Should my Brother-in-law have helped me dress?
Q. I am 24, and my sister's husband took me to a hospital for a minor procedure that involved anesthesia. When I was done, he came in to see me. The nurse came in and said I could go, but needed to get dressed. She assumed he was my husband, and ...
A. 5 November 2010: I think that was actually a really loving and tender thing for him to do for you. I can imagine he was quite embarrassed and still is!
The act of being naked isn't sexual. We are all born naked and are most vulnerable when we are naked.
Altho... (read in full...)
Does anyone wait till marriage to have sex?
Q. I know that in our culture, sex is made into a large part of life, from what we see in movies, to what hear in music, there's no getting past it! so my question is, does anyone wait until marriage anymore? I firmlybelieve that waiting is the best ...
A. 5 November 2010: My boyfriend and I are planning to stay unmarried..so if we waited we would never have sex :-P
We had sex early on in our relationship and are still very happy and together two years later. I don't think that there is anything wrong with sex outs... (read in full...)
I'm in love with both of them, why cant we just have a 3-way relationship!
Q. I am new to this site so please don't laugh at what I am about to say. Almost 8yrs ago I met and got involved with a woman who is 10yrs older than me. Everything was going well until like the fool I am I cheated on her with a woman 8yrs older than ...
A. 5 November 2010: You cant.
This is your punishment for cheating on them both.
Do them a favour and dump them both so they can find a man worthy of their affection! ... (read in full...)
Is this pharmacy trying to rip me off?
Q. Its been a year since i have noticed that i have got some fungus growing on my skin. at first i did not take it into consideration thinking that it will go away. A relative told me that he too got this sort of problem and it was due to exposure ...
A. 5 November 2010: This isn't really a question for a sex and relationship site is it? But I will give you the right answer anyway..
Due to the spreading nature of the skin fungus it is very possible that you have a problem with your immune system.
You don't get a ... (read in full...)
Why do people have sex outside of marriage?
Q. Hi, I'm15, and I'm so sick of hearing about people my age losing their virginity!!! I mean, what happened to losing it on your wedding night?? I just want to know why people have decided that it's soooo important to have sex in a relationship? I ...
A. 5 November 2010: The reason you friends break up is because they are "playing" at relationships so young. They arnt real, even if they think it is. I remember being 15 and how everything at school revolved around who is going out with who and who is a virgin and who ... (read in full...)
In debt, want to buy a house, I'm 27 and living at home, and feeling like a loser.
Q. I really feel stuck in a financial rut. I want to be able to own a house, be debt free, have a great salary and afford all the things I want...But I am slowly paying off a loan (should be paid off by March 2011), I have just had a career change so ...
A. 5 November 2010: My boyfriend bought his house when he was 21, he's now 34 and he regrets it.
The UK market for home-ownership is absolute crap. There is no point buying a house unless you can buy it outright. Its not an investment any more, it wont make you any ... (read in full...)
Penis enlargement medications?
Q. I know there are many adverts on the internet for penis enlargement schemes and medications but I would be grateful to know if any of the readers has tried any of these and found it effective and true to its advertisement? thanks. ...
A. 3 November 2010: None of these things work, otherwise they would be a lot more expensive than being advertised for.
The only way to enlarge your penis is through several expensive surgeries. No surgeon can MAKE your penis bigger, however they can make the penis look... (read in full...)
Why have I not had an orgasm yet?
Q. i am 18yrs of age, i have a birthday coming up i'll be 19. i am very into sex i only had sex with 5 guys and im with someone, love him like hell but i never had an orgasm, why is that?...
A. 3 November 2010: I've been having sex for 4 years, slept with 12 guys and have been with the love of my life for 2 years.
I have never had an orgasm from a man. Over 90% of women dont have orgasms from penetration.
I've been having orgasms since I was a very you... (read in full...)
I'm single, 20 and want a baby
Q. i want a baby but am single i am 20 yrs old al my friends have babies and i have always wanted to be a parent young from a very young age what should i do this is gettin me realy down ? ...
A. 2 November 2010: Are you comfortable living off tax payers money?
Because that is what will happen if you can financially support yourself.
There are couples out there who desperately want babies but they can afford them yet so they save up. And these are people a... (read in full...)
Is there really such a thing as fate?
Q. do you think fate is real? Like If two people love eachother do you think fate will bring them back together after they stop talking...
A. 2 November 2010: I believe that fate is like luck; You make your own.... (read in full...)
Can a girl have sex during her period?
Q. Can a boy and a girl have sex when the girl is in her periods time ...
A. 2 November 2010: Yes, but it can get quite messy! Have sex in the shower or put some large towels down on your bed that you don't mind getting stained.
Still continue to use contraception as sex during a period can still lead to pregnancy and STDs. ... (read in full...)
Opinions from guys & girls needed! What to do when you accept his proposal but don't like the ring!
Q. This is a question for both guys and girls. Girls - If your boyfriend proposed to you and you accepted but you truly did not like the engagement ring as it was the complete oposite of what you like, would you tell him and risk breaking his hea...
A. 2 November 2010: If your relationship is secure enough you can tell him that you love him more than anything but you don't like the style of the ring. He will accept this, he may be a bit disappointed, but he will realise that it is something you will wear forever ... (read in full...)
Had a one night stand and now freaking out about STD's, how should I approach this situation?
Q. Hi! I would really appreciate if I could get some answers! Anyway, I went to a party and got drunk to the point I don't remember most of it. The thing is I had a one night stand with a guy I never met before and since I can't recollect anything...
A. 2 November 2010: The ONLY thing to do is go get swabbed at your docotors surgery.
Next time, drink less ans use a condom.
If you have an STD tell this guy you slept with. Its embaressing but needs to happen.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 2 years has never gotten me to orgasm.
Q. I have been with my guy for 2 years and he has never gotten me to orgasm...that i know of. Is there something wrong with me? Is he doing something wrong? I feel like i'm starting to hurt his ego. Help please......
A. 30 October 2010: No, I've been having sex for 3 years and never had an orgasm by penetration. It happens to more women than not. You will know if y have had an orgasm. If you want to know what an orgasm feels like, buy a decent vibrator and use it against your ... (read in full...)
Do all women scream at their husband when they are in labor?
Q. I need some good advice from the women out there who are mothers. My wife and I are pregnant. In all the movies you see, when the woman is in labor she is yelling at the father, scratching him, telling him it's all his fault, etc, etc. I am just...
A. 29 October 2010: No, this is just cinema.
If you are worried about labour, I think it would be as great idea to hire a doula. I am one and especially nervous fathers can get great benefit from another woman who has a calm temperament being there.
The advice I... (read in full...)
Is it his fault or my fault that I don't trust him?
Q. im having a boy friend.loving him from past 3 years.he shouts at me of course i even do,but wen i shout he cant tolerate..he stares at girls talk wid tem in the nights but he gets angry even if i talk to a boy casually.he used to go near one girls ...
A. 29 October 2010: Its nobody's FAULT that you don't trust him.
If you have stuck by him in a relationship that you are not happy with then you cant blame him for your happiness or lack of trust. You are condoning his behaviour.
You are both very possessive over eac... (read in full...)
Do guys like red heads for anything more than sex?
Q. I have naturally long, dark red hair and have never really liked it. Guys seem to like it, and i've been told it's "hot". I'm thinking about dying it dark brown, but i'm not sure whether to or not. Sometimes i think guys are just interested or ...
A. 29 October 2010: I'm not a guy, but I'm bisexual and I think redheads are absolutely beautiful, so much that I've tried (and failed!) to dye my hair that colour.
I don't see redheads as being more of a sexual object.
Embrace and love your hair, there are so many ... (read in full...)
Does being on birth control make me a slut?
Q. I am 14 years old and i am on birth control without a bf does that make me a slut or a whore or anything on thoes means ???? ...
A. 29 October 2010: No, it doesn't make you a slut. However CaringGuy, I wouldn't say that word is used by jealous people. I would use it if a woman/man is know to sleep around a LOT.
Being on the pill is sensible, a lot more people your age should take that lev... (read in full...)
How long should I wait for my boyfriend to propose?
Q. How long should I wait for my boyfriend to propose? Without giving him any kind of specific time limit, or making it too obvious that I'm waiting? It would be preferable if he did it on his own. But how long is too long to wait?...
A. 29 October 2010: I agree with CaringGuy (who always gives very good answers :-))
At your age you might be waiting a while if you have made no hints that you want him to propose.
Have you talked about marriage yet? How he feels about it?
Couples who are serious ... (read in full...)
Why won't he perform oral on me?
Q. My boyfriend simply won't go down on me. We have been sexually active for over 3 months and I've received it maybe 6 times. I give him head all the time, hoping to get some in return, but he claims he just has to be in the mood for it. I can't stand ...
A. 29 October 2010: Deffo don't spray perfume!! Have you ever accidentally got a wiff of spray deodorant in your mouth?! It tastes horrible!
Like someone else has said, adding anything very unnatural to the genital region disrupts the pH balance and can cause irri... (read in full...)
After 2 years I feel like we don't get along anymore, what should I do?
Q. Hi, I'm 21 years old, my boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. Everything was great, but lately we just don't seem to get along anymore! I do love him, and he says he loves me, but he just won't change a thing about him. In the begi...
A. 29 October 2010: I think its time to call an end to this relationship. It sounds like you are only with him this long because he took care of you when you were broke and now you feel obliged to him. One thing I don't understand is why you are trying to change... (read in full...)
Boyfriend just grabbed me and "did it". He didn't see anything wrong with that!
Q. Hi All - I need some insight on this. So yesterday I went to see my bf and we both knew we were hooking for sex before he leaves for the weekend to see his mother. Anyway, when i got there he was just uninterested. I touched him, he didnt touch m...
A. 29 October 2010: That's disgusting! He doesn't care about you at all, don't waste your time by seeing him again!... (read in full...)
Airports new "feel you up" measure is crossing the lines!
Q. ok. who was watching cnn this morning? airports are bringing in some new security measures and its getting personal. i watched (on cnn) an employee run her hand between and right under a female passengers breasts. they touch your butt and quickly ...
A. 29 October 2010: I have been in the position when I have had a hand down my cleavage and a hard pat on my genitals to make sure I am not a terrorist... This amount of security is ridiculous and unnecessary. ... (read in full...)
Airports new "feel you up" measure is crossing the lines!
Q. ok. who was watching cnn this morning? airports are bringing in some new security measures and its getting personal. i watched (on cnn) an employee run her hand between and right under a female passengers breasts. they touch your butt and quickly ...
A. 29 October 2010: I totally agree with you on this. They already have full body screens, why this?! If someone is going to make an effort to hide something, I'm sure security aren't going to be able to find it by touching under breasts and on the trouser of the c... (read in full...)
I want to feel all "MMM" from sex!
Q. Hi everyone! I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend and I both had sex for the first time a week and a half ago. The first time hurt just a bit. We've done it four times so far and yeah soon enough I will no longer be keeping count. Of the th...
A. 29 October 2010: Pleasure from sex doesn't happen to all women. I've been having sex regularly for 3 years and I've never had an orgasm from being penetrated. I still love sex. I love doing something so sensual and special with my other half. I love the feeling... (read in full...)
I have started the gym for the first time so need some tips for dieting!
Q. Hey guys just 1 week back I started gym, its first time I joined gym so I want to get some tips from those who making workouts. what food I gotta have for dieting food that should helps me to reduce fat am 83kg's damn I have to mention that. pls ...
A. 29 October 2010: You don't need to "diet". What you need to do is change your lifestyle. Being on a diet gives the impression that you are going to eat healthily until you get to goal body shape then go back to your original diet. That will of course lead you to put ... (read in full...)
Why do men think of women as slaves?
Q. why do men think of women as slaves?...
A. 29 October 2010: Err what? Where did this come from?
I think someone is a little bitter!!... (read in full...)
My friends always say the teacher is staring at me
Q. hey :) I know I have asked this before, but I got no help :( thank you to the people who did comment though, I just need more help please I don't know what to do im really sorry its so long, but please I need your advice .... I'm a littl...
A. 28 October 2010: You haven't specified what your question is..
Its like one long statement.... (read in full...)
I dumped g/f 10 months ago and want her back!
Q. I dumped my girlfriend 10 months ago and everyday I regret it. I treated her bad. Now she's hanging around another guy who treats her like a queen and she acting in a way that she didn't act with me. It torments me to watch anothe guy make her ...
A. 28 October 2010: Grow up you immature man.
I thought this was being written by a 15 year old until I saw the age.
The reality of it is that you don't get second chances when this happens.
Why would a girl leave the awesome guy she's seeing now to be with a guy t... (read in full...)
Pregnancy tests have come back negative, but could I still be pregnant?
Q. My periods are 4 days late. I took 2 pregnancy tests and they both came out negative. I've never missed periods before and they are always on time. I had sex 2 days after my last periods. Could i be pregnant?...
A. 27 October 2010: 4 days isn't late.
Those tests are extremely sensitive so if they come back negative, then you are not pregnant.
I will bet you a large sum of money your next period comes within the next 10 days.
... (read in full...)
I feel used after sex
Q. Okay well I'm 14 and me and my friend are "talking" to these two guys who are best friends and my guy who is 16 lives with my friends guy who is 15. Well we are having sex on and off and I give my guy blowjobs all the time. Well after we have sex he ...
A. 26 October 2010: For christs sake girl, stop having sex!
Firstly its illegal
Secondly you are FAR too young, even if you don't think you are.
This is not the thing you should be doing at your age.
Of course he is going to tell you he is not using you...if... (read in full...)
Is it normal to want to experiment with each other?
Q. Me and my bestfriend are both 14 (and both girls), lately, we've been talking to each other on Msn over webcam, and talking about experimenting with each other, and we've shown each other our boobs over webcam already. she's sleeping round mine thi...
A. 25 October 2010: YES!
Its very normal at your age. I did this kind of thing with my girlfriends when I was 14/15.
Enjoy the fun!... (read in full...)
Should I tell my girlfriend that I was attacked? I don't want to upset her while she is away, so can it wait until she returns?
Q. My girlfriend is away on a business trip and i recently got attacked when i was in the city and sustained 27 stiches on my head, she will be back in a weeks time, i am feeling much better, should i keep this incident unknown to her until she ...
A. 25 October 2010: Aw poor love!
I think you should tell her what happened and reassure her that you are ok.
Keeping important things like this from your other half isn't very honest, although I know you are just trying to protect her.
If I was her I would want t... (read in full...)
I have been called a "wasp" - what does that mean?
Q. if someones calls you a wasp what does that mean?...
A. 25 October 2010: You havent given much info..
Was it a compliment or an insult?
Who said it to you?
Being called waspy means that you have a tiny waist compared to your hips and bust.... (read in full...)
I need sex asap! Sleep with a prostitute?
Q. Sorry for the long question, I need to set the background. And I really need help (I thought about going to a shrink, but I can't afford it). I'm a foreign PhD in the US. My English language is good but not great. I go along pretty well. I e...
A. 25 October 2010: I think that you should go ahead and have sex with a prostitute.
You have gotten to a point where sex is crowding your mind and keeping you from doing more important things.
Find a good classy call girl online, not a skanky one who stands on stree... (read in full...)
Could she have feelings she's not ready to admit to?
Q. I'm a 15 year old female, and I'm bi. At the moment I am really confused about how I feel. There is this girl who I developed very strong feelings for, and she knows. I think I may be falling for her, but I don't think she likes me. She is a really ...
A. 23 October 2010: Aw honey..
I was in a same kind of situation as you are in when I was a little older than you. We ended up together for a year!
It sounds like she could be interested in you but is afraid of rejection or what will happen if anything happens! Whi... (read in full...)
How will I know when there is penetration?
Q. I'm a 20yrs old girl, still a virgin, my hymen wasn't there, so my BF knows and promised not to penetrate deeper during sex ie for me not to lose my virginity until i'm ready,but i'm confused, am i still a virgin? Can i get pregnant like that and ...
A. 22 October 2010: I don't quite understand what you are saying..
Your boyfriend has penetrated you but not far enough to brake your hymen? But you dont have one anyway..?!
Honey, any kind of penetration, no-matter how deep is sexual intercourse. So if this has happ... (read in full...)
Should I get pregnant knowing my fiance doesn't want another child?
Q. My fiance and I have 3 boys (5,2,1 week), i just gave birth to a baby on 10/14. I desperately want to try for a girl and he doesn't want anymore children. 2 are his and 1 is from a previous relationship. He now wants to use condoms and get me on ...
A. 21 October 2010: Take a moment to imagine if you were the one wanting another baby and HE was putting the holes in the condom..
Imagine how terrified you would be if you got pregnant when you are already spending so much time and money on 3 kids.
You are playing ... (read in full...)
Do you think that getting a hand job during a massage is really cheating?
Q. I am a little bored and was intrigued by all the ads for Asian massage places and something called "table shower". My question to you all is do you think that getting a hand job during a massage is really cheating? It seems to me that it is not ...
A. 21 October 2010: What makes you think that your wife wants some other person touching her that isn't her husband?
Its like saying "Why wont you let me sleep with other women? I will let you sleep with other guys!"
Its NOT THE POINT.
You have someone touching you... (read in full...)
Would a guy pick the girl with the big boobs?
Q. embarrassing question... :S would a guy rather a girl with an athletic body, LOTS of muscle, long legs, a six pack, and a good bum but has small boobs (A)... or would he rather a girl with an average or skinny body, with big boobs? both girls hav...
A. 21 October 2010: I'm bi-sexual and I like a plumper figure, not fat, I just don't wanna see any bones poking out! For ME, I don't like six packs or skinny with big boobs, and neither does my boyfriend.
Look for a guy in the gym who is muscly as well, he prob wont... (read in full...)
Girls say its small! Is it?
Q. I'm 20 and I want to know why girls keep telling Me that my 7" long 6" girth penis is small? is it small or what? please answer. ...
A. 21 October 2010: Why are you talking about the size of your penis to girls? It sounds a little immature to me.
I agree with Tisha-1 stop talking about it. Nobody want to hear about your penis. Its inappropriate.
Average penis is 5.5 inches... (read in full...)
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