I want sex all the time, and I can't climax when I'm with my girlfriend. Please help!!!
Q. Ok so, I have two problems, I'm 18 and in a relationship with a girl and have been for 2 years now and I find my libido to be annoyingly high, we are sexually active but I just find myself wanting it far too much, even when we're just sitting around ...
A. 20 August 2012: It's possible that what you might be suffering with is called "Death Grip Syndrome".
http://curedeathgrip.com/about.html... (read in full...)
I would like to talk to her and eventually ask her out, any advice?
Q. I have a situation where I am not sure how to approach a woman. In the past I haven't sought advice for this because all of my previous relationships started under more natural circumstances, such as being introduced by a friend or meeting at a ...
A. 20 August 2012: I don't see anything wrong with knocking on her door and offering her a plate of cookies or a nice bottle of wine as a "housewarming" present. That'll give you an opportunity to get on more friendly terms with her, especially if she invites you ... (read in full...)
How can I satisfy my sextual urge without cheating on my wife?
Q. I am alone in a foreign land. My wife and family are not with me. How can I satisfy my sextual urge without cheating on my wife? ...
A. 20 August 2012: I think that what you're missing is intimacy rather than sexual gratification, since masturbation seems to not be "enough". Is there any way you can call your wife on the phone and talk to her in an intimate and romantic way, so that you can feel ... (read in full...)
Am I asking for too much in our sexual relationship?
Q. I'm not sure if I've just ruined our relationship or not. My partner and I have been together for 6 months and I love him completely. He has asked me to marry him and nothing would make me happier and I said yes. We have known each other for ...
A. 14 August 2012: I usually don't just out and out say this, but I strongly suggest that he's closeted, and is using you in order to "look normal" to his family and the outside world.
Please talk to him. This is a serious problem and it won't magically go away if ... (read in full...)
Sex every other day for 2 months, but I'm not pregnant yet!
Q. Hi! I'm almost 32, my hubby is almost 34. We've been trying to have a baby for 2 months now, having sex every other day. We're both healthy and in good shape, don't smoke and don't drink alcohol. Unfortunately, after two months, I'm not pregnant and ...
A. 14 August 2012: It took my husband and I 2 solid years before we finally got pregnant. Give yourself more time, be patient. Two months is nothing in the grand scheme of your life. :-)... (read in full...)
Does her sexual past matter? Would I prefer this new friend over my GF just because of my Gf's sexual past?
Q. I have never been the jealous type and I am not sure I would define what I feel as jealousy. My new girlfriend sexual past is really affecting me. I have had quite a few girlfriends in my life and never felt anything like this before. Not even c...
A. 14 August 2012: I found these for you. I hope this helps.
http://stephen31bkk.hubpages.com/hub/Unhealthy-Jealousy
http://www.health24.com/sex/Relationships/1253-1259-1260,18315.asp... (read in full...)
Do I show my friend the proof that her boyfriend is cheating on her or not?
Q. I am in a bit of a hard situation here. I have a male friend, and I recently found out that he is on a swinger site, and is meeting random people for sex. Now what he does is his business and normally I couldn't care less, except he has a ...
A. 1 August 2012: Generally speaking, I always advise a person to steer clear from situations like this unless you have hard proof. I would say that you do have hard proof. Don't tell him anything about it, because he could easily delete his account in just ... (read in full...)
How can I help my boyfriend keep a stable job?
Q. How can I help my boyfriend, he hasn't been able to hold a job for longer than three to six months. He keeps getting let go and it seems to me for the most ridiculous reasons, such as talking too much and too loudly.I've been with him for about a ...
A. 1 August 2012: I'm seeing a pattern here.
He's losing his job because he's too loud and talks too much.
Your family find him rude.
Your friends think he's annoying.
That's the problem. He has no idea how to act around people. He can be literally the ... (read in full...)
Every time I invite her to do something she's busy. Is she just not interested?
Q. Hello, I met this girl a 2 weeks ago through a mutual friend. That night i took her number and told her we would do something soon enough. A few days later we went out and we had a blast, I ever ran into another friend of mine who saw us toget...
A. 1 August 2012: Women don't appreciate being "jumped on" for same day get togethers, often. Especially if she's got a really active social life, she's going to have made a LOT of plans in advance, and unless you appreciate her scheduling, you're never going to see ... (read in full...)
Is he just after sex or something else?
Q. I get so confused over this guy, I have no idea what he want from me. And im sorry that this is a long question. I met this guy 4 weeks ago at a club, and my best friend ended up with his friend so we just followed them home since they lived toghe...
A. 1 August 2012: I doubt that he's after sex, since he's made no early moves to try and get in your pants. I say follow your gut instincts, but from what you've shown us here, he sounds like a nice guy that is worthy of trusting, and dating.... (read in full...)
How should a man treat a women, now a days?
Q. How should a man treat a women now a days, anyways? We se so many shows and have so many social pressures, both on men and women, but mostly on women. Also though i think it's difficult to get to know someone, becuase of that persons past, with ...
A. 31 July 2012: I would say that you should be careful with over-the-top romance displays. A lot of women can really get skeeved out by them, especially if you do things like this early in the relationship. Save those kinds of displays for your future wife, who ... (read in full...)
He was mean to me. Sent me dirt nasty text. So I did something he called spiteful. Was I wrong to do that?
Q. Two months ago I met this guy at the birthday party. He seems nice and we exchaged phone numbers! We met three times, and afterward I tried to avoid him (i thought he was difficult and feel like all he wants is just have sex!) And here's a deal...
A. 30 July 2012: You Wish-
Your opinion may be that this is not a case of sexual bullying, but the very textbook definition of "sexual bullying" would disagree.
http://kidshealth.org/teen/stress_coping_center/stress_situations/harassment.html
This site quote... (read in full...)
I want to break up but he hasn't done anything wrong!
Q. I've been going out with a guy for a while now and I don't like him any more. (I think it's because I don't want a boyfriend right now but I'm not sure.) I want to break up with him but I don't know how because he hasn't done anything wrong. I can't ...
A. 30 July 2012: There's no rule that a person has to do something wrong in order to break up with them. Just tell them that you're moving in a different directions in your life right now and you're not invested in the relationship anymore.... (read in full...)
He was mean to me. Sent me dirt nasty text. So I did something he called spiteful. Was I wrong to do that?
Q. Two months ago I met this guy at the birthday party. He seems nice and we exchaged phone numbers! We met three times, and afterward I tried to avoid him (i thought he was difficult and feel like all he wants is just have sex!) And here's a deal...
A. 30 July 2012: You Wish, you say that they didn't care about being put on facebook, that they got what they wanted, and didn't have a concious. You must have forgotten where the OP wrote: "And then he discovered then said, 'you are an evil .., what you did wa... (read in full...)
He was mean to me. Sent me dirt nasty text. So I did something he called spiteful. Was I wrong to do that?
Q. Two months ago I met this guy at the birthday party. He seems nice and we exchaged phone numbers! We met three times, and afterward I tried to avoid him (i thought he was difficult and feel like all he wants is just have sex!) And here's a deal...
A. 29 July 2012: I personally think you did the right thing.
Bullies don't learn their lesson until someone with bigger balls puts them in their place. The text was sexually bullying, and it's a damn shame that the rape culture we live in today is doing nothing ... (read in full...)
Do you think this Work colleague likes me, after he said my husband, "would be crazy to not love me"?
Q. I'm a 35 year old married lady though not happily and on my way out of a marriage. I just got chatting with a collegue and as part of a conversation i said 'i dont thing my husband loves me' and he said 'He'd be crazy not to' Do you think he has f...
A. 29 July 2012: It's honestly impossible to tell with such limited information as that.
Just going by that, I'd say...no, he doesn't have feelings for you. I think he just likes you as a friend as is trying to compliment you in a friendly way. I personal... (read in full...)
Can cheating be justified?
Q. if someones love interest doesnt give enough time,love, emotional and mental support the care and need and also doesnt take part in sorting such differences by mutual talk then does it give the other partner to cheat on him/her, is it justified ...
A. 28 July 2012: Then why are you staying with him? The relationship is obviously useless to you, and you're unhappy.
Just break up with him!
Why go through the trouble of hiding unfaithfulness when it would be easier and faster (Not to mention more mor... (read in full...)
He keeps ignoring me, makes excuses and then ignores me some more!
Q. I have known this guy for around two years now. I’m going to refer to him as ‘B’. I was introduced to B through a friend, and from the moment we first met we hit it off. We started sleeping together and we would always get in contact when he came to ...
A. 28 July 2012: I think what you've got on your hands here is the situation of "He likes you when he sees you." The deal is, he's attracted to you sexually and finds you compatible for conversation, but in his opinion, (and listen to me here) -You Are Not Gir... (read in full...)
Reasons I should, or should not date, my boss?
Q. I saw a post here recently about someone who wants to date their manager. Well I've been in this predicament for awhile. My boss and I get along great as friends and I can tell he likes me. I obviously like him too. He's only 3 years older than me ...
A. 28 July 2012: I found some links for you.
http://www.psychpage.com/family/dateoffice.html
http://www.alovelinksplus.com/advice/ask_april/dating-your-boss.htm
... (read in full...)
Can cheating be justified?
Q. if someones love interest doesnt give enough time,love, emotional and mental support the care and need and also doesnt take part in sorting such differences by mutual talk then does it give the other partner to cheat on him/her, is it justified ...
A. 27 July 2012: Cheating is never justified. EVER. If your partner isn't giving you what you need, LEAVE. Don't cheat.... (read in full...)
LDR boyfriend doesn't know the color of my eyes?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship and I have been for about a year. We've been together in person multiple times so I expected the right answer today when I playfully asked him "What color are my eyes?" I could not believe it when he told me he ...
A. 27 July 2012: Don't ask questions you might not like the answer to.
Perhaps you should tell him what color your eyes are and not worry about "confronting" him about it. I mean honestly, you're acting like a child. You want to FIGHT with him about that? He's you... (read in full...)
Should a pregnant woman be having a discharge?
Q. Hi every1, pls, is this normal 4 a pregnant woman to b dischargin a whitish fluid in her private part?...
A. 27 July 2012: Since the person who asked the question is male, I'm guessing he's not the one who's pregnant.
I'm going to guess that he's either asking on behalf of his partner, or he's suspecting that his female partner is cheating on him and the "fluid" ... (read in full...)
Please help, I don't know what to do upon meeting my boyfriend's kids!
Q. My boyfriend and I are planning a play-date between his kids and my godchild (since I don't have kids). I'm nervous about meeting his kids, they're very pretty little girls, one is 9 and the other is 2. I just want them to like me, even a little. ...
A. 27 July 2012: Bring something along with you that the girls would like. Coloring books and crayons are a hit with almost every child.
When introducing yourself, kneel down and get on their level. Look them in the eye and smile. Use a very warm and friendly... (read in full...)
Do other people have weird turn ons like mine?
Q. So yesterday, I decided to try something new and see what it would be like to whip myself and try masturbating afterwards and/or while doing so and see how it does for me.. turns out I kinda liked it. It's like it gave me a sort of rush that made it ...
A. 27 July 2012: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_spanking
In BDSM circles, being spanked, caned, flogged or otherwise struck in order to cause pain is a VERY common kink.
You are what we call a "Masochist".
http://en.wikipedia.o... (read in full...)
Girls who like girls. what are the main attributes that attract you to girls?
Q. Girlies question time...........! Based on personal experiences, have you always had an idea you were a lesbian? I mean I have always known, I didn't go through a teenage curious stage I just took mine with the flow. I just wondered whether you'...
A. 26 July 2012: I am pansexual.
Women are attracted to women for the same reasons men are attracted to women. It's not difficult to tell why. Women can be beautiful and sexy, charming, funny, etc.
I realized I wasn't heterosexual when I was about sixteen. I... (read in full...)
I don't want to be a bitch but I want to break up with him
Q. Its been three years with this guy. Im over it i'm done.i'm a senior in high school now I need to get my life together and I can't when i'm being held back because of him.I recently went to Paris and its changed my perspective on life and ...
A. 26 July 2012: There is no way to break up with someone who loves you that won't hurt them in some way. You absolutely must accept that reality and prepare for it. The gentlest way to break up with him is to talk to him in private, and tell him truthfully exactly ... (read in full...)
Should I wait for him to make a move?
Q. I previously wrote about a guy who gave me his number and I was wondering what I should do. Following your advice, I texted him last friday if he wanted to go out on sunday, he said he had something already planned but that he would like to meet up ...
A. 26 July 2012: He probably isn't calling you because you stayed over at his house. Unfortunately, many men don't respect women who allow them to be so intimate with them so quickly. You didn't say for sure if you actually had sex with him, but even if you didn't, ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to fantasize about your partner being with someone else well your masturbating?
Q. I was wondering is it normal to fantasize about your partner being with someone else well your masturbating? I dont understand it because when im not doing any thing sexual the thought of him being with someone else kills me but during the heat of ...
A. 26 July 2012: When it comes to sexual fantasies and masturbation habits, there's really no such thing as "normal". What you're fantasizing about is, however, very common and nothing at all for you to worry about. I think a very large portion of the western ... (read in full...)
I can't afford to pay every time we go out. What's the best way to let her know?
Q. Hi. So I asked someone out and we had dinner and I payed, which I was happy to do. I've asked her out again for a coffee and she said yes. The thing is I just can't afford to pay for her every time we go out. I don't know if she'll be expecting me ...
A. 26 July 2012: If you don't have any money to pay her way, you need to make dates that won't cost you any money, like going hiking, to the park or the beach. Then when you do have money to pay for more dressy dates, you can invite her to those. Once you two h... (read in full...)
Is it too much fir me to want my wife to wear a little make-up?
Q. I really need advice.I have been maried for 18 years.my question is we have one dissagrement I would really like it if my wife would wear a little mascara, eye shadow and lipstick.Not everyday just like three or four times a year.l love her she is ...
A. 26 July 2012: If she flat out refuses no matter what you try to compromise with her on, then you're probably never going to change her mind. The harder you push her, the harder she'll push back. I wear cosmetics on a near-daily basis, but one of the things my... (read in full...)
He has orgasms regularly and I have almost none... any tips? I'm feeling very jealous!
Q. My current sex life is great apart from one fact - my boyfriend gets a lot more pleasure than i do. I get a lot of pleasure from sex and foreplay but almost never climax from anything, and when i do, it takes a looong time. We have already tried the ...
A. 21 July 2012: Most women can only reach orgasm through direct clitoral stimulation. Are you this type of woman? If so, then you should do what a lot of other women do and either use your own hand to stimulate yourself during intercourse, or use a vibrator. This ... (read in full...)
Is this behavior OK?
Q. Is is ok for my boyfriend to sit on his porch and have beers with his female neighbor without me, possibly go inside if the weather is too hot and have drinks with her in there?...
A. 19 July 2012: If that's all he's doing, yes.
If he's sleeping with her and you aren't okay with that, then obviously no.... (read in full...)
Why won't guys ask me out???
Q. I have had one real boyfriend in my life (who treated me horrible) but he is the only guy who had ever asked me out. We were on and off for three years, but he cheated constantly while lying to me about it. I dont understand - im a pretty woman, ...
A. 19 July 2012: What's stopping you from doing the asking yourself?
A lot of men won't approach women out of fear of rejection. It's not that they find out unattractive, it's simply they're too scared of you saying no.
Since you're not getting approached, the ... (read in full...)
Why does childbirth hurt so much?
Q. Why does childbirth hurt so much? I heard it's like breaking a dozen bones. Is it because the baby stretches out the vagina our puts pressure on the body? Please explain all the pains one feels when giving birth. I want to be ready....
A. 18 July 2012: I have two children. Large babies run in both mine and my husband's families. My first was almost 9 pounds at birth and my second was about 8.5 pounds. My second child was via emergency C-section.
My experience with childbirth was, to be complete... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to be honest to my GF when she asked a valid Question?
Q. Ok just had a conversation with my GF, she asked if any women from my past had contacted me. So I was honest and answered affirmatively that an Ex had contacted me just shooting the breeze and wanting to get together next time i was in town and abou...
A. 18 July 2012: Quick way to fix her fear: Invite her to go with you.
The only reason she's freaking out is because she doesn't want any "old feelings" to make you cross any boundaries with the ex. You're extremely unlikely to do that when she's right there wi... (read in full...)
What is it about these actions I do during sex that turns him on?
Q. Hey everyone i have a question for the Guys; When my husband and i have sex it seems like he likes it more when im giving him a hand job my knee to be pushed on his balls and during sex he comes fast when i suck on his finger. Can you please l...
A. 17 July 2012: Don't you think it would be better to ask him instead of random guys that you're not sleeping with?... (read in full...)
I want to date him but know what the future holds and I'm not sure its a good idea
Q. In the middle of April, I met this guy at my college through a mutual friend. He requested to add me on facebook, so we talked on there for a little while, and he gave me his number at the end of May, so we began texting pretty regularly. So far ...
A. 11 July 2012: In my opinion, I feel like you're taking the whole dating thing way too seriously. Not every relationship absolutely HAS to be long-term, or leading to marriage, or even serious. Not every relationship HAS to have significance. It's 100% okay to ... (read in full...)
Did my bf take something to improve his sexual performance?
Q. Did my bf take something to improve his sexual performance? I recently had sex with my new bf. I really found this strange or maybe it's normal. After he had intercourse, i was a bit surprised to notice that he remained errected though he has ...
A. 11 July 2012: My husband and I would have sex as many as ten times (or more) on a DAILY basis when we first started dating. It's unusual but not impossible for a man to do this without any kind of assistance.... (read in full...)
Either I pretend I enjoyed sex when I didn't or he accuses me of being loose
Q. Hi, I'm 18 and was a virgin before meeting my boyfriend. Because I was a virgin, I was hesitant to have sex with him and when we finally did, I felt nothing,besides the initial pain even though he couldn't stop telling me how much he enjoyed ...
A. 10 July 2012: Well, you haven't told him what pleases you sexually, so what makes you think his ex-girlfriend would have taught him too? Young women are notorious for thinking that their male partners will "just get it", and are often disappointed when they ... (read in full...)
Either I pretend I enjoyed sex when I didn't or he accuses me of being loose
Q. Hi, I'm 18 and was a virgin before meeting my boyfriend. Because I was a virgin, I was hesitant to have sex with him and when we finally did, I felt nothing,besides the initial pain even though he couldn't stop telling me how much he enjoyed ...
A. 9 July 2012: Most women can only reach orgasm through direct stimulation of their clitoris. Since penis-in-vagina intercourse does not stimulate the clitoris because of it's position outside of the vagina, it's extremely common for women to get almost no sexual ... (read in full...)
My ex has an eating disorder and I am uncertain as to how I can help her!
Q. I was dating a girl for over a year. While dating her she developed an eating disorder. The issue is complicated by the fact that we both run for a college cross country and track team. She experienced great success as the eating disorder got worse. ...
A. 1 July 2012: If you cannot get her family and friends together for an intervention, then you need to do it yourself. The thing with addicts is that they will almost never get help by themselves, unless they are at "rock Bottom". You need to look at this almost ... (read in full...)
My ex has an eating disorder and I am uncertain as to how I can help her!
Q. I was dating a girl for over a year. While dating her she developed an eating disorder. The issue is complicated by the fact that we both run for a college cross country and track team. She experienced great success as the eating disorder got worse. ...
A. 1 July 2012: A person with an eating disorder cannot be in a healthy relationship, so unfortunately you are in a really tough spot. You need to get together with her family and stage an intervention. Until she gets professional help, she will continue to be very ... (read in full...)
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