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What do you guys reckon... Does he deserve another chance?
Q. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and we have been going out for 4 months. he lives 40 miles away from me. we have met up once every 3 weeks since we been going out. when we first started going out about a week into it i found out he was still talking ...
A. 13 September 2010: Nope, if hes done it 3 times before, he hasnt learnt his lesson, dump him, he wont care as he hasnt come crawling back to you, its always you after him, cause he knows you will come back.
Dump him, and get on with life, you live far away from each... (read in full...)
He is married and wont break up with me, Now I think I'm in love!
Q. Hi,i just want to ask some help about my turkish boyfriend now,he is married to a filipina like me ,,,they have two kids now,,i dont know if he really loves me,,how many many times i told him to break up with me ...
A. 13 September 2010: Leave him, dont talk to him, even if you "love" him. he will never ever ever ever ever leave his wife and kids for you, he would have already if he was going to, he uses you when his wife is away for sex. Move on and find someone you deserve. Leave ... (read in full...)
Virgin and totally freaked out!
Q. Hello. I really need some answers. 2 days ago me and my boyfriend were hanging out. I was topless, he wasnt, and i had my underwear and jeans on and he had his boxers and shorts on. He was on top of my and his penis was pretty much on my vagina, ...
A. 12 September 2010: Your not pregnant. ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out? or am I wasting my time?
Q. Hi... I'm asking to see if anyone else thinks theres an opening here for me to become friends and then something more with this girl, I'm just really going to summarize what I think shows a chance and shows a lack there of: * I can swear that I...
A. 12 September 2010: She likes you she will just be nervous and not know what to say to you. or being in hurry to make you think shes an interesting person with much to do and can be independant.
The flirty behaviour you describe shows she likes you.
I think you shou... (read in full...)
I think she likes me! what do you guys think?
Q. There's this girl in my English class and I think she might like me. You see on the first day of school the teacher made us do this thing where we have contact buddies and she was mine. A contact buddy is someone who you give your number to just in ...
A. 12 September 2010: If you like her, ask her out for defo!
She seems totaly into you :)... (read in full...)
What else can I try to get rid of these stretchmarks?
Q. I have really bad strech marks on the backs of my legs, thighs, hips, bum and breasts, what can i do to get rid of them? I've tried loads :( please help...
A. 10 September 2010: I have them on my boobs, and im about the same age as you. i know for boobs that they are not as clear as the years go by, so we can only hope (yn) sorry about the rest!... (read in full...)
Time is not healing me at all! What should I do about my boy situation?
Q. I’m 15, never dated and never kissed and really f**ked over. There’s this boy. Let’s call him x. I’ve been inappropriately close to him 3 times in the past year. We became tight over internet chat over the July holidays. He always made me...
A. 10 September 2010: Dont talk to x at all. hes your obstacle. now when you see a d*** is the thing in the way of happiness, your happiness, then try so hard to get away. You dont talk to x, forget him(easier said than done), go out with friends, focus on you, improving ... (read in full...)
I told him I was pregnant, he said he was fine but now he's not talking to me
Q. I think I'm losing the father of my baby to be. I told him that I was pregnant and he flipped!!! Then he said he was fine! But now he isnt talking to me? Im so confused. I want to keep the baby but would it be the best for it? I dont want to be a ...
A. 10 September 2010: You need to think about your options. You are young, very young, and scared right now. Imagine how your family would feel if/when you tell them. The dad isnt interested, life would be tough. You will need to grow up fast. I wish you luck. but i want ... (read in full...)
In-lust, in-like, in-love?? You tell me!
Q. I'm not sure what to make of my feelings. Am i just in-lust, in-like, or in-love? what does it all mean? There is this guy that for the past 4 months or so we've hung out on and off, with a group and alone. It started off really slow, then event...
A. 8 September 2010: Stop Contacting him. Delete his number from your phone, you wont want to. BUt you dont want to be stuck with your feelings towards him. If you give him space and ignore him, if he contacts you, then you know if hes worth it, aka apologising for his ... (read in full...)
He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!
Q. My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...
A. 8 September 2010: Focus your attention to your interests and friends and see how he reacts, but when you are together and you know he isnt tired, then talk to him about this, and how you both feel and make sure you guys both want this. Which im sure he will.... (read in full...)
Tired of getting hurt...
Q. So i have a boyfriend and out of nowhere he says we need a break, im his first girlfriend because he is bi-sexual and only had boyfriends... before we started our relationship i asked if he was ready for a girlfriend he said "yes" but no he is ...
A. 5 September 2010: Give him space during this break, and if he asks for your attention he will want you back. Cause if you dont give him space then he will make the break more permenant.
Just act cool, and this will give him time to think about what he wants.
Hope ... (read in full...)
Do texting like this and the situation mean its more than friends?
Q. We've been close friends for a year at university, and recently we've got closer since we saw each other with other friends in a small summer get-together. Nothing happened but afterwards since we've parted again, for about a week since, we've been ...
A. 4 September 2010: she definitely likes you. text her telling her than since you guys have been talking more you have grown to love her and would like her to know and hope she feels the same way.
Good luck!!... (read in full...)
If I'm obsessed should I talk to him or leave him alone?
Q. Dear Cupid ive just got to High school and im already starstruck by this guy I really like. Im obsessed and I go this phone number every time i walk into the cafeteria I try very hard not to look in his direction. That never works I basicall...
A. 4 September 2010: Text him, get to know him, but dont bombard him with messages say if he doesnt reply after an hour. If he replies with more than just "ok" or "lol!" then your in with a chance. Texting usualy brings two people together and its a good way of finding ... (read in full...)
We freeze up and don't know how to talk to eachother in person!
Q. hello all. i have a beautiful, smart funny and sexy girlfriend and i couldn't be happier its just when we meet up in real life we sometimes freeze. we find it hard to communicate to one another when together but online we chat for hours. i don't k...
A. 23 August 2010: Thats what me and my boyfriend were like when we first met yearly a year ago! We were such good friends online and found it hard to talk to each other in person for 3 months! If you really spend time with each other, maybe go do something which she ... (read in full...)
If my parents find out I'm pregnant they'll kick me out of the house!
Q. hi am 15 and pregant me and my boyfreind had sex but sadly wer not together no more im worried tht if my mam or dad finds out they would kick me out ov my own house the only perso who i have told is my cousin atm im staying at hers somebody give me ...
A. 22 August 2010: Do you want to keep the baby or not?
If you dont there are many clinics around the uk to have an abortion, sometimes its as simple as a pill. BUt it depends how far gone you are.
Speak to your cousin, they will make you feel better and de-stres... (read in full...)
Should I give him my virgnity?
Q. Okay so, I'm still a virgin because I would like to lose it to someone who really matters to me, but with my current boyfriend (who I just started dating), well, he's not a virgin, and he's able to find soo many of my "turn-on" spots. He's also able ...
A. 15 August 2010: If you are unsure about it, dont do it. You will end up regreting it.Tell your boyfriend you want to wait and you will tell him when you are ready. I suggest going out with him for like a year first, yes its a long time, but then you know its the ... (read in full...)
He's 17, I'm 13, he wants sex but I think I'm too young!
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm gay and in my first relationship he's kind and he's everything I want in a man but since he's 17 and I'm 13 it's quite strange but it's both of our first relationship he wants to have sexual relations but I think I might be too you...
A. 15 August 2010: Tell him, simple as that. If you doubt it even for a minute, then your not comfortable. 13 is young. Tell him this, he should respect you. If he does maybe you should rethink if he is everything you want.... (read in full...)
How can I let her know that the fact that I love her is NOT a joke?
Q. I'm close friends with a girl, and for quite a while now, I've been telling her that I love her. At first, it started as a joke between us, along with the many compliments I was giving her. In the end, we were both at it, telling each other that we ...
A. 12 August 2010: Tell her its not a joke. Say to her that you want to speak seriously and tell how what you just said, that before it was a joke, but now you really mean it. Chances are she will feel the same, usualy these jokey things are true anyway after a while, ... (read in full...)
Why am I so attracted to dark skinned men lately?
Q. I dont get a lot of attention from boys back home. I keep my body in shape, and wear nice clothes and my friends say that I am really pretty and my hairdresser asked me to model. Anyway, I went on holiday to Turkey, and got all this attentio...
A. 8 August 2010: haha racist much? :P
nah im kidding, but i dont understand why this is a problem?
Maybe because of the way you have been treated by guys in the UK and the majority being white makes you think they are all bad and no use to pay attention.
Whereas y... (read in full...)
Acne, scars and what can I do?
Q. Im thirteen and I had ok skin untill a few months ago when I just broke out all over my forehead. I know it's puberty but in the mean time what can I do to keep it manageable? I've tried "clean and clear" the pimples ar a LOT smaller but there's ...
A. 6 August 2010: At your age you will get many more spots, some at more times than others, but the "scaring" will go away. Usualy it is best to avoid popping them inless they are big and pussy. Cause if you pop it when its not ready. then thats when it scars.... (read in full...)
Low self esteem, forbidden to date by my mother, but I still really want a boyfriend!
Q. im a 14 year old girl and im not in a rush to grow up, its just that my whole life since i started 3rd grade i wasnt popular. boys called me ugly and when i would start to like a guy the whole grade would find out and he didnt like me. no boys have ...
A. 4 August 2010: hello :) I am guessing you will get a lot of "Your too young, blah blah" but to be honest, it true, and really dont worry. You are young, when i was 14, i had my first boyfriend but it was horrible. i still felt terrible about myself and he di... (read in full...)
I might actually act soon on my crush... but it's my best friend's boyfriend!!! Help!
Q. Hey people! I feel ashamed, its ridiculous but yes, i have a crush on my girl's bf! The worst thing is that he knows it and he always turns me on deliberately. He says that he loves his girlfriend and thats true but he also tells me that he wants to ...
A. 3 August 2010: Tell your friend what hes been saying, she deserves to know what a dick he is. She will be devasted but she will be hurt in the long run if she isnt told... (read in full...)
Is he getting too close for comfort... just for a viza???
Q. I'm 13 years old and i went on holiday to turkey and met a nice man over there.He liked my family and my family liked him. On the last day of the holiday he wanted to take me to the beach but parents wouldnt let me for obvious reasons such as we had ...
A. 3 August 2010: every young girl gets this when she goes to turkey, the guy who i met in turkey when i was 14 still asks me to marry him two years later! even though fb says he has a gf!
In a few months you will see what has happpened, dont worry, he will be flir... (read in full...)
I need advice badly! Is he falling out of love with me?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly a year, we have had a rough time with jobs and money worries. I am also very insecure due to past bad experiences, my question is this, my boyfriend has stopped telling me he loves me to my face, he ...
A. 24 July 2010: I think he has had a lot on his mind and due to this has neglected you slightly. He still loves you if he still says it. I suggest you guys go out and have some fun to take his mind off his worrys, but dont offer to pay everything for him!... (read in full...)
I lied about my age to my bf, should I come clean?
Q. when me and current flame started talking, i never thought things would get as serious as they have, and i deffinitely did not think they would last past a week or two. he was 2 years older than me and very very mature so i was worried since i was ...
A. 16 July 2010: Tell him the truth, 2 years isnt a lot. Just make sure this is the only secret you have to tell him, and not to keep things from him. Once you have told him, it will be a shock to him, so expect him not to be happy and not talk to you for a bit, but ... (read in full...)
Please help me cope after my breakup...
Q. I need help :( Recently, my boyfriend finished with me.. We've been with each other for 14 month. I thought i would be able to get my head around it all and move on, but i cant. I love him and i think it will be hard trying to move on, after ev...
A. 16 July 2010: Ok, first off, dont worry! You will be crying yourself to sleep and crying where-ever you are alone, but in a few weeks that will stop. and that is when your getting over him starts. Firstly, break off ALL contact with him, as talkin when yo a... (read in full...)
Is it going to hurt us if we kiss now he has braces with rubber bands?
Q. Hey there. me and my bf are dating like 2 years, and we had our 1st kiss last year. i had braces last year and we didnt have a problem when we were kissing but now he got braces with rubber bands on them. :/ well we didnt kiss when he has braces. ...
A. 14 July 2010: noope. I had it and it feels completely normal. dont stress. they dont make them to get in the way of life, if it interfered with kissing, then it would be the same as eating. dentists do it to make it as normal as they can.... (read in full...)
He said he liked me, then ditched me on the day of our date, and the informed me he likes someone else!
Q. Me and my best guy friend finnally admitted to eachother that we liked eachother. A week later he asked me out over a text, I said yes but that he had to ask in person too. Later that night we were being all fliry and sweet. Then we decided that ...
A. 14 July 2010: He seems to be playing with your head. or just trying to make you really jealous and want him. I say don't talk to him for a while. he will soon realise the mistake he made hurting you. And even if the friendship is restored that way, he isnt worth ... (read in full...)
The ex wants to hang out, but I want more than friendship. What do I do?
Q. Alright so, my gf has recently dumped me because she thought she was never there for me. Even though we didn't see eachother as much as we wanted to due to homework, sports, family, etc. I still think we had a great relationship.. I asked if w...
A. 14 July 2010: If she wants nothing more than friendship then you shouldnt go. Ive done this in the past. very close after breaking up, and all i did was end up begging for him back, and that pushes them away more. I say, if you want even the slightest chance o... (read in full...)
Does it hurt to kiss with braces that have rubber band on them?
Q. today.. we kissed with my boyfriend, we really love each other but there is a problem my boyfriend has braces, he had a headgear before we were friends, now just braces. well in a week Im having braces 2!!!! WITH RUBBER BANDS!! :( does anyone have ...
A. 13 July 2010: Its finnee :) i had braces and elastic bands and it doesnt effect it in any way :)... (read in full...)
I'm losing hope for this relationship everyday!
Q. Hi, me and my boyfriend met 15 months ago online when he was in iraq. After a month of talking (i know it was early) but we declared we were in a relationship. He was due to fly home in another 3 months so we were gunna meet when he returned. Two ...
A. 13 July 2010: Break it off and tell him you can't trust him. As you havnt met him and dont live near him its easier to get rid of him. I suggest you do this as soon as possible. If you dont trust him and he blatetly lies to you then he isnt right for you and your ... (read in full...)
I dislike being the ugly one..
Q. Hey, I'm a 15 year old girl in New York. I'm 5'5 and I wiegh 110lbs! All my life, i never felt pretty and the problem is people give me compliments all the time which is i don't get! They compliement on my long hair or how "skinny" I am..I just got ...
A. 13 July 2010: If people are calling you skinny they mean it, so why lose more weight? You will be sooo beautiful but dont see it. Go on a shopping spree, get some new clothes, make up and get your hair done and make yourself pretty in your eyes so your happy. ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to meet him because of how I look...
Q. Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend online for like seven months or so, but hes meeting me this summer... sad fact is i have a beautiful face but my body isn't im fat, small boobs (but he likes butts) and im kinda scared to meet him. But I've said i ...
A. 13 July 2010: He should love you for who you are, which he will :)
He knows you are a nice person and seeing your beautiful face will make him fall in love with you more.
Or you could cut down on fast foods and join a gym to get your weight down? :S which ev... (read in full...)
Our relationship is on the line... how can we get close again?
Q. Hi all :) Over the past 2 weeks me and my boyfriend have been arguing quite a lot. I've been putting it down to not seeing him as often as i want to, but he doesnt agree. We've been arguing over so many things, he thinks i dont love him, he thinks i...
A. 13 July 2010: Ignore him. Dont talk to him for the 5 hours a day. Just go out, do anything but talk to him. Till he talks sense or how he misses you or something. Ignoring him will either make him see how much he wants to talk to you and will make an effort or ... (read in full...)
How can I let this go?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been seeing one another for 10 (ten) months now. I love him to bits, and everyone and anyone can see how head over heels I am for him. The only problem is I feel very insecure, because of something that happened in the ...
A. 13 July 2010: You need to talk to him about it, the situation can't be sorted if its not. That way he can tell you how he feels now, and tell him you are not comfortable with him texting her due to the past. Just make sure to get all feelings out in the open.... (read in full...)
I feel so.. not normal because I'm pretty sure most girls my age don't masturbate..
Q. This is kind of embarrassing, but I want to feel better about it. So i'm 16 years old and I masturbate about 3-4 times a week. I'm still a virgin, i've never gone further with a guy than a guy putting his hand down there (over my clothes) and maki...
A. 13 July 2010: Its sooo normal! Girls just don't voice their thoughts about masturbation as guys do to each other, so don't worry at all, im pretty sure that most girls our age do! It's normal and healthy, and don't stop inless you don't feel the urge to!... (read in full...)
Opinions appreciated. Am I still a virgin... or not?
Q. hi so, im not sure if i lost my virginity, like his penis was in me but he was pretty thick and i was pretty tight and it was my first time so it was really sore, he pulled out though when i said i couldn't take it so does it mean im not a virgin? ...
A. 13 July 2010: I would say you're still a virgin. You guys didnt have sex, as you stopped him before your hymen was broken by his penis.... (read in full...)
Holiday romance or real love?
Q. i went to turkey for the first time on holiday with my mum and dad. we went to this family bar, and i knew that one of the staff fancied me. he made me a paper rose, and then asked to slow dance with me. the next night he bought me a rose and on my ...
A. 13 July 2010: Its a holiday romance I should know. I did this a couple of years back when i went to Turkey!
Its basicaly how they get you back every night for you to spend money there, its tourism. And now your gone he will be doing the same thing with tonn... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is really controlling but I cant dump him because I have been with him for too long!
Q. i have been going out with my boyfriend for more than two years now and at first he was good but now he is controlling me. its that bad i cant go on the computer, msn, have facebook or even look and listen to boys on tv! i cant have boy mates or ...
A. 12 July 2010: Being with someone "too long" doesnt exist. Your just not used to being away from him.
What you need to do is tell him how you feel and that it is not fair, he has gone too far, and that if he doesnt change you are leaving him. You need to do this... (read in full...)
Breaking-up and no contact
Q. I was with my boyfriend for one year and three months. He broke up with me because he found out I was constantly lying to him. I ended up seeking treatment and counseling for all my issues. When I was with my boyfriend, I lived with someone ...
A. 11 July 2010: He cut off contact cause he doesnt trust you anymore and doesnt feel that being in a relationship is good for him.
You need to give up and try to move on. Focus on yourself and get yourself strong again. You blew this up. Next time you will know... (read in full...)
Do we have a chance? He's not over his ex yet
Q. Over the last month I've been hanging out with a guy who isn't over his ex. (they dated 2+years, ended a moth or so before I met him). When I met him, I was under the impression he ended it and was glad to be rid of her; over time he's shared more ...
A. 11 July 2010: He wont be ready in a month. More like 6 months or more, guys take ages to get over girls.
But continue to date other guys and get close to them and hopefuly move on to a new guy. Because this guy wont be ready soon, even if he says he is. ... (read in full...)
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