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hi!!

it seems i have needed alot of advice this month my life isnt working out and now i am grounded for a month so i havnt been on this for along time and i am trying to come on regulary

i am only 14 yet i have saw and experienced alot wich i can take and help others with i am currently not in a relationship as we broke up because it wasnt working but we do like each other alot so i dont no were thats going to lead but i hope i can help everyone out the best way i can and in return you can help me i have just came out of yet another relationship with my best fiends ex wich as you can tell will of been complictaed he says he loves me but hes not over his ex so i am just enjoying life at the moment love lushlass93 xxxxx

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