How can I improve the texture and look of my stretch marks. How do girls feel about them?
Q. hi i have alot of stretch marks! i have em on my stomach, on the sides of my upper body, on my lover back, shoulders and where my arms meet my body, both on front and back. and i am a guy!! they are almost invisible by now but it feels ...
A. 4 September 2010: I think most people have stretch marks and almost everyone I know, including me, use Bio oil. I think it's available globally and although it was a little pricey for me (€30), it is so worth it.
good luck... (read in full...)
He doesn't love me enough to leave his children
Q. If your married lover says that he doesn't love you enough to walk out on his children,does that mean he never will?...
A. 4 September 2010: Do you have any children?
I just ask because I wonder if you are asking this from a parents point of view. Because, think about it, parents love their children so so much. Once that coffee table in the front room was a nice space to put your drin... (read in full...)
You slam my family and you slam me!!!
Q. My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. He has 3 adult, married kids and I have none. In fact, I have very few surviving relatives and most of those I don't see too often. On July 4, my niece (who I see a few times per year but ...
A. 8 July 2010: Your stepson's wife is rude. As you pointed out, she didn't tackle the person who offended her but made the occasion unpleasant for everyone. This is passive-aggressive behaviour. If she does it in your house, confront her. Try to do this nicely ... (read in full...)
Au Pair work???
Q. I still feel very upset when i think about when i worked as an Au Pair last year in Spain. I hadnt had any previous experience in child care, but the family hired me any way . I think some families are relaxed about that as the main job was to teach ...
A. 8 July 2010: The job of an au pair is to help with housework and childcare, while living with a family and learning the language of the country. It seems that you misunderstood your role, and didn't learn Spanish. Learn some conversational Spanish at least ... (read in full...)
Should I meet this guy off the Internet? He is much older but I don't see that as an issue.
Q. I'd just like to know guys opinions on this, I'm 18 and have had a thing on the Internet with a guy for about 2 years, he's much older (42) and I really want to meet him!! But I'd just like peoples opinions because I'm not sure whether to suggest it ...
A. 5 July 2010: yeah, it should be okay, but be careful and it´d be better to bring a friend with you just incase.
xx... (read in full...)
How do I help my brother get over his first time?
Q. my little brother just confided to me that he lost his virginity on a fling with a semi stranger that he actually thought might lead to a relationship. He's royally gutted and depressed right now and i don't really know how to comfort him. I think ...
A. 29 June 2010: Just let him have space, talk or cry about it as much as he wants and be there for him. You can't really help him, just try to make him see that he should wait untill he is in a relationship before jumping into bed with anyone.
Time is the best heal... (read in full...)
Help! I'm afraid there's some physically wrong with me!
Q. hey. I wanted to ask is it natural for 16yo virgin boy, after getting an erection twice in 40min. period, not to get fully erected again when there's naked girl laying beside you and you're touching her? Because it has happened to me and I think ...
A. 28 June 2010: just tell her you were tired. as Anonymous said, you need a rest, so just try to avoid all thoughts which would result in giving you an erection and try again with her then.
good luck
xx... (read in full...)
I didn't play coy! How do I tell him that I like him?
Q. I like my guy friend, but I've been really silly and completely myslef around him. I haven't been mysterious or girly, just plain old myself. I'm outgoing, funny, and center of the party. He told my best friend that he thoought i was cool. How ...
A. 27 June 2010: Try flirting with him and if it's too subtle then tell him. The worst that can happen is that he'll say no, in which case you'll be free to get over him and move on and if your friendship is quite strong, then you'll recover.
Definitely tell him.... (read in full...)
Gay friend wants to be straight!
Q. My friend is gay and we have had intercourse in the past with no problems (I am Bi). But the last time we had sex he cried afterwards and said he no longer wanted to be gay. Since then he has shut me out of his life and I no longer get to see him. ...
A. 27 June 2010: you are very young and at your age you experience a lot of changes. Maybe your friend thought he was gay and he isn't really, or maybe he wasn't ready for sex and the experience was too much for him.
Whatever is going on with him, just give him his ... (read in full...)
We had sex. It was a mistake, but he wants to be a couple!
Q. Hi, I am in a majorrr crisis here. See, I had drunk sex with my best friend and now he wants to be a couple saying he's been waiting for this for forever! Also, I'm not really sure if we used protection that night! I dont't know how to get a ...
A. 23 June 2010: You have to wait at least two weeks after sex before you can use a pregnancy test. Try not to stress because that can delay your period.
I was in EXACTLY the same situation two weeks after my 17th birthday, only I was in love with him and he ende... (read in full...)
Should we make out if there's a risk my dad might see us?
Q. ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a week and a half and we are going to see our first movie this weekend. he wants to makeout in the movie but the thing is that my dad will be there and it is a horror movie. should i let him ...
A. 22 June 2010: It's really up to you whether you want to or not. For making out you should really go somewhere private, although a cinema is great usually since it's dark, would you really be that comfertable knowing that your dad is there?
I don't get why peop... (read in full...)
Boy or best friend?
Q. okay it started with me liking this guy lets call him "bob" he was perfect for me and i realy liked him but i never talked to him, time went by and i found myself talking to him. my love for him grew even more and i became more and more obsessed ...
A. 20 June 2010: If they both like each other then don't try to ruin anything for them.
I know how hard and heart breaking it is, I've been in that situation before, but in the long run I'm happy that it happened because I spent a month getting over him and movi... (read in full...)
The test was negative, but my period is nine days late!
Q. i am 9 days late and have took a pregnancy test last week that was negative but it feels like iv been having period pains for the past few weeks, could the test be wrong or is there something wrong with me, i also feel tired a lot and exhausted i ...
A. 20 June 2010: Your period is affected by many factors. If you are stressed then it can delay it, as can not eating enough. Make sure you get all the nutrients needed and it could help with your feeling tired. However, the test could be wrong, the tests measure ... (read in full...)
Help!!! Any ideas how I can get him to ask me out???
Q. hey There is this boy at school who i met, caz my mate was going out with him. They broke up ages ago and she hates him but is going out with someone else now. I really like him but he is always messing me about by saying he will go out with me s...
A. 19 June 2010: Talk to him. You don't really do anything to get someone to ask you out, just be friendly and flirt with him. If all else fails ask him out yourself. It doesn't have to sound like an official date, just like two friends hanging out.
good luck
xx... (read in full...)
What are the main differences?
Q. Hello readers. Can anyone inform me of the main differences and symptoms of Borderline Personality, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Anxiety and Depression. And is it possible to suffer all four disorders at the same time? Thank-you. I hope some...
A. 19 June 2010: Hi, There's nothing to stop people with Borderline Personality Disorder getting PTSD. Then people with PTSD will be anxious anyway as part of the PTSD and they may become depressed from having such an amount of problems. So the answer is yes.... (read in full...)
Should I go out with a flirt?
Q. So, my good friend was dating this guy, but they broke up because his feelings changed for her. I fell for him while they were still dating, and when they broke up, I was pretty excited. I found out that he likes me more than a friend, but my good ...
A. 19 June 2010: I think you should go out, it could be the start of something wonderful.
If he flirts too much while you're going out, confront him about it.
If it's too much then you can always break up with him, but if he really likes you then he should respect ... (read in full...)
I don't know what I should do!
Q. Im dating a guy whom ive dated before, it didnt work out the first time and I know its not going to work out this time either. He has been in love with me, i know this for a fact, since we've met about 7 years ago. The thing is right before we ...
A. 19 June 2010: I think you should break up with this guy. But be gentle and try to be friends with him. It isn't fair to be stringing him along if you don't actually want to be with him.
As for the brother, talk to him. Maybe he feels the same way about you and ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused and don't know what to do...
Q. Me and one of my guys friends have been hanging out alot lately. We never really have before and all my friends think it's weird. I fell down the steps at a hotel ( we where there for a trip ) and I had been sitting in the stairwell for a good 15 ...
A. 15 June 2010: At your age a lot of people don't understand that girls and guys can be just friends and it's something which you have to endure and all you can do is assure everyone that that is what you are.
Maybe he likes you a bit, if you think he does you shou... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel more horny when in your period?
Q. Kind of awkward to ask this but I don't know who else to really go to. I'm 19 and I just wondering if it is normal to get more horny than NORMALLY during your period? Honestly, I can;t stop thinking about sex, and pretty much any other activity. If ...
A. 14 June 2010: I get that too. I don't know if it is the hormones or what, but personally, I think it's because when I'm on my period I don't have sex, I don't masturbate and it drives me a little mental with desire.
Hormones are a plausible reason as well, but ... (read in full...)
Will he come back to me and our baby?
Q. I was with a guy for one year we were engaged and I am curently pregnant with his baby. He left me for a girl 14 years younger than him we were having a few problems but nothing that couldn't be fixed. I love this man with all of my heart and want ...
A. 30 May 2010: Probably not. Although he may try to stay in the child's life, he'd really have to be living in the same area as you and the baby. The most you could probably get is child maintanence.
I hate to be blunt, but I'm someone who would know.
You s... (read in full...)
Does this mean I'm gay even though I love women?
Q. I'm an 18 year old "boy" and heading to college soon. My first time I was curious to porn was in the 6th grade. I watched gay porn and immediately was hooked. I began masturbating to it and now I look at men on the streets and sometimes get aroused. ...
A. 9 May 2010: have you ever been with a women you love? I remember that for a while I got aroused from girls and although I loved guys, I could never see myself being satisfied by a guy.
Although I had got off with a couple of guys before, the first time I kiss... (read in full...)
2 days late for my period
Q. I am 2 days late for my period, I have taken 3 pregncey test and they have all come out negative, I'm worried and wounding what I should do plz help me...
A. 7 May 2010: Try to relax, your period might be a little late and the more you stress and worry, the later it will be.
If you still don't have your period in a week then take another test or see a doctor.
good luck
xx... (read in full...)
Having strange dreams, what do they mean?
Q. I've been having these strange dreams I've had dreams about people I don't even talk to or think of like a girl I know she stopped talking to me and her bf accused me of stalking right? months pass by I don't think about it then a couple more mo...
A. 5 May 2010: Dreams don't have to mean anything, but I'd say that if she's popping up in your subconcious,then maybe you miss her. Maybe you're curious about the people in your dreams because you don't talk to them in real life.... (read in full...)
When she says she loves me, does she mean it?
Q. So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and I feel like I have been putting a lot of effort into this relationship and I feel like she doesn't put too much into our relationship. I give her a lot of attention, and yet I don't get a ...
A. 4 May 2010: It's difficult to tell. She might just be used to you, like, past the stage of being infatuated and needing to be with you all the time but still loves you.
Maybe she feels that she isn't getting enough space.
If you have one night a week to ... (read in full...)
I get so attached to guys!
Q. I get so attached to guys. If I have a drunken kiss, or even just a nice conversation or flirt with a guy, I immediatyly start liking them. I really hate it. For example, I met a really nice on Friday night, he was obviously interested in me, ...
A. 28 April 2010: it is normal. You are still young and have raging hormones, and when you are in that state, it is very easy to fall 'in love' with guys within about an hour.
You'll probably grow out of it, but you can enjoy little crushes while they last :)
good ... (read in full...)
How likely is it that the sperm live? And when do I test for pregnancy?
Q. Right so, I need some advice. First of all I want you to know that I'm actually 17 and still have a year left in school. Recently I had sex with one of my best guy friends who I have been in love with for about a year. He has told me not to tell a...
A. 28 April 2010: @Tisha, it would just be a scandal because some of our friends are incredibly stupid, bitchy, and a few of them are in love with him.
Thank you so much everyone for the advice, I really apriciate it. ... (read in full...)
My friend had sex and now she is really depressed. How can I help her?
Q. I Need Some Help about My Friend. Okay, so she's 15 and had a boyfriend who had sex with her when she didn't want to, and then he broke up with her. she has been really down lately and finds it hard to talk about it. everytime I bring it up or w...
A. 26 April 2010: Sex is a big deal. Many people don't get that, and it can take a day or two after having done IT what exactly they have done and what affects it has had on them emotionally. The best thing that you can do is try to be nice and act normal around y... (read in full...)
Terrible pain when trying to finger myself
Q. I'm a virgin 16 year old girl and when I try to finger my vagina I can't because IT HURTS A LOT.I can't even stick my entire finger in my vagina,I have tried but I can't,I have been trying to finger my vagina since I was 12 years old(when I ...
A. 18 April 2010: This happens to me as well, what I found was that I can't really get into masturbation because it's just me, but when I'm with a guy and he's doing it, I'm fine.
I'd say that you probably don't have to go to a doctor.
Your vagina might only ope... (read in full...)
I really like him now, but how to I get his attention again?
Q. So one of my guy friends told me a while ago that he likes me. At the time, I didn't like him and told him so. But now, I do have a crush on him and I'm not sure what I should say or do... I would really appreciate any advice you can give me! Thank ...
A. 18 April 2010: Flirt with him and lay the hints heavily. If you can, see if you can ask one of his friends or get one of your friends to talk to him or one of his friends.... (read in full...)
How can I calm my nerves?
Q. Hello guys I need some help. next wednesday I have my music practical! and im freaking out! im so nervous even thinking about it makes my heart race! i need some tips on how to stay calm and not mess this up!! Thank you! xxxx...
A. 13 April 2010: every time you start to feel nervous just concentrate on your breathing, in and out slowly and tilt your head forwards and then backwards with your mouth open. Try to avoid anyone who is nervous. It's totally normal to be anxious though, when people ... (read in full...)
Advice needed about my crush!
Q. There is this guy who lives in my village and i've had a huge crush on him for like at least 6 months now, even though I hardly know him. I've only ever spoken to him once or twice, but whenever i see him, in my village or at school(he's not in my ...
A. 19 March 2010: just relax and try to talk to him a bit more, not too much, but just be at ease. I find that you can get loads of answers and not get much closer to what you want. Just trust your natural instinct and you should be fine because your gut is usually ... (read in full...)
I think my teacher knows I fancy him! Help!
Q. Hey. I don't know if my teacher know I like him. I've liked my reacher for just over a year now and he wasn't at my parent teacher meetings so my mum and dad made an appointment to go and see him and I was there. Well he jokes with me and...
A. 28 February 2010: you're friends with your teacher, which is good. If he knows what's for the best, he won't act any different around you unless you started to try to move things forward (which you shouldn't). Don't worry about it. Maybe tell your mum that she ... (read in full...)
How reliable is a drunken proclamation of love?
Q. Are people more honest when they're drunk, or do they say things they don't mean? Last night around midnight, one of my old mates, who used to fancy me, called me while he was drunk. He told me that he really wanted to talk to me, and that he miss...
A. 27 February 2010: Although it is true about being honest when drunk, it also means that we become a hightened version of ourselves. My best guess would be that he has some feelings for you but got caught up in the moment and suddenly felt the urge to declare love to ... (read in full...)
Can't find the right one! Am I too picky?
Q. I have trouble relating to a lot of girls......so I am 20 Years old and to put it bluntly most girls 18-20 aren't exactly the brightest ones around my parts. I have gone through my "partying" phaze and all of that and yea of course I still party ...
A. 23 February 2010: You don't have to compromise, only go out with people if you feel that initial spark, as if you could get on quite well with them.
Love in general is picky so if you don't feel strongly about someone, don't feel like you should.
Being picky in... (read in full...)
I really like my professor but I don't know what to do!
Q. I really have a big problem, because I really can't admit that I really do like my professor, and I am not already the kind of student before, when I still do not have the feelings for him yet. I am a first year college student and I'm 16, also, my ...
A. 19 February 2010: It's completely normal to feel like that.
Crushing on your teacher is something that happens to almost everyone at one stage or another.
Just enjoy your crush, maybe use it as motivation to do well in his class, but don't do anything about it... (read in full...)
I want to break it off with my 15 year old girlfriend but don't want to hurt her!
Q. I am 21 years old and my friend, who is 18, hooked me up with this 15 year old girl. There was and is a connection. However I seem to have become a nervous wreck and rather paranoid. See while our relationship is STRICTLY non-sexual, i just can't ...
A. 19 February 2010: If you can't stand the age difference then you should break up with her.
Because she is so young and you're 21 so it is frowned upon anyway and you probably would have been better off with someone your own age.
Six years is an awful lot when you... (read in full...)
How soon can I tell if I am pregnant?
Q. so my period was due the 14th, give or take a few days, my periods are off sometimes. I usually am really emotional before I start and I was for the past couple days so I thought I'd start soon. but my bf and I just had unprotected sex yesterday ...
A. 17 February 2010: It's much too soon to tell, but if you stress out it could cause you to miss your period. It sounds unlikely seeing as from what I understand you had sex after your period was due.
Try to keep your mind off it, if it's still late in two weeks, take... (read in full...)
Could you consider what happened to me as rape? I never actually told him to stop.....
Q. Saturday night I went out with some friends from work. After the bars, we went over to one of their houses for an after party. At about 4:35 I went to hang out with one of the guys alone. (No intention of sex, just wanted to make out). We were d...
A. 17 February 2010: Were you drinking?
If so, let me put it this way: No person is fit to enter in a contract when drunk, verbal, written or otherwise.
This means that he would have taken advantage of you when you were in no state to agree to anything.
The only ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to make giving head easier?
Q. I need some input from the more experienced. Well I've been with my boyfriend for about four months now and I love him very much. We waited two months to have sex, I am 17, and he's 18. {Trust me two months is a long time for people our age n...
A. 17 February 2010: How often have you given him head because you'll only learn to control your gag reflex with practice, even try on random objects that are roughly the same size/shape. Before starting you need to make sure that you're properly relaxed and don't tense ... (read in full...)
Any tips on flirting...?
Q. Hey all, ive been single for quite some time now and i'm looking for a boyfriend. any flirting tips girls? thanks...
A. 16 February 2010: Hit them playfully when your messing, seem confident, laugh at their jokes, be lovable, be easy to talk to, warm, sweet, energetic, intelligent.
brag - carefully, like a peacock shimmers it's feathers, show what your good at, but not too much caus... (read in full...)
I'm scared I could ruin our friendship, should I go for it or hide until my feelings have gone?
Q. So i like my best friend. HE is a guy. We've been friends for a while too. he sits with me and my other friends at lunch, we sit by each other in classes, we switch hoodies(i have a guy one), and we talk all the time. but now i like him but i dont ...
A. 16 February 2010: Flirt with him and see how he reacts. Recruit the help of some of your girl friends and see what they say.
good luck
xx... (read in full...)
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