Please help. I am dying to talk to to my b/f's friends
Q. my boyfriend has friends that goes to my school........... i never talked to them before but now i want to make friends with them , how can i approach them.? and what if they reject me or maybe ask me out ? i want to tell my boyfriend about it but ...
A. 12 March 2009: Have your boyfriend introduce them to you, then you can get to know them. If they are decent friends they won't ask you out. ... (read in full...)
Seductive day on the boat with my wife & her boss
Q. I'll start off by saying my wife is very sexy and knows it she always tells me that she catches her boss checking her out all the time. She makes about twice the money I do so I really don't say a whole lot about the outfits she wears to work.Well ...
A. 12 March 2009: I'm guessing this is fake, it reads like a crappy porno.
I'll give you "advice" anyway. Do whatever makes you happy. ... (read in full...)
Curious: how long do guys in LT committed relationship hang out with their best friends?
Q. how often do guys in long-term committed relationships hang out with their best friends? and for how long in a single time?...
A. 10 March 2009: I see my best friends about once a week, and talk to them through phone calls, texts or IM throughout the week.
My girlfriend and I mostly share friends, so we hang out as a big group mostly. I only have a few friends that are "mine" alone, thou... (read in full...)
Why can't men understand how women feel about porn?
Q. Why cant men understand how many women feel about porn? Especially after we marry and have babies.Like it or not guys, we mothers often give up a lot when we marry and have kids, Its pretty heartbreaking when we lose our pre baby bodies and end up ...
A. 10 March 2009: I get it. I don't watch porn when I'm in a relationship at all. I haven't watched it in years, don't miss it. And surprise, surprise, anonymous poster- I have no "natural urge" to cheat on my girlfriend.
Porn isn't that big of a deal. Not for me a... (read in full...)
He thinks my body BELONGS to him!!!!
Q. My boyfriend of 4 months says I'm his... therefore so is my body, supposedly we love each other. He says he does, his hands are always all over me, alone or not! Once we are in a private place and he wouldn't stop! I don't mind that but I do mind ...
A. 7 March 2009: He is behaving unacceptably. If you say no, it is his responsibility to stop. Simple as that. Going further without your consent is assault. He does not own you, and no man should EVER expect their girlfriend to let him touch her wherever he likes, ... (read in full...)
Cheating sucks!
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me with a girl he works with. She kept offering him to fool around even though she knew he had a girlfriend and a family. He caved in but has never cheated before. We've always had a great loving relationship! He cheated ...
A. 7 March 2009: I think he's a loser.
I also think he's potentially dangerous to your children, at the very least in terms of setting a DISASTROUS example of good behavior/how to treat your partner.
I also think he will definitely cheat on you again eventual... (read in full...)
Can a man tell if a woman has orgasmed?
Q. I'm not talking about the physical stuff that women do when they orgasm (like shaking, moaning, etc.); more like the internal. If they're having intercourse, can a man tell that a woman has orgasmed by the change in her vagina (it contracts)?...
A. 5 March 2009: Yes, it feels amazing.
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Daughters friend was raped and I'm wondering if thats the real story
Q. I have a 13 1/2 year old daughter. She comes to me and tells me that her best friend was raped the other day. i din't know what to say to her but in my head i was thinking with the way some and i mean some girls are now a days i thought maybe she ...
A. 5 March 2009: In matters of rape it is always (repeat: ALWAYS) better to give the benefit of the doubt to the rape victim. You do not want to leave a woman (or a little girl in this case) alone without any resources and support, you do not want her to feel like ... (read in full...)
Abuse and infidelity...
Q. Confused been with my boyfriend of 4 years through abuse, infidility.. I went through his phone and noticed a naked picture of himself who he sent as a message to a girl.. I've been feeling funny ever since he cheated 2x's with the same girl 2 ...
A. 5 March 2009: Break up with him. He's cheated on you before, and is doing it again. And you also mentioned abuse- I assume that you mean he abused you. If so, break up with him in a public place, bring friends for support (to meet you afterwards for instance).
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I feel as if I'm deceiving my boyfriend by not telling him about my friend.
Q. I am in a very loving relationship with my boyfriend of six years. We live together and have a six month old son. Our relationship got off to a terrible start but we've worked through it all. A few months ago a guy I met while doing a business...
A. 5 March 2009: Sounds like it could be an "emotional affair". You are definitely bushing the boundaries of acceptable behavior right now, I'd say verging on cheating behavior. There is nothing wrong with having male friends, but having really close, secret male ... (read in full...)
Is it cheating if I want to experiment sexually with a woman?
Q. Is it cheating if I want to experiment sexually with a woman? My boyfriend said it's cheating even if it's just for experimentation. I on the other hand have no problem with him experimenting with a man if he so chooses. What do you think? ...
A. 5 March 2009: Of course it's cheating, what she's got between her legs doesn't negate the fact that it's cheating. You know why? Because it's cheating to your boyfriend, and he's the one that you want to be in a relationship with. If you want to experiment, it ... (read in full...)
A question strictly for the men aunts!!!
Q. Okay guys, would you want a straight girl that would have sex with you or a bi girl that would let you have sex with her and her girlfriend?...
A. 5 March 2009: Definitely the straight girl, no contest. I'm not into threesomes. ... (read in full...)
Do drunken mistakes really exist?
Q. My boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship, in which we just went through a period of saving it. We came clean about everything we had done, and he told me he had slept with one of his best friends, who was also living in the room next to him ...
A. 27 February 2009: Hmm... yes and no. I've never slept with a girl I wasn't attracted to in some way, but then when I'm drunk my standards tend to get... lower.
In the case of a best friend, that's tricky territory as there is also a huge emotional and personal... (read in full...)
I don't understand his behavior
Q. Hello, I would like to have your opinions on this matter. Even if I always condemned it, it happened that I became interested in a man at my workplace who is married, really I did not want this to happen, it just happened. It's hard sometime...
A. 25 February 2009: I doubt he understands your behavior either- coming on to him one second, then changing your mind, then insulting him.
You're both playing dumb games and it's probably best if you stop communicating with one another altogether except in a stri... (read in full...)
Will 0.5 alcohol beer affect my baby?
Q. I found out that non-alcoholic beer still contains some alcohol. I've been drinking that since I got pregnant (about one a night) is there a large chance that my baby has birth defects? ...
A. 25 February 2009: Well I remember reading a while ago that some doctors in the UK were rethinking the ban on alcohol for pregnant women because they weren't convinced that small amounts of alcohol actually harmed the baby. One nonalcoholic beer a night probably ... (read in full...)
I might be bi, but I'm already with my guy
Q. I have never been with a girl and I don't want to be in a relationship with a girl, but lately I've been having major fantasies about being with a woman. I have a boyfriend, so this cant really happen, but I am almost really wanting it to be able to ...
A. 25 February 2009: Invite him to watch.
Problem solved!... (read in full...)
She has commitment issues. How can I proceed?
Q. About 10 years ago I met this girl in my 7th grade English class. And we became really good friends. We're still great friends to this day. A few months ago I got back from a 2 year trip to a foreign country. When I came home I reunited with this ...
A. 25 February 2009: My advice is to start casual. Don't be exclusive, just go out together alone (maybe even under the pretense of friends, and then building up to official dates). See how the chemistry works and let things develop at a natural and comfortable speed. ... (read in full...)
Can a woman do as good as a male in a male job?
Q. Can a female be as good as male in a male job, can women be as tough as men in male jobs?...
A. 25 February 2009: Yes.
:)... (read in full...)
Should I let my wife wear spandex to work?
Q. is it okay for me to let my wife out the house wearing tight spandex to work?...
A. 24 February 2009: I'm pretty sure it's up to her what she wears...... (read in full...)
What would you do if your partner and his relatives did something against your own values?
Q. If a few of your partner's close relatives were casual pot smokers, who held down jobs and were otherwise responsible, loving people, would you feel comfortable letting your kids visit these relatives, if you are morally opposed to any casual drug ...
A. 24 February 2009: Well there is a bit of a difference there, since guns have the ability to injure and kill... the worst pot does is make you want to have a nap/eat the kitchen.
Look at the history of pot, look at the reason why it is illegal. Mostly tied up with ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate.
Q. Okay, This is a pretty weird question, I'm going crazy though. My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate. I know this is possible because of all the crap I've read on the internet. It's not that big of a problem right now ...
A. 24 February 2009: I've never heard of this in my life.
The best solution I can think is to take him to a doctor to discuss it and maybe run tests to see if he is physically capable of ejaculating.
Poor guy, he's missin' out...... (read in full...)
10 -15 masturbating..quicker with sex?
Q. I usually last around 10 to 15 seconds while masturbating. Is it going to go quicker with sex? and how can i get myself to last longer? ...
A. 24 February 2009: You won't know how long it'll take with sex until you try it.
To make it last longer for sex, try masturbating before you do it. Which luckily won't take you long. ... (read in full...)
He's always flirting with other women
Q. My boyfriend seems to constantly be flirting other women, in particular with one of his very close friends (who is a girl and has a boyfriend). I also think he may have dated her a few years ago (though I have never asked him about it). The other ...
A. 24 February 2009: Ask him if they ever dated; until you know their history you're just speculating. Based on his response, you can take the conversation in one or two directions- if he says no ask him if he's ever wanted to because his comments/behavior suggest so, ... (read in full...)
What would you do if your partner and his relatives did something against your own values?
Q. If a few of your partner's close relatives were casual pot smokers, who held down jobs and were otherwise responsible, loving people, would you feel comfortable letting your kids visit these relatives, if you are morally opposed to any casual drug ...
A. 24 February 2009: Pot is pot, most people have tried it at some point, it's pretty harmless as long as they don't smoke it around the kids or try to force the kids to smoke it.
If your relatives are such great people, even though they smoke pot, doesn't that make... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's best friend...
Q. All right so here's the deal. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, and I truly love her. But for some reason lately I've been starting to enjoy the company of her best friend. Which she is not even close to being as hot as my girlfriend. Her ...
A. 24 February 2009: Sounds like a classic scenario, very common for young people especially. If you have strong feelings for the best friend, it might be worth pursuing (though this is a tricky thing to do). If you decide that you want to be with her, break up with ... (read in full...)
Is it abuse when a girl hits a guy?
Q. So I have a girlfriend. We seem to fight a lot. when I make her upset she tends to hit me. The other night we were arguing in the car and I said something to upset her, and she swung her arm and struck me right in the eye. she hit me hard enough to ...
A. 24 February 2009: Yes it does happen, yes it is considered abuse, though it is much less common (than man on woman domestic violence). Maybe you should talk to her about it when you are both calm (not fighting) and tell her that you won't tolerate her physically ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's convinced I think she's ugly and think her friends are hot...
Q. My girlfriend has the worse self esteem issues. It all started when I check out her friend in front of her and say she (my gf) better looking then she is (I was a bit drunk as well). She didn't really care at first until we got home. She scream at ...
A. 22 February 2009: I don't think you should be with this girl if you don't honestly think she's the most beautiful and attractive woman on the planet. She's not the one for you.
When you meet the right girl, you'll know in your heart that she's the most gorgeous woma... (read in full...)
I feel less sexy in bed thinking my b/f would prefer a porn star's body!
Q. I know this has been asked a zillion times before and that I'll probably get the same answers telling me to get over it, but I feel very insecure about my boyfriend watching porn. It's obvious from an objective point of view that these women are ...
A. 20 February 2009: Many women feel like you do. You're not wrong to feel like this. It makes perfect sense for you to feel this way, in fact, given the situation you (and many other women) are in. Stop apologizing and over explaining your feelings, they are valid, so ... (read in full...)
We could have waited until we were married but we let it happen too soon. I'll never feel pure again.
Q. The first time I had sex wasn't the right way. I feel bad about it. When my boyfriend and I did it for the first time I only gave in because I thought he would abandon me or cheat on me if I didn't. It was painful and I was scared, and even though ...
A. 16 February 2009: Oh boy, this is one of those things that really irritates me. Here I go.
Look... virginity is so overrated in our culture, and you've probably heard over and over again that a girl is only as valuable as her possession of a hymen, but it's a load... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill. Is it safe to let him "finish" inside of me?
Q. I've recently started seeing this new guy...we actually had our second date yesterday (V-Day!). Anyway, the relationship has gotten physical, and he's confided in me that he has a hard time "finishing", especially while using a condom. I am on the ...
A. 16 February 2009: My girl and I have been having sex for years with just the pill and no condoms... she's not been knocked up yet (fingers crossed, knock on wood). Condoms make sex difficult for a lot of men (most men)- they make the sex less pleasurable, and for ... (read in full...)
Relationship advice
Q. Ok this is my first post on this website but as i can tell from the posts ive looked on your all incredibly helpful and filled with rich information from life experiences so ill start at the beginning and hope someone can help me with some advice or ...
A. 16 February 2009: Maybe she's taking it slow so that the relationship has time to develop. Perhaps in the past boys she has slept with have scampered, and maybe she's afraid of this happening between you two. Don't pressure her, just trust that she'll come around in ... (read in full...)
Call me a bitch or a whore but you know I'm right.
Q. I really laid it on thick with this guy who already had a girlfriend. I even made made him cheat on his girlfriend by having sex with him while they were together. They were together for two years and broke up two months ago after she caught us ...
A. 16 February 2009: "Clearly you won't be making friends or having long term friendships with women, but yes, guys do like a little tail on the side, for the most part, only a foolish man would turn down a willing sex object, especially as hot as you sound."
Pvtgu... (read in full...)
Do women actually enjoy anal?
Q. Hey do women enjoy anal? Also if me and my gf were to try it what should I do to make it as enjoyable as possible? As far as lubes, toys, and technique. Thanks....
A. 16 February 2009: Hmmm I'd say almost every girl I've done with with has enjoyed it! A few have even climaxed from it. It can be pleasing for women if they are open to it. It's just a matter of doing it right.
The best position for first time anal is missionary (you... (read in full...)
When will I ever be attracted to another guy?
Q. I had been seeing a man for 2 years, he had a girlfriend, but i was very much in love with him and believed we would end up together. I thought I would give him time to work out his life and if it was me he wanted to be with - but I wasnt. He is now ...
A. 16 February 2009: Yes you'll be attracted to another man, you're going through a stage of heartbreak right now, it's normal to feel the way you do. Give it time.
Word of advice: don't date men who are already in relationships. They will say that they'll leave thei... (read in full...)
Short girl tall guy?
Q. How do tall guys 6'3/6'4 feel about short girls? I'm 5'1 and I've been feeling really insecure about it lately b/c the guy I like is around 6'3-6'4 hes a giant..how can I kiss him? is it strange to u guys if you were with a short girl? how do u ...
A. 16 February 2009: I'm not quite that tall, but I did date (ok, sleep with) a girl who was a good 11 inches shorter than me once. It didn't really affect anything, though if you have sex in certain positions things don't quite line up right.
Hugging and kissing wasn... (read in full...)
How can he be so interested and then poof? Gone?
Q. Okay, so I met this guy back in Jan and we got together twice, and talked on the phone every day or every other day, then he went away on business. While he was gone we would still talk over the phone every day or every other day and he would even ...
A. 16 February 2009: Maybe "he's just not that into you".
Or maybe he's got another boyfriend.
I don't know, any answer you get will just be speculation.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to forgive in time even when the trust has been broken?
Q. My boyfriend and I had a falling out. We live together and I broke his trust. He hasn't moved out or anything he's refusing to when in the past he has just left me. Saying he didnt love me anymore and that we were over its only been 5 days. But what ...
A. 16 February 2009: He's probably confused and thinking things through. I'm not sure what you did, but any violation of trust will take a lot of time to get over. He might be trying to decide whether it's worth staying in the relationship or trying to figure out how he ... (read in full...)
I have an attraction to both sexes! I want to tell everyone...
Q. Well.. for a start, I have a attraction to both genders. The only person who know's my sexuality is my girlfriend. I really want to tell my friends and family, but how can I? I live in a small town in the west side of British Columbia, Canada. Where ...
A. 16 February 2009: In reponse to questions 1 & 2: If you're in a relationship with your girlfriend I don't necessarily see the point in telling people, unless you feel it's an important part of your identity. I have no idea how you'd tell people, especially bigoted ... (read in full...)
Is he looking and signing up at porn websites? please help!!!
Q. My boyfriend gave me his email password along time ago when we were just friends and he knows I still have it. Anyways I always go though my junk and delete it but he never does so I go on his and do it for him. For the last 2 days there have been ...
A. 12 February 2009: I don't know much about junk mail but I know that sometimes junk sites can buy lists of email addresses and send their shit en masse to unsuspecting inboxes all over. It could be that.
But I don't look at porn (online or otherwise) and I don't re... (read in full...)
Is it normal to not like porn?
Q. Is it normal to not like porn? All my friends always talk about the porn they watch but whenever I try to watch it... I didn't find it very interesting or arousing, I prefer to just use my imagination when I am masturbating. Is there something ...
A. 12 February 2009: Yes, it is normal, no you shouldn't be worried. Everyone has different preferences, different things that arouse them. As long as you are sexually satisfied and happy, then it's fine, don't let your friends get you down. Not all men, or all people ... (read in full...)
Do guys still get excited when tiny breasts are revealed or would they rather us keep our tops on for sex so they can just use imagination?
Q. My breasts are so small, do guys still get excited when tiny breasts are revealed or would they rather us keep our tops on for sex so they can just use imagination? Once a boyfriend said to me when I was getting dressed "Come on turn round ...
A. 3 January 2009: I myself prefer small boobs (A or B cup is ideal for me, anything bigger is a turn off but it has never stopped me from sleeping with a girl anyway... just not that picky!). The myth that all men want from a woman is big boobs and a smile is just ... (read in full...)
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