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Is he faithful and masturbating or cheating?

Q.   My boyfriend of six years has cheated on me once. He said it lasted for about a year, was purely physical, and ended around August last year. Last December I noticed he seemed distant, he was on his laptop a lot. I felt our relationship and ...

A.   8 April 2009: He will continue to cheat on you, he is cleaning up his act for awhile until everything is calmed down then he will go back to what he does best. It is part of his behavior, the thrill of not getting caught. Also, men that masturbate clea... (read in full...)

If he knew it was wrong, why did he cheat twice?

Q.   My husband cheated on me he says he is sorry and it will never happen again.When i asked him if you had never got caught would you still be going behind my back his reply was can,t really answer that but proberly.This is not the first time he has ...

A.   17 March 2009: I would suggest to go to counseling and discuss it and find out why he keeps cheating. Confront the issue and work from there. But my gut tells me that he will do it again, the relationship usually stops after about 3 months because they want no ... (read in full...)

Should I tell her I know that she's having an affair?

Q.   i know my wife is havingan affair with a man where she works, should i tell her that i know?...

A.   23 November 2008: If you want your marriage to really work you need to bring everything out in the open. Let her know everything and see what she wants. If she wants to make the marriage work. You need to work from that point, what made her want to cheat, was she ... (read in full...)

He's the best thing that has happened to me in a long time but he's married, what should I do?

Q.   hi, i've been seeing a married man, we've known each other for 16 years, but we started talking again 6 months ago and hit it off straight away, we fancied each other all those years ago but never acted on it, until now. We've spoken about how thin...

A.   23 November 2008: Get out and run, this man wants his cake and eat it to. Every year will be another excuse why things cannot change. Trust me if you do not want to be in a situation you would not be. I had a friend that cheated on her first husband a lot. ... (read in full...)

He cut contact with me and our son because his wife has discovered our affair! What do you think?

Q.   Over a year ago i got in contact with someone from my past. His marriage was very unhappy and he was there for his children as they meant everything to him.He stopped loving his wife and his marriage had been on the rocks for a couple of years ...

A.   23 November 2008: Being the othe women is hard position to be in. I do believe if he really loved you he would be with you. Being in a loveless marriage is more damage to the children than being separated. Ten years from know when his children are grown and away ... (read in full...)

He has been a cheater all his life, do you think he will ever change and finally become a faithful loving husband?

Q.   I have a friend who has been a cheater for most of his life. He played a game with two women for about 6 years. The one women he had for about 8 years (she was married), after 2 years he picked up another women, he could keep them separate due to ...

A.   23 November 2008: Teacake, Thank you for your advice, I try really hard to keep my friend (divorce women) active and away. The man in question is trying really hard and and staying faithful, he always claimed to be a very spiritual and is going back to his spir... (read in full...)

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