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Do we have a chance? He's not over his ex yet
Q. Over the last month I've been hanging out with a guy who isn't over his ex. (they dated 2+years, ended a moth or so before I met him). When I met him, I was under the impression he ended it and was glad to be rid of her; over time he's shared more ...
A. 11 July 2010: He wont be ready in a month. More like 6 months or more, guys take ages to get over girls.
But continue to date other guys and get close to them and hopefuly move on to a new guy. Because this guy wont be ready soon, even if he says he is. ... (read in full...)
Do guys judge a woman's body?
Q. right. i know my question is going to make me sound like every other teenager and you're all going to say "you're not ready for sex!" but i want to ask some questions about relationships and sex. i want to have sex with my boyfriend but i ...
A. 11 July 2010: Nah they dont, if he loves you like he should before you guys have sex, then he will love every part of you even the bits you hate!
If you act happy with your body then he wont even notice anything!
and what could go wrong?
I suggest not having s... (read in full...)
I'm unsure of his feelings, does it appear as though he likes me?
Q. First of all, hi there! Well this is sort of a long story so apologies in advance :) I think it started around January, I like anime (you know, Japanese anime and manga) and I thought "hmm I wonder if there are any anime conventions in the Uk"...
A. 11 July 2010: DEFINITELY sounds like he likes you. in a really big way!
Me and my current boyfriend spoken online for months and then met up, and he also didnt speak and was so shy! Yet spoke to his friends fine and other such people normaly! Tbh i was disa... (read in full...)
I need help guys!!! How do I get him to like me more and ask me out?
Q. I have this friend who I really like. he's 15, and we talk to each other nearly every day. Sometimes he's really nice, and he'll hold my hand or stroke my hair, stuff like that, and he always hugs me. But some days he'll just ignore me and talk to ...
A. 11 July 2010: This is what all guys do! Hes showing he likes you, and at the same time showing you hes not completely obsessed so he wont scare you away so hangs with his friends, like playing hard to get!
I say, ignore him a bit when your talking to him. like... (read in full...)
He hates my children!
Q. my new partner hates my children!!! I have been with my partner for 3 years we have 2 little girls together. i was previously married and have 2 children with my ex wife i see them once a fortnight friday to sunday. when they come to stay all we do ...
A. 11 July 2010: Tell her how she would feel if the roles were reversed. Parents love their kids more than anything.
Do not stop seeing your kids, ever! They want to see you and she is being out of order and selfish.
Tell her you wont stop seeing your kids, an... (read in full...)
Is this bleeding from a broken hymen?
Q. Hi , just a really quick question I need some advice on. Basicly I lost my virginity with my boyfriend last tuesday , its sunday now since then we've had sex 2 other times and the last time I had sex was on friday. Although today I went to ...
A. 11 July 2010: It seems like the only logical thing in this situation, as some people dont bleed a lot and others do.
I wouldnt worry, it probs wont happen again :)... (read in full...)
They always beat me to it!
Q. Well I have been in love with this boy since last summer and my best friend has been dating him for five months and for the first four months I was distraught and I was convinced it was the end of the world I was shattered crushed broken the worst ...
A. 11 July 2010: Dooon't worry! What age are you? Young. The person you think you love, you wont. Your friend has him so you naturaly want the person you cant have, but had a bit of a crush on. You need to let him go. Do focus your emotions on someone else. Be ... (read in full...)
Which should I follow... my mind or my heart?
Q. I don't know which one should I follow... my mind or my heart??? I know in my mind that she's really not for me. My mind always tells me to leave her because I know in the future she will be gone for me, We're not happy any more and we're always ...
A. 11 July 2010: Your mind, your mind always knows best. Its better to leave her now, before making yourself seriously dislike her and treat her like crap. You do it now, your both young so you both have time to move on and get on with life and find better partners. ... (read in full...)
Why don't boys like me????
Q. *OP's Original Title* I'm 13 years old and I haven had a boyfriend in a while. I'm my grade, no guys like me and no guys ask me out. I don't know why they don't like me!!!!! It is really making me upset. I'm 5 foot, have breasts and have a pretty f...
A. 10 July 2010: Dont worry at all! I didnt even have my first boyfriend till i was 14! Tbh, most people in your year will be single and not liking it, there just isnt enough people to go round
It will happen for you, i have always found, if you go out with your... (read in full...)
Are you supposed to feel sad about a breakup you caused?
Q. So, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year amd 3 months today basically because he just wasn't the one. I know, its not like I'm looking for someone to marry at my age but although he was great and nothing was wrong with him, he just wasn't for me ...
A. 10 July 2010: You are upset and crying because obviously your now ex boyrfriend reacted badly to you breaking up with him, and you feel guilty. You will have to know your relationship with him wont be the same again, and have to get on with living. The guilt you ... (read in full...)
Should I leave him alone and go back to my husband?
Q. ok heres the thing. i am in the middle of a divorce, it will be final in a month. i am most definatly sure that im in love with his childhood best friend. and he says he feels the same way. thing is, he has two kids with a girl i used to go to ...
A. 9 July 2010: Dont be a home wrecker. He is married and you should know better than to break up a marrige. Stay clear of him and move on completely. You are getting divorced for a reason are you not? Moving on is the best option here. For everyone.... (read in full...)
How do I get past this breakup?
Q. Heyyyahhh ... Again I am wondering if anyone can help me. My ex who i spoke alot about a while back has come back into my mind. I cant stop thinking bout him and i love him. I dream bout him and wake up thnking of him. I know that things won...
A. 9 July 2010: Dont talk to him, as usualy people who are not over their ex see talking to their ex as a way of getting back together, when it wont work - saddly for you.
Grab your best mates and focus your energy on having a good time out and spending time with... (read in full...)
Should I be mad at my boyfriend?
Q. today my boyfriend ask me to spend time with him today, but i couldnt because i had other plans. so when i told him i couldnt, he says ok, i just wanted to know would you like to spend time with me and this girl...i dont even know her and he didnt ...
A. 9 July 2010: Tricky. You feel jealously, but because you feel threatened. He wanted you to meet this girl, so it was like he was keeping her a secret. Try and organise another day with you guys, maybe bring another friend (a mutual one between you and your ... (read in full...)
I have written her poem after poem but she still ignores me!
Q. hiya i am madly in love with someone and it kills me to see them with someone else, i wanna be with them but i cant coz i am a girl, and so r they. But i have told them how i feel and from there on in they hate me :'( i have tried talking but she ...
A. 9 July 2010: Spend time away from her, with other people, to like show her you can live without her and still be happy. This will show your not desperate. Then in say like a months time, approach her again, but in a casual way and talk like friends. As it is ... (read in full...)
I really like the comfort of having him around but I just can't handle sleeping next him.
Q. Hello everyone. I've been in my current relationship for about 10 months. We're up to that stage where we're just getting really comfortable with each other and each other's places. The problem is I can't sleep in the same bed with him. When I wa...
A. 9 July 2010: I think telling him the truth would be the best. He would understand and he will feel happier that you have opened up to him.
Maybe show him this page, or write it all down kind of letter form, that way you dont need to say it. Unless you can say ... (read in full...)
How can I reinforce in her mind that she's the only woman for me???
Q. My girlfriend and I met on eHarmony almost a year, and it has been amazing! I feel like we were made for each other. We've called each other soulmates. I proposed to her on April 24th, 8 months after our first date. I found out today that she i...
A. 8 July 2010: you must tell her what you have said here. but also do listen to what her problems are and sort them. Prove to her that you would do anything for her, and make her feel truely loved. maybe take her out for dinner and buy her gifts over the next few ... (read in full...)
My unsympathetic prat of a boyfriend!
Q. About a year ago I developed a lump in my left breast about the size of a ping pong ball. Eventually that lump has increased significantly to the size of a baseball. It didn't hurt or anything and I don't know how it happened but it did and it's ...
A. 8 July 2010: No, its completely resonable. I think you should ditch this guy, and try and move on. He is wrong for you. I think you should tell him to buck up his ideas or else your gonna walk away, and if he doesnt act any better, you know what you should do. A ... (read in full...)
Confused to tell him how I feel...
Q. I've only started dating recently. He's my childhood best friend since we could walk. We are very humorous with each other. But we also have our moments where they are very sweet and sincere. For the first time ever, today, he told me he loves me ...
A. 8 July 2010: Tell him that because you havent been dating that long that you are unsure if love is the right word, as you dont want to rush into things, and you want to wait to make sure that what you feel is true, ect. Hopefuly this doesnt give off the wrong ... (read in full...)
Is it illegal to throw your child out of the house in the UK when she's just 17?
Q. Is it illegal to throw your child out of the house in the UK when she's just 17? ...
A. 8 July 2010: Well, it is not illegal to leave home at that age if the parents consent it, and the government wouldnt make her go back home to live with her parents inless she was in danger. Hope this helped :)... (read in full...)
My sister is jealous of my pregnancy!
Q. I Have a bit of a problem. im 18 years old and i have an older sister who is 20 years old, i have been with my partner for 2 years and we are expecting our first child which we are very excited about, however my sister is becoming really jelouse ...
A. 23 June 2010: You will need to ignore it, its your important time and you need to think of yourself and the baby, for both your healths. Whereas your sister is putting her chances for a baby at risk when she takes drugs. Drugs make your chances of pregnancy low. ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend bi? Should we break up?
Q. Help! I'm a seriously confused, stressed teenage girl. I'm 13 years old, mature for my age, and I have a 15 year old boyfried. Let's call him... Alex. Well, Alex thinks he's bisexual, and has considered kissing a guy to see if he is or not. I on the ...
A. 22 June 2010: It depends how he feels. does he need to know hes bi-sexual? cause he has been with you for over a year and is suppposed to love you. its like saying he loves you but wants to be with other people as well as you to see if he likes them too :S its ... (read in full...)
I look pregant but I'm not?
Q. ive just had my first period last week, and havent had sex for 7 month. 5 month ago i took 2 pregancy tests which both came back negative so im definately not pregant, im very skinny and im 6 and a half stone, im a size 6 in clothes and have a ...
A. 22 June 2010: aww thanks :) its cause im the same age as you :P
If you wana chat or whatever add me :) xxxx... (read in full...)
I look pregant but I'm not?
Q. ive just had my first period last week, and havent had sex for 7 month. 5 month ago i took 2 pregancy tests which both came back negative so im definately not pregant, im very skinny and im 6 and a half stone, im a size 6 in clothes and have a ...
A. 21 June 2010: i think this is like the begining of a disorder :/ thats dnagerous. your young and 6 stone? thats nearly under weight. and your constant exercising is a sign of being annerexic. you will be anything but fat.
and when you bend over. those "rol... (read in full...)
Should I Give Up on Boyfriend?
Q. I've been on and off with my current boyfriend for about five months now. It has been a really rough few months. There were two breakup periods but in the end I gave in and went back to him. He never once contacted or tried to be back with me, it ...
A. 20 June 2010: Just leave. He seems to not care so whats the point? There are plenty of better guys out there worth your kindness and wont have you feeling the way you do :)... (read in full...)
What can I do, I've fallen for someone who lives abroad?
Q. My question is quite simple really. What do you do if you have fallen for someone who lives abroad? Basically I finally met a guy who is perfect for me but I only get to see him for like 1week per year. I speek to him over the Internet and we ...
A. 20 June 2010: Trust me, when you go back next year you wont like him like you do now. i thought i liked a guy from abroad and i cried and cried over him for weeks. but then i kept myself busy by seeing friends and then a year later i wasnt interested. :)
Hope ... (read in full...)
We broke up two years ago, but I'm miserable and still miss him!
Q. i feel pretty miserable..my ex and i broke up about two years ago and ever since then i am just not happy. I still miss him dearly. We have been talking for almost a year now on the phone. I am 25 and still live at home..i'm sure there are alot o...
A. 20 June 2010: dont laze about at home. get a couple of girl friends and go out together :) usualy guys are around who will take an interest, just get dressed and up and im sure you will grab some attention :)... (read in full...)
Can't stop blushing! Any advice?
Q. whenevr I talk to a boy my cheeks get SUPER red! I was talkin to my crush and he said why are cheeks so red? I lied and said I just got out of gym. but then he ask to hang out! of course I said yes! but I know that I can't lie and say I just got out ...
A. 20 June 2010: put make up on :)pale foundatiion and powder and this will stop you being so red. i have this problem too :P... (read in full...)
Mum racist towards my boyfriend! What can I do?
Q. Some of you may know some of my posts, i am a white girl, and my boyfriend is british-pakistani. and my mum hates it. I recently told her about the relationship and that was bad enough. She said how "disappointed" she was in me, and sad that i w...
A. 17 June 2010: Its the shouting that i cant be bothered with Casey. I do care about him so much, thats why i am with him and told my mum that no matter what she says it will not change my view. its just my mum is stubborn i know she will never change her views so ... (read in full...)
Is fourteen too young to lose your virginity?
Q. Im a 14 year old girl. I met my boyfriend a year ago and have been going out with him since but we have broken up 3 times but got back together. It may sound like a childish relationship but i no that its not. Iv had silly little boyfriends in my ...
A. 15 June 2010: I lost my virginity when i was 14 :/ broke up with him a few times before it happened and got back together. he then dumped me 4 months later. no matter how much they say their never gonna leave you. at this age. he will and you will be heartbroken. ... (read in full...)
Mum racist towards my boyfriend! What can I do?
Q. Some of you may know some of my posts, i am a white girl, and my boyfriend is british-pakistani. and my mum hates it. I recently told her about the relationship and that was bad enough. She said how "disappointed" she was in me, and sad that i w...
A. 13 June 2010: im afraid she will think im being cheeky or something :/ my mum usualy just shouts if its something she doesnt like then grounds me... (read in full...)
Mum racist towards my boyfriend! What can I do?
Q. Some of you may know some of my posts, i am a white girl, and my boyfriend is british-pakistani. and my mum hates it. I recently told her about the relationship and that was bad enough. She said how "disappointed" she was in me, and sad that i w...
A. 12 June 2010: i am 16 at the start of july. and he is already 16, born in feb. so its not age.
and about being 16 and being able to do what i want... this point has been used often when my brother tries to stick up for me, or my dad a few weeks ago. She says... (read in full...)
Is there any chance for me and my teacher to be together?
Q. I'm 15, and I think I have a crush on one of my teachers. (he's around late-30s/early-40s). I wouldn't be interested in having a sexual relationship, but how reasonable do you think it would be? I know it's not very normal, and I'm not crazy enough ...
A. 7 June 2010: nope, no chance.... (read in full...)
In Love, Or In Love With The Sex?..
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and we have sex about twice a week.. I love everything about my boyfriend and he loves every thing about me.. and were absolutely CRAZY for each other, I feel I am in love with him strongly and I ...
A. 30 May 2010: take a break from sex, yeah you say that you initiate it, but you want to know the truth here, dont meantion not wanting to till say he asks, and consentrate on making the relationship better by going out and doing things together which dont ... (read in full...)
Stupid or just plan silly in love?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am hurt. I recently reconnected with my high school crush. He indicated strongly that he is interested in me. I feel same way about him. However we do not live in the same town. He lives in a smaller town. I recently learnt ...
A. 30 May 2010: seems like hes playing you :/... (read in full...)
He saw another girl naked before me and I can't handle it!
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and I's past gets brought up a lot.. Like he gets depressed if one of my friends brings up "do you remember when you and him did that??". And just last night we were talking about sex and being naked, and I asked him if I was ...
A. 29 May 2010: I get this too with my bf, im the same age as you as well so i know how you feel. and my bf had sex with someone before me, and i did with someone before him.
I do also hate the thought of him with his ex, and he feels the same with me too.
so wh... (read in full...)
How do I get over someone who I've had feelings for, for the past 9 years??
Q. I was 8 years old when I first met this guy, i am now 17. Our mothers work together and are best friends. We used to go over their house all the time. And me and him used to take their dogs for a walk. One time, when we did, he asked me to be his ...
A. 28 May 2010: why do you want to get over him?
If you like him and your sure he likes you, make a move.
you may get more than you could ever dreamed of and have him like you want :)... (read in full...)
I'm mortified and feel like hiding from the world- I got some braces and they look worse than I thought they would!
Q. I have just got braces and I am 28 and I have never had much confidence and it has taken me a while to do this but they are horrible and I feel really ugly and I am frightened to go out and I don't want to go back to work. I knew they wouldn't look ...
A. 28 May 2010: just think, those people who DO judge you for your teeth right now will feel stupid in about a years time when your braces are off. you will have amazing teeth and soon you wont even think about them. right now they look and feel bad, but, it will ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend seems addicted to facebook...is this a concern?
Q. me and my boyfriend deleted facebook but i keep finding out he goes back on it. i feel kind of sad for him that he can't live without it. but i don't see the need for it. he said he didn't want it so i don't understand why he keeps going on...
A. 28 May 2010: everyone has facebook, its how people keep in contact with friends. im on facebook right now, my boyfriend has facebook and are both on it a lot.
If you get facebook you are able to see everything he does. so you dont need to be so suspicious of e... (read in full...)
Wow! He wants to have sex with me but I feel I'm too young... Help!
Q. i was going out with this boy it lasted 2 weeks and then he dumped me. i re asked him out a few months later and he said yes and it was all ok but now he has asked me if i would have sex with him. (but not forcefully) i just laughed and changed the ...
A. 25 May 2010: Dont Dont Dont!! Pleeasee!
I had my first time with a guy who didnt really love me, and stayed with me basicaly for that reason and left me devasted!
please dont do it. wait, and find someone a million times better than this loser who obviousl... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's practically dating this girl
Q. I'm naturally a brunette but I keep dying my hair and eyebrows red for my boyfriend of over two years. He's pretty much obsessed with red heads and it never bothered me until now. The last five months, he's been hanging out with a natural red-head...
A. 23 May 2010: I agree with the others. He is being unkind to you and making you feel you should change for him.
He should love you for who you are, and if he doesnt he isnt worth it. and you will feel so much better for iit afterwards. maybe not stra... (read in full...)
How do I keep my mom from finding out I'm having a house party while she's gone?
Q. hey :) well my mum is going away this weekend and i have sort of organised a house party :D but i think i will get cought my neighbors are really strict and horrible and might end up telling my mum :S So i was wondering if you have any suggesti...
A. 23 May 2010: hahaha! Your gonna get killed. It will be a disaster, my mate had an empty a few months ago, and his house got wrecked, and everyone was drunk and broke the house apart.
and now his parents dont allow his friends at the house because of what he did ... (read in full...)
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