How can I ask him to make sex more meaningful for me?
Q. I'm 25 years old and my husband is 33. We have been married for 2 years now and have a beautiful 18 month old daughter. We got married after dating for only 2 months, because I got pregnant. Sex is now becoming more of a chore than it should b...
A. 20 November 2009: Just had another idea: Tantric sex lesson. It may sound weird to have a lesson, but I know a lot of couples who have done so and they all said that when they went home and tried it out, it was the best sex they had. =)... (read in full...)
I'm 14 years old and never had a boyfriend!
Q. i'm 14 years old,i have never had a boyfriend.i have a good personality i am one of those people who if you ask them for help i will definitely help. my mum and other people have always said that someone will always come around. my looks are ...
A. 20 November 2009: When I was 14 I was ugly, like, seriously ugly. But I blossomed, I'm actually quite pretty now. Chances are you'll look way better as you get older. Most of the people I know didn't get their first boyfriend until they were 16 or 17. It's completely ... (read in full...)
How can I ask him to make sex more meaningful for me?
Q. I'm 25 years old and my husband is 33. We have been married for 2 years now and have a beautiful 18 month old daughter. We got married after dating for only 2 months, because I got pregnant. Sex is now becoming more of a chore than it should b...
A. 20 November 2009: I agree with MsFrankie, watching porn can be quite interesting, it can really get both of you into the mood and take the lead from what's happening on the telly. You should introduce things, get some new moves and try them out on him, you never kn... (read in full...)
Does my aunt's dream mean I'm pregnant?
Q. My aunt dreamt that i was pregnant, but i don't have any signs except my stomach growing (which it always does when i'm gaining weight). I still have my periods. Wat worries me is dat even my colleagues think i'm pregnant. I'm not ready to have a ...
A. 20 November 2009: If your stomach is growing, then it isn't a suprise that your colleagues think that your pregnant. Your not pregnant if you have your period and although there can be some strange conicidences involving dreams, it in now way means anything. Relax,... (read in full...)
I think he's getting bored. How can I make it more fun in bed?
Q. i have been with my partner for 2 years now and im affraid he is getting bored in the bed room because i am scared to try new things. i recently discovered that i enjoy being on top but feel that i dont know the right way of doing so. i would like ...
A. 19 November 2009: you could invest in outfits or board games to improve your sex life. If you're uncomfortable then it could suggest that your relationship isn't as deep as it should be. Maybe the problem lies in the emotions department, you could stop having sex for ... (read in full...)
No matter what he does, I always come running back for more.
Q. I have a problem. My problem is letting go of the past. Especially one person in particular - my ex boyfriend. No matter what he does, I always come running back for more. He can chew me up, and spit me out, and I can't walk away. So my question is, ...
A. 14 November 2009: You've answered your own question. Better the devil you know..... But you know it's not good for you. How much heartbreak and humiliation will be too much? Get out now. Before you lose all respect for yourself. Yes you'll be afraid and alone but ... (read in full...)
Best friend and I like the same guy
Q. Me and my bestfriend just found out recently that we both really like one of our friends. She had started telling me that I should tell him I like him and ask him out. I refused, even though i'm dying to tell him, because she is my best friend and I ...
A. 14 November 2009: I think from what it sounds like, your friend needs to tell the guy she likes him more than you do, but be careful that he won't completely reject her if she isn't very confident. As for you, I think it would strengthen your friendship to put her ... (read in full...)
My 10 older siblings only contact me when they want my support!
Q. I had a full abdominal hysterectomy including my ovaries removed almost 16 weeks ago. I’m 42. My sister hasn’t contacted me for the past 13 weeks My sister Jane (she’s 55) is the only one of my 10 older siblings (most of whom are now in...
A. 14 November 2009: The thing is that you believe that people should behave in a certain way - your sister should care about you - but they don't, which makes you angry and disappointed. They behave in their own way. And there's nothing you can do about it. The fact ... (read in full...)
Why are my friends so immature about sex?
Q. Why is it that when I think of a guy I really like and him having sex with me I get horny...but most of my friends are not mature about stuff like this(example: they are always doing the 'thats what she said' and laughing about penises and think ...
A. 14 November 2009: your friends probably think of guys and get horny like you do, but it's one of those things that people don't like talking about. Me and my friends for example( we're all 16 and 17) can be mature when we want to be, but being immature can be fun. ... (read in full...)
Am I falling back in love with my guy friend after a bad breakup with ex?
Q. Hello everyone. Ok this is long so sorry! I just got out of a 3 year relationship in which the last 8months were verbally abusive and miserable. Anyway, before I met this guy I had been so in love with a guy friend. Seriously I fell in love with him...
A. 14 November 2009: unfortunatly no one can control thier emotions, all I can say to you is make an effort to get over your friend and go out to meet new people, because you never know where you'll find your knight in shining armour =) good luck xx... (read in full...)
What can I do about my embarrassing facial hair?
Q. hello!! im only 14 years old and i realy like to flirt with boys but ive recently noticed that i have some excess hair on my face, its almost none at all but sometimes it makes me feel self conciuos. so my question is...if i shave it off with a r...
A. 14 November 2009: DO NOT SHAVE. It WILL grow back darker. The best thing t do is wax. good luck xx... (read in full...)
Why don't boys want to kiss me?
Q. so... i'm about to turn 16 and i mean ive had plenty of chances but whenever a boy wants to kiss me they either think i wont want to, think it will be awkward after because ive neve kissed anyone, or believe its better if we dont because i deserve a ...
A. 14 November 2009: You are not a complete loser. I think you should make a move instead of waiting for them. You could take a stand and go on a date with someone you'd like to kiss, although loads of people will say how awful first kisses tend to be, most people i ... (read in full...)
How can I stop having these wrong feelings for my sister?
Q. i have a serious problem. In the last 5 months or so, i dont know how... but i always accidentally end up watching my 15 year old sister naked. many a times its changing clothes, or her coming out of bathroom. we have adjacent rooms, so it inc...
A. 14 November 2009: some people get feelings for people they were close to during puberty. don't tell her, it can just make things awkward and it's too much of a taboo. You can ask her to cover up, get dressed before she comes out of her room or the bathroom and simp... (read in full...)
He likes me but doesn't talk to me after school?
Q. Yesterday my best friend/crush Rob sat in front of me on the bus and when I talked about a teacher he liked that I have, he would turn around and ask what they said trying to be into the conversation. Even if I didn’t talk then he would turn around ...
A. 14 November 2009: I'd say he does fancie you but is a bit nervous. Some people say that you should aways play hard to get but in actual fact, it tends to annoy or frustrate most. Make an effort of talking to him as much as possible without boardering on creepy s... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out or not?
Q. Alright I have a question that needs to be answered immediately, please. There's this girl that i really like and I think I'm goin to ask her out tonight. just to give her the whole weekend to think about it. The only thing is that were really good ...
A. 13 November 2009: if your unsure, you should start flirting a bit and see how see reacts, if you still can't tell, go for it - she could say yes and it will be excellent! However, if she says no, then play it cool and there shouldn't be a lot of awkwardness but just ... (read in full...)
He just out of the blue changed towards me and it hurts not talking to him
Q. im a 16 years old sophmore im bi and i think im in love with a good friend of mine. hes 17 years old and a senior.he is straight and used to date one of my best friends. now i told him i was bi and he said he didnt really care.things were going ...
A. 13 November 2009: you can never really tell with people, you could just be growing apart- or he's growing apart from you. If so, there isn't much you can do, people change and you just have to think about all the good time you had together and move on.
what do ... (read in full...)
I need your help aunts... Should I ask him out?
Q. Ok here goes, I'm 13 an I've liked one of my best friends for a year, but for a while he was being a bit off wiv me for a while but then today he was being really nice to me an sitting next to me in class and we were having a laugh, and it was such ...
A. 11 November 2009: Yup! Go for it, if it makes you feel better you don't have to phrase it like a date, just say 'dya wanna go .... with me?'
the worst he can say is no and if you think he likes you then he probobly wont and if he does, it's not that bad and you can ... (read in full...)
I should just go with the flow... right?
Q. I sort of know what im doing but i just need some words of advice or if anyones been through something like this before.. I met this amazing guy on holiday on the last night. He lives about 3 hours away so we obvisley cant get to know each other ...
A. 10 November 2009: Defenitly go with the flow, your young, youth is the best time to go through guys and not get a reputation for being slutty.. just go out with different guys and gain life and relationship experience from it.
As long as your honest and don't stri... (read in full...)
Maybe I am paranoid or maybe I should trust my gut...
Q. hi everyone, i am 21 and have known my boyfriend since i was 15. Now we have been dating for 3 yrs. For some reason i have been having these feelings that he is hiding something from me. i would have never thought of this when i was younger, but ...
A. 10 November 2009: It doesn't sound like your sure you want to be with him, if this is the case and he wants to move forward, you shoud let him know how you feel so that he doesn't just get strung along.
Your probobly better off breaking up with him and finding some... (read in full...)
Now that he's split from his girlfriend, should I tell him I like him?
Q. I really need help, there's this lad I like who I work with but he's just spilt up with his girlfriend today. He told me he liked me a few weeks ago but I never told him that I liked him too. Is it too soon after finishing with his girlfriend to ...
A. 9 November 2009: depends on what terms the relationship ended on. If he's upset, then wait a while, if he wasn't in love with his gf and is relieved that the relationship is over, then don't do it straight away, wait a day or two then tell him.
good luck
xx... (read in full...)
He still hasn't put a ring on my finger after 6 years, should I leave him?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend 6 years he has cheated in the past and we are now past that we have had no problems with it he says he wants me in his life and cant see me out of his world but he hasn't but a ring on my finger. and he hates talking ...
A. 9 November 2009:
why do you wantto get married so much? You are still very young.
are you afraid you wont meet somebdy else? Getting marriedis no guarantee that you will stay together, and it sounds as if you think that it is. Maybe you both need to mve ... (read in full...)
Should I date him despite what friends/family say?
Q. ok so i am 15 year old girl dating a 19 year old guy we love eatch other more than any thing and life with out him just would not happen.. my aunt says i should end it with him she does not like the age diff. and she is a cop and my ucle her husband ...
A. 8 November 2009: it's understandable why adults don't like it, they don't like the idea of you having sex or that he could be influencing you with things like alcohol, even though many 15 year olds drink and have sex with their bf/gf.
I'm not going to lie, ther... (read in full...)
I feel like the whole world is against me...
Q. I don't know whats happening to me at the moment. I haven't written on here for ages, and now it seems that evrything that I've built up over the last few months is falling to pieces. With my parents nothing ever feels good enough for them, and they...
A. 8 November 2009: I can really sympathise with you, I'm in 5th year (in Ireland 5th and 6th year we study for our version of the A levels and we do two-thirds of the work in 5th year) so I have loads of work and I come from a very intellectual family and so am under ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and wondering if I am a lesbian?
Q. I am 13 and like boys. But last weekend I stayed at my BFF house like we do sometimes. That night we started talking about boys and sex and stuff. We were talking about what it is like with our boyfriends and started messing around. So we e...
A. 8 November 2009: I agree with sweety pie, I have never had an experience like that, but i know people who have gone out with someone of their sex for a while and after a bit of experimenting decided that they were straight.... (read in full...)
Where should I begin to move on from my ex?
Q. My ex boyfriend who has not treated me very well in our relationship (we have dated twice), and has started coming to parties with people from my school, and has been chatting up girls in my grade recently. I made the mistake at the last party by ...
A. 8 November 2009: This girl is not your friend if she's flirting with your ex. Leave her, she isn't worth it.
do anything to take your mind off him.
got out with your friends, not to parties he's at though, avoid him.
don't spend to much time doing nothing, fil... (read in full...)
I want to move forward with our relationship, but I won't until I have some sort of commitment! Help!
Q. Ok.. so my situation is a little complicated i'm afraid. Basically theres this guy, and me and him have been friends for a long time. And he liked me a while back, but I wasnt interessted cos I was getting over my ex. Now over summer we hung out a ...
A. 8 November 2009: you can show him your nothing like his old girlfriend.
Give him as much space as he wants.
maybe only go on dates once a week and let him get comfortable with the idea of going out with you.
You have to work at relationships so don't just give up... (read in full...)
I broke up with my b/f because I love my teacher
Q. Hi, I am 16 years old and am in love with my former teacher. I know there is so many questions on this website about this issue, but I just need some specific help. I have known him for 3 years now, and he taught me for two. I moved away at the end ...
A. 8 November 2009: don't tell him.
I know it's difficult, i was in love with my teacher, (i'm 16, he's 40)
i could see us getting together, i thought he liked me too. He was so nice and caring, I thought there could come a time where we'd have an affair or that he ... (read in full...)
I need my man to be sexy AND have brains!
Q. Hey people.. I recently met a guy ..we have chemistry, but the thing is he's not that educated aka we cant talk about philosophy, literature etc. Sex-wise I'm attracted to him but then again I dont know if I could be satisfied with a sexual re...
A. 8 November 2009: it's okay to be picky because love does happen and it will.
your just sexually atractted to this guy, so call it a fling, gain some experience and if you really don't think it's right, bite the bullet and break up with him. Don't string him alon... (read in full...)
Should I pursue my gay cousin?
Q. Okay, so, I am gay, and my 3rd cousin twice removed is as well (homosexual and male), and i'm not going to beat around the bush, i want to hook up with him and have even thought about dating him. 1. Is this bad? 2. What do i do about it?...
A. 8 November 2009: 3rd cousins generally don't count as related even if your families stay in touch. Everyone on earth was descended from one ape so if you look at it that way, we're all cousins!=)
go for it, good luck
xx... (read in full...)
Do I tell mum that dad is looking for escort massages?
Q. ok so my dad is generally a really decent guy and nothing like this has ever happened before; he is really family orientated. but i have recently seen on the interent history that he has been searching for escort massages ( i assume that this is ...
A. 7 November 2009: Who are you closest to? that's the person you should tell. I think you are too young to keep it to yourself, and you are worried about the state of your parents' marriage now, and for the future. He may just have been looking out of curiosity - ... (read in full...)
How in the world can I find him and make contact with him?
Q. I met a man many years ago(12). We lived 2 houses apart.We began talking a lot, out in the yard. My little girl was always there. We were mutually attracted to each other. Nothing was ever said but we just knew it. We were both married and would ...
A. 7 November 2009: 12 years is a long time. He may not have the same memories, or he probably has moved on. Get on with your life as it is now and try to make it better. He's probably a lot different to the man you have in your imagination....good luck... (read in full...)
How do I approach the boy I like?
Q. i hav a crush on this boy in my year, have for a while. we know eachova pretty well cos i've known him for aaggeess. my friends think i should ask him out, my mum thinks i should n she doesnt even no that i like him. but i am scared of loosing him ...
A. 7 November 2009: the fact that he is in your year makes it easier to find out what to do because you already know loads of his friends and what people in my year used to do was ask a friend to find out who he likes by casually saying something like "so, any goss ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I want him, or want to be with him?
Q. I work with a really nice gut we have a lot of things in common and we get on great.But I'm unsure if I actually like him or not..? We mess around and are often tickling or poking each other and have great chats together.I think I might just lik...
A. 7 November 2009: 2nd option: dump him and find someone you can always talk to about whatever.
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What should I do to keep things going?
Q. i've been going out with a boy for 3 weeks now but sometimes we run out of things to talk about. what should i do to keep things going?...
A. 7 November 2009: the way i see it, you have 2 options
1) give yourselves things to talk about - i) go on dates to places like the cinema and try to make that a topic of conversation.
ii) Go out with friends, or double dating and do something fun like bowling... (read in full...)
I don't know if I want him, or want to be with him?
Q. I work with a really nice gut we have a lot of things in common and we get on great.But I'm unsure if I actually like him or not..? We mess around and are often tickling or poking each other and have great chats together.I think I might just lik...
A. 7 November 2009: stay friends with him and don't do anything, like if you meet eachother at a party or something as many friends do, it might give you a better idea of what you want, but it sounds like your too unsure, and as long as your unsure, it's safer just to ... (read in full...)
What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?
Q. what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted...
A. 6 November 2009: thanks for the advice, but like I said, where I live, the teachers don't give you grades that count for anything at all, and guys in thier 20s have been known to go out with 17 and 16 year olds, so what difference does it make if they just happened ... (read in full...)
Help me please...I don't want to break his heart but I am not ready to settle down. I want to experience life! What do I do?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 months now and when I got with him I thought I really liked him. He allways liked me before we got together anyways, and hes such a nice guy who has allot of respect and allot of asperations in life. So I ...
A. 6 November 2009: break up with him, just tell him you had fun but your relationship can't work since you want different things, it may break his heart, but in truth, people do get over broken hearts.
good luck
xx... (read in full...)
How long should I date someone before expecting a kiss or more...?
Q. Hi everyone. I just wanted to know how long after dating someone in high school should I try to kiss them. Also How long after going out should I start hinting about sex. You know? Like indicating that we should. Not saying thats what I'm out ...
A. 6 November 2009: don't push it, you should wait till it feels right, if you push it, it won't be as good. Do it in private and start of with a peck on the cheek, a peck on the lips and work your way up to frenching, If she's inexperienced, then she might be a bit ... (read in full...)
Drunken mistake won't leave me alone...
Q. This guy i did stuff with while drunk keeps trying to contact me through facebook, but he was just a DISGUSTING mistake and I really don't want to have anything to do with him... How can I reject him without seeming like a bit of a b****?...
A. 5 November 2009: thanks for the advice =)... (read in full...)
The right time to kiss her...?
Q. I'm 16 and I'm taking this girl out to the cinema today and i would like to kiss her. What do I do to kiss her without looking or ending up doing something wrong or silly?...
A. 31 October 2009: there are different ways to do this, a lot of girls say that it's brilliant to be caught off gaurd and be kissed by suprise. I'm not going to lie- it can be v. romantic, but it can go wrong and if your not confident enough to laugh it off it might ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my husband of 23 years? Is this the grass-is-greener syndrome? Mid life crisis?
Q. Agony Aunts: I have asked my husband of 23 years years for a divorce. We have our house on the market. We are living under one roof until the house sells which is working very well so far. We have a 19 year old girl and a 12 year old boy. My h...
A. 31 October 2009: Often married people who aren't in love tend to have a good few problems rather than just not being in love. Although you have to think about your own happieness, because honestly, your kids will get over it, they aren't too young that they won't ... (read in full...)
Why do I always see my ex in my dreams?
Q. I always see my ex in my dreams and I do not know why. Apparently he was holding me tight close to him and then we started kissing. I really want to stop dreaming about him since it is always delaying me from moving on completely with my life.. do ...
A. 30 October 2009: freudians believe that dreams mean an awful lot, but most don't believe this.
your dreaming about him because he is on your mind.
What you did wasn't right but you know this, wait a little while and try to talk to him or talk to a mutual friend. ... (read in full...)
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