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writes:I have recently found out that a fella from my school is in love with me , and he thinks that i have feelings for him back, due to a misunderstanding ( me stairing into the distance; the distance being in the same direction as him). I haven't talked to him very much. But from what i can make of him, hes not really "my type"- last year he threw me to the ground, and he gets on quite creepishly with almost everyone, But hes never gone to these extremes before. I dont want to be mean in rejecting him, as he confessed to my friend that he realises the way he gets on, but can't help it, even though he wishes he could, due to his condition- "Aspergers". Help! xxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 If he tries to tell you how he feels, just let him down gently but make sure that he knows that you are definitely not interested.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Here's a mistake to avoid- do NOT say anything that will give him a glimmer of hope that you'll come around and suddenly become interested in him. no "later", no "sometime"..... tell him your not interested in him *if* he asks... and make it clear.
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reader, Sincerely Yours  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 Aspergers people have trouble communicating feelings and maintaining relationships. It doesn't make them throw people to the ground and it doesn't make him special Ed, so there's no reason you should reject him any differently than anyone else. He's a human.. just tell him you're not interested in being in a relationship with him.
~SY
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