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writes:I just got married to my girlfriend who I have been dating for 10 years. But, I think I am attracted to her sister now. My wife is great, but from time to time I think about being with her siter. I don't know whats wrong with me. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the input everybody, truly I am looking at things differntly
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): Dude...get a freakin' grip. We're all human. We're all attracted to people...even if we're married. Just don't put too much importance on it. And, if you ever think of acting on it...just imagine the most nuclear apocalyptic shit storm your mind can imagine...and then put yourself in the middle of it. That will be your life.
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Just because you're married doesn't mean your eyesquit working. You will always notice other girls, and your wife's sister is no doubt similar enough that what attracted you to your wife is attracting you to the sister too. But you made a vow to your wife to be true to her. You can look, but try to remember why you married your wife. SHE's the one you love.
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reader, billw +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Normal occurance so don't worry about it. The harder you try to push this little obsession out of the way - the stronger the attraction becomes. Love your wife. Sit down and write a list of the reasons you love your wife - then on another column write down the things you like about her sister - then compare. Writing things down will paint a picture and give your a clearer understanding of the situation.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 You could be bored now and thinking you are missing out on something. You need to think very carefully what you want out of married life and also what you will lose if you go after y our wifes sister. These things can be very messy in families.
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