Could I be pregnant?
Q. I am freaking out I got my period twice this month, I'm soppouse to be taking birth control but I'm not I only took one pill and that's it. So my first period started on may the 3rd ended on the 7th then again on may the 16th and ended last night ...
A. 21 May 2010: Why did you only take one pill? That is just silly to take only one pill, you possibly could be pregnant, just take a test.... (read in full...)
He pulled out but is there still a chance of pregnancy?
Q. My partner and i had intercourse last week. We both know that we had to be careful but something happened and freaked me out. My partner managed to "pull it out" but has ejaculated by accident after he removed it. Some of it was on my skin, just ...
A. 16 May 2010: Yes, its very possible, you had intercourse. Use condoms!... (read in full...)
Should I do what he wants so I can get him back?
Q. Okay so I lost my virginity about a month ago to a guy who I liked very very much, but he didn't feel the same way. Basically he used me, So then I thought I was pregnant and some how my school found and was talking about it non stop. Well the guy ...
A. 15 May 2010: Don't allow him to use you like that, if he is going to treat you that way, why in the hell do you want to be with him?
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16 and sleeping with somone twice my age!
Q. Ok, so i'm 16 and did something very stupid! I slept with someone twice my age. I do regret it. It was just a bit of fun but everytime i see him, it's like my heart skips a beat, i just have a big smile on my face, i'm not in love with him! The ...
A. 10 May 2010: He is lucky to not be in jail, you are foolish to be involved with him, but he is the stupid one, he is a grown freaking man and he's messing around with a child, that is just sick. He has definitely sunk his hooks into you, if you were my child I ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a man (your ex) stares at you?
Q. I was at a party last week, and some friends and I decided to go to the bar. When I was there I went with a friend to get a drink and I sat in a chair waiting for on my friend to get his drink, when I saw my old flame, he started staring at me, and ...
A. 7 May 2010: I still have feelings for him, I have no idea why, but I am just going to let them lie. It hurts still, but I would rather not to anything, than be hurt and rejected.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a man (your ex) stares at you?
Q. I was at a party last week, and some friends and I decided to go to the bar. When I was there I went with a friend to get a drink and I sat in a chair waiting for on my friend to get his drink, when I saw my old flame, he started staring at me, and ...
A. 7 May 2010: I ended it, we have hung out at the same place for over a year, I just mind my own business. But you're right about how it could be anything, I should just get some guts and go talk to him.... (read in full...)
Used the morning after pill twice in a month ...
Q. Hey i have a question, first of all i have irregular periods, well i got my period beginning of march then end of april, but i had sex a week before i got my period of the month of april and i used next choice because i didnt want to get pregnant, ...
A. 5 May 2010: Plan B has side effects and one of them is nausea, you should not take it as regular birth control, I doubt you are pregnant because you would not be having symptoms already. You probably have not even ovulated yet. Go to the doctor get on ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant after a drunken fumble in a toilet?
Q. Could I be pregnant or am I being stupid I AM NOT ON THE PILL OF ANY FORM OF CONTRACEPTION I am normally a very sensible person but I was out on friday night and my best friend got me very very drunk, I was dancing with this really nice gu...
A. 4 May 2010: I would get on the pill, but no you cannot get pregnant that way. ... (read in full...)
Haven't had my period in 3 months but test say I'm not pregnant
Q. hello im just wondering if anyone has any good advice for me because im a bit confused,i havent been on my period for 3 months now but ive had a lil spot of blood an thats it but because i have gynaecology problems theres only a 2 per cent chance ...
A. 4 May 2010: I would go to the doctor right away, those HPT are not always accurate. ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy and depo provera shots?
Q. I recently got back with my ex of three years ago. We have had sex without a condom several times. I got my first depo-provera shot on Feb. 15 th 2010, and had no problem what so ever with bleeding. Him and I got back together on April 16th of this ...
A. 2 May 2010: Call your doctor, that sounds like BTB to me.... (read in full...)
Am I a crazy stalker bitch?
Q. Hi my name a Olivia and the guy I am currently seeing well we have phone sex ALOT and we were having phone sex and I was orgasming and I could of sworn he was laughing and giggling but he told me he was oragasming also but in his voice he sounds l...
A. 1 May 2010: I would get over it and move on, he is not worth your time.... (read in full...)
Can an excess of water affect the pregnancy test?
Q. havent started my period this month. did a pregnancy test, came back negative. but, i had drank 2 bottles of water right before the test, because i was anxious to find out of the posibility of being pregnant. would it have any effect on the test? ...
A. 30 April 2010: No, I would not think so...... (read in full...)
How likely is it that the sperm live? And when do I test for pregnancy?
Q. Right so, I need some advice. First of all I want you to know that I'm actually 17 and still have a year left in school. Recently I had sex with one of my best guy friends who I have been in love with for about a year. He has told me not to tell a...
A. 28 April 2010: You ovulate about 14 days after you menstruate, I know sperm can live inside you for a few days. You can test a day after your missed period.
I would always use condoms, and get on some form of birth control. ... (read in full...)
When did I conceive?
Q. Hi well i'm 11 weeks and 5 days pregnant. And i was just trying to work out the day i conceived. does anyone have any idea.. I'm due 11th Novemeber and my LMP was Jan 28th to the 4th of feb... Any help thanks x...
A. 27 April 2010: Around the 11th of Feb.... (read in full...)
When did I conceive?
Q. Hi well i'm 11 weeks and 5 days pregnant. And i was just trying to work out the day i conceived. does anyone have any idea.. I'm due 11th Novemeber and my LMP was Jan 28th to the 4th of feb... Any help thanks x...
A. 27 April 2010: when was the date of your last period, then calculate from there.... (read in full...)
I stay with him even though he's cheated on me and hit me
Q. ive been with this guy for 11 months now and i feel really attached to him but ive realized that im in an abusive relationship i know its wrong and evreytime i break up its like im forced to go back because he litterally calls me more than 50 times ...
A. 26 April 2010: It sounds like your boyfriend has some serious problems, if I was in this situation I would break up with him. I have been with some men that were major jerks, they did not treat me well or give me the attention that I wanted, BUT they never laid a ... (read in full...)
What is this mysterious bulge in my lower abdomen?
Q. About a week ago, I had my period. (This is nothing new to me). My period lasts generally 3-4 days at most, then has a day of a little bit of darker, old blood (from old periods. not concerned since this is normal.) However, one of the days, I l...
A. 25 April 2010: That does not sound normal to me, if you're having trouble forgetting to take out tampons I would use pads, leaving a tampon in all day is probably no a good idea. You should go to the health department, if you're in college they probably have a ... (read in full...)
How long till I'm fully protected?
Q. Hi. I've recently just started re-taking microgynon 30. I used to take it a few months ago, but have only just been allowed to continue it, as I've been ill. I started the first packet yesterday - but it was after my period (the week before) had ...
A. 23 April 2010: I would wait a month just to be on the safe side.... (read in full...)
Would you date someone like that?
Q. my boyfriend has a high school diploma ad he does not know if he wants to go back to school, while i am getting my bachelors. he does not have a bank account, he is not that intelligent meaning he can not really read or spell that great. ...
A. 22 April 2010: I would move on, he is only going to bring you down, it sounds like he does not to grow up. You're not coincided, I feel the same way, I want to be with someone who is at the same level I am, I'm in college too. I know it makes me sound like a ... (read in full...)
I'm a day late!! Could I be pregnant?
Q. I just lost my virginity on sunday, it is now Wednesday of the same week, i am on the pill and have been on it for quite a while(for my skin and cramps) im supposed to get my period today! however i dont have it! we didnt use a condom because i...
A. 22 April 2010: If you're on the pill and you take it every day and have not missed any or been on any medication or anything, I would say no. What pill are you on, I really doubt you're pregnant, I would always use condoms though! I am on Yaz and my period ... (read in full...)
I want to elope with him, and have a baby
Q. [MOD NOTE: The poster is 17] I am a girl in my teens. I have a boyfriend in his early twenties. We are in love for almost two years and now we have planned to elope soon. I have started my college and I am looking for a part time job, but he says ...
A. 20 April 2010: You need to go live life and have fun... College is tough enough child-free, have a baby and you'll never go.... (read in full...)
At 25, I still haven't had sex, but I think about it!
Q. I am 25 and not sure about sex. I am still not ready to take that extra step and actually have sex. I have had two serious relationships so far and thankfully they have been with men who respected me enough to wait. I am still with one of the guys ...
A. 18 April 2010: There is nothing wrong with waiting to have sex, I did not have sex for the first time, until I was 28.... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex, morning after pill, still no period! I'm worried about pregnancy and STI's!
Q. Ok. basically i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time about 5 days ago. We didn't use a condom and now i feel stupid and all my friends have lectured me, at the time he said he would pull out and everything seemed fine. I really liked him, ...
A. 18 April 2010: Go get yourself tested, just politely tell him that your doing this and he has the option to go get himself tested too.
As for the morning after pill, sometimes it will throw off your period depending on when you take it. When you go get test... (read in full...)
She came off her pill, but we kept having sex without condoms. I'm starting to panic!
Q. I'm writing this because I'm worried, my girlfriend is on the pill, so we have unprotected sex. The thing is she came off the pill a week ago due to a course of medication she was taking, we had sex and stupidly we didnt use protection and i came ...
A. 17 April 2010: It is a possiblilty, but how long was she on the pill for? BC can build up in your system and it could take time for her to conceive, but I would go get plan b just to be safe.... (read in full...)
Am I silly because I want him to wear a condom?
Q. Hello everyone, I am thinking about having sex with my partner for the first time. I am a virgin and he is not- I am in my mid twenties and he is nearly forty years old. I am already on birth control and condoms and lube are at the beds...
A. 15 April 2010: You're being safe and smart, I would rethink your decision to have sex with this man. ... (read in full...)
Paranoid about pregnancy! how soon can I take the test?
Q. i had unprotective sex friday and had forgoten to take my pill 3 days previous( yeah its stupid) and i no the risks of pregnency, even tho i did take it the day i had sex But anyway i think im being paroniod about this, but since saturday my ni...
A. 13 April 2010: It depends where you were in your pill pack, and how long you've been on the pill.... (read in full...)
Can skipping pills leave me at risk of pregnancy?
Q. Ive recently started the pill and have been really good untill this week, Ive missed 3 days of the pill, and today i had sex where he cum inside me, yeah i have taken the pill 2day as i remembered, but is there still a chance that i could get preg...
A. 10 April 2010: Yes, if you miss more than one pill you need to use back up for seven days. You need to go see your doctor and think about other options if you're so forgetful about taking the pill. I would get plan B too if its not to late. ... (read in full...)
My problem is my husband's family!
Q. My problem is my husband's family! We unfortunately moved on to property 10 years ago that his dad gave HIM and we placed our home there. The remaining acerage is to go to HIM when his dad dies. The one acre our home is on is ours together due to ...
A. 8 April 2010: I would go see a lawyer and find out if they can really put in a cemetery. ... (read in full...)
Does the teacher's behavior seem odd?
Q. Just to give a heads up, no this is not one of those 'I'm in love with my teacher' questions. But, this is a question still on the same subject. Where to begin? I live in one of those typical towns surrounded by corn. Everybody knows everyone...
A. 5 April 2010: His behavior is not appropriate, he is breaking the boundaries that a teacher and student are supposed to have.
That is not how a teacher is supposed to behave, he is sexually harassing you, and he should be fired for it. ... (read in full...)
Can I use water to flush myself out after having unprotected sex?
Q. can i use water to flush myself out after having unprotected sex?...
A. 4 April 2010: That does not work, it will probably make it worse, you need to use condoms and the pill.... (read in full...)
Should I let him go out with his single male friends?
Q. I am happily married. I'm 17 years old and my husband is 20. We're very in love and supported by both of our families. Things have been great. I love it. We do everything together including cooking meals, and just sitting back watching TV. The ...
A. 3 April 2010: You're not his mother, he is an adult and should be able to do what he wants. Trying to control him, will come back to haunt you.
I think you're too young to be married, I just don't buy into being in "love" at 17.... (read in full...)
Still bleeding 3 days after losing my virginity!
Q. hellow there, the thing is im kinda confused right now. i lost my virginity 3 days ago , and im still bleeding right. i dont know how normal is this, and i dont know if the virgin blood could have got mixed with my period blood, because im EXTRE...
A. 29 March 2010: You should probably go see a doctor, you really should bleed like that after intercourse. I sometimes spot, but it doesn't last 3 days. I am sure you're okay, but I would go just for a checkup.... (read in full...)
I had no blood or pain when I had sex for the first time, has anyone else been the same as me?
Q. This is something very personal that's been bugging me for years so I'm just going to ask it. When I first had sex at 18 I was looking forward to the "traditional experience" - blood, a little pain, you know. However, I was quite let down. There ...
A. 29 March 2010: Neither did I, but I waited quite a bit longer than you, but I had no pain or blood, I just assumed it went years ago, I played sports, I rode horses, so it really wasn't a big deal to me. You should be thankful that you had no pain, believe me I ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to cook and need some tips
Q. Ok I know this doesn't have anything to do with sex,relationship or love but I have to ask sombody...... well im 21 years old and I have a two year old and im preg.... I live with my boyfriend and my two year old. Well we always eat out, because ...
A. 29 March 2010: I would take a cooking class, that's how I learned to cook, and I can cook pretty well.... (read in full...)
Help!!! I had a one night stand with my friend's friend and I feel really disgusting and dirty.
Q. Last night I got stupidly drunk which I don't normally do. I've never been that drunk in my life and I did something completely out of character. I had a one night stand with my friend's friend and I feel really disgusting and dirty. It was my first ...
A. 29 March 2010: Its a tough situation to handle, but we all make mistakes, I've done my fair share of stupid things, but I always learn from them. If they are truly your friends they would give you the space that you need, but I would go and talk to this guy and ... (read in full...)
Could these negative pregnancy tests be wrong. I hope so!
Q. Okay so my husband and i are trying to conceive, and my last period was in january, i completely skipped over feb and i took 2 tests but both came up neg. i felt pregnant, my boobs are bigger than what they were before, enough for my husband to even ...
A. 25 March 2010: I would go see your doctor and have a blood test done.... (read in full...)
Is it safe to have another abortion when my last was only in December 09?
Q. I recently went through an abortion in December of last year. The baby was my current boyfriend's. Well, I'm extremely worried that I could be pregnant again. I'm not 100% certian. I'll take a test in about a week. But I'm having similar symptoms as ...
A. 25 March 2010: If you get a surgical abortion, why not just get an IUD?
I had an abortion over a year ago, and I have been on Birth Control ever since, and I have only missed two pills during that entire time. I'm not going to judge you, because I would do the ... (read in full...)
She wont look at me when I talk to her, why is she doing this?
Q. I talked to a girl that ive found cute after class that has the same major as me in collage that seems really timid. She doesn't talk ever even when the rest of the class has conversations and just sits and stairs at her computer working or surfing ...
A. 23 March 2010: That might be a good idea, texting or chatting online is much easier for me.... (read in full...)
She wont look at me when I talk to her, why is she doing this?
Q. I talked to a girl that ive found cute after class that has the same major as me in collage that seems really timid. She doesn't talk ever even when the rest of the class has conversations and just sits and stairs at her computer working or surfing ...
A. 23 March 2010: I have that problem, its really hard for me to look people in the eye, I have no idea why I do it. She sounds similar to me, keeps to herself and only speaks when spoken too, though I do chat with people in my classes. She could feel imitated by ... (read in full...)
I regret having an abortion and feel I have no one to talk to about it!
Q. im 15 and had an abortion last year in febuary. all i think of know is what if i kept the baby. I have very strong feelings, and have no one to speak to about this. My mom stood by me when i had the abortion but i feel akward speking to her k...
A. 22 March 2010: I think you should seek out a counselor about this, I had a abortion last April, and with school, and work I almost had a breakdown from the stress. I feel like that I made the right decision and stand behind it 100%. You never get over this, you ... (read in full...)
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