I'm scared I could ruin our friendship, should I go for it or hide until my feelings have gone?
Q. So i like my best friend. HE is a guy. We've been friends for a while too. he sits with me and my other friends at lunch, we sit by each other in classes, we switch hoodies(i have a guy one), and we talk all the time. but now i like him but i dont ...
A. 16 February 2010: Flirt with him and see how he reacts. Recruit the help of some of your girl friends and see what they say.
good luck
xx... (read in full...)
What sort of weight do guys like for a girl?
Q. Okay, i just want to know what weight guys like. im 5'2 and around 109lb.. is that fat to you guys? i mean i have curves and crap and i feel fat around my friends cause the havnt hit puberty yet and their like 75-95lb.. does it make me fat? i mean i ...
A. 16 February 2010: Don't worry about you weight. It has taken me years to have this epiphany but I was looking around at all my friends and who they liked and who they were with and I realized, weight and looks really don't matter all that much. Inner beauty really ... (read in full...)
Teenage confusion over 3 guys.....
Q. Heeey everyone , soo , i kinda like this one guy , and i dont think he has any idea that i do , usually he gets the girls he wants , so because he hasnt hit on me , does that mean he has no interest on me ?? should i "chase" him ? do some guys like ...
A. 16 February 2010: 1st question: I'd say, just flirt with him a bit, don't come on too strong, just be nice, flirty and hint at the fact that you like him. People can start liking others if the idea gets put in their mind.
2nd question: A bit tricky, he could mi... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend I am too young to have a baby?
Q. my boyfriends want to have a baby but im only 14 and his 13 we dont even live in the same town, i want to have his baby but not this early. i need help what should i do...
A. 16 February 2010: you just have to sit him down and tell him. At your age you shouldn't even be having sex.
Tell him the truth, a baby is too big a deal for you to be handling it.
And anyway, take it from someone who grew up without much of a dad, a child really n... (read in full...)
She wants to kick things up a notch and have sex!
Q. ok new problem i have been seen this girl for a while now and its going great. she want to kick things up a notch as she want to have sex. we have done some of the other stuff like kissing and feeling each other but that was about it. i have been ...
A. 9 February 2010: Risks of STIs and pregnancy can be stopped with condoms and although the pill only stops pregnancy and not infections, I'd recommend you use both.
If you aren't 100% sure that you're ready to have sex, then don't.
You are still very very young an... (read in full...)
Is it okay for my teacher to hug me?
Q. hellooo so i have this HOT teacher, i literally love the man, (well i have a crush) and the other day, i had a massive fall out with my mate which resulted in me crying. i was walking down the empty corridor like this, and this teacher saw me a...
A. 2 February 2010: he obviously likes you as a student which is good but it doesn't mean that he likes you anymore than that.
enjoy your crush as long as you know that it won't lead anywhere.
xx... (read in full...)
I love a girl but I can't tell her
Q. I love one girl. But I can't tell her. What Shall I Do? I am 15 years old. Am i aged for dating? What Does Dating mean...
A. 17 January 2010: yes you are old enough to date. why can't you tell her? dating means that you ask someone who you find attractive to go out with you. Most people your age would go to the cinema and get something to eat in a casual place like mcdonalds. You g... (read in full...)
We broke up as he preferred video games, he has a new girlfriend but says he still has feelings for me
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend (he's a friend of my brother) 6 months ago. Our relationship was great but he got to the point where he had started avoiding me and was always playing computer games. I didn't want too break up, I was in love with him ...
A. 17 January 2010: I wouldn't look at this guy twice, he had his chance and he blew it, your relationship with him didn't sound great so it's time for you to forget him and move on to bigger and better things. good luck xx... (read in full...)
I want to give my new boyfriend head...
Q. so i want to give my new boyfriend head. we`ve been together 3 months and we have started to get sexual. ive done it before to my ex and the ex before that and they always said it was really good. but the problem is... they were both ...
A. 17 January 2010: Try your best, you could become more adept to it after some practice. You probably already know this, but using your hands and lots of lube can make it feel like your mouth. If he loves you he should be able to accept whatever you can offer and will ... (read in full...)
I don't know... Does love exist?
Q. Hello =). In this summer vacation i met this girl, she was everything i dream about, she was so beautiful and at the same time she was smart and sweet and had a great personality, wow she has been the best girl i met. You know, when i ask her out ...
A. 17 January 2010: yes, of course love exists. Whether it is requited or not, you will fall in love and you will fall in love with someone who loves you too at some point. Don't worry about stuff like this, when things fall apart with someone who you really liked, it ... (read in full...)
How do you put yourself in someone else's shoes to see their point of view?
Q. So this is basically a short, right to the point question, how do you "put yourself" in someone else's shoes to see their point of view? And how do you figure out if its you or them with the problem? Ive noticed many relationships of all kinds end...
A. 12 January 2010: The best way to see someone else's point of view is to imagine really hard everything that they are going through. Although this can be difficult especially if you don't know absolutely everything going on with them and their way of thinking.
g... (read in full...)
I have a bit more skin than I think I should down there...
Q. Sorry if this is a bit of a weird question but im slightly worried. Is a little bit of excess skin "down below" normal? I know porn stars etc have surgery down there so it looks perfect. but on me, (excuse the going into detail) inbewtween the flaps ...
A. 10 January 2010: Yes, a lot of girls have it.
Your boyfriend is right, it is totally normal.
Don't worry about it, the most you can do is learn to accept it. If it bothers you that much then try to avoid looking at it.
It's not in a place that you have to see ... (read in full...)
I have a bucket list about sex
Q. so i'm young. but ive already done stuff, witch was a mistake i got caught up in the moment. and i really regretted it. but now i have this "bucket" list all these things i would like to do before i graduate high school. abd there are a few sexual ...
A. 8 January 2010: You shouldn't have sex unless it is with someone you love and even then you have to wait until you are ready. You shouldn't have a deadline for sex, it's one of those things that will happen and if you wait until you're maturer it will be better. D... (read in full...)
Is sex 3-4 times a week healthy and normal?
Q. Hi Just looking for feedback from people living with their partners. Ive been with my partner for 18 months now, its a distance relationship so we only see each other weekends. At weekends we have sex 3 or 4 times over the fri night, sat and s...
A. 8 January 2010: Every couple is different and if you're in a relationship where you only do it every other day, then that's fine, it's normal to only do it 3 or 4 times.
Don't force sex, it's one of those things that comes quite naturally so just do whatever feel... (read in full...)
Why do I get bored in relationships so quickly?
Q. every time i get into a relationship with someone after a while i get sick of them i cant stand it and want to dump them this has happened to me many times its like i only like the chase but once im in a relationship i don't want to be anymore. i ...
A. 8 January 2010: It's happening because you're young and it happens to young people in particular and it is totally normal. Once you find someone you really and truly love, you'll be able to put up with them.
Maybe don't go into relationships too quickly, if you ... (read in full...)
How can I get my 7 year old to stay in bed and sleep???
Q. Hi i know this is a site about relationships, and this problem is about my relationship with my 7 year old daughter in a round about way. I'm at the end of my tether with her at bed time, for the first few years she went to bed with no trouble, but ...
A. 7 January 2010: i disagree with the people who seem to be going straight to the possibility that she may have problems. Although it's best not to write this theory off, just in case, I used to be like this when I was seven and I have babysitted for children who are ... (read in full...)
How can I get my 7 year old to stay in bed and sleep???
Q. Hi i know this is a site about relationships, and this problem is about my relationship with my 7 year old daughter in a round about way. I'm at the end of my tether with her at bed time, for the first few years she went to bed with no trouble, but ...
A. 6 January 2010: Make it really boring to be up. If she gets out of bed, let her sit with you in the living room with the television off and just do your own thing, eg read. Have some dim the lighting in your room, if you only have a main light with no dimmer, ... (read in full...)
He's 2 years older than me and wants to have sex with me, what should I do?
Q. what do i do ??? i was out at this club this lad came over two me and asked me to get with him so i did then he took he to this sofa i sat on his knee and he went to finger me i didnt want him 2 do but i let him he asked for my number so i did ...
A. 6 January 2010: if you don't want to have sex with him, then don't.
Wait for the right guy and you'll be glad you did when the time comes.
Just stay away from him.
xx... (read in full...)
I cheated on my ex as a teenager, and now my current boyfriend cant let it go and says he wont ever be able to trust me!
Q. Hi, well I'm with a guy at the moment and everything is amazing, apart from one thing, before I was with this guy I had a bf who I cheated on whilst drunk, the guy I cheated with was a total nutjob stalker type. It was complicated at the time, ...
A. 6 January 2010: Try not to bring it up if he just calls you names.
Make sure that he knows you feel guilty about cheating and that you know it's wrong.
Gain his trust by taking this relationship slowly, give him time and space.
Prove that you want to be with him ... (read in full...)
What can we do instead of oral?
Q. i'm currently in a relationship but neither of us are into oral. so i was wondering what other stuff could we do instead?...
A. 6 January 2010: First of all, if you are really only 13-15, I wouldn't advise you to get too into sex stuff yet because it is a much bigger deal then you might think. But I know that I can't actually stop you so you might as well make it as good as possible.
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Why would guys behave like that?
Q. Ok, to keep a long story short, i’m from a small college and this guy and I are from the same faculty, though different majors. He’s supposedly from popular clubs in school and has a healthy social life from what i see on facebook - clubbing, ...
A. 6 January 2010: he might fancy you but may not want you to know, hence ignoring you.
You can't judge things like a social life form facebook only, a lot of people who use social networking sites make their page seem like they are more popular then they actu... (read in full...)
Do I have to be scared that I might be pregnant?
Q. Ok my period was on the 26 and I got through on the 30 but I had unprotected sex "I know dumb move " on the 31st at 11 55 pm " my question do I have to worry about being pregnant? Yes no plz explain CAZ im scared!!!!...
A. 1 January 2010: no, don't worry. if you stress to much then you could miss a period and then believe that you are pregnant. Leave it for a few weeks, if you still think that you may be pregnant, just take a test.
If you're not then you're not, if you are then you ... (read in full...)
Do girls like it when a guy gels his hair?
Q. I have a odd question, In general do girls like it better if guys gel their hair,or if they just wear it naturally? guys who gel their hair it may look neater but at the same time im not sure if girls think its a turn off because a guy spends som...
A. 19 December 2009: depends on the girl, I don't know about where you're from, but where I live, it's a bit of a class thing. The working class all gel their hair and and the middle and upper classes don't. I think it's more of a personal thing, if one person likes it ... (read in full...)
Am I falling out of love with the only guy I've ever loved?
Q. The guy I have been crazy in love with for the past 7 months is slowly drifting out of my mind. He is everything that I have ever wanted but for some reason my feelings are getting all screwed up. When me and him first started dating I was the one ...
A. 19 December 2009: This sort of thing happens all the time.
You will fall in and out of love for years and if you don't love him then you're just stringing him along whereas you should really let him know where he stands.
It is a hard thing to do to break up with ... (read in full...)
What's the nicest way to reject an Aspergers guy?
Q. I have recently found out that a fella from my school is in love with me , and he thinks that i have feelings for him back, due to a misunderstanding ( me stairing into the distance; the distance being in the same direction as him). I haven't ...
A. 19 December 2009: If he tries to tell you how he feels, just let him down gently but make sure that he knows that you are definitely not interested.
good luck
xx... (read in full...)
Is it normal to not want a boyfriend?
Q. Is it normal not to want a bf? Or to even not be attracted to guys? I feel it not normal coz it does feel weird not to like guys...
A. 19 December 2009: what do you mean?
are you attracted to women?
If you just aren't attracted to anyone then it is one of two things
1) You simply haven't found anyone that you like enough to be attracted to, you might be a little picky, but that isn't a bad thing.... (read in full...)
I told a guy I liked him, but he only said "okay"
Q. I have liked a guy at my school since this summer (he is smart and nerdy and funny and perverted and weird and philosophical). I had a budding friendship with him and suddenly found myself ridiculously attracted to him. We spent the whole first ...
A. 19 December 2009: He probably loves his girlfriend, not you and just didn't really know what to say when you said that you liked him. good luck in finding someone who gives you the unconditional love which you deserve. xx... (read in full...)
He says he isnt interested in me so how come he keeps hugging me
Q. OK so there is a guys that i just met at the beginning of the school year and i thought he was really weird but then after i broke up with my boyfriend of the time the guy started to get a little closer to me and i started to like him, after a while ...
A. 19 December 2009: Hugs can just be between friends, I think he really likes you but just as a friend. good luck xx... (read in full...)
My step daughter is flirting with me, making me all hot and bothered
Q. I am 47 years old and after being divorced for almost ten years I remarried a women who has a 18 year old daughter. She is college now but when she comes home she flirts with me. My sex life with my wife has become almost non exsistant and she ...
A. 19 December 2009: tell your wife, you are only the step father and may not be as authoritative to her as her mother, if she doesn't stop then you should tell her not to do things like show you her breasts because you are not interested (I know you said you're a bit ... (read in full...)
I have never been sober when I've kissed
Q. Hey, well I still have the whole intimacy problem. Iam with this dude for 2 months now and I've never kissed him sober. Actually I never kissed anyone sober. I dont know what my problem is and I cant get over it. Am I the only person with this ...
A. 18 December 2009: no you are not the only person with this problem, I know quite a few people like this. It is just a matter of finding someone you are comfortable with. Cut down on the drink to lead up to a fully sober kiss, eg if you usually drink three cans of ... (read in full...)
We broke up 3 months ago and he still isn't ready to be friends
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago--- why isnt he ready to be friends..? im reallly in love with him still. and im over the whole boyfriend-girlfriend thing but i really wana be friends with him and he wont let me in.. he says it hurts too ...
A. 18 December 2009: some people take break ups badly, he may have been madly in love with you and not want to break up, it could have been a shock to him, you might not have liked him as much as he liked you so you have no idea what he's going through. It can take age... (read in full...)
I often dream of sex with siblings!
Q. Okay, so I in no way have any type of physical or sexual attraction to any of my siblings, but I have at some point in the last two years dreamed about having sex with almost every single one of my siblings. Why is this? ...
A. 17 December 2009: you shouldn't fret. Your dreams are probably just exploring sexual things, you're not allowed do things with your siblings and your subconscious is probably just wondering what it would be like. This is no way means that you have a desire to be with ... (read in full...)
First Kiss - Help!!
Q. I really liked a boy and he asked me out and for some reason I said no but he asked me again and I said yes. We've only been going out for a week but I feel pressured to kiss him, I want to and so does he but he is willing to take things at my pace. ...
A. 16 December 2009: the most you can do is just look up how to kiss on the internet but the first time you kiss someone is often not that great, however it does come naturally. Just relax and you'll be fine. Since he's never kissed anyone before he'll probobly just be ... (read in full...)
My friend has my jacket, she said she didn't, but then she wore it, what should I do?
Q. Why did she wear it? So my ex best friend has my jacket and I asked for it back a long time ago (we haven't been friends for 7 months on the 13th) and she said that she didn't have it, but she wore it to school today and for the past two weeks sh...
A. 14 December 2009: Talk to her about it, it is the only way, but if you really value your friendship, you won't stop being friends with her over a jacket, a lot of people just take their stuff back while visiting.
good luck
xx... (read in full...)
My dad doesn't want me dating black guys
Q. My dad doesn't want me dating black guys. Which I think is terrible, but there's nothing I can do to change it. I just started going out with this back guy (I'm white), and I'm afraid of how my dad might react.. it's not that he's racist, he ...
A. 13 December 2009: Your dad can't stop who you go out with. Is he really not rasicit or is he one of those people who doesn't like black people except for the ones that he knows, because that is still rasicit but it would mean that he can make friends with this guy.
g... (read in full...)
Why has she started ignoring me when it was going so well?
Q. right, so i've been going out with this girl for three weeks and we get on really well. we seem to be getting closer every time we see each other, we always hold hands and have kissed a couple of times. we went out last wednesday night and it was ...
A. 13 December 2009: This is anyone's guess, maybe she's met someone else, maybe she didn't think it was going as well as you did. Who knows?
If she's lost interest, then you'd just be wasting time trying to pursue her. Ask her if you have a chance what the story is, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got another girl pregnant but when I confront him he's denying it!!!
Q. I recently found out my boyfriend has another girlfriend that's pregnant and he told me its not what i think. I really like him, and im like falling apart without him. He called me the other day becuase he didnt know i knew about it. Then aft...
A. 13 December 2009: Dump him, he's a lier and a cheater and he's not worth it.... (read in full...)
How can I make my cup runneth over?
Q. 24 F i want to increase my cupsize presently it should be 30 now i need it 36 how it can be possible pls sugest....
A. 13 December 2009: the only way to get bigger breasts is to gain weight or get plastic surgery. You have what your genes gave you and there isn't anything you can do to make just your breasts grow.... (read in full...)
Should I bring this very dodgy subject up with my boyfriend?
Q. I was hanging out with my boyfriend the other day and he was all going through my phone (of course i didnt have anything to hide) but anyways, then he kept trying to take pictures of me and i was being dumb and like shy so then he had to get the ...
A. 10 December 2009: I agree with caring guy, if you bring this up and find out that he wasn't actually doing anything, he may become quite angry at you for snooping and may loose trust in you.
good luck... (read in full...)
My teacher told me he loves me too much to have a relationship with me.
Q. Hi. My teacher told me that he loves me too much to do anything about it. I'm 14 and he is 30. He has taught me for the past 2 years. It started just basic flirting really, he stares and smiles at me, touches my shoulders, hands etc. He asks my ...
A. 10 December 2009: What I'm about to say is something that you won't be able to properly understand until you're much older. He is a very strange and creepy man if he is 30 and likes someone who is 14. When you're 18, look at the 13 year old boys and ask yourself... (read in full...)
My ice cream craving!!!
Q. Why do I have a craving of ice-cream so much? I have a bowl to the rim every day and that's not enough for me? Is this normal?...
A. 10 December 2009: It's probably just a habit, if you went for at least a month without ice cream, you'd probably stop craving it.... (read in full...)
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