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How to make a move ?
Q. So I'm nearly 16, and a few days ago, I got my first boyfriend! My bf has never had a girlfriend either (he's the same age as me) so we're both new to the whole relationship thing :P Okay, basically, we're both really shy. So far, we haven't ...
A. 28 June 2011: Holding hands is a much easier way to start. Just walking somewhere nice, like the park and has a happy vibe. If his hand is hanging down next to him, it usually will mean he wants to hold your hand and is waiting for a first move. Holding his hand... (read in full...)
Should I check he doesn't have regrets?
Q. Me and my bf broke up about 3 weeks ago, to cut a long story short he didnt know what he wanted and i gave him 4 days to think about things and he still didnt know what he wanted. He was just generally confused, he lacks confidence at times and i ...
A. 5 June 2011: If he wasnt okay with the break up and truly wanted you he would of made his move. your decision was right. if you have ended on good terms then leave it as that before it gets messy. The first few weeks of a break up is always hard cause you are ... (read in full...)
I need to get her off my mind so I can focus on other relationships
Q. I'm 15, I've liked my girl best friend for quite a while but she says were too good of friends to be together at the moment, I have had relations with other girls but I know she was more important than them what can I do to get her off my mind so I ...
A. 2 June 2011: Like you said, she is important to you. and these feelings towards her you maybe confusing with friendship and "love". so you must think of her as your friend and until you are properly over her you cant get into anything serious as you dont want to ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait to start a new relationship?
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend of 18 months about 3 weeks ago, and last week I met someone I really really like. People say you should wait a while to try and get over your ex but I feel like I am done with her - I dont think about her(excluding ...
A. 30 May 2011: I think others may view it as very soon but if in your heart you are over your ex and probably were a long time ago? then there is no reason to go ahead with the new person in your life. If it feels right then yes! Make such to get to know each ... (read in full...)
Is it better that I am not with him anymore or should I try to get back with him?
Q. I was in a relationship with this guy. He though seemed to hate himself quite a bit and was really down and depressed. He would tell me about how happy he was to be with me but it got scary because he kept putting me on this pedastal acting ...
A. 30 May 2011: I think as he has brought you down, and made you feel unworthy of anything it seems. But in my eyes this is a blessing in disguise as you can now move on and improve on yourself. Like you said, you have your own problems and that you were dealing ... (read in full...)
He says he's not ready for a relationship, but wants to continue dating...I'm not sure I want to go along with this.
Q. Hi there.. i really need some of ur help pls..u see one of my guy friends asked me for a date..we have been friends for like a year. I went out with him just yesterday and this morning he talked to me and all..he also said that he didnt want to hide ...
A. 30 May 2011: Dating is the first step! Shows interest in you doesnt it? If he is the shy type then i doubt he will run off for someone else or whatever. Just take your time, get to know each other, get out of the shy, awkward stage and by that time you know if ... (read in full...)
I want to do something for him to show him how much I love and appreciate him...Advice?
Q. Hey guys - I need some ideas for something special I can do for my boyfriend. We're both sixteen and have been together a long while; we're happy I guess but recently it hasn't been quite so ... I dunno, nothing's wrong but I think we've been a bit ...
A. 30 May 2011: If you taken pictures over the time you have been together, make a photo album/scrapbook thing. In order of age of photos with a caption underneath to show how much you guys have grown closer ect and the fun you have.
I am in a similar situ... (read in full...)
How to get over him?
Q. Hey everyone! I just have one question. How can I move on? I'm in love with an amazing man - smart, funny, charming, sexy, everything I've ever dreampt of. We'll call him J. We're great friends, and he's told me how much that means to him as well ...
A. 30 May 2011: Problem with not wanting to cut contact is that having them in your life and wanting them and them showing care towards you will always keep you there and not set you free from your feelings of want towards him. I suggest, not to cut the cords co... (read in full...)
Have I blown my chances with the girl who liked me?
Q. I've been flirting with a girl pretty heavily over the last three months online after we met in person through an extracurricular club at uni. She made is pretty clear she liked me a lot, and I hinted just as much back. I've never had a proper ...
A. 30 May 2011: It sounds cute to me! You really like her and are not sure on how to act with her. To me it doesnt sound like you have blown your chances with her, sounds more like she is disappointed that you havent asked her out as you are so nervous! Don't... (read in full...)
What's the problem here: Her or Me?
Q. I'm a guy, and there is a girl I met semi-recently and developed strong romantic feelings for. We've know each other about 4 mos, we've hung out, partied, we talk on Facebook, we text and we talk. She knows i like her as more than just a friend. She ...
A. 29 May 2011: You need to explain your feelings again to her. That is if the conversation is that way or else you may come across as needy.
She will feel guilty for not feeling what you feel but when it comes down to it you cant stay waiting for that "maybe" from... (read in full...)
Bra size.... how do I measure myself for correct sizing??
Q. how can i measure myself to make sure i am wearing the crrect bra size?...
A. 27 February 2011: There are some websites if you type it into google. thats how i did mine and it was perfect! All you need is your own measuring tape :)... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend ready to make-out?
Q. I am 13 years old and i don't know how to tell if my boyfriend is ready for me to snog him. I don't want to ask but when he kisses me i feel his lips press harder against mine and he opens his mouth slightly, but then he pulls away before I can ...
A. 18 February 2011: It will happen naturaly! dont worry, your 13, it will happen in the next month, maybe you should do what he does before he does and he might feel more comfy? :) ... (read in full...)
Is a cheater always a cheater?
Q. do u think once a cheater is always a cheater? thanks for ur comments in advance....
A. 18 February 2011: I think cheaters can change their ways. If the person they are with means a lot to them.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sent emails professing his love to another woman but won't admit it to me! What should I tell him?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and just recently noticed that he has become quite distant. I now have discovered that my boyfriend has been communicating with another woman, has sent her a Xmas Present, went to see her for a weekend and ...
A. 4 January 2011: LEAVE.
You dont deserve this treatment. Why are you still there?
4 years is a long time. But life is too short to put up with Pr***s like him who are waiting for a better offer. Leave before he leaves you. Cause if you leave him first, it wo... (read in full...)
Frustration for both of us over my slow arousal point. What can we do?
Q. my boyfriend is very good at oral sex and i really enjoy sex with him. I get frustrated, and so does he, because it takes me way too long to reach an orgasm. Sometimes i feel as if i'm concentrating too much on it, and maybe that is why. What is s...
A. 28 December 2010: When you are alone, does it take you as long to orgasm?
If it is a shorter time it may be a relaxing problem as you are maybe self conscience about your body image.
Maybe take time to relax and be somewhere you feel comfortable and feel no worries.... (read in full...)
Is it cheating if he's separated but waiting for divorce finalisation?
Q. I have been seeing a man who is going through a divorce and has been separated from his wife for several months. The only reason his divorce is taking so long is because of financial issues. We have a pretty healthy relationship so far. He is so ...
A. 28 December 2010: 1. Leave him to settle into life as we can only imagine how stressful it must be for him, and if you pressure him into anything serious he maybe wary of it, if he has been hurt he may feel all women are the same. Just prove were not.
2. It isnt ... (read in full...)
Would my height be a problem "if" this happened??
Q. This question is purely based on IF I break up with "Dana". We are very happy and I have no intentions of ending our relationship. In the event that we do, there is this girl, "Marie". She's very obviously into me, and I wouldn't mind dating her (if ...
A. 12 December 2010: Thats horrible, reading this makes me actually annoyed.
Your happy. leave it. Im not going to give you advice on how to make your dream come true with another girl if you have no intentions of leaving, isnt that weird?
There is no IF in this.
Y... (read in full...)
He makes up crappy excuses when I ask to meet up, is it time to dump him?
Q. He annoys me so much now, it's like he's playing hard to get with me and I'm sick of such childish games when we're into 3 months now. I'm the one who sends the texts and messages, who organizes the dates. He takes more than a day to reply and he ...
A. 5 December 2010: I suggest, dont contact him and dont moan if he doesnt turn up then leave it. keep leaving it, be busy, and wait for him to talk. Give it two weeks and if not, have a talk on feelings and where its going. then deside x... (read in full...)
How can I make her my very close friend?
Q. I joined an academy this Summer... Recently I started liking a girl, who is one year younger than me. Gradually I started thinking about her all the time. I tried many times to talk to her, but I couldn't get a nice chance. Sadly, the summer session ...
A. 16 November 2010: You say you have facebook and so does she. If you spent time talking to each other, over the months you guys will get closer. Just take it slow or you risk pushing her away or scaring her.
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Wanting a happy ending!
Q. I don't want to be a lesbian. i want to have a life with a MAN that i love and have normal children! I read about being bisexual, but it still scares me! I am probably bisexual, but can I just be with a guy if im bi? I'm in my lower teens!...
A. 16 November 2010: During your teens you have a mixed amount of emotions caused by hormones in your body. You will think you are one thing. then in a few years feel differently. I think you should not worry about how you feel right now, and know that whatever happens ... (read in full...)
Mature enough to have sex!
Q. am 15 and ready to have sex but everyone thinks am too young, i look at porn but it doesnt resolve my cravings, im very mature, i do everything on my on, i really really want have sex because im ready! ive always be over sexual and am on birth ...
A. 7 November 2010: I lost my virginity at 14, i thought i was mature and ready. 2 years on, and i wish i waited 2 years. The boy i was with didnt care and that affects me a lot as i am filled with regret. Please wait for the good guy. and sex isnt all its craked up to ... (read in full...)
Acne and Pubic Hair Problems! Solutions?
Q. hi everyone i am 17 and i have red spots all over my face, neck and a few on the top of my back. I have used clearasil but that hasn't worked at all. i have used oxy which hasn't worked and i am currently using a supermarkets own which defina...
A. 7 November 2010: for spots i use PanOxyl which you get over the counter and i have been using it for years. The worst of my spots go away in a week at max. Making sure to use daily scrubs and a facemask twice a week helps clean the dirt trapped in your pores and ... (read in full...)
Is she trying to seuce me or is the boob flashing accidental?
Q. do you think that girls (especially who has big boobs) always know that when they are bending they show their cleavages and what do they expect man feeling about that I have a friend (not a gf) always bends over in front of me and shows her big ...
A. 7 November 2010: She doesnt mean to. Girls wear low cut tops for fashion or comfort. Her bending down and revealing her breasts a bit is a mistake.... (read in full...)
Why is he so different from the other guys?
Q. Why is my boyfriend soo different? we were chatting for 3months..we went out on a few dates and he asked me to be his girlfriend. he thinks am different from any other girl hes been with with. hes really sweet, attentive, caring and ...
A. 31 October 2010: I have this too :) Its great. How long have you been together? Usually around 6 months is when guys go off girls. I say hes really in love and you should just enjoy and feel lucky! Just make sure you dont hurt him, hes really fallen for you
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Should I text again or just leave it?
Q. I met a girl yesterday through a mutual friend and I like her, am quite sure she was flirting with me but not 100%. I thought things were going well but now she hasnt text back, is she just playing 'hard to get'? I've texted her twice and she hasn't ...
A. 31 October 2010: I would suggest waiting till friday to text her again, if she doesnt respond then move on as she would have thought about you through the week.... (read in full...)
I waited for him for years but he had sex with someone else!
Q. hay im Thorn im 15 (sorry im bad at spelling) and i have a love hate thing with my boyfriend who is alot older than me and im not gona say how old altho im only 15 im very mature and i think things throuh im not the kind of girl who dose things ...
A. 28 October 2010: the past will destroy you if you dont learn to over come it. what i believe about love is that either was always there or never was. He isnt with that giirl you call his first love so its not really love. If you show this jealousy is how you feel, ... (read in full...)
I need advice, I want to have a baby, I am 14, please help??
Q. hey im 14 and i really want a baby i have wanted one sence i was 11 and i dont know what to do my family and friends say i am a natual when it comes to looking after children and careing for them i really don tknow what to do please help x...
A. 19 October 2010: Get a puppy. You need your education. Get a lil doggie and focus your love on it. My dog is about the same size as a baby and i basicaly treat her like one. Im 16. I think all teenage girls think about babies at least once or twice. But i recommend ... (read in full...)
I want to know what women think about this!
Q. what do women think of their male friends who sign up to sex dating and relationship sites? ...
A. 11 October 2010: Nothing. It shows their caring and obviously want some advice from all over the world. This website is especially good for advice in my opinion :)... (read in full...)
Is having PMS a reason to act like a spoiled brat?
Q. Hi, I have a question regarding my girlfriend and her PMS. I know that it is a stressful time for a girl as the hormones are running wild, but should it be an excuse to act like a spoiled brat? Me and my girlfriend, who are both 20 years old, we...
A. 11 October 2010: For me, a women, PMS is a legitimate excuse. It explains the crying a lot.
Best thing i suggest to do is reasure her a lot during this time. Tell her everything thats going on so she wont feel as bad. and if your leaving her alone with people she ... (read in full...)
We're going to have to break up because her parents don't approve of interracial relationships
Q. Hey guys im in a interracial realtionship and ive been going with my girlfriend for happily 2 1/2 years. only thing is that her parents dont approve because im black and she is white. she said that she have to break up with me because of her parents ...
A. 11 October 2010: Did you know her parents were racist before this?
My mum is racist, im white and my boyfriend is asian, she doesnt accept it but his family is fine with it.
I suggest really talking to her and seeing how she feels, because i know my mum real... (read in full...)
Boyfriend moving away and I'm addicted to sex! what do I do?
Q. what do i do if my boyfriend is moving away and i cant see him that much anymore and my hormones always raging and i dont know how to stay faithful and loyal to him because i keep thinking about sex i need some advise on wat to do bcuz i dont want ...
A. 10 October 2010: Yeah a vibrator is the only thing you can really get without actually having sex with someone.... (read in full...)
While separated, wife had sex with 5 other guys and I can't deal with it!
Q. I have been married for 15 years and last year me and my wife were separated all of last year....We have since gotten back together however while we were separated she has had sex with 5 guys...I know because she keeps everything in her ...
A. 10 October 2010: Women usualy when upset emotionaly they have sex to feel alive and worth something to someone. Its not slutty. Cause if you did it you would be proud of yourself.
Maybe your jelous? Your jelous you didnt pick women up and had sex with them as much... (read in full...)
Mum and dad say he's "just another crush". Are they right?
Q. right im not on here to bore the world, im on here to get help with things i need to and figure out if there are other people like me. im a 13 year old girl and i think im in love for real. my mum and dad and friends say he is just another crush but ...
A. 10 October 2010: Its infactuation. Its not that your too young to love, its that you probably havent been together lets say over a year or 2. This seems to be a new thing or else your parents and friends wouldnt say this.
I think you should give it time before you ... (read in full...)
Is there a right way or wrong way to handle this situation?
Q. Basically, I'm in a bit of a situation. I know what I want to do, but I don't know how to go about doing it. Advice and opinions would be much appreciated. I was in a relationship for six months with a guy, call him X. Nothing remotely sexual ...
A. 10 October 2010: I think X isnt a friend to you. He isnt over you yet and is trying to make you guilty because he is jealous of you and Y.
I think you should stop caring about X and just move on with life and with Y. If Y likes you and you get with Y then thats grea... (read in full...)
He wants to take my virginity... and I'm scared I'll lose him if I say no.
Q. Am a 14 year old girl with a 17 year old boyfriend who wants 2 have 6 kids with me in the future. the thing is now he wants 2 break my virginity. I am still a virgin and am not ready. I dont wanna loose it. He's the best boyfriend ive ever had ...
A. 10 October 2010: You need to say no. If not you will really regret it. and he isnt the best boyfriend ever if you will lose him if you say no! If he dumps you for this, you will hurt(cry & beg) for about 2 weeks, then you will see that it is a good thing that you ... (read in full...)
Where art thou Romeo?
Q. I'm 16, I have never had a boyfriend or never had anyone fancy me. I'm popular, outgoing and loving but no one wants to be with me. It's not that I'm not preety and I'm not fat, just ordinary, people say I look like Dani Harmer, along with the thic...
A. 9 October 2010: Confidence. The thing you need that attracts boys. Stop self harming. I know its a serious problem and it will make you distance from your peers. I urge you to stop self harming. The scars will never leave, stop before you ruin yoour body forever. ... (read in full...)
Why are the girls at school, so mean to me?
Q. y dont girls like me, at school there mean to me, call me names for no reason and dont really know me at all. Im in the football A team, top 5 for athletics in my year, Im not disgusting, Im very polite and haven't said a mean word to any girl. ...
A. 3 October 2010: Try to not let it bother you. The girls who are mean to you are stupid and dont realise what they are missing out on. If you carry on looking after yourself and do well in school, then you will get what you desire and show everyone wrong. The movie ... (read in full...)
Female Readers Only Please??--Irregular Periods??
Q. Ehhrr.. My periods started about a year and a half ago, and they are still very very irregular:/ I'm not sure if that is because I don't eat enough or what really, but I'm just wandering if there is a way to know that it's on it's way or not, ...
A. 3 October 2010: Its cause your young, ive had my period since i was like 10 and im 16 now, and finaly they are more regular and i can know which week to watch out for.
It just happens i suppose, you will grow out of it, are they extremely irregular?... (read in full...)
How one person changed my life
Q. I've been an aunt on this site now for quite a while, at first I started as an anonymous, until I finally took the step to make an account and dare to be identified somewhat. As I've gotten to know a few people on here, albeit still strangers ...
A. 27 September 2010: wow, this nearly brought me to tears. i enjoyed reading it, even after the sadness :/
im glad your life has changed and you appreciate life now :)... (read in full...)
I wish he could be more jealous
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles, I really wish my bf was more possessive. Not in the creepy "he needs help"-sort of way, but a balanced way. I don't think he's ever jealous although when my friends text me a lot when with him, he jokes that it's my man on the ...
A. 27 September 2010: I think maybe he just really trusts you. being older than you hes expirienced a lot with girls i guesss?
He wont want to lose you, he might just feel like if he does show he is jealous that it might effect your relationship. Cause jealously usua... (read in full...)
Something keeps stopping me from having sex, why do I keep saying no?
Q. well im 16 and i am a virgin! peaple always say ohh you dont seem like your a virgin? what the hell does that mean really. Anyway i have done everything apart from sex because when it nearly happens something always stops me and i dont know what t...
A. 26 September 2010: If you dont want it, dont do it. Too many people regret their first time. I suggest find a guy who your with properly and be with him for a long time before doing it, because then you wont regret it. It will cause so much pain if you do it and you ... (read in full...)
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