He asked me out but didn't pay for the date?
Q. A guy that I know is interested in me (we've kissed) asked me to hang out (alone for the first time, also this is the beginning of our "friendship"), but he never paid for me even though he treated it as a date (kissed me again)...is that normal? I ...
A. 16 January 2011: If you are THAT bothered by the fact you had to pay for yourself, accept the fact that you arnt meant to be and leave it as that.
However if you want to decide to be a bit more mature about the situation and see him again because you like him... (read in full...)
Feeingsl of lust for my girlfriend's sister..
Q. i'm a 15 yr old guy....i hav a gf...and we love each other a lot!!! she has a sister who is older than me by abt a year and a half and is much more attractive than my gf...this sister loves me as a brother and i love her as a sister as well.....but ...
A. 15 January 2011: You can love someone and have lustful feelings for another, its not a crime, its natural.
However, it is important that you don't let these feeling control your actions. Don't get into any situations where you can be accused of acting inapprop... (read in full...)
He asked me out but didn't pay for the date?
Q. A guy that I know is interested in me (we've kissed) asked me to hang out (alone for the first time, also this is the beginning of our "friendship"), but he never paid for me even though he treated it as a date (kissed me again)...is that normal? I ...
A. 15 January 2011: I think it is absolutely ridiculous in this world as we know it now, for women to demand equality then EXPECT a man to pay for everything, doesn't that just make those women hypocrites?
All the first dates I have been on, the man has paid for the ... (read in full...)
(Why) do women prefer bad boys?
Q. I've got a new question for you, inspired by another post... One for the ladies, and one for the men :) When I range my friends on a scale from bad-boy til decent, and compare it with their success with dating (not necessary including happy ...
A. 13 January 2011: I have never liked bad boys. I think girls/women associate badness with excitement.
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Could this be a yeast infection or is it an STI/STD Title
Q. ok so.... saturday 8th january i had unprotected sex with a guy while i was drunk. It's the first time i've gone back to a guys house after meeting them that night. and ive only slept with 4 people. The thing is i now have an itching / slightly...
A. 10 January 2011: This sounds exactly like thrush.
As a medical professional, I know that STI's will not show up this early. As a woman, I know the symptoms of thrush!
Go to the Chemist and get a Canestan self treatment pack which will clear it up. After your t... (read in full...)
He wants to video tape us having sex and I'm not comfortable with it
Q. Okay so I've dating my boyfriend for 5 months I love him more then anything. I'm in college and he works. He's 34 years old and I'm 19 years old. I know there is a big gap but I love him and I feel like he does loves me back. so we had issues in the ...
A. 10 January 2011: Wait until your are in a more secure and trusting place in your relationship. Then it will be something you can both enjoy.
I don't know anything about this guy so I can't comment on his wish with accuracy, maybe he is trying to take advantage or m... (read in full...)
What causes a miscarriage?
Q. Does anyone know what causes a miscarriage? ...
A. 9 January 2011: http://www.wisegeek.com/what-causes-miscarriages.htm
http://www.conceiveonline.com/miscarriage-infertility/miscarriage-causes/... (read in full...)
He has been my boyfriend for two months, and is now trying to get me pregnant!
Q. Okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months now and he started talkinq bout having a baby with me. The thing is im 16 and he is 18. I told him i'm not ready to have a baby that's not in my life plan to be pregnant at 16. even ...
A. 8 January 2011: Get on the pill, get the depo shot or an implant. This will put you in control and take away his.
He is being totally irresponsible and unacceptable. He is not prepared to have a child and him forcing his wishes on you just shows how little h... (read in full...)
Do guys like their hair being played with?
Q. Do guys like to have there hair played with? Not just when kissing...
A. 7 January 2011: eyeswideopen = LOL!
Thanks, that cheered my up after a hard days work!
Bald men are very sex, you are a lucky woman :-)... (read in full...)
My friends are trying to convince me the age gap is a problem
Q. I'm 20 and my current boyfriend is 33, we've been together for 10 months or so. We met via work (we play pro badminton) and I used to play mixed doubles for a little while before we got together, which is where we initially got to know each other. (...
A. 7 January 2011: I don't understand why your friends are commenting on the age gap when he is so good looking and I can imagine you appear to be very happy!
Have you asked them why they think its a problem?
I'm 21, and my OH is 34, we met when I was 19 and he 31... (read in full...)
For the girls: Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker?
Q. Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker? Only for women...
A. 5 January 2011: "There have been studies that show higher incidences of both STD transmission, infections, and cervical and penile cancer related to uncut penises. If you use protection or you are totally monogamous with one partner this should not be an issue."
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It hurts when he looks at other women
Q. Hi, I need some insights... My bf and I are in a great relationship for over a year and half, we love each other so much and we plan on getting married. But he's a MAN and he can't help looking at other women. I know, they say it's normal, "m...
A. 5 January 2011: I can understand where you are coming from, I used to feel the same when I first started dating my OH.
However, after a while you just have to accept that if there is a pretty girl around, or a nice pair of legs, it will get more attentio... (read in full...)
For the girls: Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker?
Q. Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker? Only for women...
A. 5 January 2011: Having foreskin does not increase your chance of getting an STD, it does not make you dirty, it doesn't not increase/decrease the chance of pregnancy etc..
I'm sure you have noticed that your foreskin is sensitive, obviously you will lose that if ... (read in full...)
For the girls: Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker?
Q. Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker? Only for women...
A. 5 January 2011: I think this question is more directed to American or Jewish women where circumcision is more common.
To me, circumcised or not, it's the person at the end of the penis that matters!
I don't see myself what the important difference is be... (read in full...)
I don't think my boyfriend wants to have sex anymore!
Q. I have a question that is a little difficult to ask because I don't really know how to. My boyfriend and I have been having sex problems lately. Awhile back he told me he didn't want to have sex every night. He used to say he wanted to and could and ...
A. 4 January 2011: I feel so bad for men sometimes.
Just because some men talk about sex all the time and want sex all the time it doesn't mean all men are like that.
I have been with my OT for almost 3 years and I have a much higher libido than him. I would like t... (read in full...)
What does his body language imply?
Q. Hey, I really like a guy and wanted to ask your opinion on body language. When I was upset he embraced me really tight and kept hugging me really close and was playing with my hair and stroking it. So what does his body language imply? is it fr...
A. 3 January 2011: I asked my boyfriend about this question, and he said that it could just be friendly, stroking hair and long hugs doesn't mean they have romantic feelings, they may just think of you as a good friend who deserves the best support.
It sounds roma... (read in full...)
Safety concerns...
Q. I have been considering inducing lactation. But before I make this commitment, I have a question that needs to be answered. I take several prescription drugs, can they be excreted in breast milk, would they be dangerous to my partner? I am most ...
A. 3 January 2011: No he will be fine. If you have any further medical questions, see your doctor or Google them for more info. ... (read in full...)
What does his body language imply?
Q. Hey, I really like a guy and wanted to ask your opinion on body language. When I was upset he embraced me really tight and kept hugging me really close and was playing with my hair and stroking it. So what does his body language imply? is it fr...
A. 3 January 2011: Does he do that when you are not upset? On a regulations basis or wad it just that one time? ... (read in full...)
Fiance's ex forbids him seeing his children if I do something she doesn't like!
Q. im going to make this short and simple. im with my fiance who has 2 kids by his ex-wife, what should i do, everytime i do something she does not like she tells him he cant see his kids. its not fair to him, what should i do ?...
A. 3 January 2011: Do you mean that she won't let him see them when you are around or not at all?
Because if she doesn't like you, then she isn't going to want her children to be around a women she doesn't know, trust or like. ... (read in full...)
Need help! What does this mean?
Q. hey guys i need to know what this means: " seriously though I think her looks saved her or else I think ud only get two camels at the market for her" what is this person trying to say????...
A. 2 January 2011: In some countries, women are sold for camels.
It means that all she has is her looks. Not smart, no personality, dull, unintelligent, average.... (read in full...)
Does this count as sex?
Q. so first off my boyfriend and i have never had sex. okay two nights ago my boyfriend and i were messing around on the couch (like he was rubbing himself on me but not going in) and he kind of slipped and went in maybe an inch or so but n...
A. 2 January 2011: Yes, this is sex I'm afraid!
Even if the glads of the penis go into the vagina half an inch, that is counted as sex.
But if you want to count it as a number, that's your choice.
If you were a virgin before, you would have lost your virginity.... (read in full...)
Husband is great but he looks at teen porn
Q. So i am 40 weeks pregnant and just got married 2 months ago. My husband is great to me and we planned on having this baby. Problem is, he looks at teen porn. I caught him on the computer before so now he looks at it on his phone..The girls look ...
A. 1 January 2011: All teen porn is 18+
To be honest, i dont know many people who watch porn with girls over 20ish, unless they have a milf fetish. Looking up teen porn is not the same as child porn. Child porn,i would be worried, but teen porn..that is just rel... (read in full...)
I'm scared if we have sex I'll get pregnant and he'll leave me!
Q. Okay so this is goin to be so confusing. But i live in newfoundland. and the guy im i guess you could say dating is living in ontario. He comes here every summer for a couple of weeks. Our feelings are very strong for each other, we tell each other ...
A. 1 January 2011: You should not be having sex until you are of age.
Have sex when you feel you are old enough to deal with the concequences; one of these is pregnancy.
If you dont want the risk, dont have sex.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend called me a tart!
Q. im 14 and me and my bf have been dating for about 5 months and im not gonna lie i have had sex with him and not just once but any waay im a street dancer and me my boyfriend knows i wear shorts and belly tops alot and when im with him he doesnt mind ...
A. 31 December 2010: Well I just about got what you were saying from that jumble of miss spelt words..However I do question if you actually turn up to English classes.
Thank you babycakes345 for showing your real colours and proving my previous comment correct.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend called me a tart!
Q. im 14 and me and my bf have been dating for about 5 months and im not gonna lie i have had sex with him and not just once but any waay im a street dancer and me my boyfriend knows i wear shorts and belly tops alot and when im with him he doesnt mind ...
A. 30 December 2010: To be honest, the way you described the way you dressed, does sound trampy. I can understand it is performance wear but to wear it around town after your boyfriend expressed concern?
I agree with @dirtballs post, he was almost certainly getting ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend likes anal sex but it hurts
Q. My boyfriend and I have been talking about anal sex since after we had vaginal sex. So, it's been about six months now... We had anal sex (barely) once before and it hurt like hell. I ended up crapping blood for a couple days after that. That was ...
A. 29 December 2010: The first time I had anal sex it hurt like hell, but I found I was doing it all wrong. I was on top and I didn't use lube, and I bled for days unsurprisingly!
The second time was fun and enjoyable. We used lots of KY, a condom, had some red wine... (read in full...)
Why is it wrong for the woman to make a decision about marriage?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating about 2.5 years. We have a house together that we bought about a year ago. I have been ready for marriage since about our 2 year mark. I started discussing this with him a couple months ago. I know many people s...
A. 25 December 2010: What youre saying is frownef upon because you are giving the impression that you are more interested in a wedding than a relationship.
Marriage is a mutual decision, not a man "choosing a wife".
Mwn get the shitty end of the deal, no wonder ... (read in full...)
Did I really lose my virginity? I'm not sure
Q. Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and just recently had sex for the first time. But it didn't hurt and I didn't bleed. Does this mean that I didn't lose my virginity? ...
A. 25 December 2010: Jeez, have you even had any sex ed?!
You are NOT a virgin.... (read in full...)
Could I have an STI?
Q. Well, i've recently had unprotected sex and my penis has been really itchy, at the tip of it, and there has been a yellow colored discharge coming out, not much but just a little bit, would this be an STI? if it is what can i do, i dont want my ...
A. 23 December 2010: Yes, it could be. Unless you want the infection to go back through your tract and make your balls swell up and leave you infertile, you need to tell your parents. You should know from sex ed that I am not exadurating.
And, kid, stop having s... (read in full...)
Views on student crushes on their teachers?
Q. I really like a teacher...So I have liked many teachers before but once again i am in love with this teacher but the thing is i dont atcually have him as a teacher...he is an computing teacher and the first time i saw him i really liked him...one ...
A. 22 December 2010: I had my fair share of teacher crushes when I was 15/16.
Like most others, I thought I was mature for my age and that I was in love. And that if he smiled at me, then it must be because he likes me or because I'm a special student.
Now, at 2... (read in full...)
My friend copies all my clothes!
Q. Hi~ So my friend just copies everything from hollister I own. I had a blue striped hollister shirt, and she said exactly in my face "Oh I like that shirt, I'm gonna buy it." I didn't want her to copy it becasue I liked it a lot so I said "No, ...
A. 22 December 2010: Its simple..
If you dont want people wearing the same clothes as you, dont shop at popular chain stores where its obvious where you bought your clothes.
Or
Wear clothes other people wont want to wear.
Or
Make your own clothes.
Stop ... (read in full...)
Do men like lingerie or women naked?
Q. So I got some realllly cute Lingerie at Victoria Secret to wear for my boyfriend the other day and I guess the thought never ran through my head but do guy's really enjoy lingerie or are most men just all for the full blown nakedness?...
A. 21 December 2010: Every guy is different obviously, my boyfriend isnt keen on lingerie however.
He thinks its a waste if money and is unnatural in the same way a lot of make up is. He finds me very sexy wearing one of his button down smart shirts with my hair all... (read in full...)
What do I do when my teacher flirts with me???
Q. I know this might sound like reeally really wrong, cuz it kinda is, but i kinda have this massive , lustful, crush for one of my teachers, and another reason why its wrong is that theres quite a big age gap, hes 29 n im 16.... He flirts with almost ...
A. 21 December 2010: Its hormones dear.
Stop looking at him, his "flirting" is his way of being nice.
You obviously like the attention, but next time you think hes flirting, remember that hes an adult in a pisition of authority and you are basically a chil... (read in full...)
It bothers me that he was once engaged to someone else!
Q. This is a fairly simple question. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months and I love him. He is older than me and 5 years ago he was engaged. They ended up not getting married because she wasn't ready to give up her life of partying, as he ...
A. 21 December 2010: My OT has been married, engaged and is still in contact with both of them now and again. There is no problem because these relationships are in his past. You just have to move past it. ... (read in full...)
Virgins getting erections????
Q. ok so my friend's worried because her boyfriend says he's not a virgin but she thinks he's lying because he always has a erection like when they hug kiss or anything he always gets a erection and she thinks that if he's not a virgin he would be able ...
A. 18 December 2010: My lord... are you getting any sex education?!
Erections in puberty can be spontaneous, and they happen when a guy is sexually aroused.... (read in full...)
Can my wife actually lose the weight?
Q. What is a person supposed to do when they are no longer attracted to there spouse? My wife and I have been together now for 13 years, 8 of which we have been married. She is awesome in many aspects which is why I love her so much. She has ...
A. 17 December 2010: "I love her but I want to be happy"
It sounds like you don't love her enough to stand by her even though she has put on weight. Although you feel you have done everything you can, she has to want to change herself to make a change. Putting ... (read in full...)
Am I able to pull it off as my boyfriend's baby?
Q. Hi I'm in a tough situation,I think I might be pregnant with my ex boyfriends baby. My current boyfriend and I have been trying for a year for a baby and haven't had any luck. He cheated on me 3 times a while back and out of anger I went and cheated ...
A. 17 December 2010: I'm with maverick494 on this one.
I don't understand why you want a baby, or why you are with a guy who cheated on you.
This doesn't sound like a good situation to bring you baby into.
If I were you I would leave your boyfriend and be a single ... (read in full...)
What are your top 5 "Must haves" and "Can't stands"
Q. Poll (just for fun). For women and men, for you, what are the top 5 "MUST HAVES" and the top 5 "CAN'T STANDS" when evaluating members of the opposite sex as a potential lifelong partner? I guess mine would be Must Haves: friendly dispos...
A. 17 December 2010: Mine is exactly the same as lagentsgirl89!
Luckily I have found my guy :-) ... (read in full...)
He promised to be a better man but I still have doubts about him.
Q. Do i stay with him or not? He cheated on me a month ago,i was angry and could not believe that he would cheat on me.When he was not working i use to take care of him, he used my car to go see the other lady.when i ask him why did he cheat, his an...
A. 14 December 2010: Leave this man!
He does not value your relationship or you.
By staying with him, you are essentialy saying that he can cheat on you whenever he wants and you will stick by him.
It sounds like you have a lot invested in this relationship, bu... (read in full...)
I'm 13 he's 11, should I ask him out?
Q. i fancy this guy who is two years younger than me. i am 13 and he is 11. we met on holiday in holland this summer and we are always texting and ringing each other. he lives about 15-20 minutes away from me so it isnt that far. i fancy him because he ...
A. 14 December 2010: Aw, to be honest I think this question is really sweet and adorable.
We have so many questions on here about 13 year olds being pregnant by 18 year old guys that this just seems like a breath of fresh air.
There is nothing wrong with you asking h... (read in full...)
I want him to choose her or me and our baby.
Q. ok i leaving on sunday for good but im pregant the dad was with me for 6 years and when i told him he did a runner he is now with someone new and my baby due in march. he told me when i did get him he felt trapped and he wants not part of either of ...
A. 12 December 2010: I agree with Cerebrus and Natasia.
He's made it clear he doesnt want to be with you and sadly doesnt want to know his child.
Leave and move on. Take that stuff off facebook, its portraying you as a crazy woman.
It is incredibly unfair and... (read in full...)
My bf is abusive, what can I do to stop this??
Q. Im only 16 my boyfriend treats me really bad he pushes me screams and does all kinds of things. I try to breakup with him but then im afraid because when i do then he gets more mad and hits me. He then feels sorry and wants me to not to be mad. I ...
A. 12 December 2010: The key word here is "tried".
Hes tried to commit suicide; if he had wanted to die, he would have done it properly, he just wanted sympathy and attention.
You have tried to break up with him.
You need to DO IT.
There is no excuse for his beh... (read in full...)
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