Is he lusting after bigger girls? Am I too thin for him?
Q. I'm 110lbs 5'6 and very thin!!! I'm not anorexic/bulimic just born this way. I don't look sickly either. I've been dating a guy for three 1/2 months. I just saw some of his porn (he doesn't know! Yes! I was wrong for looking) and its mostly of ...
A. 23 May 2008: Porn is a fantasyland where men can indulge every desire they please... you haven't been dating him for very long, so I wouldn't worry about it yet. Perhaps the "theme" of bigger girls is just a coincidence, or maybe he really does have a fetish for ... (read in full...)
Should we go on break because she doesn't trust me?
Q. My girlfriend and I have known each other many years, as friends for the most part. I recently decided to be open with her, about something I kept from her 3 years ago, when we were just friends. Naturally, this made her lose trust in me, as if I ...
A. 21 May 2008: You're pretty mature for a guy of your age.
I suggest taking the break, set a limit on how long it should go on for, and make sure you set the parameters clearly (i.e. do you still talk on the break? or is it a clean break? are you both allowed to d... (read in full...)
It rips me apart inside that he told me one thing but does another. Now he insists that I tell him what upset me.
Q. I have been dating the most wonderful man since December. I can feel and see just how much he truly loves me. When we first started dating, he told me he had gotten rid of all his porn because he didnt want to hurt me by looking at other women. A ...
A. 21 May 2008: Ahhh... porn... the great relationship destroyer.
In my experience, with several different women, porn was always hurtful to them. Every one of them told me that it made them hate their bodies, feel like they couldn't trust me, make them feel ins... (read in full...)
Should I cheat or not? I'm in a long distance relationship of 5 months and won't see her for 6 more!
Q. Hi I'm a student and I'm in a long distance relationship but its only been 5 months do, bad thing is that I wont be seeing her for the next 6 months,do you think I should cheat whilest I personally don't want to cheat coz I really love this girl but ...
A. 20 May 2008: Are you afraid that she might be cheating on you, so you want to "cheat back"? Is that what you mean by "what if she hurts me"? Like LJ001 said, all you can do is trust that she will be faithful. There's nothing she can say to prove that she will be ... (read in full...)
Obsessed with a man who is not my husband. Is my marriage going down?
Q. Heres the deal.. i am married and obsessed with a different man i barely know think of him all the time Is there something wrong with my marriage?...
A. 20 May 2008: Probably. A little passing crush is normal, but an obsession is never normal. It won't do anything good for your bond with your husband, anyway. A slight infatuation with another person can invigorate a marriage with fresh sexual energy. An ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to begin to move on. He was abusive but I can only remember the good side of him, that draws me back to him!
Q. My now ex-boyfriend and I had been dating for almost two years. I just broke up with him yesterday because his verbal abuse reached a new low. We've had an incredibly tumultuous and disastrous relationship and after trying to break up with him for ...
A. 20 May 2008: He's manipulating you and controlling you. He obviously has major issues, insulting and abusing you one day and then being "sweet, caring" the next. Ban yourself from speaking to him (cut off all contact) for a few weeks and see how you feel. I bet ... (read in full...)
I am trying to help her fix the problem but she is not cooperative...
Q. My girlfriend of a little less than 2 months had cheated on me with a number of different people. It has happened 3 times, and only once was she sober. I am trying to help her fix the problem and get through this myself, but she won't talk to me ...
A. 20 May 2008: Don't be silly... you're being silly... She doesn't need or want help fixing her problems, don't stay with her. Dump her now. Do it by text message. Be brave. ... (read in full...)
Should I suck up my feelings and let her tramp on me for a little while?
Q. Alright, this one is going to be a long on, but I need all the help I can get fast, before I make another mistake. Me and Jamie have been in a relationship for about 4 1/2 years. To start, we started in highschool, and had a few confrontations w...
A. 18 May 2008: You're young, most people your ages aren't mature enough to carry on a serious relationship because they are overcome with temptation from others. You've treated her like crap (IMHO), leaving her and kissing other girls and whatnot. She's moving on ... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 17 May 2008: Ok. I have a different view from the others. See... I have been in a lot of relationships... and for most of them I looked at porn all the time on the side. It's just a natural curiosity, and there is some pleasure to be had at looking at naked wo... (read in full...)
My husband was texting another woman!
Q. My husband and I have been having some relationship issues for the last six months and at one point it got so bad that we were contemplating seperating. Just two weeks ago I found a text on his phone saying Hi Sexy Lady however he had this phone ...
A. 17 May 2008: Well... he was unfaithful... at the very least an emotional affair, and at the very least with the intention of starting something more. He was obviously sexually interested in this woman, and I wonder if you had never found out, would he have gone ... (read in full...)
Men, did you ever pressure a girl into sex when you were in your teens?
Q. This question is for the older male uncles and visitors here. When you were in your teens, did you pressure any girls for sex or sexual activity? And if so, how do you feel about that now? Do you regret it or was it just part of growing up? T...
A. 16 May 2008: Well in my high school, there were plenty of easy girls so that pressuring was never necessary... ... (read in full...)
WHY won't he just admit he cheated??
Q. ok this sounds crazy and i know its all in front of me but i keep doubting my own self.. about a month ago my gf tipped me off that my current bf of about 6months is "talking" to some girl her boyfriend knows and its still going on , but i didn'...
A. 16 May 2008: Why: Because he doesn't want to face the consequences of his actions. He's immature... has a lot of growing up to do... I used to be like him, always having some girl on the side, no matter how awesome my gf was. Some guys are just like that, and it ... (read in full...)
Should you lie about the best sex you've ever had?
Q. What if your husband/wife/gf/bf asks about the best sex you've ever had and it wasnt with them? Should you lie? Tell the truth? Change the subject? Does gender or marital status matter in this situation?...
A. 16 May 2008: If it were me... I would simply try to create an amazing sexual experience with the one I were with, so that the honest answer would be 'them'. I've had amazing sex with plenty of different partners, and whenever I was asked by a serious girlfriend ... (read in full...)
I lied to him, so now I'm coming clean. I know this time, I'll lose him for good. What can I do?
Q. Me and my bf have been together for almost two years. In the beginning it seemed as if we were perfect for each other; I could be myself around him, I let him be, and everything went great. From the beginning I knew he was jealous (asked me not to ...
A. 15 May 2008: You have entered a bad cycle- lying is something you should never start because once you've told that first little lie you've begun the gradual process of destroying your connection with your partner. Trust me, I have lied to plenty of gfs... they ... (read in full...)
My husband always drops me if he gets an offer to go out with his friends. Why wont he put me first?
Q. i went away for a few days to my parents with the baby.My husband went out every night and behaved liked a bachelor-no problem with that .we talked each day and he said he missed us so much.I came back early and he said he was spending the night ...
A. 15 May 2008: Men like hanging out with men, it's a fact that will always remain... we can talk about cars, video games, hot women, go see strippers, drink til we're blind, etc... just things that you cannot do with a wife. I mean, you couldn't turn to your wife ... (read in full...)
I keep finding naked pictures of his ex, what should I do?
Q. Last year, I accidentally found my boyfriend's porn on his external hard drive. In that collection, I found naked pictures of his ex-girlfriend after he told me that he didn't have them anymore. I got very angry and deleted all of them. When I ...
A. 15 May 2008: First of all, WastedLife... you sound really sad to me... honestly... "it's to remind himself that he was not a failure for all that time."??? Not all of us men have such pitifully low self esteem that we need "reminders" of not being a failure. I ... (read in full...)
Why did she reject me?
Q. why do girls still reject. My friend rejected me even though I treated her like a queen, she knows I'm crazy over her. I'm perfect in front of her, I've done everythin for her. I may not be person person but in front of her I've Neva annoyed her, ...
A. 15 May 2008: You're being too nice probably. Women say they want a nice guy but what they really want is something confident, independant, and a bit out of reach. Act more distant, don't be such a pushover, don't fall all over yourself trying to impress her. ... (read in full...)
I'm waiting to hear him tell me he loves me!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. We talked about the word 'love' early on, and we felt it was best not to use it so soon. As of now, I feel like it's been long enough. I want him to tell me that he loves me, but I don't think ...
A. 15 May 2008: Maybe he's just not ready for a "love" commitment. When I was your age (18-21, I assume he is close in age to you) I wasn't interested in a longterm "love" relationship, I just wanted a good time. If he's not saying he loves you then he probably ... (read in full...)
All we do is argue, but we can't seem to be able to let go!
Q. I have been dating my bf for about 3 years off and on now. We had an amazing relationship at first, but then things broke down. We always argue as least once a week and it gets bad. I feel all we do is argue these days. I cant seem to let go and ...
A. 15 May 2008: He's on drugs because he's that depressed in his relationship? Sounds like it's time to call it quits. What exactly are you fighting about? If he has emotional problems, you might want to be more patient and understanding with him. People who suffer ... (read in full...)
What do men feel when their penis enters a vagina?
Q. what do men feel when their penis enters a vagina? and what do they feel as a woman has orgasms? can they feel the spasms of the vagina? and a friend of mine had 5 kids, shes worried her vagina is not that tight any more as she cant feel all the ...
A. 15 May 2008: It feels warm, wet, tight... good... I can feel the woman orgasm, it's usually enough to send me over the edge, because the spasms grip the shaft so tightly.
I've never had sex with a mother, so I can't comment on that. I've had sex with a few virg... (read in full...)
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