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How do I keep my mom from finding out I'm having a house party while she's gone?
Q. hey :) well my mum is going away this weekend and i have sort of organised a house party :D but i think i will get cought my neighbors are really strict and horrible and might end up telling my mum :S So i was wondering if you have any suggesti...
A. 23 May 2010: hahaha! Your gonna get killed. It will be a disaster, my mate had an empty a few months ago, and his house got wrecked, and everyone was drunk and broke the house apart.
and now his parents dont allow his friends at the house because of what he did ... (read in full...)
Why stinky toes?
Q. Dear Cupid. I know this isn't about sex or relationship but it's generally about my body. When I cut the nails of my big toes, I cut them as far as I can and when i do that, this horrible smell comes out and I think it's because in an already si...
A. 23 May 2010: I get this. I would say it is fungus. For me i have always thought it was natural. Just like dirt under the nail. Then after it is removed it is fine :)
Hope i helped x... (read in full...)
My husband does not contribute to the weekly shopping bill. Am I being unreasonable?
Q. My husband is refusing to give me an allotted amount of housekeeping money per week. I earn a small amount of money which does not cover the weekly food bill and other household items required. He says that I spend too much money on food etc., ...
A. 22 May 2010: I like what dave said, dont buy the things he likes :) seems a good plan and he will cave in soon enough... (read in full...)
He prioritises his sister over me!
Q. my boyfriend treats his sister more like a girlfriend than me. he buys her really expensive things and treats her all of the time, giving her spending money and he says he's going to go half with her for her tv, it's like it's his daughte...
A. 21 May 2010: Like you say, they have no parents, always? or recently? Either way they are looking out for one another. Siblings usualy do this once they have got over the fighting all the time stage. I think you should either accept it, like you should, or j... (read in full...)
Hair removal.
Q. Hey :) well im 17. Iv just started triming then shaving my vagina. It always feel a lil ichy an gets kinda red. Will that stop hapening once i get used to it and do it more? I heard geting it waxed is best but i really dont want any one doing that ...
A. 5 April 2010: If you exfoliate the area then the little red bumps wont come up :)... (read in full...)
I've kissed girls but never made out
Q. Umm im a guy and in 14, I've kissed many girls but never really made out. Im scarred when i start i might bite their tongue or something stupied like that, i just want to know how to get into it/start it and how to maintain it. ALso i dont know how ...
A. 5 April 2010: Its really simple, if you relax and dont think to much into it everything will be fine :)
It all pretty much comes naturaly, and even if you start of not brilliant you will get better with practise.
Basicaly to get from kissing to making out, all... (read in full...)
I have large labia minora. Please help, and give me your opinions!
Q. Hi, I'm 16, and i have large labora minora (outer vaginal lips) i worry constantly, and what happens when it gets to the stage when i'm going a bit further in relationships? Please, male and female, give me your opinions. and i know its normal,...
A. 21 March 2010: Im the same as you and the same age as you, dont worry. For me it just means i really have to trust and love the person im in a relationship with, as i too find mine gross. Many people say have confidence in your body and everything will be fine. ... (read in full...)
Three boys and only one choice.
Q. um i have a crush on three boys in my class lets call them red,blue,green blue:really hot but sometimes mean green:real sweet,cute,nice red:cute,sometimes rude what i want to ask is that which should i like you see my friend likes green and...
A. 2 March 2010: Green for sure. but i think you should talk to your friend who likes him, to make sure how she feels.... (read in full...)
Why do people have such big regrets about losing their virginity?
Q. I'm an almost 18 year old virgin, and I've heard other women say that they've regreted their first time and wish they had waited. I don't understand. Why did they regret it and what did they wish they had waited for? I've been a bit upset about wh...
A. 24 February 2010: i regret my first time too. Because the boy was a c*** and i was simply too young and the boy i was with AT THE TIME broke up with me shortly after, after over a year together. If only i had waited a little longer, to find out his true colours ... (read in full...)
He treats me really badly but I just can't seem to leave him... help!
Q. Ok, so this will be a bit long. I am 15 years old and have been through a lot, I think.. Alcohol use and drug use. My mom drinks a lot and my dad isn't in the same country, he also drinks a lot. They both smoke. I'm saying this because I find it ...
A. 13 February 2010: i would say you have to leave. If anything the age difference is too wide, you both want different things in life.
To save yourself for the future, i strongly advice not being with him.
If anything you do not deserve to be treated that way... (read in full...)
Help! What does this dream signify?
Q. i was wondering if anyone could interpret this dream for me? i would really like to know what it means i was at a playground i don't know why cause im 15 but it was only me and this other girl that i happen to like. in real life i am shy but ...
A. 9 February 2010: Maybe it shows that this is what you want in life, that you want to be able to talk to her easily and be able to be so happy and normal together without complication. And the playground symbolizes happiness? So you have set this happy senario in ... (read in full...)
She lied to me about seeing her ex bf! what should I do?
Q. I just want your opinion. i've been with her 3 months at first she said she had 3 sexual partners before me. one month she went to a party with her ex bf, i was fine with this. Then she wanted to go out in his car after the party i said no ob...
A. 22 January 2010: tbh, i think your being a bit unfair on her. Threating to leave if she doesnt do something? Threats always end a relationship either way it goes. I say have a big talk about the situation, but no threats.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to not have a boyfriend at 14? A friend in my class has had 45!
Q. Just wondering if its normal to be kinda frigid at 14? It's just that I have seen girls my age who have gone past the whole "shy" thing and are dating boys whenever they feel like.Theres a girl in my year who' had over 45 boyfriends. I ha...
A. 21 January 2010: I think your just scared, its perfectly normal, people just find it easier for their feelings to be expossed as they would like to be with that person.
But i didnt have my first anything till i was nearly 14(born later in the year u see) and afte... (read in full...)
Does my girlfriend really love me, or is she just using me?
Q. I'm in high school. In the beginning of the year I really wanted to have a serious relationship with a girl, and I thought I found her, but now I'm not so sure. My girlfriend and I have been going out for about a month and a half now, she's not a ...
A. 21 January 2010: Sometimes girls can be a bit funny like that, insults - its hard to explain but sometimes its a sign of affection, like teasing and joking. and as for the flirting, well, we humans naturaly flirt, the chances are she didnt even know she was flirting... (read in full...)
What are some useful tips to help becomes friends with your ex when you guys break up?
Q. What are some useful tips to help becomes friends with your ex when you guys break up?...
A. 20 January 2010: Depends on what terms.
If it was a joint decision, then give each other a bit of space for a few weeks.
If you broke up with him, give him space, guys take a while to get over a girl.
If he broke up with you, also give him space or he will feel u ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to fantasise about 15-17 year old males?? 13-17 year old only please
Q. so i am a 13 year old girl but i only fantasise about 15-17 year olds is that a problem or not i really need to know bc i dont like people younger than me or around my age they aren't very mature ive never dated some one younger or around my age ...
A. 20 January 2010: Yeah i would say so, maybe u just feel that boys your age are immature, which they are, and that you someone who is a bit older might treat you better or understand feelings better? Im not sure why, but its perfectly normal :)... (read in full...)
Don't fall for me because I don't want you to get hurt... wtf???
Q. the guy i been with for the last four months comes to my house ever weekend and sleeps over he gets along with my family really good and enjoys being here, he makes me smile and treats me good but one day we were talking about our feelings he said ...
A. 20 January 2010: cause he might do something to hurt you. Maybe just a warning? Im not sure, i would probably question him about what he meant, to find the truth x ... (read in full...)
I am crushing on my cousin!
Q. I don't know why but recently i have been having feelings for my cousin. Now i know that this is wrong but i just get weak at the knees when he smiles and i think he knows about it because he gives all the hints and we always give hugs and kisses to ...
A. 17 January 2010: You sure its a crush? and not just the fact you really respect your cousin and look up to him? If it is a crush like you say, i suggest going out on days with your mates more, see whats on offer in the boy world, and soon you will find one that wi... (read in full...)
How do I completely cut guys out of my life?
Q. I am so done with lying, cheating, good for nothing guys. My ex boyfriend was enough to turn me into a nun, and the two guys I've met since being with him have made me want to reconsider my sexuality completely lol. Seriously, I'm still youn...
A. 16 January 2010: yeah guys are generaly a********, but just dont get yourself, its pretty simple. Dont date any, dont get attached, then when ur ready to trust again, make sure its with the right person.... (read in full...)
He is my ex and I am his... so why should I care?
Q. so my problem is that im too shy and too scared to call up my ex, and totally depend on msn. It's been a a while and he's nowhere to be found. I feel like he doesnt want to ever talk to me. But he was the one who wanted to be friends in the first ...
A. 16 January 2010: I know how this feels, dont fret to much about it, let the break up settle down, you may want to talk t him, but its best for both parties just to not speak for a while, by that time, you may not even care about talking to each other. I hope i ... (read in full...)
He seems disinterested now...
Q. I've been sort of seeing this guy. We went out on the first date which went very well and ended with a peck at the end of the night. Now it seems as though things have slowed down. He mentioned that he wanted to go out again and text me that he ...
A. 13 January 2010: Try and forget about him, just seem uninterested, dont text him, don't contact him. If he wants more of you, he will contact you first :)
So have fun and forget about him for a bit ... (read in full...)
What do you think he's really trying to say?...
Q. Me and this guy have become really close lately and he says he really likes me but he won't do anything about it so I asked him what he'd say if I asked him out and he said yes if I wanted a girl friend. What do you think he's really trying to ...
A. 4 January 2010: I think he does like you but is shy. It doesnt hurt for girls to make the 1st move! Chances are he probs knows u like him. Guys have a way of knowing sometimes :L
hope i helped x... (read in full...)
What's the point to keep me around if he doesn't want me?
Q. My ex and I dated for about 2 years and a half years. We were so in love and planned on getting married. We have been broken up for about 5 months now. We broke up for problems on both of our parts. Not long after we broke up he started dating ...
A. 4 January 2010: im in the same situation :/ Im in love him but he only really wants to see me to have sex :/ Ive decided to just leave it, and him, though the memories of me and him haunt me, the happy memories than bring me back, but i know its the better thing... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and ex talks more to each other than me
Q. ok i recently broke up with this girl for reasons than were explained in my previous question and i have now a new girl friend this is not a bad thing but what is bad is that my current girlfriend and my ex have now become very very close frien...
A. 25 December 2009: Im sure ur ex isnt out to get u, cause thats just sick to involve ur current girlfriends, girls tell their close friends everything, tbh, i say its something u will have to get used to. As all girls do it, its like looking out for each other. Just ... (read in full...)
He's not contacting me as often, did I do something wrong?
Q. I finally got to go on the date with the guy I like. I think I bored him a bit but otherwise, it went well and we really clicked, (in my opinion.) He held my hand, hugged me, acted really sweet. But introduced me as a friend. I guess that was ...
A. 24 December 2009: Its kind of a boy thing. My ex was the same. Chances are he is just busy. Or doesnt want to text/call. Some guys dont like texting. Its just what their like. I wouldnt panic, i suggest trying ur best not to contact him if him texting first matters ... (read in full...)
Everything is a mess! Dad threatened my boyfriend and I haven't heard anything from him since.
Q. [Mod: Stated age incorrect poster is 15] hey im 15 and my ex is 17 We broke up because my dad caught him round mine when he wasnt aloud(We wernt doing anything just sitting there chatting) and my dad phoned his mum up and started shouting at ...
A. 12 December 2009: I say jst leave it, if uv moved on. Just move on. dont let it bother u, as it mustnt bother him.... (read in full...)
He doesn't want sex when he always said he did!
Q. Okay I met this guy online. We fell in love and we couldn't wait to meet...or wait to finally make love. 6 months I move in and we had sex once. It Lasted a few seconds. He was so excited to have sex when we talked on the phone. And now he doesn't ...
A. 11 December 2009: Tell him how you feel, and if he reacts like that, being annoyed and pissed etc, dont stand for it. Its not like its his sole purpose is to be given oral. So if he reacts baddly when u refuse to do this al for him, just leave. Simple. Either he ... (read in full...)
How To Get Your Ex Back
Q. Do you miss your ex and want him/her back? Have you tried begging, buying them gifts, being clingy, etc? None of that is going to work. That is only going to push them further away from you. Try doing these steps and I know that these steps may seem ...
A. 7 December 2009: when my ex broke up with me, he told me me and him would never be together again.
Here i am 5 months later, him telling me his feelings never left. And are going to be together soon (due to complications its nt atm)... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting if my boyfriend has a wedding on the day of my birthday and I do not want to attend?
Q. Am I over reacting if my boyfriend has a wedding on the day of my birthday and I do not want to attend? I am not close with the couple that is getting married and my birthday is the only day out of the year that it is all about me. He gives me a ...
A. 16 November 2009: maybe your being a bit selfish here. Birthdays arent that big a deal unless its the big milestone ones. Ur birthday is jst another day, that happens to be a day where to people want to declare their love for each other. A happy occasion, what cou... (read in full...)
Why can't I forgive my ex boyfriend?
Q. My exboyfriend was my first love. I loved him a lot. We broke up 3 months ago. We decided to stay to stay friends but is really hard for me because I haven't forgiving him from hurting me the way he did. Be broke up becaue "it had to be done" ...
A. 8 November 2009: Omg, i have this! My ex broke up with me 3mnths ago, i dated, and is dating atm, its probs not rite or proper of me, as i still have feelings towards my ex, But he occasionaly says he still loves me then cuts me down and my pain is back again from ... (read in full...)
He says he wants to be friends but is now avoiding me
Q. Is it a bad thing that I feel as if the guy who wants to stay friends is avoiding me now? We do not have any of the same classes but we pass by every morning and he never says hello anymore. When I asked him out he said he wanted to stay friends but ...
A. 29 October 2009: Yes, he probs wants a bit of elbow space to breathe and think about whats going on.
I say ignore him till he is ready to talk 2 u... (read in full...)
Why is he playing these games? I'm so confused!
Q. soo sorry this is rly long, had a helllll of a weekend!! me and my bf had been together for 4 months. but we had been fighting all the time and started to get less close. so on friday (its sunday now) he came over after school and everything was ...
A. 19 October 2009: i think he has ended it for good but maybe still wants you as a friend? Or just isnt realizing what he is doing. I think you need to decide what you really want now. Do you want him and his games? or are you willing to move on? Even tho giving ... (read in full...)
Could she be pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend and i had sex a little more than two weeks ago, she's not on any birth control, but i did use a condom. I pulled out with the condom still on, and i made sure the condom wasn't ripped or anything, and NO sperm even touched the vaginal ...
A. 19 October 2009: yes, periods are very iregular, i wouldnt worry, give it a week and it will arrive :) if not...(which i highly doubt) get tested.... (read in full...)
I guy I like kissed another girl! What should I do?
Q. basically this guy i like liked me a couple of weeks ago round about august time, my best friend knew i liked him and she knew he liked me back, i only found this out after he went to a party and kissed another girl. i am really upset, i don't know ...
A. 10 October 2009: Tell him how you feel, as you cant just stick around waiting for him to make the first move. Girls who make the 1st move are shown as confident. Since he doesnt feel awkward knowing that you like him, therefor it doesnt pose any risk in asking h... (read in full...)
Does he actually like me? Or should I just assume we're friends?
Q. Does my best friend like me? Yesterday my friends said he walked by our homeroom but didn’t stop by like he usually does, he just looked in. Grace said it was because I wasn’t in there and he was looking for me. Today he stopped by and talked with ...
A. 7 October 2009: usualy even if your best friend doesnt even feel the same way, they dont knock you for it! They feel flattered, and actualy make sure they dont upset you and stuff once they know:P
i say, tell him, but be serious about it, so he doesnt think yo... (read in full...)
I want my ex back - how do I speed up the process?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up 4 months ago on his terms. But recently he has spoken up and thinks he still loves me, he says he misses us and that he couldnt see himself with anyone else but isn't sure yet. He is going away for a ...
A. 4 October 2009: Thanks guys, you have really helped. I hope he choses the right desision. :S... (read in full...)
Would it be lame to stop being friends with him?
Q. So, for the last two school years, I've known this guy. About the second half of last year, we became pretty good friends, but it was pretty much just at school. Over the summer, we barely texted or anything. Well, this school year, I think we got ...
A. 3 October 2009: maybe he only sees you as a best friend, and this is a gd thing.
But you want mre than this, so play the waiting game. Once they break up, he wnt fancy her again.
Then you have a chance to make your move, as relationships dont usually last that lon... (read in full...)
I still love him, should I tell him?
Q. Hi everyone, i have a problem, ok.... Me and my ex broke up almost 3 months ago after a year and a half relationship because he ended...to be honest i dont even really know why, something about me being clingy and moody and jelous of his best gir...
A. 29 September 2009: thanks everyone :)... (read in full...)
Once a cheater isn't always a cheater?
Q. a week ago my cousin told me she had slept with my bf. given the fact that he had cheated on me before, and that she is a very close cousin, even though he denied it. i still broke up with him. now i learn that she lied in order to break us up. cuz ...
A. 25 September 2009: Meantion that it was a mistake, and that it wasnt that you didnt trust him, it was that u didnt want to be hurt that way if he had cheated. I really hope everything works out x... (read in full...)
Shall I go and talk to him even if he's a jerk and a liar?
Q. What is happening ? I and my boyfriend we are together since 2 years , recently I noticed that he became different person , he changed , like he doesn’t want me , if I hug him he said I hate hugging If I want sex , he said I hate sex , if I wanna ...
A. 25 September 2009: I think it is kind of obvious right now. Ignore him like he did to you, go out with friends, show yourself you dont need him. Then you will find a guy who will treat you right.... (read in full...)
I think he's making a really bad mistake by breaking up with me and I can't do anything about it!
Q. [Moderator note: 2 questions from the same poster are combined here as they are essentially the same question.] My boyfriend of a year told me that we are done. He completely shut me out and was being so rude. I got that we were done but i wanted t...
A. 25 September 2009: im so sorry to hear about this. This has happened recently to me, i kno exactly how you feel. And that hes rejecting you, and you want him, you'll do anything, change anything jst to be with him, thing is. when you do this, it puts him off even ... (read in full...)
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