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writes:right im not on here to bore the world, im on here to get help with things i need to and figure out if there are other people like me. im a 13 year old girl and i think im in love for real. my mum and dad and friends say he is just another crush but im sure its not like that. i feel serious about this guy, i think hes the one and that i want to spend the rest of my life with him, he makes me feel so safe and cared for. i smile whenever i see his face, i love to kiss him and feel his hands around me. our realationship has became stronger and we are now reaching the sexual part in the realationship, i think about sex all the time. i dont know if i want it or if i dont but all i know is it is wrong, i learn alo about this at school and i want to experience it but it confuses me so much. can any one help me? do you think he really loves me? he is 15 and i know i love him for who he is and not beacause he is older than me. i love him with everything ive got. can anyone explain anything to me please.
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reader, im that her. +, writes (10 October 2010):
im that her. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for that it really means alot to know what other people think about this, i know i couldnt talk to my mum and dad about this kind of thing.
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reader, lacrymosa_652 +, writes (10 October 2010):
 Maybe you are in love, maybe you're not. I know that doesn't seem like a satisfactory answer but only you can know for sure. It could be that you feel you're in love now, and a few years down the line, you'll look back on this and think "maybe i wasn't in love like i thought."
At 13, it's natural to start to feel sexual desire but I wouldn't suggest you act on this. Both you and your boyfriend are under the age of consent, and not only that, although something may feel physically good, at 13 you may not be emotionally ready. Even you said you're not sure if you want to do it. My advice is to wait if you're not sure, and if your boyfriend loves you he'll treat you with respect and understand that you want to wait.
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reader, kirly.sugar42 +, writes (10 October 2010):
your parents are not allways right. its time to make your own desions.
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (10 October 2010):
 Its infactuation. Its not that your too young to love, its that you probably havent been together lets say over a year or 2. This seems to be a new thing or else your parents and friends wouldnt say this.
I think you should give it time before you say you love him.
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