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I'm scared this girl is too perfect!

Q.   I’m seeing this girl who is the most incredible person I’ve ever met!! But I think she is too perfect and too good to be true that i'm skeptical whether to carry on seeing her. Guys what do you think… She is so beautiful, knock out figure, grea...

A.   8 August 2011: So let me get this straight, you're thinking about breaking up with a girl because you're falling in love with her and she's everything you've ever wanted? Correct me if I'm wrong, but to me that sounds absolutely bonkers. You only find a person l... (read in full...)

Does it make me gay if I'm excited about having a threesome with a shemale?

Q.   here it is i am a happily married man i love my wife and we have a great life together and a great sex life but we started playing around and expanding our sexual intrests in other thing like pegging which i love now we have talked about a 3 way she ...

A.   8 August 2011: Gay means you are only interested in having sex and relationships exclusively with men. So since you are married to a woman, and regularly have sex with a woman, you are not gay.... (read in full...)

What can I use other than sex toys for masturbation?

Q.   What things can I use to make me orgasm during masturbation. I don't have any sex toys since im too young....

A.   8 August 2011: Most women use their own fingers on their own clitoris and many don't bother using any "insertables". You don't need sex toys, you have fingers that work just fine.... (read in full...)

Intense training session has made me afraid of my instructor!

Q.   hey, the other day i was with my fitness instructor doing (you guessed it) exercise. then about halfway through my instructor tells me we're going to do a conditioning session. i didn't know it at the time but a conditioning session is basic...

A.   8 August 2011: You need to talk to your instructor. He can explain the reasons why he did what he did. I can understand being afraid after basically being "beaten up on" but one thing you need to do in the future is go with your gut and don't be afraid to speak up ... (read in full...)

Head over heels in love with married man and I know he won't leave his wife for me!

Q.   Okay, I'm writing this because I'm miserable and at my whit's end of things. You've may have heard this a thousands times before, but Im simply head over heels in love with a married man and I have being for the passed year. And the worrying thing ...

A.   8 August 2011: Cut him out of your life. He cannot give you what you need and want, and he never will. You will not be satisfied with the little you do get and eventually, you'll start pushing for more. He'll get pissed and stop talking to you, breaking your heart ... (read in full...)

Should older women stop taking birth control pills??

Q.   I think I want to start having kids by beginning of next year. Me and my boyfriend have talked about it. I am currently on birth control and I am 30yrs old. Had a convo with girlfriends who told me I have to stop taking such pills at this age. This ...

A.   7 August 2011: You have the chance of getting pregnant as soon as you stop taking birth control pills. So if you aren't ready to have kids yet, and want to wait another year, don't stop taking them until you're 100% sure you're ready to get pregnant... (read in full...)

Can I just not find a lively girl to date?

Q.   ok so i want to come close to this girl who has entered my life recently.. but i think i am destined to get only those girls who arent lively at all! Perhaps my ex has set such a benchmark that i dont see any girl who is even near to her in ...

A.   6 August 2011: Not everyone is the same...and some people hate to text. Not everyone can be like your ex. If texting is so important to you, I suggest finding a new partner, although I daresay that putting this much overemphasis on text communication is a pretty ... (read in full...)

Onesided sex life

Q.   Okay over the last 5 days me and my girl have become sexually active. Now we both were virgins so when have to take it slow when it comes to actually have sex because i end up hurting her which i comepletly understand. The thing that i really dont ...

A.   6 August 2011: Ask her. She can't read your mind. You need to tell her what you want.... (read in full...)

I've discovered my penis is smaller than average and its really messing with my mind!

Q.   I've recently done some research and I've found out the WORST possible news. I've discovered that my penis is below average in all aspects. I've been concerned with this for years and it's one of the reasons I've turned down or just didn't atte...

A.   6 August 2011: Most women need clitoral stimulation in order to reach orgasm. Which means to a great number of women, you don't even need a penis AT ALL to satisfy them. A great number can only orgasm with oral sex, some use their own fingers to stimulate ... (read in full...)

I started my period and gained 5 lbs???

Q.   Hello! I started my period a few days ago, and all the sudden I'd gained nearly five pounds! Which has never happened. I'm becoming worried that it won't go away! I feel so self conscious, and it's really noticeable. My jeans don't fit! My stomach ...

A.   6 August 2011: If five pounds makes it so you literally cannot fit into your jeans, you're wearing jeans that are already too tight. So go up a size, and this won't be a problem on your period. ... (read in full...)

I still find the school girl uniform sexy! Am I pervert?

Q.   Hello guys. I am quite young and I have just left school to go to College. The thing is I still find the whole school girl thing sexy (the uniform, pigtails and so on) I'm worried I might have a problem. I don't want to be a pervert! Am I weird!? ...

A.   6 August 2011: If you're a pervert for thinking a skirt and blouse is sexy, then I guess I'm disgustingly twisted for liking head-to-toe leather, liquid latex body paintings and tightlacing corsets. Seriously, no matter how "perverted" you THINK you might be... (read in full...)

Do men forget that they like to moan and whine too?

Q.   I've been with my partner over 2.5 years. We are planning a future together, and so on. Lately, he's been working in a management position and says frequently that he is stressed by work. I don't know why, but he seems to have less tolerance f...

A.   5 August 2011: The problem is your differences in comuunication. I strongly suggest picking up the books by John Grey, especially "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus", and read it. It saved my marriage and I think it could seriously help you learn how to t... (read in full...)

Thoughts only why I'm called a slut and 19 months along enough time to wait to loss virginity?

Q.   okay well i lost my virginity to much boyfriend of 19 months at the time. he was a virgin also. i was just kinda wondering was that a good about of time to wait. i thought so but just wondering. also why do you thik people call me a slut when ive ...

A.   5 August 2011: sex causes pregnancy and you are certainly not equipped to care for a baby at your age. We can't read the minds of the people who called you names, but they might be judging you because you are too young to have kids yourself, since you haven't even ... (read in full...)

Penis size worry - (4 inches)

Q.   Hi Girls, can you please tell me if 4" size is ok for marriage it means 10cm is it enough to satisfy a woman? I know its not a micro penis but it is making me insecure and please advise which position is good to satisfy a woman with a 10cm penis ...

A.   5 August 2011: I think porn twists a man's idea about what a penis should look like, honestly. Porn is fake, *FAKE*. Produced to impress men. Expecting your penis to look like a male porn star's penis is like expecting the fake saline breasts of the female porn ... (read in full...)

Sex has become boring, how do I make it better? tips please!

Q.   Hey guys, Well I have been with my bf for nearly 2 years. I really love him, but when we have sex it's always the same, same positions, same speed, same everything, nothing ever changes, and I'm bored. The thing is that we struggle with di...

A.   4 August 2011: I think that a lot of people have some idealized romantic way of thinking that sex should always be perfect, but reality is that awkward things happen. Lube spills, queefs burst out, you get a pubic hair in your mouth and gag a little and have to ... (read in full...)

Pain after sex? is this normal?

Q.   My fiance and ENjoy really rough sex every now and then. we like to use toys. we always use lube. the other night we used one bigger than normal and very roughly and very deep. i started having some bleeding about two days later. still pretty steady ...

A.   4 August 2011: You probably damaged your cervix in some fashion, it's actually quite vascular and easy to make bleed. I suggest vising your OBGYN to make sure you don't have any large abrasions or serious bruising. ... (read in full...)

Is it a turn off to have sex on your period?

Q.   Hey, know this is a weird question but if u have sex with a boy when your on your period is it a turn off ? ...

A.   4 August 2011: Some people enjoy it and some do not. You have to ask the person you're with currently.... (read in full...)

Should I go out with this girl?

Q.   Recently a girl who i work with has asked for my number which i gave to her and now she is constantly texting me. Im pretty sure she likes me, but i dont like her, not in that way anyway for a few reasons. Firstly shes only 17 (im 20). I live in the ...

A.   3 August 2011: Only date people you think are attractive both in personality and their looks. You are considering using her for sex, that should tell you something. Sex is not the end-all be-all of your world, and you would be dating this girl for the off chan... (read in full...)

Penis size worry - (4 inches)

Q.   Hi Girls, can you please tell me if 4" size is ok for marriage it means 10cm is it enough to satisfy a woman? I know its not a micro penis but it is making me insecure and please advise which position is good to satisfy a woman with a 10cm penis ...

A.   3 August 2011: Most women get their sexual pleasure from their clitoris, which is externally located on the top of their vulva. Penis size does not matter to women, since the clitoris is not internal. ... (read in full...)

My friends think its weird that b/f and I sleep in separate beds

Q.   I currently live with my bf and yesterday, he gave me a very advanced bday gift of which he took pictures of me with it and excitedly convinced me to post on facebook. Now the story is this, my friends reacted when they saw the pictures and sai...

A.   3 August 2011: If you BOTH are equally happy about it, that's fine, however, I believe it would be more fair to your boyfriend if you got him his own bed instead of him sleeping on a thin folding mattress, or got a very large bed like a king size so you could have ... (read in full...)

Does she like me? Any advice on how to flirt with her?

Q.   Hi I'm a female attracted to females. Iv fallen in love with a girl who doesn't care about me. At least from my point of view she doesn't. Now i think iv fallen out of love with her but i think deep down i still love her like Romeo loved Juliet....

A.   3 August 2011: We cannot tell you if she likes you because we do not know her and we are not her. We cannot read her mind, unfortunately. You will have to ask her yourself. No one can force or "Make" anyone like anyone else. You need to talk to her yourself... (read in full...)

Husband will only sleep with me once every two weeks and it's driving me crazy!

Q.   My sex drive seems out of control. My husband doesn't really like to have sex with me as much as I think I need. Not only that, but when I do have sex with him, I feel disappointed. He has never been able to make me orgasm. He is the only person I ...

A.   3 August 2011: Since men do not have female genitals, they do not understand the importance of the clitoris to female pleasure. Most women cannot orgasm through penis-in-vagina intercourse because the clitoris is external rather than internal. That means it's ... (read in full...)

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