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I feel like I'm too small to have sex doggy style!!

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Question - (25 June 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

OK well im new to this and my question is:

is my penis to small for "doggy style" my penis is 5.5 and my gf butt is pretty big.

we havent had sex yet since we just got together but when we talk about it she talks about "doggy style"

but im scared to do it because i feel im to small for it :(

also ive never done "doggy style" with any of my ex gf's

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (27 August 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntI've never had a problem with that size (but then I have a very toned butt). Surely it's not such a big problem?

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A male reader, xBOBxSAGETx United States +, writes (27 August 2010):

Yo man I used to think the same and I will tell you the answer. It's actually you're girl doin' it wrong. Make sure her butt is in the air and tell her to put her head down, that stick her vagina out closer to you! Bam problem solved!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008):

You are average length and should have no problem. Actually, a bigger penis will make doggy style more difficult with some women, as it will hurt. You can get in deeper that way than with most positions. Tell her that you have never used that position before and ask her to guide you on how to do it properly.

My wife liked it that way and told me that when we were first dating, but I had never done it that way either. Well, I ended up hurting her. Neither one of us could understand what was wrong until years later. We now do it that way a lot. It is one of our 3 favorite positions. By the way, my wife has a nice protruding butt and it only makes it nicer.

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A reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (25 June 2008):

I Dont Lie agony auntYou are right, the situation with the woman having a bigger bottom and the man having a shorter penis could pose a problem to sex when it comes to doing it doggy style. The problem here is that the man may have a shorter range of pelvic thrust movement. However, in your case, your length of 5.5 inches seems reasonable enough to do it well, unless of course your girlfriends bottom is very very very large.

Whatever it is, you and I will never know whether or not it will be a problem unless you give it a go. If your movements are restricted which I honestly doubt they will, try pulling back a little lesser than usual, or just tell her that you get off more doing it other positions.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008):

what difference does it make what size your penis is and what size her butt is, it doesnt go in her butt. it still goes in the vagina but from behind instead of anywhere else, me and my boyfriend do 'doggy style' quite a lot and by god it feels amazin lol. try it ;) good luck and make sure your open and talk to your girlfriend.x

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A female reader, daniellexxxx United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2008):

daniellexxxx agony auntOk my man is the same size and we do it doggy style it feels the good. I suppose it doesnt matter how small you are its how you use it some people say.

Tell her about your fear and tell her your a bit unsure about doing it. Maby try it and keep asking her if it feels good and are you doing it rite i'm sure it will work fine you havent got a small pennis its avarage.

Good luck.x

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