ...
A. 13 October 2011: WTF dude, BREAK UP WITH HER!
Jesus Christ, is it really that hard to figure out?
You can't love her. You abuse her verbally, you treat her like CRAP, willingly, knowing that you're hurting her. SO STOP IT.
Break up with her, find yourself ... (read in full...)
I'm 18, single and unemployed but I want a baby
Q. I have posted a question on here before and received good advice, therefore I wanted to ask for opinions on something that has been puzzling me for some time. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 20, despite my young age, I am desperate for a child. My ...
A. 13 October 2011: YOU won't be happy until you have a baby? You said nothing about the fact that if you had a baby now, you'd be bringing a child into this world for completely selfish reasons and into a situation that is not ideal for that child's life. In orde... (read in full...)
Embarrassed of getting erection while hugging my date. Opinions needed!
Q. Something very embarrassing happened to me and I would like female readers' opinions: There's this girl at work with whom we've been flirting for a few months now. Finally she initiated to go for a friendly coffee where we had a really nice and...
A. 9 October 2011: She isn't rebuffing you because of the erection. So many guys get erections when hugging someone they're attracted to, it's become a moot point with most women. She probably just didn't feel that chemistry with you.
Really, it's perfectly natural ... (read in full...)
My "best friend" (girl) walks around me naked, teases me, and then when I try to do something, she refuses sex saying it would ruin our friendship!!
Q. So this girl I met this year is like amazingly gorgeous, and she has been my supposed "best friend" for a couple months now, even tho ive never been in a platonic relationship. The thing is were both really attracted to each other and she "swears" ...
A. 9 October 2011: You don't want to seem like you're chasing her, but everyone, including her, knows that you're chasing her.
The fact that you've allowed her to use you for attention when she is being a first-rate Bitch to you is pretty lame.
It doesn't ma... (read in full...)
Does real love even exist?
Q. I have a question and an opinion to ask of anyone here and if they could please help m out. I want to know if "love" between a man and a woman can really exist? Is it worth it to let someone in and really give 100% to the other individidual? I ask ...
A. 26 September 2011: I realize that these three relationships are the ones that you have modeled what you think relationships are like because they are the examples closest to you. However, with 6 billion people on this planet, you must understand that logically, ther... (read in full...)
Is this how it is? Should I be getting more than a tingeling sensation when masturbating?
Q. Well this is kind of embarassing, so if you are your not going to be nice about it just don't say anything, otherwise thanks for taking your time to read this. Well i am a teenage girl, and like a lot of teenage girls i masturbate, one prob...
A. 26 September 2011: You can say the correct names for your body parts on this site without worrying about embarassing anyone. Words like Clitoris, Labia, and Vagina are okay to say. So don't worry about mincing words or walking around them for the sake of "modesty", ... (read in full...)
Sad part? I don't think he likes me that way. Is it that he just wants to have sex?
Q. I've been friends with this guy for quite some times. We are really close and I believe we've known each other for 7 years. Well this year we finally confessed we liked each other and dated for a two months. After we broke up things went back to o...
A. 26 September 2011: Please do NOT have sex with him. He is after sex with you because you are familiar and available to him, not because he actually cares about an actual love relationship with you. DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM. He is trying to use you. Do not allow you... (read in full...)
How can anyone be so selfish?
Q. I have known the father of my youngest child for over 27 years. Yesterday it was my birthday and he made no effort despite the fact that I asked my child to remaid him. I know my child said something as he said so himself/ I was working yesterda...
A. 25 September 2011: If you have wanted to end the relationship for so long, why would it bother you that he neglected your birthday? It doesn't sound like you two have much of a "celebrating together" type of relationship anyway, by what little you've described here. ... (read in full...)
I participated in the character assasination of a teacher and want to make things right
Q. This is going to be a little long, but do stay put and offer a way to get through this mess I'm in: This is about a 40 year old guy we used to have in our last semester. He was, first of all, a GREAT, and I do mean GREAT---academic...
A. 22 September 2011: You're obsessed with him and even though you've been here more than once talking about your obsession, you won't take our advice and get help.
I don't understand why you keep coming back here to get advice when you don't follow it.
You're ... (read in full...)
My 6 months old baby from another relationship is upsetting my new partner. How can I make this better?
Q. So, I know this duels as a parenting question, but since the point of interest is my relationship I figure I should ask it here. Some Background: I am married and have a child from a previous relationship. I'll spare you the gruesome details, and ...
A. 21 September 2011: Your child has to come first. If he cannot understand that your baby is a helpless infant completely dependent on you and he is not, he needs to take a hike.... (read in full...)
I really want a shot at him but he has a g/f
Q. Well I've been talking to this guy for a little over a week now, I already have pretty strong feelings for him, we have a lot of fun together and I love how easy it is to talk and be around him. I can't seem to be around him enough. He's really ...
A. 14 September 2011: What makes you think after you've witnessed his behavior towards her, that he'll make a better boyfriend for you?
You've seen the way he disregards the relationship. If you got together with him, do you really think he'll magically turn into a d... (read in full...)
I really want a shot at him but he has a g/f
Q. Well I've been talking to this guy for a little over a week now, I already have pretty strong feelings for him, we have a lot of fun together and I love how easy it is to talk and be around him. I can't seem to be around him enough. He's really ...
A. 13 September 2011: Put yourself in the girlfriend's shoes. What kind of actions would you want the girl to have if another girl REALLY liked your boyfriend? I bet you'd say, "No actions. Because he's MY boyfriend!" And you'd be correct. So, take your own ad... (read in full...)
I despise my married lover...he's a liar...so how do I get out of this one?
Q. How am I going to be able to last the next 7 weeks with my boyfriend when he makes my skin crawl? He is married and I've been seeing him for a couple of years. Earlier this year we booked a holiday for november but I'm having serious second t...
A. 13 September 2011: If he's really that bad, break up with him. This isn't as hard as you're forcing it to be.
Money isn't everything...Personally, I value my emotional health and sanity much more. And if I was going to be given a choice between paying X amount o... (read in full...)
B/f get way too turned on talking about men, is he bisexual?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have phone sex alot because we have a long distance relationship so it's something that we do and often enjoy. My boyfriend is the strong muscle built work out all the time macho aggressive tough guy. He loves females and is ...
A. 12 September 2011: He's probably heteroflexible, which basically means he's MOSTLY heterosexual but enjoys things like fantasies and/or porn with men in it.
And that's perfectly normal and fine. NOTHING to be concerned about -At All-. His sexuality should really b... (read in full...)
The beast approaching the beauty...
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-newly-single-should-i-wait-in-case.html This is a question based on my decision after the above mentioned query. The new girl I'm having a crush on, is just too gorgeous. Now we live in an office enviro...
A. 10 September 2011: Ask her out for lunch.... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity to a cucumber??
Q. I am a 19 yr old girl who has always prided myself on the idea of being a virgin when I got married. I got super horny tonight, though, and used a cucumber. I didnt notice until afterwards that I had bled. Does this mean I have lost my virginity? Or ...
A. 9 September 2011: A hymen does not equal virginity.
You can only lose your virginity when you have sex. Masturbating IS. NOT. SEX.
Period.... (read in full...)
She likes, would date me....BUT she still wants to have sex with other people!!!
Q. Ok, this is a WEIRD one. But maybe you guys can help. See, I know this girl who is sort of promiscuous. Yet she's hott. And sweet. And so we been out a bit. Never slept together or anything because believe it or not, I dont think people should do...
A. 8 September 2011: To the anonymous poster who said: "I doubt that because no matter how honest you are emotions will come into play at some point in time. Most people who are not monogamous actually lie about it, which seems to be a large part of the population a... (read in full...)
Why does he keep ignoring me? How do I fix this? Is it my fault?
Q. My boyfriend and I recently got into an argument because I got mad that this girl kept flirting with him. He didn't go along with it but he didn't make her stop either. She used to call him petnames, until I begged him to make her stop. She knows ...
A. 8 September 2011: Don't make someone a priority in your life when you're just an option in theirs.... (read in full...)
Dark days ahead as the affair is coming to an end?
Q. I have been seeing a married woman for quite some time now, and I've come to the realization that it probably has run its course and will probably fizzle out in the not too distant future. The encounters have been mostly sexual in nature, although ...
A. 8 September 2011: How does it manifest emotionally? That's kind of an impossible question to ask because people are individuals and everyone will react to breakups differently.
Just take it one day at a time.
Next time get involved with a single, availabl... (read in full...)
She likes, would date me....BUT she still wants to have sex with other people!!!
Q. Ok, this is a WEIRD one. But maybe you guys can help. See, I know this girl who is sort of promiscuous. Yet she's hott. And sweet. And so we been out a bit. Never slept together or anything because believe it or not, I dont think people should do...
A. 8 September 2011: Some people are not comfortable with monogamy and that is their nature. She is a non-monogamous person, and there is NOTHING wrong with that. There are more people like that than folks realize. Non-monogamy is completely healthy when done honestly ... (read in full...)
My ex has forgotten when my birthday is. Do I have a right to be peeved or am I making a big deal of nothing?
Q. My ex and me were together for just under six months. It's been several months now since we broke up. We've tried to be friends since then but it has been difficult for me because she ended it and then got a new boyfriend soon after. Anyway, t...
A. 8 September 2011: She's your ex. What's the problem?... (read in full...)
Would doing this lead to sex?
Q. Hi all, there's this guy i love very much. we've been dating for 9months now. am still a virgin. we have'nt had sex as agreed. we restricted ourselves to making out and dry humping. recently,he said he wants me to suck him and i said no, though he ...
A. 6 September 2011: Sex is a choice.
Sex isn't a snowball of out of control things that lead to each other with you having no control.
If that were true, every time someone would have sex, that would be rape. Without control, there's no consent. Without consent,... (read in full...)
Could using a vaginal pessary have made me lose my virginity?
Q. Had a vagina infection and am a virgin. Had to use inserting tablet and while inserting it hurt and for 3 days i bleed but not much just litle patches in my pant. Am i still a virgin? ...
A. 6 September 2011: Hymen does not equal virginity. You cannot lose your virginity to yourself You have to have sex to lose your virginity. So yes, you are still a virgin.... (read in full...)
My GF has the sex drive of a man-is this normal?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have found the perfect woman, but that's the problem - she's too perfect. She doesn't care that I've just been made redundant, orgasms through penetration alone when we have sex, genuinely finds me physically attractive and explai...
A. 1 September 2011: I think she's perfect, and there is in fact something wrong with you for thinking she's flawed for being that awesome.... (read in full...)
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