How do you know if a man has had sex already?
Q. how do you know if a man had sex already? would it take time for them to ejaculate? and if they havent had sex in a while would they ejaculate quicker?...
A. 19 August 2009: I think on the whole women are more nervous than guys if they are a virgin. Although he might still give you the impression that he's nervous, or at least not in the habit of having sex. If he's a virgin or not had sex for ages and ages, he will ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex ?
Q. i'm a 15 yo virgin and i want to have sex by two reasons 1. most of my friends say that sex feels very awesome and it's wasting time if i'm a virgin 2. one day i will have a girlfriend but if i find out that she lost her virginity when she was 15....
A. 27 July 2009: It really isn't a race. Believe me if you are still worried about not having had sex in 5-10 times, then you are OK to say about die a virgin.
Once you have had sex once, the opportunities arrive too.... (read in full...)
Mirena IUD... or IUDONT
Q. I don't know if this is the right place to ask this, but my doctor has suggested that I should think about getting the Mirena IUD. I just wanted to know if anyone here is using it or has used it and how it works or worked for them....
A. 22 July 2009: I have the Merina coil, and it's fine with me.... (read in full...)
Do girls prefer the scruffy hair look or the clean cut short hair look, which do they think is sexier?
Q. do girls prefer scruffy hair look, or clean, cut short hair in guys? what is it they find sexy about it? im fairly short (174cm) and oval shaped head, blonde hair.. ...
A. 4 July 2009: There is a lot of money in maintaining "scruffy" hair and clothing - ie buying those jeans that look old when they are not and those hair cuts. I guess it depends on personality, what suits you, or different looks for different occasions. For ... (read in full...)
I planned to wait to have sex with my BF, should I just give in?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have officially only been dating for about two months. Although it seems so much longer since we are so close emotionally. We are really into each other. Problem is he wants sex so bad. I know that it's not because that's all ...
A. 25 June 2009: Are you still aged 13-15 ie under the age of consent? That also has a bearing on things (although it would appear many people don't take notice of that). Regardless of age, it's important to stick to your guns and only do so when you feel right. ... (read in full...)
My BF wants to have sex, but I don't think either of us are ready.
Q. Well hi. So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple weeks now and I really like him. He likes to move really fast and I am fine with that you know. But now he is bugging me about going all the way and I'm ready but I am not so sure he is. ...
A. 25 June 2009: I think there is a lot of pressure these days about sex and everybody seems to want sex earlier and earlier. There is no harm in waiting a couple of more weeks or a month or two, whatever time it takes for you both to feel OK with things. Perhaps he ... (read in full...)
Is he expecting sex just because we're in a relationship?
Q. Today my bf and I started talking about each others relationship and sexual past, i.e. how many relationships we have been in, why they ended, how many sexual partners etc...Me and my bf havent had sex. He knows that I woudlnt just sleep with ...
A. 25 June 2009: I know what you mean because 6-9 months is about right to decide if you are really in love or not. Plenty of people confuse the idea of lust and love or are in love with the idea of being love. True love happens gradually, not overnight and you are ... (read in full...)
Is he expecting sex just because we're in a relationship?
Q. Today my bf and I started talking about each others relationship and sexual past, i.e. how many relationships we have been in, why they ended, how many sexual partners etc...Me and my bf havent had sex. He knows that I woudlnt just sleep with ...
A. 25 June 2009: He will be expecting sex because that's what he's used to. How long have you been together? Is it that it's too soon for you and you just need more time, before you are ready? If that's the case, just explain that and explain that you want to be t... (read in full...)
I'm a 22 yrs old virgin who has never been kissed!
Q. Some background might help you all understand this predicament I am in. Right now I'm in the toughest place I have ever been, went into the Navy from high school, got out semi-unexpectedly after about 3.5 yrs, no idea what I am going to do with ...
A. 23 June 2009: People have career changes in their late twenties and thirties, so don't worry about things in that respect. Perhaps some career advice would be welcome for you, so you know what to aim for and achieve. It all depends on how academic you are, or if ... (read in full...)
Opinions please... Is it too soon to be in love with each other?
Q. hey, just a quick one, would really appreciate a reply, thanks guys. i met this girl a week ago, we've spoken every night for hours and hours and i really love her. i told her i did and she said she did too. we can be completely honest and i trust ...
A. 18 June 2009: Love and hate are really strong words and everybody uses them all the time without meaning it.
I am sure you are in love with the idea of being in love, I am sure you really fancy each-other and think you have stuff in common. No doubt you thik... (read in full...)
I think I want to give up my virginity..but not 100% certain
Q. Typical question Me and my bf have been dating for about 3 months and I think Im in love. I really want to take our relationship to the next level (sex) but Idk if it's the right thing. He's not a virgin but I am and i did make a promise to my...
A. 10 June 2009: Thanks for your reply. When you said you knew there was a possibility of having sex before marriage. I bet you thought it would be when you are a bit older than you are, and certainly to somebody whom you know you are going to marry - possibly if ... (read in full...)
How can I make good conversation?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and i have a big issue with conversation and communication. its not that i dont want to talk with him its just that i dont know how to spark up a conversation. i can tell that my silence annoys ...
A. 9 June 2009: I think a lot of chat, early on in a relationship, involves getting to know each-other, finding out what you have in common, and talking about your life before you met. Perhaps you have gone through all this, and once you have discussed how your day ... (read in full...)
I think I want to give up my virginity..but not 100% certain
Q. Typical question Me and my bf have been dating for about 3 months and I think Im in love. I really want to take our relationship to the next level (sex) but Idk if it's the right thing. He's not a virgin but I am and i did make a promise to my...
A. 9 June 2009: I don't think anybody is truly ready or sure, when they loose their virginity. Three months is a while isn't it, longer than what a lot of people wait, these days isn't it.
At 3 months do you really love him? Or are you in love with the idea of ... (read in full...)
Emergency contraception! Please Help!!!!
Q. emergency!!!!!!!!!!!! please help this is really urgent. im 15 and i had sex for the second time with my boyfriend about 2 hours ago. However he pulled out of me and the condom wasnt on him we found it just at the opening of me and the tip wa...
A. 9 June 2009: That's a huge relief for you! Phew.
Basically I doubt the lad gave all this another thought, and yet it's us girls who have to worry about getting pregnant.
Therefore please be careful in the future, a bit of fun isn't worth all this stress ... (read in full...)
What should I expect for my first time?? how can we make it "easier" on me?
Q. i'm almost 18 and i'm still a virgin... not that i'm upset or ashamed about it, i'm actually quite proud. Me and my bf have been dating for 5mths, and i think i'm finally ready to have sex. I love my bf, and completely trust him... but i'm stil...
A. 6 June 2009: Hi I don't think anybody ever feels ready or particularly likes their first time. After that it gets better. You have known him a while now, so I am sure that gives you more peace of mind. I think after the first time, you will be in a routine of ... (read in full...)
How to get a guy to sleep with you?
Q. I've known him for like an year now and we have been talking a couple of times and i found out that we've got similar tastes and everything. He's nice and the kind of guy i would love to date but I've heard that the best way to start of the ...
A. 4 June 2009: Errr guys don't need much encouragement, it's normally guys who wonder how to get girls to sleep with them haha. You are not going to get a guy who says it's too soon, so whatever you do, it will work.... (read in full...)
Why do women like bad boys? Because they treat them badly?
Q. I like to think of myself as a nice guy. I enjoy breaking the myth that nice guys finish last, I'm well off, good at my job, phyisically fit and an acomplished sportsman. I have however fallen flat on my face when it comes to dating. Women just are ...
A. 3 June 2009: The benevolent aspects of helping a boyfriend can happen if the lad is a bad boy, but also, if he's quiet and shy.
Basically why is it the girls responsibility to help him? Why is it our responsibility to keep him on the straight and narrow, ... (read in full...)
Does this mean my hymen isn't there?
Q. hey, im not exactly planning on rushing into sex just yet, im 17, and im proud to still be a virgin, ive been with my boyfriend now for almost 6 months, and im not stupid.. i know sex is going to happen soon, and ive heard most people bleed on their ...
A. 2 June 2009: Don't worry about it, by the sounds of it your hymen must have broke doing sports or whatever. I say this, especially because you used the pleural "fingers". At least you can expect no pain during your first sexual intercourse - which must be a ... (read in full...)
Slow or fast?
Q. Do girls like it slow and passionate, or fast-paced and mindblowing? Or perhaps alter between the two? I understand that sex is something beyond the physical, and that in fact (science proves it) good satisfying sex can make a girl stick around...
A. 1 June 2009: You are right, there are so many forms of sex. Really the vigorous fast-paced is often associated with casual sex. The slow and passionate is often associated with loving relationships. Although you can have fast-paced sex in a loving relationship, ... (read in full...)
Why do women like bad boys? Because they treat them badly?
Q. I like to think of myself as a nice guy. I enjoy breaking the myth that nice guys finish last, I'm well off, good at my job, phyisically fit and an acomplished sportsman. I have however fallen flat on my face when it comes to dating. Women just are ...
A. 30 May 2009: When you word it like that, it doesn't make sense does it. Women wouldn't really want to be treated badly. However there is a certain sort of girl who repeatedly goes for the wrong type of lad, the sort you mention. Then they split up, then she goes ... (read in full...)
Sex and virginity
Q. hey, ok I have a million questions, but ill ask this one question that I have had in my head for a while. im a virgin and I always think guys want to have sex with me because of that but I also think once I tell a guy im a virgin they don't want to ...
A. 30 May 2009: When I look back, I didn't mention it until we had covered a couple of bases - then he said he knew anyway from how I reacted when he was trying to undo my clothes. They will want to talk to you, as you will be dating and he'll be wanting things to ... (read in full...)
Doggy style versus woman on top?
Q. This is more of a sex question than a relationship one but recently i've discovered that i really like sex in the doggy style position andmy boyfireend really likes it when i'm on top. I was just wonderng what everyone else thinks about these ...
A. 30 May 2009: Both are fun and involve deep penetration. Nonetheless for the girl being on top, that's more advanced so to speak and if you are new to sex, you might not be very confident about that. Both positions have different sensations really.... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex 2 days before my period was due. Any risks?
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend few days before i.e. 2 days before my periods.after having sex i had my periods at the right time.The problem is that even after having my periods safely,do i have chances of being pregnant.plz help..... ...
A. 30 May 2009: If you have had your period, then you won't be pregnant.
However, what's the point in taking risks, when there are plenty of forms of contraception that work. Regardless of the time of the month, there are still risks.... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with this girl I don't know well just for the sake of it?
Q. Im going to a party soon, and this girls going i was wondering if i should have sex with her there or just mess about as this would be my first time and i want some experiance. And i dont know her that well?...
A. 30 May 2009: Please dont' loose your virginity to a girl you don't konow well. If you like her, date her, and have sex after a month or two. That's the best way to get experience when you are a virgin. At least you are contemplating the options and not just ... (read in full...)
I regret sleeping with him now and feel so stupid for doing so!
Q. Hello. I am extremly worried. I done something that I feel completely silly about. I feel like such a silly little girl. Any feedback and comments would be very much appreicated. I have known this guy for a while and deicded to meet up with him...
A. 29 May 2009: Firstly relax and don't panic too much. You remind me of a situation I had: Regarding that seduction thing that Who mentioned, a guy wanted it there and then and in a moment of weakness I didn't notice there wasn't a condom on, because it happened ... (read in full...)
I regret sleeping with him now and feel so stupid for doing so!
Q. Hello. I am extremly worried. I done something that I feel completely silly about. I feel like such a silly little girl. Any feedback and comments would be very much appreicated. I have known this guy for a while and deicded to meet up with him...
A. 28 May 2009: At least you noticed that he didn't have the condom on. That's crazy though isn't it, that he didn't bother until you said!
You'll be fine, after all you got the morning after pill, which I am pleased with you.
I am wondering if you regrettin... (read in full...)
How do I satisfy a woman?
Q. My last Question get satisfatory answer? Thanks to all? I am little confused about girls that when she has cum in sexual intercourse. normally it takes how much time to get girls have cum. can every girls have cum by sexual intercourse? what...
A. 28 May 2009: After sex, try the clitoris - fingers. I think it's unusual to orgasm through sex alone, and through vaginal penetration alone.... (read in full...)
One night stand now I'm afraid he's going to think I do that all the time!
Q. im just out of 41/2 yr relationship i have 2 kids,we knew a yr ago it was over but i thought he would change he didnt so i finally got the courage to ask him to leave.it was hard, 4mths later im moving on.i'v liked a friend of mine for a while now,i ...
A. 27 May 2009: Please don't get your hopes up, no doubt this is just a one night stand. Surely he would have found the time to speak to you, if he wanted more. ... (read in full...)
Does a towel work as a contraceptive?
Q. Me and this guy hooked up wich was a total mistake, but i was wondering if you can get pregnant if he pulls out and cums and then after uses a towel continue having sex....
A. 26 May 2009: With the range of contraceptives, there is no point in taking pointless risks. This is why contraception was invented, so girls don't have to follow such methods and then find they are not reliable. Just get some condoms.... (read in full...)
One night stand now I'm afraid he's going to think I do that all the time!
Q. im just out of 41/2 yr relationship i have 2 kids,we knew a yr ago it was over but i thought he would change he didnt so i finally got the courage to ask him to leave.it was hard, 4mths later im moving on.i'v liked a friend of mine for a while now,i ...
A. 26 May 2009: Quite a proportion of people have had a one night stand or two, it doesn't necessarily mean that you are in the habit of these things. I think a lot of things can lead to a one night stand, a lot of pent up emotions.
Perhaps you are just shocked ... (read in full...)
What do people think about casual sex?
Q. I'd like peoples opinions on casual sex (one night stands and friends with benefits). Do you think either are morally ok? I am trying to make my mind up on weither i think they are accetable and would like some opinions. ...
A. 22 May 2009: No doubt you are asking because you have never had a one night stand and you notice there are a lot of opportunities and others you know have had one night stands.
Basically I used to be really against it. I used to hold back and delay having s... (read in full...)
Dating an older guy and nervous about sleeping with him!
Q. Ive been dating a older man for a couple of weeks, we have only kissed but im scared of the whole sex thing as him being 6 years older then me im worried hes had much more experience then me as ive only had one sexual partner, also im a curvy girl a ...
A. 22 May 2009: I am sure guys are less bothered about our figures than we think, or else they wouldn't be with us.
Perhaps it's a good thing he's more experienced, then at least he knows what he's doing ha-ha.
I also think good sex is about the connection a... (read in full...)
Emergency contraception! Please Help!!!!
Q. emergency!!!!!!!!!!!! please help this is really urgent. im 15 and i had sex for the second time with my boyfriend about 2 hours ago. However he pulled out of me and the condom wasnt on him we found it just at the opening of me and the tip wa...
A. 22 May 2009: If you are bleeding, that's fine. You will be getting a heavy period and you'll be relieved that you are not pregnant.
Basically if your boyfriend doesn't take care when removing his penis after ejaculation, this is when the condom falls off insi... (read in full...)
Can a relationship work if you are not sexually attracted to your partner?
Q. Can a relationship work if your not sexually attracted to your partner?...
A. 21 May 2009: Not in the long run no. You risk sleeping with him, even though you are not attracted to him in that way, which might feel a bit odd for you. Certainly it wouldn't last or become serious.... (read in full...)
A year and 1/2 and still no sex?
Q. Sooo me and my gf have been dating for a year and a half so a decent amount of time. We havent had sex nor have i tried. Our year n a half was a week ago n we were making out. Both our top layers came off n the moment just seemed right, so i tried ...
A. 21 May 2009: Hi again, That's why I suggested a long engagement. Basically we were both students and had a long engagement for the same reason, before we got married.
I know what you mean you are hardly only after one thing if it's been this long! As you say,... (read in full...)
Women: Threesomes--MMF or MFF??
Q. Quick question for the women out there, which do you prefer, a MMF or MFF threesome? My wife and I are talking about it and she finds both pretty hot. I said my main concern would be for her to be happy and enjoy it and am willing to do either or ...
A. 21 May 2009: I think some things are best left as a fantasy, or in a relationship that you know isn't going anywhere - ie a casual thing.
I can believe the Relate statistics and the lack of trust and loss of bond.... (read in full...)
Sperm donation from a friend or go to the Doctors?
Q. ive been wit my gurlfriend for 3-years.we live together an we want to have a baby.what should i do.i love her so much.so i go to the dr and try it that way.or should i find a frind that will give the sperm?...
A. 21 May 2009: Would a friend situation not end up with paternal rights issues? Because strictly speaking he's the Dad. It sounds complicated, whereas a proper clinic is regulated and you are protected in that respect.... (read in full...)
She smokes! Why do I want her?
Q. i'm a freak right. The fact that some girl smokes turns me on and makes me want her, why am i weird like that? ...
A. 21 May 2009: There is a smoking fetish. However I don't understand that or any other fetishes for that matter.
I agree about the health implications of smoking, the cancer etc...
In addition, smoking is becoming less acceptable in the UK with no smoking ... (read in full...)
Just by looking, can you detect virginity?
Q. Hi all, I'm not sure whether this is the right place to post but, I have been wondering can people tell who is a 'virgin' or not? if so, how? (e.g. the eyes, the way they dress, act?) ...
A. 21 May 2009: I think generally girls are shy sexually and find the approaching male body a bit scary when they are not used to it. Girls are generally coy when a guy approaches her sexually. So for a girl I would say a guy could tell by the fact that a virgin ... (read in full...)
A year and 1/2 and still no sex?
Q. Sooo me and my gf have been dating for a year and a half so a decent amount of time. We havent had sex nor have i tried. Our year n a half was a week ago n we were making out. Both our top layers came off n the moment just seemed right, so i tried ...
A. 21 May 2009: Something that occurred to me...
If she wants for you to be her first and only sexual partner. Are you engaged, or planning a wedding? Perhaps she would only be comfortable, if there is a wedding date in mind? Say if there is an approxim... (read in full...)
A year and 1/2 and still no sex?
Q. Sooo me and my gf have been dating for a year and a half so a decent amount of time. We havent had sex nor have i tried. Our year n a half was a week ago n we were making out. Both our top layers came off n the moment just seemed right, so i tried ...
A. 20 May 2009: Ahh we must have been typing at the same time.
I know what you mean. In that case, she's probably nervous and shy about it and possibly the signals are there? Do you notice that she's really turned on and relaxed, like a moment of weakness... (read in full...)
A year and 1/2 and still no sex?
Q. Sooo me and my gf have been dating for a year and a half so a decent amount of time. We havent had sex nor have i tried. Our year n a half was a week ago n we were making out. Both our top layers came off n the moment just seemed right, so i tried ...
A. 20 May 2009: I agree, it's a huge leap all at once when you have never had sex before. So over the next few weeks, progress bit by bit. She might not want to be fully naked yet. She might not mind having her top undone/half on and her pants off, involving ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex ?
Q. i'm a 15 yo virgin and i want to have sex by two reasons 1. most of my friends say that sex feels very awesome and it's wasting time if i'm a virgin 2. one day i will have a girlfriend but if i find out that she lost her virginity when she was 15....
A. 13 May 2009: Perhaps you are not ready for sex yet, which is fine. Say next year, or whatever, you might meet a nice girl. Chances are she won't be a virgin, so at least you know to prepare for that, especially if she's older. There is plenty of time ahead, so ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex ?
Q. i'm a 15 yo virgin and i want to have sex by two reasons 1. most of my friends say that sex feels very awesome and it's wasting time if i'm a virgin 2. one day i will have a girlfriend but if i find out that she lost her virginity when she was 15....
A. 2 May 2009: I think there is more peer pressure about having sex than anything else. I also don't think that at 15 we are ready and it's better to wait a couple of years.
You don't know if the first person you sleep with will be a virgin or not. If she is n... (read in full...)
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