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writes:hellooo so i have this HOT teacher, i literally love the man, (well i have a crush) and the other day, i had a massive fall out with my mate which resulted in me crying. i was walking down the empty corridor like this, and this teacher saw me and stopped teaching to come and see if i was okay. he got a sub to fill in for his class and he sat with me for an hour and a half telling me that he was always here for me. and helped me with my problem with my friend. when the bell went for home, he stood up and touched my arm and said "are you going to be okay now?" i said yeah and thanked him, still teary eyed, and then he gave me a hug. is that okay, for him to hug me? it felt fine like it didnt seem bad at the time but i dont know. nothing at all was insinuated or anything, i think he was being supportive. this is okay yeah? thanks.
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reader, Pragya  +, writes (27 September 2019):
According to me it is okey because I am also a female student and I have a male teacher who is very caring. He is having a very friendly nature with me . Whenever I feel myself in trouble , he is the first one who support me and take me in the right path . He treat me as a caring parent , he guide me as a supportive teacher , he motivates me as a most loving friend. He loves me and I love him too. Whenever I feel myself alone , he kiss me and hug me very tightly and he make me feel that he is always there for me. I love my techer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): You are lucky to have a caring teacher. I had the similar experience as you are, but I gave her my wonderful support for her department in college, as I worked with her in many occasions as a student assistant by tutoring many students in her web design and other multimedia classes. But anyway, don't be worried about it because -- I don't think it's a crush love.
In my case, this mutual relationship between colleagues and friends. I continued to give her wonderful support to her and the multimedia support. And then, in return she would care to give support on finding a path to achieve my goals finding work in the web development industry - either giving some advice and wisdom, or maybe giving some opportunities on campus to gain more experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey, thanks for your advise. No i've never seen or heard of him hug any other girl in the school, so it is an oddity. Also, it is the first time he has ever hugged me. I think he was just being a really good teacher.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (2 February 2010):
 he obviously likes you as a student which is good but it doesn't mean that he likes you anymore than that.
enjoy your crush as long as you know that it won't lead anywhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): If it was just a hug then it's fine I guess. But if he likes to hug you often, and uses other opportunities to be with you and be close, then it is a red sign. Look out for that! Does he hug other girls that you know of?
It could mean nothing and that he was just concerned about you.
Then again I had a pedophile music teacher at my school who just loved to hug all the girls. This wasn't a one time occurrence though, he hugged every chance he got and also treated girls different from guys, giving girls special attention.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): as a young school girl i can understand why you think he likes you. but on the other hand it was part of his teaching dutys was he a head of a department becuase they normaly do this kind of thing. and an hour and a half is a long time.
i think you should just remember this and try and look for any other signs.
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reader, Faraday +, writes (2 February 2010):
 How lucky you are to have such a caring teacher. I doubt very much if there was any other intent on his part besides support. If you are worried, look out for other signs, but try not to read too much into anything and don't try to spoil the career of a noble and caring man.
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