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Hey guys, I'm just a girl going through things in life just as everyone else. I was bored and found this website, and its kinda cool. I can post questions and senarios of my life without being discovered. I'm very curious and straight forward. Looking forward to meeting new people and learning other people's point of view!

Ladies: Is bigger better when you're looking?

Q.   this is one for the ladies. i know there are plenty of penis size questions on here but i'd like to know how do girls feel in regard to penis size visually. i know how blokes are visual creatures and women less so but i have a question around size ...

A.   16 May 2011: I'll be honest, before sex while that foreplay session is going on I;m wondering about the size. And when those boxers come off you're either amazed or disappointed. Bigger excites me and smaller disappoints me.... (read in full...)

Should I talk to my daughter about her masturbating?

Q.   I discoverd my 12 year old daughter is masturbating. I do know its perfectly normal but she is doing it alot I am worried. I dont even know how to bring it up but would it be wrong to say doing it too much can be bad for you? Through advice of a ...

A.   27 August 2010: Wow, this is a tough one. Does she have any female around because I know if a male or even my father approached me about this I would be very uncomfortable and embarrassed. Think of it this way at least she isn't sleeping around. Its normal, at that ... (read in full...)

How do I make my body smaller and my boobs bigger?

Q.   i am 14 and i have small boobs (38A). i am about 5'6'' and i weigh almost 200 lbs. people always make fun of my weight. and my friends talk about how my boobs are smaller than theirs. most of my friends are C's and DD's. i was wondering how i can ...

A.   19 August 2010: I agree with the healthy diet,excersie etc. You can always use padded bras,push up bras- that's what those are made for. And if that's not enough well there's always tissue to stuff your bra.... (read in full...)

I've said I love you, but he won't say it back!

Q.   Dear cupid, Me and my boyfriend have been going out since June 11th I love him very very much but he has never said to me that he loves me!! Everyone says we are cute together even before we started going out, he is great we have never had an argue...

A.   15 August 2010: The same exact thing had happened to me. And I must say it REALLY did barther me. You don't have to do the same, because both our guys are different. And when I told him "I love you" it was through a text and we'd been talking for several months ... (read in full...)

She can't be pregnant, right?

Q.   alright ppl, here is a story: had unprotected sex, but i am sure that i didnt cum inside, and went to the shower after. Long time ago the chick was pregnant but without her own will. what are the per cent to get her pregnant? if the girl g...

A.   15 August 2010: Yes,there is a possibility she may be pregnant. Just because she has her period there's still a high chance of her being pregnant. The only way to find out for sure is to do a pregnancy test. I know males sometimes think "ok..I didn't cum in her so ... (read in full...)

13 year old FTM Transgender how to come out?

Q.   [OP original title] Hi. I am a 13 year old FTM transgender. I am not out. And I watch Degrassi, which has a FTM on it. And if I tell my mom I am then I am afraid she will tell me that its because of that show. Which its really not. So, how do I...

A.   15 August 2010: Well, you're a very brave one for admitting this. Your parents must be strict or you guys lack communication. I say you should maybe talk to your sister about it first. Open up to her and tell her how you feel. And from her response I think then you ... (read in full...)

Is my cum normal???

Q.   I am a man 22~25yo. It seems like that i feel horny everyday. Is that ok if i just masturbate everyday? If i do so, does that effect to my sexual life later on? I mean my sperm will be weaker then i cant get girl pregnant? And also my cum doesnt ...

A.   10 August 2010: I'm not a male, but I can tell you what I know. I think it is ok to masterbate as much as you want, your sperm will always increase. Now about your sperm being yellowish, I don't think that is normal. Maybe you should get that checked out just to be ... (read in full...)

Help! Vaginal smell is too strong!

Q.   Okay, here's my problem. Since I met my current partner sex has always been extremely... smelly. When she gets wet, it often, but not always, is accompanied by a strong sour or bad smell. Often it's not too bad (but still definitely worse...

A.   10 August 2010: You have no choice but to talk to her. Maybe if you have a close female friend that you tust, you can practice with her and see what see thinks. Your sex partner might think you don't smell her odor and just ignores it. I suggest you do some ... (read in full...)

I just want good sex like I used to have!

Q.   Hello :) my boyfriend and I have only been together for about 5 months and things were obviously great in the begining.. but not as much anymore. I don't tell him this yet but I do love him. Things are starting to seem a little complicated now tho....

A.   10 August 2010: I know its REALLY HARD..TRUST ME I KNOW, but sex isn't everything. Maybe you and your current boyfriend should try foreplay or something. It sounds like you and your curent boyfriend don't have sex much.or do you? Don't go back to your ex, he was ... (read in full...)

Zero experience with guys

Q.   I'm 18 and going to college and generally excited to be on my own. The only thing I'm worried about is that I have practically zero experience with guys. I've only had one boyfriend and that was a year ago, but I only went out with him because I ...

A.   2 August 2010: There's nothing to be nervous about. I use to be the same exact way. Boys use to have to cooties for God's sake! LOL. Don't worry, I'm sure you'll met a great guy who'll understand and he'll learn to be extra careful with you. Don't ever be ... (read in full...)

He says he loves me, but ...

Q.   So I've been dating this guy for like a year now he says he loves me but I don't know. He can last a week maybe more without talking to me, he never seems to want to talk on the phone, and every time he's with me he always leaves like an hr earlier ...

A.   2 August 2010: To me I think you can never be certain if a guy really loves you or not. Everyone shows their feelings differently. But in this case I just think that maybe this guy may not know what the term "I love you" means. Perhaps he does care but not the way ... (read in full...)

If I bring up my concerns again I feel like I'll only be nagging him!

Q.   to start off with, my boyrfriend and I have dated for 7 years. it was great up until last summer. In the summer we dont see eachother much due to us working everyday, we are both 21. whe broke up with me last summer and got back together in october, ...

A.   29 July 2010: I know how you feel, maybe you should try experimenting. Maybe you should just stop talking, and see what he does. Test him and observe his thoughts,moves etc. Will your "naggin" finally kick in when you're no longer complaining anymore? I don't ... (read in full...)

The sex doesn't feel that good to me anymore

Q.   Mods Note: OP's own title: I have a problem. I am really in love with my boyfriend and i am really attracted to him. I love having sex with him and I do want to have sex with him. But lately we haven't had alot of sex and I really want to. And then...

A.   29 July 2010: Perhaps you guys might be having sex too much, and its just not as exciting. Or if you don't think its that try new positions, role playing..porn? I'm not sure what'll work for you guys, but those are just some suggestions.... (read in full...)

Should I call him and just let him know how I feel to clear things up?

Q.   I met this guy 4 years ago when I met him it was a odd situation for me because at the time I was very shy and A VIRGIN. but we started to hang out and he wanted to take me on dates and tried to get me to go out and not just stay in his house.( ...

A.   28 July 2010: Yes! You should call him and finally let him know how you feel. This has been going on for years, and its not healthy to be in and out of contact constantly. You should just tell him how you feel, and by his response/reaction you should make your ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend won't go down on my unless I'm shaved

Q.   My boyfriend and I were talking about "what ifs". and it came up, "what if i was nine months pregnant and couldnt shave "down there"?" his response, "i wouldnt go down on you". my thought was arent you suppose to love someone even in there natural ...

A.   28 July 2010: Lmao! I get what you're saying..but there is a total difference between the "vagina" and the "penis". Most guys don't shave at all. And if I were you I wouldn't make a big deal about it. You can always wax,trim or even use the nair cream they have ... (read in full...)

I'm very insecure about my body, What can I do?

Q.   I have really small breasts and I feel insecure. I admit a bit of it is my own fault for letting it get to me, but a lot of people (especially insensitive guys) have commented negatively about this fact - also with the media and porn that men like, ...

A.   28 July 2010: Wow, I know how you feel. And I'm sorry because there is nothing I can say or do to make you feel better about your cup size. Every female has something that their insecure about, and it turns out that its your boobs. Well at least on the ... (read in full...)

Why does he keep playing with my emotions?

Q.   My husband left 2 months ago ... We just had a baby who is now 6 months. He moved out got his own place... And since the day he left he hasent stopped calling atleast everyother day and kissing me... He's said he is sorry but hasent really ...

A.   27 July 2010: Yeah, its obvious that he's playing with your emotions. I'm a bit confused. You guys are married and he moves out..? That doesn't seem like a smart thing to do. The best thing for you to do is focus on your child. That should be the only thing on ... (read in full...)

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