Will he just keep making remarks like that?
Q. im 14 and me and my bf are in year 10 and the satme set but the other day in spanish he was sitting with his mates and i was sittin with my mate on the other side of the room and he made a comment about my weight im not fat i juss have an eatin di...
A. 22 December 2010: You have to let him know that he can't make comments like that. Even as a joke. Because you're both still quite young, it's understandable that stupid and hurtful things may be said, so give him a second chance because you're both still learning ... (read in full...)
Are girls hypocrites???
Q. Why do women/girls criticize guys when they are just as bad as us? For example: "Guys only care about looks" "all guys are dogs" etc....
A. 18 December 2010: They don't see it like that. A lot of guys are the same, they see flaws in girls but none in them selves.
Not every person is the way they are stereotyped to be. Not all girls are bitchy, obsessed with their looks and love the colour pink. In the ... (read in full...)
Help!! I'm getting feelings coming back for my ex!
Q. Hi, My ex and I broke up a year ago (I was the one who broke it off) and we've slowly but surely developed a friendship since. Last week he and I had dinner... long story short, he ended up kissing me and I kissed him back. A whole slew of fe...
A. 18 December 2010: If he's not meeting up with you then stop talking to him as much.
He might have just kissed you because for a moment old feelings came back, but he doesn't really want a relationship.
Try to forget about him in that way, be friends if you want, bu... (read in full...)
First kiss under the mistletoe: Good idea?
Q. I was wondering if a good way to have your first kiss would be under mistletoe? I'm going to this Christmas party on Tuesday and my crush (who is also my best friend) is going. It's a mutual friend's party and she said that there will definite...
A. 18 December 2010: If you're brave enough, then go for it.
Have fun :)
xx... (read in full...)
Our friends are pressuring us into getting our first boyfriend/girlfriend
Q. I've never had a boyfriend and all my friends are pressuring me and one other person because we are the last two in our friendship group not to have gone out with anyone. I'm a girl and he's a guy but we aren't attracted to each other so we can't so...
A. 18 December 2010: Say to them that you are totally happy being single and whenever they say anything to you, try to brush them off by rolling your eyes and just ignore them.
I'd advise you not to flirt with anyone unless you want to, and when you like someone, a lot ... (read in full...)
Am I in love with him? Do I actually like him?
Q. Okay, my best friend and I have been friends since the first grade. We were always hanging out, we were even on the same swim team for five years. I've known him my entire life! When we got into middle school, things got even more complicated. For ...
A. 16 December 2010: No one can answer that question apart from you. Just think to yourself, how do you feel when he's around? Do you ever want to kiss him, or want to just lie there with him, all cuddled up?
Usually, when you get with someone, it's something that just... (read in full...)
Dilemma about prom dresses!
Q. omg!! im going to be going to prom really soon!! yay i've been waiting like all my life for this!! :)) and me and my besties have most of it plained out since were 13 or whtever.. we are getting ready together.. geting are makeup and hair done tog...
A. 15 December 2010: It is almost impossible to tell over the internet what would suit you. The best advice I can give is that you go out and try lots of different dresses on and see which one looks the best.
With your skin tone, I think a cream dress might look very... (read in full...)
Sealing our commitment.
Q. hi it has been a long time since i been on this site and would like to do some follow up on my relationship, since my last time here on this site things has change for the better. my boyfriend and i are doing very well and we are happy, since the ...
A. 15 December 2010: What are the things that get in the way? If there emotional things then you need to have a proper discussion about them with your boyfriend.
As for your family and friends, if you feel uncomfortable with them always asking you when it is, then just... (read in full...)
Broken-hearted girl!
Q. heey i am a 14 year old girl who has been split up from her ex boyfriend for about 8 months now i was with him for about 8 months and i just cant get over him he treats me like crap all the time says he loves me then says he dont then has a go at me ...
A. 14 December 2010: Just ignore him, don't let it get to you and forget about him. Don't let yourself get down over anything because of him. You can do so much better and when he realises that you have moved on completely, he should stop.
good luck
xx... (read in full...)
I think my GF and best friend are secretly dating!
Q. hello, i think my GF and my best friend are scretly dating behind my back, ive been with her a year and my GF and my best friend were going out with each other before, they allways make jokes about them having sex blah blah blah and say im paranoid, ...
A. 14 December 2010: Talk to your girlfriend and friend about how you feel. Don't accuse either of them of anything, but ask. You can work out your problems by talking about them. But if your heart is breaking and after talking to them you still think that there might ... (read in full...)
Broken-hearted girl!
Q. heey i am a 14 year old girl who has been split up from her ex boyfriend for about 8 months now i was with him for about 8 months and i just cant get over him he treats me like crap all the time says he loves me then says he dont then has a go at me ...
A. 14 December 2010: Are you saying that you've been broken up with him for ages now but he still leads you on and toys with your emotions or that he used to do that?
If he isn't putting any effort into your relationship then stop trying to contact him.
If I were you... (read in full...)
He asked me out, I said no, I've been regretting it ever since!
Q. Okay so here it is. I used to sit next to this guy in class and we got along really well. Long story short we both liked eachother and he asked me out. But i said no because i was scared. He still doesn't know that i actually liked him. That was ...
A. 12 December 2010: Why don't you ask your friend if she'd mind you going out with him?
If she gave you her blessing then you should go for it, he might even like you more because you said no to him before and to him it'll seem like it's taken teo years before you star... (read in full...)
Should I lighten my skin?
Q. I dont like my skin colour. I'm not too dark but i'm not too bright either. How do I lighten my skin? And the real question is.....SHOULD I? Is it a bad thing if I want to?...
A. 12 December 2010: I wouldn't if I were you. If your living in Ireland (as your nationality says you are) then most people would be jealous of you and hate their pale Irish skin. Believe me, one of my friends is 1/4 black and quite dark skinned where as the rest of us ... (read in full...)
Crushing on teacher but concerned about his family
Q. I have a crush on my teacher I dont want to ruin his life with his wife and daughters. everytime i see him i want to tell him my feelings. how do i get ride of these feelings for him? do i move classes? please help and give sugjestions....
A. 12 December 2010: Fancying a teacher is a very normal part of growing up, but you should not act on it. Don't tell him how you feel, it could just make things awkward between the two of you. The feelings should just go away naturally, try to look at guys your own age ... (read in full...)
He claimed he was going to tell his girlfriend about me, yet I have not heard from him!
Q. ok so I met this guy about six months ago and we really liked each other so we started hangin out n getting to kno each other but after a couple weeks i started to notice that alot of times he wasnt answerin my calls or texts but i let it go i didnt ...
A. 7 December 2010: You knew that he had a gf and you still slept with him. He cheated on his girlfriend, what makes you think he'd be different with you?
Liking someone makes people stupid, I know, but you have to keep your senses as much as possible.
He used you... (read in full...)
I don't have the courage to talk to her
Q. i have a class mate and i love her very much..........i just can't face her and do not have the courage to talk to her..............but as usual she is just a friend..........so plz help me how should i get ger number and propose her................
A. 7 December 2010: Find out what kind of stuff she likes and talk to her about that. Be brave, act confident. If you're feeling particularly confident after a bit, flirt with her and just casually ask for her number. Then you can text her. Just be yourself and see how ... (read in full...)
How do I possibly get over these wrong feelings I have?
Q. I am a young guy that is happy with my girl friend, but I need to get over my crush, which is her brother. I know it is bad, trust me I know, but I have strong feelings for him. Some days I am fine, but some days I hate myself that I feel these ...
A. 7 December 2010: Well, I'm going to lie. It does sound like you could be bisexual. Only you're still quite young, and at your age it is completely normal to explore your sexuality to see what you like.
It's not "wrong" to have these feelings, you can't help who you ... (read in full...)
I want to date a girl out of my culture and race but don't know how to do it
Q. I am having a strange problem with girls. I have been brought up in asian background but i was always fascinated by white girls. To the extent that i don't like any asian girls and try to avoid them. I always dream of having sex with a white girl ...
A. 6 December 2010: You could try just having asian friends and maybe you'll like them. But it's not like you chose who you're attracted to, I mean, loads of people struggle with being gay, it's not like this is much different. All I would say is that love is different ... (read in full...)
Why is he making out with me when he has a girlfriend?
Q. what does all of this mean? so there is this dude at my school who will hug me every time he sees me- no lie. and hes the one who started it. anyways, the other day we were standing outside for carriders, it was cold, and he sees me comes over and...
A. 6 December 2010: Stay away from him. He is all but cheating with you and obviously not respecting his girlfriend in any way. How do you think she would feel if she knew he was doing this?
If he can't prove himself to be faithful to her then he isn't worth your time... (read in full...)
I want to forget about him and move on, but I can't!
Q. It's only a few months before everyone goes away to college, and I feel like if I don't do something now that this guy will be out of my life forever. We were friends, but my stupid social anxiety and awkwardness is getting in the way of me talking ...
A. 5 December 2010: Try to hang out in a group of people. If there are any parties that you're whole year have been to then you can talk about the crazy stuff that happened, or talk about a teacher. Anything small to get a conversation started.
Just bite the bull... (read in full...)
18 and never been kissed
Q. I'm 18 and i've never had a boyfriend, never had my first kiss or anything. I'm off to Uni next year and am hoping to finally meet someone. Do you think guys will think my total lack of experience is weird? ...
A. 4 December 2010: It's grand. My friend is 18 and she only had her first kiss about a month ago. I had mine when I was 16, another friend when she was 12, and I know a 19 year old who has never been kissed. It just happens at different times for everyone. I've never ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity? I hear so many horror stories.
Q. Hi, i have a questions regarding the loss of my virginity. My Girlfriend of 9 months has asked if we can have sex, she knows i have always wanted to since we first started going out, now the oppertunity is here i dont know if there is any reason why ...
A. 4 December 2010: No. Firstly because, if you were ready, you wouldn't be posting this question.
I'm not going to say it's against the law as a reason like tenisstar88 did, because I know that doesn't stop anyone, but your girlfriend may not be ready. Sex is a much... (read in full...)
Lately it feels like my boyfriend doesn't want to spend time with me.
Q. Lately it feels like my boyfriend doesn't want to spend time with me. i haven't seen him in a while and we had made plans and he says hes going out instead of being with me. when we haven't seen each other in awhile. am i tripping or is there ...
A. 4 December 2010: It might just be that he feels comfortable enough to not spend all the time with you, but I'd ask him if I were you, see if he still wants to be with you. If he wants to break up with you, keep your chin up and keep your pride, but if he does in ... (read in full...)
We have a child together, he is interested in someone else, will he ever come back?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 4yrs. we have an 8mos yr old daughter together. We have had our share of arguements and fights and the past yr has not been the greatest. Most of it was because I was pregnant and emotional. He ended things with ...
A. 3 December 2010: Are any of you behaving like responsible adults? Did you both want a child? Even if you didn't, you now have a child and both of you parents have to act responsibly to bring her up. You may not have a future together, but you need to be parents - ... (read in full...)
Falling for someone I've never met
Q. This probably sounds very lame and I agree with you, it is. But I can't help it. I think I am starting to like-a lot- someone*wait for it* online. I don't know hwy or even how. Well I have a blog and even though I am a 16 year old it isn't full of ...
A. 3 December 2010: I'd warn you about the dangers of meeting someone from the internet in person, but you probably already know all that. Bring a friend just to be on the safe side, but there isn't anything crazy about wanting to meet him. Sure, my uncle met my aunt ... (read in full...)
Parents want to dis-own me because of my older man
Q. i am dating this 21 year old man. we have been together for about 8 months but it was in secret any ways most people know i am seeing him but there was a point when people called me a liar etc. my parents said that they will disown me if i cont...
A. 3 December 2010: You can't always please your parents. Fact.
But if you grades haven't dropped, even in those little class tests that don't mean much, then I don't see how they could say anything to you.
I don't think it's fair to ask you to break up with someone,... (read in full...)
Questions about fooling around.....
Q. [Mod Note: 2 questions from the same poster merged into one] Question 1: hey when me and my boyfriend are messing around and he puts his hand down my pants, i dont know whether i should put him down his? and i dont know whens the right time too, and...
A. 2 December 2010: Do what you want. And I mean what you actually want to do, not what you feel you should.
If you want to give him a hand job, but you're not sure, there are plenty of videos on youtube, and you could ask him to guide you at first as well.
Whe... (read in full...)
Should I move on?
Q. I will try to make this short I have dated this guy for almost two years and he works a lot which doesn't allow us to spend a lot of time together which i understand but what i don't undetstand that on his days off he would tell me that he would see ...
A. 2 December 2010: He's not treating you very nicely and so, I think that you should move on. Don't call him. Delete his number, distance yourself as much as possible, just cut him out of your life.
Wallow in self pity for a while, grieve for a few months (it's supp... (read in full...)
Does a guy mind if his girlfriend has pimples?
Q. Will a guy mind if his gf has pimples? Like more pimply now?...
A. 1 December 2010: depends. If it's really bad acne, then it can be a turn off unless the guy is completely in love with her. However, if it is really bad acne, then I'd advise going on anti-acne medication. If it's just a few spots then most guys shouldn't mind. But ... (read in full...)
Desperate to have sex with older guy.
Q. i am dating this 21 year old man. we have been together for about 8 months but it was in secret any ways most people know i am seeing him but there was a point when people called me a liar etc. they also said that he was to good for me. wel...
A. 1 December 2010: If you're totally positive that you want to sleep with him and you know that you are in a loving, committed relationship then there shouldn't be too much of a problem. youngandrestless is right that you should think about it and about her mum. Some ... (read in full...)
Parents want to dis-own me because of my older man
Q. i am dating this 21 year old man. we have been together for about 8 months but it was in secret any ways most people know i am seeing him but there was a point when people called me a liar etc. my parents said that they will disown me if i cont...
A. 1 December 2010: Going on a break might not be a bad idea. But I can understand where you're coming from. Make sure that you show your parents that you are working, do two hours study everyday and make sure that they know it. Make sure that he knows that you have to ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want a boyfriend but I really like her
Q. I really like this girl, in fact, I think I am in love with her! We met a few months ago at school and I felt like we had an instant connection. She is a little shy and new to my school, so I decided not to pressure her by telling her how I felt ...
A. 1 December 2010: These are very mixed signals which you're getting, so my best advice for you is to say it to her. Ask her out properly. It doesn't have to be romantic or anything, but if it's ever just the two of you, or if you aren't brave enough, text it to ... (read in full...)
How do I know I love him?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for over 3 years, he was my 1st boyfriend, intially i thought i loved him, i just loved being with him and spending all my time but in the last year i don't find him attractive but he is the most sweetest and he ...
A. 29 November 2010: It sounds like you just fell out of love with him. It's sad when this happens, but c'est la vie..
How does he feel about you? If the feeling is mutual then you could break up nicely but still stay friends. One of my friends recently broke up with... (read in full...)
Surprise kiss and now he thinks I don't like him!
Q. Hi I was out with my friends in the snow today and my friend that I really like lets call him ''Luke'' tackled me to the the ground and kissed me full on and i was kind of stunned so i didn't kiss back and he got really upset.Now he thinks that i...
A. 29 November 2010: text him. that way he can't cut across you. Tell him that you really liked the kiss, that you were just in shock, ask to meet up with him.
Hopefully he'll understand.
Good luck
xx... (read in full...)
Should I wait till I just fall out of love with him?
Q. hi, so to ask my question i have to fill you in a little. this summer i met this absolutely amazing guy. and i know i'm in love with him, but he hardly talks to me anymore and whenever he does he either gets mad or doesn't talk for very long, every ...
A. 29 November 2010: Getting over someone can be incredibly difficult. You seem to be making an effort by having a boyfriend instead of pining over this guy day and night with no distractions.
But you have to make sure that your boyfriend knows that if he falls in love... (read in full...)
Sweet smelling vagina!
Q. Well, I basically want to know if there are any tips as to making your vagina smell good. I've heard that drinking pineapple juice helps but is there anything else? ...
A. 23 November 2010: in general you should eat plenty of fruit and vegetables and make sure to stay hygienic down there. Have fun! =)... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my girlfriend who has love addiction?
Q. I have a dilemma: I think my girlfriend has love addiction. I have been dating this woman for over a year now. She is 44 and I am 47. I have discovered that she has been in lots and lots of relationships before we met, some lasting a few days to ...
A. 20 November 2010: talk to her about whatever is putting a strain on your relationship and talk about how you feel. I'd say to put it mildly, incase she gets upset or something. If you really want to marry her then you owe it to yourself to try to sort out what is ... (read in full...)
He wants to take my virginity... and I'm scared I'll lose him if I say no.
Q. Am a 14 year old girl with a 17 year old boyfriend who wants 2 have 6 kids with me in the future. the thing is now he wants 2 break my virginity. I am still a virgin and am not ready. I dont wanna loose it. He's the best boyfriend ive ever had ...
A. 10 October 2010: Say that you aren't ready to have sex with him. If he doesn't respect you then he isn't worth it. No one is worth losing your virginity with unless they think that the sun shines out of your ass and will wait with you until you're ready. Don't give ... (read in full...)
My life is a mess and I feel trapped! HELP!
Q. I'm 17, and I just can't DO this anymore. I don't know. I'm so bored, alone. Trapped in my city and I hate it so much. The only thing keeping me going is the promise of going to Univerisy next year, but that's stressing me out and I don't know. I'm ...
A. 8 October 2010: Join clubs or organisations to make new friends/get a boyfriend. Don't seem over eager with guys though, try to be cool if you meet someone nice.
But things will probably change once you start university, i know it's a while off, but try to keep... (read in full...)
Is this usual in Germany?
Q. In fact if I could speak German, I should post it in German agony website... One day, I was travelling in Germany, I went to a kind of pub which looks normal. Some people started to speak with me. One German young guy suddenely asked me t...
A. 8 October 2010: no, it's just this one guy... (read in full...)
How can I improve the texture and look of my stretch marks. How do girls feel about them?
Q. hi i have alot of stretch marks! i have em on my stomach, on the sides of my upper body, on my lover back, shoulders and where my arms meet my body, both on front and back. and i am a guy!! they are almost invisible by now but it feels ...
A. 4 September 2010: I think most people have stretch marks and almost everyone I know, including me, use Bio oil. I think it's available globally and although it was a little pricey for me (€30), it is so worth it.
good luck... (read in full...)
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