My ice cream craving!!!
Q. Why do I have a craving of ice-cream so much? I have a bowl to the rim every day and that's not enough for me? Is this normal?...
A. 10 December 2009: It's probably just a habit, if you went for at least a month without ice cream, you'd probably stop craving it.... (read in full...)
I was in love with him, until he fell in love with me...
Q. I'm really confused at the moment. I really liked this guy, I kept thinking about him all the time. Then he told me he liked me and asked me to be his girlfriend. I said no. I have no idea why, but as soon as he started to like me, I completey ...
A. 10 December 2009: I can only think of two reasons why this might happen. 1) Sometimes people want what they can't have 2) You're a little afraid of having him as a boyfriend (or just of having a boyfriend if you haven't been in a relationship before or had a bad exp... (read in full...)
We've been seeeing each other for months but I think he's losing interest
Q. ok so im only 16 an iv been meeting this boy about 11 months recently got togther..but often ignores me an talks about other girls to me. i don know wether he likes me anymore or is cheating on me....
A. 10 December 2009: You should confront him, 11 months can be a long time for teen relationships and maybe he has just lost interest. There isn't any point in draging out a relationship that not both of the people involved are totally into. If he's cheating then dump ... (read in full...)
Do women like short, skinny men?
Q. are there any wemen out there who go for short skinny men??...
A. 10 December 2009: short and skinny aren't words usually used to describe the perfect guy, but most people will believe the person that they love or fancy are gorgeous. You may fall in love with someone who would only rate a 2 on the hotness meter but you wouldn't ... (read in full...)
How to break hymen before having sex?
Q. I am 16 years old .. still a virgin I want to break my hymen before i have sex .. should I do it and if so how would I go about this ??? Thank you :)...
A. 9 December 2009: You can't be sure that your hymen is broken without seeing a doctor, for all you know, you've already broken it by exercising or using a tampon.... (read in full...)
I have her Xmas presents even though she dumped me... do I give them?
Q. My girlfriend dumped me a couple of weeks ago, Ive asked why, but been given no clear answers. I do miss her very much and am really hurting, Id like to hear from her-yes id like her back. I have already brought her, her Christmas presents. A fr...
A. 9 December 2009: If this were a movie, what would happen is that you give her the present, she feels sorry for you and knowing how much you love her makes her realize that you are perfect for eachother, you kiss and cut to the scene of your wedding day.
U... (read in full...)
Why is my dad acting so protective?
Q. I graduate this month and I turn 18 in July. I don't plan on staying in town when I go to college and my boyfriend doesn't want me to be alone (good thing too). So I told my father and he flipped saying "not while he [my father] is still around." ...
A. 5 December 2009: He is your father and all parents can be a bit over protective. He probably still sees you as his little girl and may not want you to leave at all. Children moving out can be very emotional for parents and if you're going to be living with your ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous as my cousin gets to go out more than I do!
Q. I don't get out much often and I get jealous when other people do. My cousins they go places all the time and I get a jealous feeling towards them. My cousin tries to make me jealous because she gets all in my face saying imma have fun and what all ...
A. 5 December 2009: Why? Your 18-21, you should be in control of your own life, you need to act adult, be responsible in your job/college and make friends, go out when you have time and just have a blast - get pissed, dance, feel up some girl in a club.
Your cous... (read in full...)
Help me to write this love letter...
Q. hi, i need a little help.. my boyfriend is going away overseas on a business trip. i would like to write him a love letter before he goes letting him know how much i love him and miss him already. i know kind of old school... im not exactly sure ...
A. 2 December 2009: I know what you mean when you can't think of anything to write, but what I tend to do if I'm not with the one I dearly love, I play out conversations we would have in my head depending on what just happened. If you ever get this, just put whatever ... (read in full...)
Thoughts on rebounding...
Q. I have a general question about this rebounding phenomenon. I've never done it myself, as I give myself time to heal. I may get physical with someone, but I'd never dive into a new relationship, because it doesn't feel right to me if my heart ...
A. 1 December 2009: There are no personality characteristics, depending on how bad the break up is, you can be left vulnerable and become easily attracted to guys you meet when on the rebound.
Some people may never have this, others may experience only once or rare... (read in full...)
Do I tell her the rumours about him?
Q. Okay, so about a year or so ago, my cousin started "talking/dating" this guy..well me and this guys best friend would talk alot and hang out also..one day he told me that my cousins guy cheated on his last girlfriend..and a couple months ago my ...
A. 1 December 2009: You can tell her, she might not take it badly, however, I don't know your cousin and can't be certain about that, obviously.
You could let her just make her own decision, be there for her if he cheats on her again and just support her and try be a... (read in full...)
Girlfriend of 17 years is cheating on me!
Q. My girlfriend of 17 years is cheating on me and its happend a few times in the past..I stayed because of our kids and wanted it to work..but now I am fed up with it...the thing is her sister has been there for me through this and is in a bad ...
A. 1 December 2009: If your girlfriend cheats on you so much then she isn't trust worthy and I would advise you to leave her. As for her sister, make sure that both you and her are officialy single before you get together, and try to ease your kids into it because ... (read in full...)
Common dating questions!
Q. MOD NOTE: 2 questions have been put into one post hey to all im going to ask two of the most commonly thought but not necessarily asked question by most guys. firstly, i like a girl very much but how to i ask her out or to be my girl friend. and...
A. 1 December 2009: I don't know about your first question, but try to compliment girls on anything and they'll catch on and think you're really sweet xx... (read in full...)
How big of an issue is it that he prefers anal and I dont?
Q. Hi, I would really appreciate some advice. I split up with my long term partner a year ago (he left) and although I still love him I started dating another guy, who I do really like but the problem is that he is really really into anal sex and I am ...
A. 1 December 2009: It may be popular and common, but loads of people refuse to do so because they don't feel comfortable with it. If you don't want to he should understand. xx... (read in full...)
My friends all went to Malawi but I am home alone
Q. Ive been feeling so so down recently! I guess my self confidence was absolutly crushed when i was turned down from a school malawi project - a project were 25 people head to malawi and help renovate a school or building etc and basically make a huge ...
A. 30 November 2009: that man made a mistake picking some of the people he did, but you can't change that. Telling him how you feel may not change much but you should go for and then he'll know for the future if anything like this comes up again wheather for you and ... (read in full...)
21 and still a virgin, but lead a busy life! What can I do?
Q. well,i dont know from where to start.im 21years old and im still a virgin.sometimes is quite embarrassing for me.i dont know but in any relationship i have failed..this is giving me a some depression.i mean,i wanted to to with somebody spe...
A. 30 November 2009: The right person should come along, and most people take it as a fact that when you really want to, you will find a way to make time for that special person, don't worry, it's not strange to be a vrigin at 21. Good luck xx... (read in full...)
He wanted to date me, I said no, now I want to say yes he is saying no
Q. im starting to feel quite depressed the boy i like told me he likes me too but it 'isnt the right time for a relationship' he used to try to go ou with me all the time but i didnt want to then and now ive realised i do like him after all. its ...
A. 30 November 2009: Unforch, if he has managed to move on between the time you said no and now, you can't change his mind. All you can do is try to get over him and take it as a learning experience, the next time someone asks you out and you're not sure, just say yes ... (read in full...)
Is not being able to get over a crush normal? How do I get over him?
Q. i reallllllly like a guy that is a known flirt. i dont want to be in a relationship with him cuz he is a known cheater. but at nights i still dream about him and i still check his acebook statuses and stuff. is this healthy will this help me get ...
A. 30 November 2009: This is totally normal. For example, there's a guy I really should not like, he's strung me along for over a year, got a girlfriend, forgot about me, broke up with her and now that he talks to me again, I'm all smitten. I know from my own expe... (read in full...)
How can I get noticed more?
Q. ok here goes im 14 now and so far my best friend has gotten soooo much attention off the boys in our year its unbeleivable but some times i feel left out because none of them even notice me, its not like i dont get attention at because on my way ...
A. 30 November 2009: How confident are you? Or how confident have you been from the start of school, cos those things can stick. Eg a guy in my year who used to have bad acne and was ugly and was horrible to many people in first year is now really nice and good looking ... (read in full...)
How do I ask her if she's bi or straight?
Q. Hey. I'm bi, and I'm in year 12 at school. At school, there is this girl i fancy in year 13. I'm really attracted to her, and I can't stop thinking about her. I want to be with her. I don't know about her sexuality, I just know that she's quite ...
A. 30 November 2009: depends, if she says no, is she the type who might bully you or tell everyone. Do people know about you. I know myself that when you're still that young and still at school, people can be immature about this topic. If you think any of those factors... (read in full...)
If a woman asks a man for some space is that wrong?
Q. I am a female who is 38 yrs old. I had recently been in a relationship with a 32 yr old man. We have only been together for a little over a month and told him I needed some space but my intension was not to completely break off the relationship, on ...
A. 30 November 2009: no, it is not wrong, he should understand. good luck xx... (read in full...)
He stopped all contact with me. Why could he not at least have told me where it all went wrong?
Q. I'm 44 and divorced for 5 years. While on vacation in Florida (I live in New York) I met this guy on the first day there and we spent the rest of my vacation together. It was great, we instantly hit if off, we had so much in common, we talked ...
A. 30 November 2009: He has probably met somebody else, somebody closer to home. It's sad, but if he's not contacting you, he doesn't want to and doesn't want to tell you either. He's a coward. The Thanksgiving text might have been to every contact on his phone. ... (read in full...)
What do girls like the most...???
Q. I dont mean to sound unromantic about it but i want to know the best way to pleasure a girl, I want to take my girlfriend on a date to her favorite restaurant and then have some fun afterwards on like our aniversary and i want to know what girls ...
A. 30 November 2009: taking her to her favourite restaruant is quite nice. collect her from home with a bunch of flowers and some choclate. Have a suprise in the bedroom of champagne and strawberies and rose petals on the bed, do you have a song? if so, work it into the ... (read in full...)
I want to end it with him but I don't know how!
Q. I've been with my man for around 2 years, and its got to the stage where i've been mulling in my head for months that i want it to end. I truly do, i know this and i know it would make me so much happier if i could. But i can't! He lives near Sou...
A. 30 November 2009: Be upfront and honest, he obviously is taking the relationship for granted so just break up with him and find someone better.
xx... (read in full...)
I don't know what's wrong with me. I only like guys with blond hair.
Q. ok here goes, for some reason i think i like guys if they have blonde hair i know that sounds really picky and i think thats y i didnt go out with a boy hu was just like me (personality wise) i mean the guy im in love with the heaven an bak and have ...
A. 30 November 2009: I'm the opposit, I used to think guys with blond hair were a turn off, then I matured and although they still wouldn't be my first choice if I had to choose someone based on looks, I know there is more to a guy than his hair. When you meet someone ... (read in full...)
I've tried everything too make her fall iin love with me again... help?
Q. I have been married for 9yrs and we have been together for 14yrs. We have a 12yr old son beautiful home. Gave her everything surprises, gifts, parties, vacations. We were head over hills about each other, but we also had financial problems at ...
A. 30 November 2009: You're living away from her so what about starting a friendship by being sending emails daily, or almost daily. When you take your son out, take some time to talk to her.
If she won't give you the time of day alone, what about a dinner party with... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to tell him no?
Q. i have been with my bf for 4 years, if he could he would have sex everyday but for some reason i dont want it as often as we used to, if i say no he gets really angry and i often just give in to keep him happy. Is it wrong for me not to want sex as ...
A. 30 November 2009: there is nothing wrong with not wanting sex as much as him. Sometimes it's better to say no and you wait a little longer for great sex, sex isn't usually great unless your both into it. Instead of having sex, you could just touch eachother, you ... (read in full...)
She said girls don't like confident guys, was she right?
Q. One of my (girl) friends said that 50% of girls don't go for guys with high confidence, like she does. I'm like 'huh?!' Is this true? If yes, is it because guys with high confidence are the ones who are more likely to do be some kind of jer...
A. 28 November 2009: guys who are over confidant, as in big headed, do tend to be jerks, but you need to be very confidant with out being cocky too have girls crawling all over for you because it shines through. All you have to do is be nice fun and easy to talk to.... (read in full...)
Help!!! What do you do when your best friend fancies your "ex"?
Q. Basically, what do you do when your best friend fancies your "ex". I have a history with this guy. She doesnt know I had anything going on so I cant tell her no or anything. Ive only started getting over this guy. I dont know if hes doing this to ...
A. 28 November 2009: The only thing you can do is tell her. She should understand and back off, but of if the two of them really like each other, don't think that you can stop them ever going out.
Ultimately, all you can do is get over this guy and try to be happy for ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend despite her sexually messy past
Q. I am 26 and have been best friends with a girl of the same age for 10 years. If people see us, they assume we are a couple, we are in contact every day and see each other as often as we can, maybe several times a week, for food, shopping, or just to ...
A. 28 November 2009: I think you need to support her in every way possible, but I think you can go for it with her, you sound like you could be a great couple, just take it slowly.
good luck
xx... (read in full...)
What can I do to not be so wet all the time?
Q. dear cupid i have a problem with my vagina.it is usually very wet at all times and it makes me feel uncomfortable coz most of the time it makes my pants wet.what can i do so as to be comfortable?...
A. 25 November 2009: Wear panty liners and if you already do, wear two layers.
Do you masturbate? If you don't, you could try that because what your getting is most likely cum, and if you don't masturbate ( or don't masturbate enough) then it can come out at the wron... (read in full...)
His wont talk to me and acts beyond weird...does he like me or not?
Q. Well i aint to sure whats going on here. I have a guy mate who yes i do like, Ive never thought of us than anymore than mates however other people and myself have noticed he doesnt exactlly act the same with me as anyone else. There are many girls ...
A. 25 November 2009: either he likes you and is trying to not be clingy and not let you know how he feels, or he used to like you and now doesn't.
It's a toghie, I'll grant you that.
Good luck, though
xx... (read in full...)
How often per week should a couple have sex?
Q. Ok since this has been a reoccuring theme on this site of late, I would like to settle once and for all, how often per week should a couple have sex. My theory is: 3 times combined with 3 times asking how her day was and back/foot rub. And one day...
A. 23 November 2009: There is no set number. You just do as much or as little as you feel like. Just take it day by day, maybe your both in the mood one day but not in the mood on another day. You can't force it, it has to feel right for both of you.
good luck
xx... (read in full...)
How to decrease the pain from sex?
Q. hey all after having sex for the first time the other day, my girlfriend and i were both sore as we expected is there anything we can do in between having sex next time to decrease pain? (ie stretching foreskin heaps, i dont have any problem re...
A. 23 November 2009: Lubricant. It makes a world of difference.
I don't know what it is about sex that a guy finds painful, but for a girl, pain can happen if she is not aroused enough, or the hymen breaking, or if your penis is too big for her.
If it's the hymen, t... (read in full...)
He's 22. I'm 13. How do I tell him I love him?
Q. why did i ever have to fall in love with him? hes 22 and im just 13 its cuz his so cute so nice and is always there when i need help, so nice and polite. i dont know how 2 tell him i need him to know but im afraid he will hate me. what c...
A. 21 November 2009: I wouldn't tell him if I were you. As close as you maybe as friends, it is more than likely that he doesn't feel the same and it would just make things awkward for the both of you. You can't control who you love so it's in no way your fault that you ... (read in full...)
What could be the reason for very bad luck?
Q. What could be the reason for very bad luck? Like you do everything right in life, it is really not your fault, but you get the worst luck of day, after day. I'm talking about really bad stuff here.NO ,I don't think it makes sense to go into details ...
A. 20 November 2009: I don't believe in karma or curses, just somethings turn out worse for some people then they do for others. If you feel that you're doing everything right, then I can't give you any advice, especially if I don't know what the bad stuff is. All I can ... (read in full...)
How can I ask him to make sex more meaningful for me?
Q. I'm 25 years old and my husband is 33. We have been married for 2 years now and have a beautiful 18 month old daughter. We got married after dating for only 2 months, because I got pregnant. Sex is now becoming more of a chore than it should b...
A. 20 November 2009: Just had another idea: Tantric sex lesson. It may sound weird to have a lesson, but I know a lot of couples who have done so and they all said that when they went home and tried it out, it was the best sex they had. =)... (read in full...)
I have a crush on this girl but she's already got a boyfriend, what I do??
Q. Hi guys, I have a crush on this girl and we are quite close friends, she is 15 and i am 14, we've been going to places together etc. for a while now, but, i want to go out with her, although she already has a bf. What should i do? Ride it o...
A. 20 November 2009: Don't do anything, it could ruin your friendship. Try to look at other girls, but if they break up, just be there for her, don't be too forward - it could look like that you're taking advantage of her when she's vulnerable and on the rebound. You'd ... (read in full...)
Creepy friend keeps asking for hugs
Q. So, one of my male friends keeps asking me for hugs. He does this even at weird times (like, not hellos and goodbyes) and hangs on for too long or tries to sneak a second one in. I'm always hesitant about giving a hug, and I've already had the ...
A. 20 November 2009: He should really know his place if you've told him that it makes you uncomfortable but if he persists you should talk to him again.
Not hanging out with him is a bit harsh and if I were you I wouldn't unless he just won't listen. After that if he a... (read in full...)
Why is she always so mean to me?
Q. I just started seventh grade, and some mean girls have started making fun of me. One of the girls lives by me so its really embarrassing. She's started telling people I'm a lesbian. She's also saying she's scared and that I ask her a lot of ...
A. 20 November 2009: At your age there is LOADS of bullying, just ignore it, I know it's easier said than done, but it's very true. There was a guy in my year and he picked on me and two other girls in my year lesbians, and now he's a drag queen and has bummed every ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 years old and never had a boyfriend!
Q. i'm 14 years old,i have never had a boyfriend.i have a good personality i am one of those people who if you ask them for help i will definitely help. my mum and other people have always said that someone will always come around. my looks are ...
A. 20 November 2009: When I was 14 I was ugly, like, seriously ugly. But I blossomed, I'm actually quite pretty now. Chances are you'll look way better as you get older. Most of the people I know didn't get their first boyfriend until they were 16 or 17. It's completely ... (read in full...)
How can I ask him to make sex more meaningful for me?
Q. I'm 25 years old and my husband is 33. We have been married for 2 years now and have a beautiful 18 month old daughter. We got married after dating for only 2 months, because I got pregnant. Sex is now becoming more of a chore than it should b...
A. 20 November 2009: I agree with MsFrankie, watching porn can be quite interesting, it can really get both of you into the mood and take the lead from what's happening on the telly. You should introduce things, get some new moves and try them out on him, you never kn... (read in full...)
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