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writes:My boyfriend had sex with his own mother. And that is really embarassing like I can't even look at his mother anymore. I even have a kid with him and is under his name. Right now,,I feel like this family I got into doesn't seem like a good family for me especially when my child grows up, what will I tell her about her father, and her father's mother (her own grandma). I've been thinking to leave this family and change my child's last name to mine and just go on with our own life together with my child, have a normal life but I don't really know if its a best thing to do. Coz right now,, i feel so disgusted to have this family.I feel like I just wanna ignore their faces outta my mind and pretend that I never met such a family like this. I even found out that my boyfriend had anal sex with his own brother? Ughh..How should I react? What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): This has got to be fake.
Someone really needs to lay off the Oedipus Rex book.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): Why would you want to tell your child about it's father and grandma doing that?
I don't believe this is real...
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reader, lushlass93  +, writes (3 April 2008):
 you should get out of this family now this not a good family to bring your child up in and not a good atmosphere to be in niether
its inseste and just urgh if you really ddont want your child to be brought up in this then leave
good luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): Hoping this post is real, I may as well answer.
If this is worth leaving him over, then you obviously don't love him as much as maybe you should - especially as you guys have a child together.
To be honest, if you could leave him over this, you could leave him over anything. It was a mistake, and as long as you show him how disgusted you are, then surely you can move on?
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (3 April 2008):
 I don't think this family sounds like a good one to raise your child in. I would leave them if it were me. You didn't know this was going on, but now you do do you really want to raise a family where people sleep with their parents? It's wrong.
Wishing you the best.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): Hi, I think this is a fake post, sounds like it was written by a child and it may have been believable that the guy slept with his mom but was a step too far when they reckoned that the same guy slept with his brother too.
If it is fake - you need to get out more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): I think you should leave this family alone! I would still allow the father to see his child, but I would never allow my child to go over to this house. As far as the boyfriend and his family enviorment...leet them be and do what they do, but you don't have to be a part of this.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (3 April 2008):
First off, dont feel bad for having your child with a guy who has incestual relationships. You didnt know, its not your fault.
Should you leave his family? I think so. I dont think its a good idea for a child to be brought up in such an environment and god knows what they could do to your child. I mean maybe your bf will molest/sexually abuse your child when your child grows up...you just dont know because you cant trust them.
Maybe you could try talking to a professional about this because its a big step and a big issue to deal with. You shoudlnt have to deal with it alone.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 April 2008):
 Is this for real? If it is please, please stop reproducing and spreading this gene swamp all over these great United States.
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