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writes:this question is for my little sister she is 16 and she really wants to have sex with her boyfriend she thinks she will be with him forever i dont know what to tell her his parents are total assholes and the only place they can have sex is church and to me thats disrespectful what can i tell her can anyone help me? Reply to this Question
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reader, jaylee kristen +, writes (1 September 2010):
jaylee kristen is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you so much for all your answers i will talk to her
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (31 August 2010):
 I'd be willing to bet they're not serious about having sex in church. it would totally disrupt the service. Tell her to wait until she can find a guy willing to hump it in bed on the wedding night.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (31 August 2010):
 Hasn't she been introduced to the backseat of a car yet?
Been there done that. Not much fun. Oppressive atmosphere. If she gets off on the perception of sin, that's up to her I guess. There's not much you can do beyond threatning to tell your parents and/or actually telling on her.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (31 August 2010):
 Been there, done that, it's not so bad... unless you're afraid of hell that is. If there is a hell, that's where I'm headed, so I'm not worried about respecting God's house. Besides, it's nothing confession can't fix. Gotta love Catholicism!
I do agree that there are better places though.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (31 August 2010):
 Sex in a church? That sounds like the ultimate sin. Advise her that sex in a sacred area is rather disrespectful to God. Let her know she will most likely get caught and face grave consequences. I'm curious as to how you can have sex in church when there are people there, don't you risk getting discovered? There's other places to have sex a car or driving to a secluded area at night.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (31 August 2010):
 Unfortunately there is little you can do unless you are really to tell your parents.
I understand you feel horrible about this but this is her life and you are not her mother. As much as love and care for her it is not your job and you either let her make her own mistakes or let one of your parents know.
You could also try talking about it to her. Don't accuse her just explain to her you feel it is disrespectful and ask her to share her feelings on this.
Good Luck!
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