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writes:I like this guy aloti know him from online and we text each other we've been talking for about 2 and half years.We have cyber sex and text sex all the time but i have feelings for him, and i told him this about a year ago and he didnt seem to care but when he was drunk he told me that 'i was the only girl for me and he wasnt going to stop until he gets me' but i think his feelings have changed.He lives an hour and half away from me and we talk about meeting up for sex, he says things like 'i want to make you my s*ut' Does this guy have any respect for me or is he going to sleep with me then never speak to me again?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 September 2008):
When he was drunk he was horny and was telling you whatever he could think of to get into your pants.
This is only ever going to be about sex for him.
Even if you do it and he speaks to you afterwards it's just going to be about what he wants to do to you next time.
If you have feelings for him then don't do this. He wants a girl who can have casual sex with him and no strings attached. If you've been having all this cyber sex then he's going to assume you just want sex too.
He's not a bad guy, he just only wants you for sex, and if you start wanting more he is going to run away.
Don't meet him. Tell him it's been fun but you'll get hurt if you go any further, then cut contact.
Find a guy who makes you feel sexy without having to tell you that you are a slut.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (2 September 2008):
 He told you he wants to make you yours slut and that wanted to meet with you ONLY for sex.... and youstill ask if he has any respect for you?
Are you seriously that gullible?
Well, the logical answer is that he will only use you for sex. I've NEVER met a man who loves/likes a woman that will call her a slut/whore or insult her in any way. In fact, those men try their best to respect those women in any possible way.
But I really don't understand why living SO close you hadn' hanged out or anything before. He lives an hour away, SO WHAT?! There are friends who live 1-2-3 hours away and still meet up. There are couples who live 1,2,3 hours away and still meet up (I'm one of those, my boyfriend lives 3 hours away, Texas style). So I don't see any logic why you two wouldn't meet up to chat or hang out. I mean, you two must have cars, right?
So if by now you haven't come to the conclusion, I'll just tell you what I think this guy must be: An online depredator.
I understand you may like him a lot. I understand you want to meet him and be his girlfriend. But this guy sounds SUSPICIOUS AND DANGEROUS. So, if you don't want your heart broken for being used up, then don't meet up with him. It'sounds like such a terrible idea to me.
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