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it seems i have needed alot of advice this month my life isnt working out and now i am grounded for a month so i havnt been on this for along time and i am trying to come on regulary
i am only 14 yet i have saw and experienced alot wich i can take and help others with i am currently not in a relationship as we broke up because it wasnt working but we do like each other alot so i dont no were thats going to lead but i hope i can help everyone out the best way i can and in return you can help me i have just came out of yet another relationship with my best fiends ex wich as you can tell will of been complictaed he says he loves me but hes not over his ex so i am just enjoying life at the moment love lushlass93 xxxxx
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Why do I still like her? She said no and she's not really that pretty!
Q. Why do I still like her? She said no n she looks off colour, not very pretty probably due to exam stress but I don't care I am in love with her as person no matter how bad she looks. Anyone understand me? Is it even possible to get over her?...
A. 4 June 2008: maby she dosnt like you but if you are sayin all theese bad things about her mabey thats why you shoukld think she preety all of the time if you love her so you musnt give her time she might of said bno becasue of the exams ask again after and ask ... (read in full...)
I suffer from a tremendous amount of guilt and shame for having sex before marriage! Will guys hate me?
Q. I feel rather confused. I've always believed in God (Im a Christian/Anglican) but have never really been to church much but still believe in God and also the morals and values from my religion. To me thats the main thing that draws me to it, I ...
A. 3 June 2008: if you were pressured to have sex with hmi you shouldnt feel guilty it wasnt your fault and it was partly your choice in life if its your life and you shouldnt let your religion affect you too much as its your life at the end of the day
you need... (read in full...)
Is this rape or sexual assault?
Q. i have a problem with my boyfriend - he wants sex and every time he tries to put his penis inside of me it really hurts. Last time we tried to do this he would not stop trying and I ended up crying - he then became violent and covered my mouth up ...
A. 2 June 2008: no thank you i ws waorried sabout you snd if you would finish it thanx for listening xD xxxx... (read in full...)
Is this rape or sexual assault?
Q. i have a problem with my boyfriend - he wants sex and every time he tries to put his penis inside of me it really hurts. Last time we tried to do this he would not stop trying and I ended up crying - he then became violent and covered my mouth up ...
A. 31 May 2008: forget what he ahs of yors you can not see this boy again he has raped you and he is abusive and violent
you need to tell someone incase he does it to someone else because its not just you in danger it other girls aswell
you shouldnt be with som... (read in full...)
Do these symptoms suggest that I'm pregnant?
Q. I'm in a pickle. Please help. I slept with a guy about 5 weeks ago with protection. My period last week was a few days late but very painful. I can't be too sure as to why it was late, but I believe this to be down to stress of my exams. I...
A. 31 May 2008: i doubt you are pregnant
but obvisouly there is something rong with your period you need to go and see the doctor about this because you shouldnt have this pain and you shouldnt have to go through it
good luckxxxxx... (read in full...)
PLEASEEEE I really need someone to talk to and someone to help me decide things!
Q. Hey aunts ! So its not like I have problems or anything, but I think I really need someone to talk to. It might make me feel better . But there are all these little problems I have, and I dont wanna write them all up here and post like 100 questi...
A. 31 May 2008: hjey if you want to talk go onto my name because althouhg i am young wich is good to help you because i know how you wil be feeling i can give mature good advice and i can help you
talk o me anytime wich i can help and i will listen alot of my frie... (read in full...)
Do you think there is something wrong if a guy asks for sex all the time even though you told him that you were only interested in friendship?
Q. Hey everyone, I know i prolly shouldnt of done this but I did it. Anyway I met this nice guy in school and we became friends. I told him I was not interested in a relationship right now cause I am so busy with school and work. He was fine with that ...
A. 31 May 2008: i think he is only aftr sex to be honest
you have to say no and see what his reaction is if he stops talking to you and being close its obvious waht he wanted all along but if he doesnt then you two could just be friends and hang around
if you are ... (read in full...)
I have not started my period yet and am worried...
Q. i am slightly worried i have not started my period yet and i am in year nine but my discharge has started going brown should i be worried ? i need some advice thanks ............
A. 30 May 2008: if its going brown you should start
you shouldnt worry everyone starts at a diffrent time you can be up to 16 before you start everyone has a diffrent rate for devolping and you shouldnt be enmbarassed
good luckxxxxxx... (read in full...)
I have a crush on him, but does he like me?
Q. Hello, I have recently got a massive crush on this boy in a younger year than me at our school. I see him at least once a day at school and we go to an afterschool PE session at our school. I am so confused as to whether he fancies me back or...
A. 29 May 2008: i think he might like yoy ab it because if he smiles at you tahst friendly and if he takes the micjk in front of his friends he is jsut trying to show off wich lads do aloto if they like you
you should try and find out first thouhg so you do not ... (read in full...)
What should I do? One of my friends is trying to embarass me!
Q. dear cupid, ive been seeing a boy and one of my friends has found out about it and has taken it upon herself to tell everyone and humiliate me, when im around her she says stuff and takes the piss about it to impress other people in my group and if ...
A. 29 May 2008: you should dat to your friend to let her know how you feel that yuo dont want her to be nasty and take the mick out of you and that she is putting you down and she is making you nt want to be around her
she is probably just jelous and she prob... (read in full...)
Why do I keep going for the wrong kind of guys?
Q. Why do i keep going for the wrong kind of guys? I know I am young, but this trend is starting to worry me. The first serious relationship, he turned out to be violent and broke my nose and slashed my arm with a knife. The second serious relations...
A. 28 May 2008: look i know i am alot younger than you but this is what happens to me i find lad he seems nice or he does have a repretation but he is fine with me then it all falls apart and he hurts me or everything goes rong
you just have to look psitive and ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling bad about the huge fight with my best friend. What should I say?
Q. Okay, so me and my best friend got into a huge fight last friday. She was making me look like an idiot in school to make herself look better around this guy that were both talk to. I got mad and told her sister who had picked up the phone that I d...
A. 28 May 2008: you should try and talk to your friend but you have to remember that she has to aplogise to because she did kind of start it and you need and apiligy yes you have said alot of bad things but so did she and she has made you feel bad so you need to ... (read in full...)
I'm 3 days late, am I pregnant?
Q. i can't take this any more i'm afraid. i just can't be pregnant!!!!!i have my whole life in front of me and my family and friends will be so dissappointed in me. me and my bf had sex two weeks ago. he took his penis out before he "cum". but he's ...
A. 26 May 2008: you need to calm down first
youre period can be seven days early and seven days late around the due day so camlm down and also my period has come 9 days after the due day before
you shouldnt of had sex without protection taking the penis out befo... (read in full...)
Are all these horny feelings normal?
Q. i am 14 years old and lately i have been rrly horny and i finger my self and i force my self to pee in bed and i hump pillows and i dream about makingout and have sex with this guy i like who is 16 is this normal and if not how do i make it stop...
A. 26 May 2008: it perfectly normal for you to do all of this
well except peeing the bed maby thats a bit robng and you should try and stop
but you are young and experimenting thats all most girls do it they just dont say yes to it because its embarris... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity to him but he has a girlfriend!
Q. hey... im 14 and still a virgin... im scared to loose my virginity but my mate says its fine... i really want to do it with this lad who i no... hes told me he wants to do it aswell but hes with another girl... i know that people say when your 14 ...
A. 26 May 2008: you are in the same situation as me at the moment
i love this lad and i wanted to have sex with him we were going to but we stopped beacuse we would hurt alopt of people but mine is with another lass to forget about this lass he loves so i am stuc... (read in full...)
Please help! Could I be pregnant??
Q. right im 15 years old and female, and last night i lost my virginity. stupidly i was drunk and he didnt use a condom, but before he was about to cum he took his penis out. i am not on the pill, nor did i take the morning after pill. i am scared that ...
A. 26 May 2008: there is a chance yopu coukld be pregnant but dont wrorry straight away taking the penis out just before ejaculating is not a way of not getting pregnant thats what some stupid people think wich is totally wrong your next step should off been to ... (read in full...)
We're teenagers and his attitude towards my pregnancy makes me insecure!
Q. im 16 i'm pregnant with my bf's kid we've always said that if it happened we'd stay together he hasnt really said anything about it what should i do...
A. 26 May 2008: your bf may of thouhgt that it wasnt going to happen or that ity woukld be easy if you did get pregnat but you have fallen pregnant and now he and you need to face your responsibalty for youtr child
talk to him and see how he is feeling about this... (read in full...)
I am 13 and so confused about my sexuality...
Q. ok I am 13 going into High School this fall, but i am sooo confused of who i am. I really like thinking about lesbian stuff and masturbate to it. But i don't know if i'm bi or lesbian or i don't know but i wish i knew what i am. any advice from ...
A. 26 May 2008: this is all normal every1 goes throuhg this satge when you wonder who you are and you experiment with yourself its really normal
if you just go with what you like and want you will be fine thinking of girls and mastubating is just expermenting if y... (read in full...)
I'm ashamed of myself and my scars. How can I get over this and talk to people, especially girls?
Q. im 14 im very shy i find it very hard to talk to anyone especialy girls ive never actualy kissed a girl ive had 1 girlfreind and that went no where i really like a girl who i met over the internet ive met her once i dont think she likes me back...
A. 28 April 2008: i want to give u a hug sooo much
you obvuosly dont have any self confidence at all but dont wrorry bcos i dont and i have no confidence you have to jst try and get on wake up and say i am me and i am not ugly we all just look diffrent i have reli... (read in full...)
How do I kiss my boyfriend without bumping teeth?
Q. HI :-) Sorry if i sound really stupid but i recently got my first boyfriend. I really want to kiss him properly but i'm really bad at it and keep bumping teeth! How do i do it right?? xx...
A. 17 April 2008: it6s ok if yas do bt make sure you are relaxed before kissing as you have more control if you are tense you dont have any control
good luck xxxx... (read in full...)
How do I keep both my friend and my boyfriend?
Q. thanx for all your help lately things with my lad isnt well i have made a new friend he is a boy but he really likes me and i dont like him although my boyfriend cheatded i wont but my boyfriend hyas become jelous now and has asked me to stop...
A. 17 April 2008: thanx for the help i know what im going to do now and i am going to talk to him when i see him thanxxx xxxx... (read in full...)
Urgent! Pimples and blackheads advice needed!
Q. i need help!first i want to thank you for the help i already recieved!!!! how do i get rid of pimpels and black heads in my face???please its really depreasing so please help me...URGENT...
A. 16 April 2008: eveerry one gets theese and you can buy alot of products like clean and clear is really good make sure you always wash your face throuly you cab also go to your doctor and get crams and tablets if you have as erious problem
just remember that ever... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hangs out with his brother who does drugs- he's been lying to me- what is he doing?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 years. Since we were both 15. We've had some problems along the way and he got into drugs and we broke up. Then one day he called me and told me he was ready to stop and he didn't do anything for a ...
A. 10 April 2008: there is no trust in this reletionship you have to talk and also think can you trust him after he has done drugs before
if he is doin drugs again you should leave him and get on because he isnt worth it
good luck !!!xxx... (read in full...)
She doesn't trust me.
Q. my maam is butting in on my life and she wont stop i am with a boy and we havnt had sex but we had done things together before he has cheated on me in the past but i like him alot but she doesnt trust me and i am sick of her and talking i wish s...
A. 10 April 2008: thanx a lot for your answers all of this has pened up so much and i know what i'm going to do now thanx for all of your help!!! xxxxx lushlass93 ... (read in full...)
Everyone laughs at me because of breast size!
Q. Im 15. And i have like no breasts, everyone laughs at me because of it seeing as all my friends have like either B or C cups. What can i do?!! x...
A. 7 April 2008: everyone grows at there own rate and if you are developing late then you shouldnt wrorry
some of my friends are still small were some are huge
its all part of life and growing you shouldnt listenin to people who put you down they have only got... (read in full...)
I really want us to get back together, should I try?
Q. Hey, me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday. He dumped me because he couldn't stand everyone starting drama. I kinda played a part in that because I asked if he was gonna dump me before it happened. I was just really mad myself that day because of ...
A. 4 April 2008: if you still love each other and you want to get back then ask him if he wants to get back then you shuold just as my boyfriend says there only two people in the relationship me n you and nobody else so just keep everyone else out of the reltionship ... (read in full...)
I get the feeling I'll never settle into a strong relationship, friends have comforted me but the thoughts return...
Q. Right, this is going to seem a bit of a strange question (as was my last one (I was given some good help for that, thanks)) Anyway... I'm completely obsessed with music and like something in nearly every genre. I have a playlist set uup on my ...
A. 4 April 2008: i always feel like i will never have a strong relationship with anyone but your friends should help you and you will find a relationship one day but if you wrorry about it all the time then you never will because you may become clingy
just at the ... (read in full...)
My bf had sex with his own mom!!Ughh..How should I react?
Q. My boyfriend had sex with his own mother. And that is really embarassing like I can't even look at his mother anymore. I even have a kid with him and is under his name. Right now,,I feel like this family I got into doesn't seem like a good family ...
A. 3 April 2008: you should get out of this family now this not a good family to bring your child up in and not a good atmosphere to be in niether
its inseste and just urgh if you really ddont want your child to be brought up in this then leave
good luck!!!... (read in full...)
I mistakenly touched my private area after playing with his penis, what are the risks in this case?
Q. me and my boyfriend were together last night,, that is only kising, hugging and sort of things, i was playing with his penis and he was almost cumming on my hands, i mistakely placed my hand in my private part, is there any possiblity for me t...
A. 1 April 2008: no you cant be pregant if he came around your vaginal area you could get pregnant but as sperm dies strauight away in air there is no chance you could be pregnant
bye!!!... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over half a million visitors in March!
Q. I'm pleased to say that according to Google Analytics, March 08 was the busiest month ever for Dear Cupid! We had 519,747 unique visitors (i.e. people!) visit the site from 1st March 08 to 31st March 08 inclusive. Over HALF A MILLION people.... ...
A. 1 April 2008: wooo go the site lol
am love dis site been a agony aunt for a few months now and im loving helping people its so good to share my opions and ideas
we will defo hit the 1million people here soon and i will celebrate lol
bye!!!... (read in full...)
How can I stop them bullying me???
Q. At school I used to get along great with everyone until seventh grade. My cousin and another girl were new students and they seemed nice, but when they started hanging out together they started being mean to me and a couple other people. I couldn't ...
A. 10 March 2008: you need to tell your mam and get her to sort this whole thing out
if notjimg else helps then you have to either be home schooled or go to a diffrent highschool
its unfair but you cant have a life with theese two people aeound and you cant call you... (read in full...)
Does anyone else agree with me talking about another man's wife's boobs should be off limits?
Q. I'm 25 and just started seeing a new guy. He is 30 and all of his friends are married. We went to a social gathering at a married friend's house. They were nice people and had great kids. I thought it was going great until the wife of the host ...
A. 10 March 2008: hi
i think you are right this is disgracful behaivour i think breast feeding is a natural thing in wich a mother and child have as a bond if your man said this you should tell him what you think i hope he didnt offfend the woman involved
and i... (read in full...)
Should I give him an ultimatum about his using drugs?
Q. My boyfriend is a complete pothead. I've tried getting him off of it but he ends up in such a state I just let him do it cause he gets the shakes and sweating and stomach cramps. The thing is I thought you smoked marajuana in a cigarette type thing ...
A. 5 March 2008: i no a person that has been through the same thing with there partener and 13yr later they wre still 2geva wich didnt help but finally she finished with hima nad she is better off now tell him the cannabis or you if he chooses you but then goes bac... (read in full...)
Should I spend the rest of my life with someone who won't satisfy me?
Q. I am 12 years old and I've just had sex with my boyfriend. The problem is I think his penis is too small I talked to my friends at school and they said it was definetly too small and I don't think I want to see him again. I know he had sex with alot ...
A. 5 March 2008: you are 12 you really shouldn't have had sex or be talking about getting married i am 14 and my friend has just got enagaded and they aren't even thinking of getting married at the end of the day engagment is a commitment never mind marriage... (read in full...)
I have a crush on an older boy that hates me
Q. I have a crush on a boy, he is in high school and i am in primary school, we only see each other in mosque. I love him but he hates me and makes fun of me and calls me names. I really want him to love me but how? I am despret for him....
A. 4 March 2008: omg hun dont put your self out for a lad i am 14 and i have learned that in my past relationships your only young and if he is taking the mick out of you then ts probably because he does like you thats what lads do
your only young so dont be to w... (read in full...)
Small amount of blood during sex, and my period has been absent for the past two months. Any advice?
Q. ok lately when me an my bf have sex once were done i poor out with blood for a few secs then it stops this dose not happen all the time but most im not saw or anything, i been skippin my period the last two months just wonderin if that is why??? ...
A. 25 February 2008: please see if your preganant !!!!!! you should maybe go to the doctors about the bleeding but make sure youre not pregars yet if you are missing your period!!! good luckxxx ... (read in full...)
Is it true that men want what they can't have?
Q. is it true that men want what they cant have? I've been told many times that the reason why the guy i used to like started talking to me again is because he found out that someone else is interested in me and im over him.Now he has been trying t...
A. 25 February 2008: the same thing has happend to me
ithink everyone wants what they cant have so we should all becarefuk and make sure we defintly want what we want before we make the wrong decision
if you are not interested in your ex dont get back with him he proba... (read in full...)
How to tell him I'm not ready for sex without being rude?!
Q. me and this guy i got with i thought he was just the type to just kiss but one day we went to his house to play some games, but then he ended up taking off clothes but i didn't let him take off my pants but he was about to so,it was a little bit ...
A. 25 February 2008: it doesnt matter how rude you are if you are not ready you are not ready tell him your not say how you feel if he cant take that then finish him because that means he only wants 1 thing from you if he is ready to wait for you then you should stay ... (read in full...)
Is my teacher affecting me or is it just me?
Q. I think I am mentally unstable. I love my teacher who is... well... mean. I keep breaking down ever since I met him. Is it just me or is he effecting me?...
A. 25 February 2008: you are not mental if you think you are you havnt met me lol
if this teach is bothering you you should defo tell someone if he is makin g you cry you said you love him and its ok to fancy a teacher my best friend did and she is over it now
try n... (read in full...)
Do I just go with my boyfriend and leave my dad a note?
Q. Hi Yesterday, my mom and I got into a fight she was totally wasted and when she gets drinking she's a fighter. I was sleeping for about 15 mins then out of the blue she tries to strangle me in my sleep. I told my boyfriend about this and he told ...
A. 19 February 2008: you need to tell your dad what happend and if you still want to go with your boyfriend then you should tell your dad and make sure you syill go and see him it is your decision and make sure you still do go to school because i know its sad but you ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my bf I want a baby at 13?
Q. Ohkay.I am 13 years old.I have done everything with a guy.The first time though I didn't use protection hoping I would get pregnant.But I am dating this guy right and I really love him.I want to have a baby with him but how do I tell him?I am young ...
A. 19 February 2008: you shouldnt be having sex at this age you dont really want a baby believe me i am 14 and i am going throught he same thing and so are my friends everyone does every where i go i want one and its unbelievable beilive me your boyfriend will n... (read in full...)
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