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Something keeps stopping me from having sex, why do I keep saying no?
Q. well im 16 and i am a virgin! peaple always say ohh you dont seem like your a virgin? what the hell does that mean really. Anyway i have done everything apart from sex because when it nearly happens something always stops me and i dont know what t...
A. 26 September 2010: If you dont want it, dont do it. Too many people regret their first time. I suggest find a guy who your with properly and be with him for a long time before doing it, because then you wont regret it. It will cause so much pain if you do it and you ... (read in full...)
Older men like me, but Freshmen are repelled by me! What is wrong with me?
Q. Help! Okay, so i am fourteen, almost fifteen years old. I've never had a boy my age ask me out, ever. I seem to be attracting the older guys. I'm friends with a lot of people, from age 12 to 25, and most of the guys who like me are in their 18-20's. ...
A. 26 September 2010: Cause your young, you've not developed into who you will be in say a year. Im 16 and its only recently that guys are into me. and ive changed basicaly everything about myself in the past year cause i wanted to be someone. I changed my hair, my ... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to lose my virginity.
Q. So I'm 14 and i want to lose my virginity. But I'm also extremely scared. I don't really know what I'm scared of but I am. So I just wanted to know if there is any tips people can give me on this. Like why am I so nervous and scared to lose my ...
A. 26 September 2010: Cause your not ready. I lost mine at 14, and i thought i wanted to lose it, but i was scared too, extremely scared.
I did it and have regreted more than anything in my whole life. I wish i waited till i was 16, and im not just saying that. I duno... (read in full...)
Why is my ex acting this way, what does she want from me and what should I do?
Q. I broke up with a girl about 9 months ago and during this time I met another girl. Me and this girl are always together in school and we both laugh at our jokes a lot. Me and the girl who is always with me are only friends and we both know about ...
A. 26 September 2010: Your ex doesnt like the fact that your happy and moved on and possibly with another girl (in her eyes) and that she is the opposite. She probs expected that she would have a new guy and life would be perfect.
She will want you back. But dont let ... (read in full...)
How do I make out with him? I'm scared
Q. I guys, I'm a 16 year old male and have just entered my first gay relationship, well "relationship" for that matter. First time I've ever been in one, and I'm excited and scared at the same time. Me and my boyfriend have going out for two weeks and ...
A. 26 September 2010: If he understands your situation as you say then you shouldnt be worried :)
Your kisses might not be perfect but you get better with practise ;)
haha good luck he sounds great so you shouldnt be worried :)... (read in full...)
Nice guys finish last, atleast that's what I'm seeing
Q. Nice guys finish last or at least thats how I see it, The beautiful women are attracted to the D bag guys. I am the typical nice guy I think I don't talk about people behind there backs and am usually honest. The girls I like only like me as a ...
A. 25 September 2010: But the girl yoou get will be worth the wait!
Do you ever talk to this girl?
If she has and you have a facebook you can talk cyberly first to get used to talking to her, so she doesnt think your uninteresting or shy. Then after that talking ... (read in full...)
What would you change if you had a time machine?
Q. Hi, Just a general question. What would you change if you had a Time Machine? Hypothetically, if you could go back in time armed with this knowledge and understanding of mistakes you both made in a relationship and start all over, what would...
A. 25 September 2010: Im young so i have much to learn! But i would have never have lost my virginity so young and never have gone out with my ex. I would have cherished my friends better and not let them go purely because i thought they would have never left me. Buut i ... (read in full...)
Doing it every day, will it harm me?
Q. hey i have a doubt.. i do masturbate daily.. does it harm me?...
A. 25 September 2010: Not at all. If anything its good for you!... (read in full...)
How can I initiate a kiss?
Q. Hi,everyone. This is a bit weird problem. I'll appreciate your help. I,m 21, my girl friend is 18. Its first relationship and practically first love for both of us. In my country things are kinda back dated. We love each other so much. The problem ...
A. 25 September 2010: Your english is very good! :)
The key is confidence! She holds your hand, she will want more to happen. Does knowing she wants it too make you feel better?
Take it in stages, like next time you see her aim to get a cuddle. If your sitting down, ho... (read in full...)
Is it normal for breasts to be flat when a woman is lying down?
Q. I have a somewhat silly question I haven't seen asked here before. I have size C breasts - good enough when standing upright, but when I lay down they go flat...too flat for my liking. I wish they defied gravity haha! So my question is, do ...
A. 25 September 2010: Yeah real ones do! they change so much in size!... (read in full...)
Do I have these feelings because he was my first sexual partner?
Q. me and my boyfriend split 2 months ago and i still really care about him and get upset when i see him with another girl and it still really hurts when he has a go at me why am i feeling like this could it be because he was my first sexual partner ...
A. 25 September 2010: Most probably. the fact hes moved on so soon doesnt help either. You need to accept that the relationship is over and that you must ignore him in order to move on. Dont talk to him and focus on hanging out with friends. And dont talk about him to ... (read in full...)
How can I feel more comfortable as single ?
Q. I bet many singles hate the situation , when friends and family ask you, "why are you single" ? or "How come that a good looking person like you is single" ? " How come that you turn 18 and you haven't lost your virginity yet "? The top is ,when ...
A. 25 September 2010: Literaly the best thing to do is accept that you are single and not think about getting a girlfriend. This has happened everytime. If you seem genuinly happy and content then that makes you more approachable. Spend time with friends. Talk to more ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cries all the time
Q. My girlfriend likes to cry... a lot. When I first met her, she wasn't overly emotional at all, I mean, she still showed emotion, but she never really cried. But when we started going out and became more serious, she just became more and more em...
A. 25 September 2010: I think you need to talk to her about it and tell her that her crying is really hard for you to handle as you want to help her but cant and that you want you guys to be happy and hearing her cry all the time breaks your heart and makes you upset ... (read in full...)
Are my teachers trying to set us up????
Q. last year i sat next to the same guy in three lessons and we got on really well despite being kind of opposite( he was quite cocky whereas i was a bit shy) i mean we were both popular and sporty but apart from that we were pretty much opposite. ...
A. 25 September 2010: no , your teachers are trying to seperate the discracted in the class to sit next to people different from them so they will actually work and they will be silent.
I dont think teachers have enough time on their hands to sit around and think who ... (read in full...)
Why is he avoiding me? Seriously, what gives?
Q. I'm a sophomore in college, and I've developed a crush on a freshman. We're in band together, and play the saxophone. Last week, I invited him to a party at a friend's apartment, and he said that he'd come. When the weekend arrived, and I h...
A. 24 September 2010: Just being an immature guy. You sound like a good person and know what your doing already. Dont text him and dont bother to try and talk to him. Just get on like you never met him, he might feel like he likes you afterall, but you have to choose ... (read in full...)
Why is he avoiding me? Seriously, what gives?
Q. I'm a sophomore in college, and I've developed a crush on a freshman. We're in band together, and play the saxophone. Last week, I invited him to a party at a friend's apartment, and he said that he'd come. When the weekend arrived, and I h...
A. 24 September 2010: Just being an immature guy. You sound like a good person and know what your doing already. Dont text him and dont bother to try and talk to him. Just get on like you never met him, he might feel like he likes you afterall, but you have to choose ... (read in full...)
Moodiness from him because I won't take things further...
Q. Would a guy who's in love with you lose interest and just simply not talk to you if you refuse to take things further with him? Or is it genuinely hard for him to do so? (Also considering the fact that the two were good friends before emotions came ...
A. 24 September 2010: Boys are boys when it comes to sex and all that jazz tbh :/
Dont accept the moodiness from him. he doesnt get "upset" when you refuse him. Hes just itching to get his first expirience. If you dont want to do it. Dont, i swear you will regret it. ... (read in full...)
Should try and salvage whatever is left of our friendship?
Q. Hi! I want all you guys opinions on if this 'relationship' is worth saving. Me and Jake* had the typical highs chool romance. We went out from when we were 14 until we were 16. Ok 2 years may not sounds like much, but when your in high school its ...
A. 24 September 2010: Im a star!
i think its a horrible situation but its something which you cant patch up anymore. Usualy people after they break up dont talk because its the history thing. and you guys have a lot. Losing your virginity to someone so young obvi... (read in full...)
He doesn't deserve to be a father so what do I do? Have it aborted or what?
Q. I am nine weeks pregnant, almost ten. I am engaged to my boyfriend. I was not planning on getting pregnant and never thought having kids was something i had to do. I found i was pregnant and told my finace and he was so happy and exited. I was not. ...
A. 24 September 2010: Its not the baby you should be getting rid of. Its your "boyfriend".
If he isnt responsible enough to look after himself or put a child, his child first, then leave.
You and the child could have a much better life without him. Move a 100 miles aw... (read in full...)
Am I just being an obsessive girlfriend or is he just not that into me anymore?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out since january. At first we texted all the time. I swear there was hardly a text where he didn't answer me.Every e-mail was answered, he was never to busy for me and i him. We saw eachother everyday in class ...
A. 24 September 2010: Its past the honeymoon period. Always happens after 6 months, and girls become too clingy then guys will end up leaving. Happens so much on here. What to do is, not talk to him. Dont text him. Dont talk to him first. No matter HOW much you want him. ... (read in full...)
What do you think? Should I ring him or not?
Q. ive been getting to know this guy..i like him and i think he likes me too..even though he hasn't said anything. i have free minutes and we talk all the time..but i feel like am the one whos always calling him. he texts me sometimes. w...
A. 20 September 2010: You called in the morning, surely you shouldnt need to again. But dont call him again, wait for him to talk to you. Or else this can make you look needy.... (read in full...)
We used a condom, then took it off, 10 minutes later had sex. Could I get pregnant?
Q. The other day my boyfriend and i had sex. He removed the condom and about 10 minutes later we had unprtected sex.. Would the sperm have died by then? Is there any chancce i could become pregnant? Please answer, i'm really worried. Thank...
A. 20 September 2010: Yeah there is a chance. Sperm keeps coming out for a while after the male has ejaculated. It was unsafe of you, and shouldnt have done it without knowing the possible outcomes. I suggest you get the 75 hour pill quickly!... (read in full...)
I have small breasts--should I get surgery?
Q. I have small breasts, and I feel very insecure. Should I get surgery? Men have teased me about it, even an ex said big breasts were better. Even hear on DC I've read guys post that guys do tend to prefer big breasts (even though they don't hate ...
A. 20 September 2010: Just think, they are small now, but when one day when you are pregnant, they will grow to full size.
You want a guy who wants and loves you for you. You will find him one day. Dont change yourself for a few bad men you have picked in your life... (read in full...)
Wife's story doesn't make sense
Q. should i belive my wife when she tells me she only had sex with one other partner than me, but let 4 other guys put there penis up to her vagina and just rubb the outside, i am having concerns she is running around now ...
A. 20 September 2010: seems pretty true to me. Rubbing the outside will stimulate her clit. If this is in the past then you should learn to control what you think, because there is NO way to change the past, unfortunalty.
She may or may not regret what she did with othe... (read in full...)
My interracial relationship does not go over well with my parents!
Q. the guy i love is black and i am white and my parents are completely against it.not only that he just had a baby girl by his exgirlriend.i love him with all my heart.its just hard dealing with everything.what should i do??...
A. 19 September 2010: If you love him, dont leave him for your parents. Do whats good for you! :) Me and my bf are different colours and my mum is completely against it, but people tell me to keep going with it as its what makes me happy. And i believe that with time my ... (read in full...)
The guy in my science class
Q. Does He Like Me? Ok so there's this guy in my science class. *he stares at me *he trys to make me smile when I am bored(which makes me smile) *he always waves to me in class *stares at me during lunch does he like me? Be honest. Tha...
A. 19 September 2010: I think he does. Talk to him more, ask if he has msn or something and talk to him on that. You will get to know him better :)... (read in full...)
It makes me angry that I can get past my fears to have sex...
Q. Dear Aunties... My girlfriend of a solid (And might I say AMAZING) 3 months and myself are talking about sex every day she comes over. Now, being a 17 year old male, my body wants me to have sex, a lot of sex... But I (as a person) dont. The rea...
A. 19 September 2010: Sounds like you both arnt ready emotionaly, but physicaly want to. Which isnt a problem.
3 months isnt that long a time to be with someone and is still clasified as the honeymoon period, where you guys are totaly into each other. Wait a few more... (read in full...)
True love, puppy love or lust?
Q. I think I love him. I always think about him, I'm always wanting to be with him. When we're together, I feel like nothing in the world could go wrong. When I see him, I have this feeling in my heart, I get butterflies in my stomach and I just wan...
A. 19 September 2010: Puppy love at this age, as it is unknown, if you stay with him for years and years and get married then its love. Why do you need to know if its love or not? The fun part is finding out actualy how much they mean to you and that you do love them :) ... (read in full...)
My ex wants us to be friends yet barely talks to me!
Q. My ex girlfriend and I broke up about a week ago and wants to be good friends even after our breakup. Yet she rarely talks to me anymore. It was a long distance relationship that put a huge strain on our relationship. Do I need to give her some ...
A. 19 September 2010: Friendships between exs never work, like that facebook group says "staying friends with your ex is like keeping a dead dog" - its unheard of.
It wont work as, you still love her and want to make a plan how to get her back, already your upset she ... (read in full...)
Help! In love... or just another crush???
Q. hello everyone i have recetley started college and i have met 2 great guys and the other day they introduce me to one of their friends who when to their school and i thought that she was cute. i have gently started to have feelings for her...
A. 19 September 2010: Well love is different for everyone.
My definition of love is when two people share a connection and feel happy at the thought of a future together and all that.
and a crush being a future girlfriend type person.
According to me, it just a cr... (read in full...)
Awkward!!!
Q. Ok so I really like this guy and my friend tricked me into telling him. Now things are akward; He doesn't say hi, look at me, talk to me, but he said hi finally for the first time since the telling. But I like 2 other guys, but they don't like me at ...
A. 19 September 2010: Calm down as your not going to get any of them?! You dont really like any of them, as you have a choice of 3, make up your mind who you really like, tbh, dont choose between them three, wait to see who you really like. Your hormones are raging and ... (read in full...)
Why would an ex text after 2 months of no contact?
Q. My ex of 6 months broke up with me almost half a year ago over one argument and many accusations that he had against me and then said that he had lost some interest and needed some space. He once said that I was the most well composed girl he ever ...
A. 19 September 2010: His plans with that stupid girl he chose over you fell through, he probs heard your doing great single and wants part of the action. BUT do not give him the time of day. You seem like sensible as you made the right desicion. Just care on living life ... (read in full...)
What to do for the best... Should I try to get my ex back?
Q. My girlfriend of three and a half years and I broke up recently because our relationship had been going south for awhile (mostly because of my actions). She told me she wanted a break, lied to me for a week, then revealed that she was in fact ...
A. 19 September 2010: You wont get her back, if your working on moving on and doing well like you said, keep on with it, it will be long and hard for you. But if you sit waiting for her then she will use you everytime a guy doesnt want her, and you will be stuck cause ... (read in full...)
How to get my virgin girlfriend to have sex with me?
Q. Dear Readers, I would like to have some advise on how to convinced my girlfriend to have a sexual intercourse with me... Since she is still a virgin, it is extremely complicated to convinced her.. She always tells me to wait and wait and wait......
A. 19 September 2010: You need to get respect for her! You are pressuring her to do this! You cant make anyone to have sex with you, especially a virgin gf who obviously wants to make sure that you really love her. To be honest the best thing to do is make her more ... (read in full...)
I'm always told that I look like a guy?
Q. hey. i could do with some advice on how to either boost my confidence or how to ignore everyones snide comments. i regularly get comments about how i look like a guy. i don't think i do, i'm a size 12, with definate breasts and i have a fairly sl...
A. 16 September 2010: Make up? ... (read in full...)
Why does an ex act mean for no reason?
Q. What does it mean when an exboyfriend or exgirlfriend acts mean to you for no reason at all? ...
A. 15 September 2010: They are in a bad mood and know your weaknesses so your an easy target, get them out of your life before they use you more and more to make them feel better about themselves. Its like bullying... (read in full...)
I don't want to eat but I have to. How to lose weight?
Q. I want to lose weight. I exercise every day but I eat a lot. I don't want to eat but I just have to. I don't know what to do! Help!...
A. 13 September 2010: Not eating is a stupid thing to do. You will when your older if you carry on, as you are growing and are very young, you will still have your baby fat, eg, your tummy, legs etc etc. These will go as you get older. If you starve yourself then you ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I wish I could have just one more day with my ex
Q. I was in a relationship for almost 4 yrs, i broke up with him several times, i was happy one day and miserable the nxt, i was so comfortable i nvr visioned being with anyone else or ever leaving for good. i thought i was set for life with this ...
A. 13 September 2010: Your not over your ex, it takes time getting over someone important to you. Dont rush into dating if it doesnt feel right, its your desicion how far everything goes, and if its too much, say you want to focus on you for a while, you are still young, ... (read in full...)
Should I ask my crush out?
Q. Me and my crush were talking last night and he said he would probably get back with me, should i ask him out? as he dont ask people out because of rejections i think. How should i tell/ask him?...
A. 13 September 2010: Get back with you? As in your ex? Him saying that is pure balls. If he really liked you, and said he did, then he would ask you out. He is the wrong guy, one day, the girl he asks out is the one he truely likes. Move on with life, try and reduce s... (read in full...)
Should I call her?
Q. We were in love for 10 months and we were so happy together, the problem was that i hardly got to see her so we wud spend most our time on the phone or i.m-ing each other. then one day she just started ignoring me, she wouldnt answer my calls or ...
A. 13 September 2010: Call her, if she doesnt answer, message her somewhere, tell her everything you feel, if she doesnt respond you know where you stand. ... (read in full...)
What do you guys reckon... Does he deserve another chance?
Q. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and we have been going out for 4 months. he lives 40 miles away from me. we have met up once every 3 weeks since we been going out. when we first started going out about a week into it i found out he was still talking ...
A. 13 September 2010: Nope, if hes done it 3 times before, he hasnt learnt his lesson, dump him, he wont care as he hasnt come crawling back to you, its always you after him, cause he knows you will come back.
Dump him, and get on with life, you live far away from each... (read in full...)
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