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writes: What does an engagement ring symbolise/ mean? My bf and i r engaged bt he don't want to buy a ring, says it's a waste of money coz he'l hav to buy a wedding ring soon. Hw do i keep tellin people i'm engaged when der's no ring infact nothing to show (though d ring doesn't anythin either)
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reader, romance  +, writes (24 December 2010):
if u r engaged to this man, and he won't buy you a ring, guess what when you do get married to him, there will be no romance, because it will be a waste of money to him, anything that is not food, housing or clothing you will have a horrible time getting from him. it already sounds like a stressful marriage.
there is no such thing as changing him, that will also cause devastation. don't marry him, date him. don't get to wrapped up in sex with him , let him fade slowly away from your life.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (24 December 2010):
 Normally, the engagement ring is the expensive one while the wedding ring is much simpler. It sounds like he's extremely cheap! If he doesn't want to spend the cash for the engagement ring, he's going to be penny pinching everything from here on out. Forget anniversary gifts. Know that vacations won't happen. Expect to be nagged about money forever.
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reader, Abella +, writes (24 December 2010):
 No engagement ring means No engagement. Start as you want to go on - and this selfish mean short changing man is not worth going on with.
And then there is the 'He'll have to buy you a wedding ring soon' ''HAVE to''? Wow this boy (his attitudes are not those of a mature respectful man in love) sure needs an attitude adjustment.
An engagement ring is a symbol of his commitment to you and his love for you. Most men in love with a girl are itching to do the right thing by a girl - by willingly and happily purchasing an engagement ring - and you need to be there to ensure you get to choose the one you like best. But seriously this guy has a very bad attitude to treating you right. Very sadly I think I have/to say that you can do much
better than this guy.
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