Do guys still get excited when tiny breasts are revealed or would they rather us keep our tops on for sex so they can just use imagination?
Q. My breasts are so small, do guys still get excited when tiny breasts are revealed or would they rather us keep our tops on for sex so they can just use imagination? Once a boyfriend said to me when I was getting dressed "Come on turn round ...
A. 3 January 2009: I myself prefer small boobs (A or B cup is ideal for me, anything bigger is a turn off but it has never stopped me from sleeping with a girl anyway... just not that picky!). The myth that all men want from a woman is big boobs and a smile is just ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend treat me like this??
Q. Well where do I start... I'm nearly 19 and i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. When i first met him, i wasn't the one that was keen but the more time i spent with him the more i realised i was falling for him. He was so nice and caring the f...
A. 2 January 2009: Sounds like the relationship isn't happy for either of you anymore. It's normal for people to grow apart, because people change so much from the age of 16-19 (which is how long you've been together). Maybe as you get older you just aren't compatible ... (read in full...)
Should I let my wife be impregnated by my best friend?
Q. I'm totally in love with my girlfriend for about 5 years! I love her and I always have all these years! She is a really sexy girl! very fair skin and blue eyes! However, she is a very sexual driven girl but yet very conservative. She wants to have a ...
A. 29 December 2008: I'm pretty sure it's not your decision to make, it is between the two of them. Ask her and see if she wants to. Beware though, things will be very complicated afterwards... (read in full...)
She doesn't want to have sex/tatoo should I drop her?
Q. Hi can you help me out. My friends 8 of us have decided to go out on the town and have tatoo's done. Also we are all trying to get laid. However my best friend Susan is not coming and says we are all dim wits. Should i remain friends with her? ...
A. 28 December 2008: If you want to. ... (read in full...)
Is it a reason to cheat on someone because he/she is skinny?
Q. Well i never done this but i need to get this off of my chest. Ever since my ex cheated on me, i'm having difficulties with my self esteem. The thing is he cheated on me with a girl who has more curves then i do(probably size 10 or 12) and i'm a si...
A. 28 December 2008: He sounds very messed up. He knew you were skinny when you started dating, surely. I highly doubt he slept with another girl because you were too skinny, this is just a BS reason he gave you to add insult to injury. Presumably he knew you were ... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend have been talking about having a threesome.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been talking about having a threesome. neither one of us know where to start. Any suggestions on where we can we go and find a person (female) that will be willing to join our threesome? We live in Boston....
A. 25 December 2008: Ummm... Craigslist? AdultFriendFinder? Place an ad in the personals? Ask a friend? Go to a bar and meet someone? ... (read in full...)
What do I do I think I might be pregnant
Q. Hey I'm 15 years old and my bf is 19 and I have a missed peroid and I don't know what to do.I don't want to get my bf in trouble but if I am perog what advice can you give me?...
A. 25 December 2008: Take a pregnancy test. If it is positive make an appointment with a physician. Discuss your options with the physician. Decide what you want to do about the pregnancy on your own. Then do that. And if you choose to keep it or put it up for adoption, ... (read in full...)
I think he's hiding something!
Q. My b/f is traveling out of town for business next month. His class lasts a week so he offered to have me fly out on Thursday and stay with him for the rest of the week and week-end and then we would drive home together on Sunday. It would mean I ...
A. 25 December 2008: You're upset at the change of plans, which is fine, but don't get paranoid and start coming up with scenarios, you'll drive yourself nuts. My advice to you is to accept that, although it is less time than you wanted, it is still valuable time and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend didn't get me anything for christmas.
Q. My boyfriend didn't get me anything for christmas. It's very upsetting since I spent lots of money and thought out each present. I even took our kids out to pick him out something!!! I am sooo freaking upset and just want some feed back. He knows ...
A. 25 December 2008: Very insensitive of him but remember it's not over yet, he may have a few tricks up his sleeve.
I'm not sure what pvtguy means when he says "this is the mold us guys were made with: no gifts." Surely most men buy their girlfriends/wives Christma... (read in full...)
Can I be forgiven for drunkenly cheating on my girlfriend?
Q. I am a freshman in college and did not drink in high school. In my first semester I started drinking at parties and get-togethers but very rarely did I get drunk. As I became more accustomed to drinking, it didn't really bother me to start ...
A. 25 December 2008: I see what you're doing, you're trying to make it sound as if you did everything you could to prevent havings sex with this girl, so it seems like it was out of your control but I'm not buying it. You didn't have to go back to her house to take ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I have the strength to keep the baby...
Q. Split up with my husband almost a year ago after 16 years of marriage, met this guy who is 20 years senior and whom has a partner of 4 years. At the beginning it was nothing serious and I appreciated the attention I got from this very wrong ...
A. 14 November 2008: Go to a Planned Parenthood, or make an appointment with your family doctor, and discuss all of the medical, psychological and financial ins and outs of pregnancy at your age. You've already raised two children so you're pretty familiar with the ... (read in full...)
There is a picture of my boyfriend and his ex hugging, on a wall in his parent's home, where he llives. It bugs me, how do I bring it up?
Q. My boyfriend lives with his friends. In their house the is a wall that has all their pictures and stuff. One of the pictures has my boyfriend and his ex girlfriend in it, hugging each other. It is a group picture, my boyfriend didnt put that on ...
A. 31 October 2008: His willingness to take it down depends how new/serious his relationship with you is. The more serious he is about you the more willing he would be to take it down. Gauge for yourself where you stand.
As for how to bring it up... just say exactly ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex keeping popping into my head all the time when I don't want to be with him?
Q. Please help, I am in turmoil. I was with my ex-boyfriend on and off for 7 years. We got together when I was 17 and split up when I was 24. I ended our relationship because I had slept with someone else. I then immediately started a relationship with ...
A. 31 October 2008: You were together for seven years. It only ended seven months ago, and probably not on pleasant terms (well I can't imagine he was too pleased with it anyway). You were with him for your whole adult life up to this point, you grew up with him. Most ... (read in full...)
Has anyone been in this situation?
Q. I've been dating my partner for almost a year now, and after receiving an sms that I knew wasn't meant for me, I did something that I shouldn't have. I went through her phone. Unfortunately I found a large amount of sexual text msgs and 'I love you ...
A. 31 October 2008: I've been in your girlfriends shoes before, never yours. Cheating on a girlfriend, sending flirty messages back and forth. And of course when my girlfriend found out I told her she was reading too much into it, I was just having a laugh with a ... (read in full...)
My husband wants to make a sex tape!
Q. My husband (for 3 years) wants us to make a sex tape for his birthday (hes turning 28). We have no kids yet (we're still talking about it). I told him to dream on. I dont want to get out and then everyone will i'm a slut. He promise he'll get a safe ...
A. 31 October 2008: If you really feel it's wrong then you have to be true to yourself and do what feels right. Don't let him bully you into it, but do take some time to consider his point of view. Maybe they aren't as wrong as you think.
Sex tapes though are a lo... (read in full...)
Why do some people constantly disrespect others by trying to force their religeous beliefs on them
Q. This is no doubt going to be a controversial topic but here goes: I am an atheist and quite happy with my beliefs. However I quite happily respect and accept everyone else's beliefs nor do I ever disrespect anyone else's beliefs / religions etc by...
A. 30 October 2008: Fade- "And the whole rolling the eyes.
It's dismissive and okay for an Atheist to do it, but amazing how those same atheist jump on a Christian for rolling their eyes and walking away. I don't think it's fair or justifiable of a Atheist using a ... (read in full...)
Why do some people constantly disrespect others by trying to force their religeous beliefs on them
Q. This is no doubt going to be a controversial topic but here goes: I am an atheist and quite happy with my beliefs. However I quite happily respect and accept everyone else's beliefs nor do I ever disrespect anyone else's beliefs / religions etc by...
A. 30 October 2008: Many christians cannot comprehend atheism. Most of them truly believe that you do, deep deep down inside, believe in god and are fearful of 'his' wrath, or that you're just too afraid to admit that you believe in him, etc, etc. They can't conceive ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wouldn't support abortion if I was pregnant.
Q. Me and my bf were talking about what would happen if i got pregnant. I am 18 and only just started studying and am no way ready to have a baby. So i told him, im not ready for a child, as much as it would hurt i would have to get an abortion. H...
A. 28 October 2008: You are not being stupid at all, you are actually being really smart to consider this. Most couples get into sex BEFORE discussing the what-ifs of pregnancy- talking about this ahead of time (before the accident happens) can save you a lot of grief. ... (read in full...)
What is the differance between a man admiring beauty and lusting after a woman?
Q. I would like to ask everyone's opinion. What is the difference between a man looking at a woman and admiring her beauty, vs a man looking at a woman and lusting? ...
A. 28 October 2008: Admiring beauty is completely passive. It's the same way you would look at an object, like a painting, shoes, cars, etc.
It's the difference between looking at someone's car and thinking "that car is a nice colour" and "I really want to drive that... (read in full...)
am 22 and I have this thing for big asses.
Q. I am 22 and I have this thing for big asses.I just can't like a girl without a nice big ass no matter how i try i just cannot get aroused. Sometimes, I can like a girl just because of her ass and it has nothing to do wit her or how she looks.Does ...
A. 26 October 2008: I, um, share your preference, so I can relate... Sometimes you 're just turned on by what turns you on and you can't do much about it. It's not a character flaw, it's just the way people are.... (read in full...)
His porn watching is affecting our sex life in a detrimental way.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I love him very much and I know he loves me too but our sex life has always been dysfunctional and at times non existent. I am 21 and he is 43, he has some trouble maintaining an erection and ...
A. 23 October 2008: Sounds like he's dependent on porn. He can't function sexually without it. This doesn't bode well for your sexual future, unless he finds a way to branch out from it. It's all very well and good to use porn to start off sex every now and then, but ... (read in full...)
He fantisizes about me when we are apart. Does that mean he only wants me for the sex?
Q. hello, thanks for read my question, I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months, I think we have a nice relationship and strong feelings for each other. He has a very high sexual energy, so do I, the sex between us is great, sometimes we do it for ...
A. 23 October 2008: Most men fantasize about the one they love when they are apart . My thoughts drift to 'dirty' images of my girlfriend about once every 8-9 minutes. It's not because I only want her for sex... but it is because the sex with her is mind blowing, and ... (read in full...)
Does he disrespect me because I was a lap dancer?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together 6 months. Well before i met my boyfriend i was a lapdancer which he has always known from the start of our relationship. I made an innocent comment about dancing the other day, which led him to call me a slag, a ...
A. 21 October 2008: He's an asshole. Being a lapdancer doesn't make you a slag, it's just a way to earn a wage. The lapdancers I know hardly even view it as a sexual job, they give so many different men lapdances that it becomes a dull chore, and they just turn off ... (read in full...)
I had a one night stand while we were on a break, I told him after we got married and he is now furious!
Q. I had a one night-stand while my boyfriend and I were on a break. That continued on to a relationship that lasted a few months. I married my boyfriend after 3 years. I told him about the relationship but not one night-stand. We have now been married ...
A. 21 October 2008: I don't understand. You had a one night stand with a man, then had a relationship with the same man? And then told your husband about the relationship with the guy but left out the fact that you had a one night stand with him first? Am I just ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is bothered that I'm "beating" him in the career field. Is there anything I can do to support him?
Q. My boyfriend and I are in the same profession, and he's been having a bit of a tough time lately. He's someone whose self-image is closely connected to his academic and professional success, and for most of the time I've known him (we met in grad ...
A. 21 October 2008: Lord he sounds like a bit of a hard case to handle. He should be happy for you, rather than using your successes as background music for his pity party. You should not downplay your own happiness at your success for him, you should not feel guilty ... (read in full...)
He asked me to get breast implants, I refused, but now I can't let go of the worry this has caused me!
Q. My boyfriend asked me to get breast implants early in our relationship, and it tore me apart because I thought he already liked the way I looked. Why get together with someone if you're going to ask them to change? All of my boyfriends in the past...
A. 7 October 2008: "First off, don't worry about the porn. Just don't. Virtually all guys look at porn, and masturbate, and think about girls other than you. It doesn't mean they don't love you. It doesn't mean they're going to cheat on you. It's a harmless way to ... (read in full...)
How much do guys fantasize about other women when they're having sex with their girlfriends?
Q. How much do guys fantasize about other women when they're having sex with their girlfriends? I know I never think about other guys when I'm having sex with my boyfriend, but I'm curious about how it is for guys. I once asked my boyfriend, but he ...
A. 7 October 2008: I can't speak for any other man but if I'm really attracted to who I'm with, no other woman enters my mind. Not much enters my mind other than thoughts about what she looks like, how it feels etc. Otherwise my mind is pretty much blank and I'm just ... (read in full...)
Why can he get hard and finish to porn but not me?
Q. My husband has type 2 diabetes and cant get it up for me. He takes the pills to help with that and can sometimes get half way hard by that. But he has not been able to finish with me for about six months. My thing is he can get him self hard and ...
A. 4 October 2008: WiseOne is right, I think. He's conditioned himself so that he can only be completely aroused by (and satisfied by) pornography. Because you've been in this rut so long, he might also feel nervous about trying again with you which will make it even ... (read in full...)
Should my girlfriend be out naked running in the rain?
Q. Some days ago I talked to my girlfriend (it is a long-distance relationship), and she told me that earlier that day she and three friends got naked and ran out to shower in the rain. Two of them were boys. She said it was just something impulsive ...
A. 4 October 2008: Have you met or talked to her friends? I think before you over react you should consider their relationship. Chances are, they are like brothers to her and there are probably no sexual feelings between them. Running naked in the rain is pretty ... (read in full...)
He says he likes small perky boobs and mines are big... HELP!
Q. hi, I have had a boyfriend for five months now but he is always saying he likes small perky boobs and mines are big and there a bit not so perky. I need help, I am self conscious about them especially since he has has had a lot of girlfriends so ...
A. 4 October 2008: Tell him if he likes perky boobs, he should go after a chick with them, instead of constantly putting you down. It's not fair on you.
As for what guys prefer- most guys don't care much either way, boobs are boobs. But we do have preferen... (read in full...)
How can I prepare to live on my own without my husband?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 23 years. Last year he had an affair with a girl that he worked with. I was devestated when I found out. I never even had a clue that this was going on, was hit totally blindsided when I found out. We work...
A. 2 October 2008: The best thing you can do is reach out to friends and family for support. It will be difficult to move on but I think it's important that you do because apparently it doesn't matter to him how well things are between the two of you, he always wants ... (read in full...)
How do we find out what our secret fantasies are?
Q. My wife and I are both interested in exploring all of our sexual fantasies, we are both very kinky and uninhibited and want to go further. Is there any way for us to share our deepest darkest fantasies without the other knowing if we don't share the ...
A. 2 October 2008: You are married, you should be open to share fantasies with one another without fear of being judged. Have a few glasses of wine in bed, this will make it easier.... (read in full...)
What are the effects of cannabis use?
Q. can someone explain the effects of the drug weed to me please? is it seriously harmful if smoked daily? my boyfriends smokes it and has been doin for three years now, just abit concerened for his health. x please help thanks x...
A. 2 October 2008: It's no more harmful than cigarette smoking but is best done in moderation- If you smoke for say, 5 hours a day, every day, for an extended period of time you'll see ill effects to memory and perhaps even lung cancer (though this is debated). I've ... (read in full...)
My fiance wants to have a really expensive stag party in America. I don't like the idea. What actually happens at stag parties?
Q. I just want to know what both you male and females think about this. I am getting married in 2010, and me and my partner have been together for 3 years. He said to me the other day that his mate (who i dont really like because ever since i was intr...
A. 21 September 2008: Yikes, DiovanLestat, what kind of married men do you know?
I get so fed up of hearing this crap about men hating this and woman hating that and all this bullshit. I feel like everyone out there is basing their opinions of the sexes on cartoons... (read in full...)
We both always agreed that we never wanted kids. But now I'm pregnant and getting an abortion, he's changed his mind!? What is going on?
Q. I'm in a relationship with a great guy we've been together for over 2 years now and have had relatively few problems (well every couple has their share but nothing worth breaking up over!)... until now!! Now I have a very big problem! See, neither ...
A. 20 September 2008: I don't really think you're selfish or immature. You know what you want. Not everyone on this planet wants to have children, and it's a respectable decision in my view. I'm sure others will judge you for it, but everyone is on this planet to live ... (read in full...)
I'm bothered about all these pictures he has of another woman and some ex's, what should I do?
Q. This gonna be as concise as possible. I found six pictures of a woman in provocative dress (lingerie, bedsheet) in different poses in my boyfriend's email address. I confronted him about it and he got mad and said that he only asked for those be...
A. 16 September 2008: With the online LOTR woman- seems to be an emotional, perhaps sexually explicit, affair. It's not just porn, it's a woman he chats to. That's highly inappropriate.
The exes- masturbation material. It's relatively harmless assuming he doesn't ... (read in full...)
I told a little white lie and now he wont talk to me, please help.
Q. Last night my boyfriend got majorly pissed at me for telling him a white lie. Basically when he was driving home from work he called me and asked what I was doing, I told him that I was just straightening up the house, which I did earlier but righ...
A. 16 September 2008: I'm curious- is there more to this story? have you done things in the past that have caused him to be mistrusting? Or have other girlfriends of his? Because that is a huge, huge overreaction to the scenario you're presenting, so either this guy is ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for me, as a female, to enjoy watching porn?
Q. Hiya, I am just wondering if I am normal, or this situation is normal. Well, I have been in a relationship with my fiance for nearly three years and I have always looked at porn on the internet. He does not know this, nor will I tell him beca...
A. 14 September 2008: Just as many women as men like porn. It's normal, don't worry about it. As long as your sex life/bond with your boyfriend isn't compromised then there's no reason to worry about it. You should tell him, maybe you guys can recommend sites to one ... (read in full...)
I was masturbating and urine was mixed with cum....should I be worried??
Q. When i was masterbating earlier today, i reached orgasm and started cumming. This was normal however i also started urinating at the same time so it was both cum and urine. I thought that this was not meant to happen becasue your urine thing is cut ...
A. 14 September 2008: If you are worried you should see a doctor. ... (read in full...)
If his wife was taking care of him, he wouldn't have to lean on his female students. He isn't 'traditionally' attractive but should I flirt with him?
Q. A few months ago, I couldn't help but fall for my much older principal. Sure he isn't TRADITIONALLY attractive, but looks aren't everything. He has a big.....let's just call it a 'beaver'. I just know it. He also has a really cool voice, kind of ...
A. 14 September 2008: Um... what?
No you shouldn't flirt with him.
Good god.... (read in full...)
My older boyfriend is very controlling. I can't wear makeup, email guys, or leave the house... he thinks I'm looking for sex. Is the age gap just too much?
Q. I'm having an issue....I have been seeing this guy (we'll call him Randy) for a while now, and I'm starting to wonder if the age difference is going to take a toll on our relationship. He's 41 and I'm lets just say younger. Well, heres the problem, ...
A. 13 September 2008: This is the beginning of a very abusive situation, where no doubt eventually he will become physically violent towards you (if you break one of his rules). He's not mentally stable if he thinks these are reasonable limits to set on a person. Of ... (read in full...)
| *eplacement's friends
These are mutual friends, so *eplacement has
added them and they have added *eplacement!
|
