New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244961 questions, 1084299 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap
*martin89 agony aunt

*martin89

United Kingdom  (Female   XML/RSS

Like what she writes?
... Add *martin89 to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *martin89 a private message

*martin89's Ratings
Excellent57%
Average7%
Poor36%
< Prev1234567891011Next > [16 pages, 583 answers]

He said I stink down there and it's probably the food I eat!

Q.   Hey friends, me and my guy were out today evening and we were talking about having sex 2mrw at his place. He asked me if he should full shave? i said its your wish but just wash your men hair down there, so it smells good. He suddenly said that i ...

A.   20 May 2012: Would you rather not know? I think you're perhaps being a little over sensitive. Afterall if he penis really stank would you lick it? Its a normal thing to happen. If I eat onions, garlic and don't drink enough water, my vagina smells. Cut out ... (read in full...)

Weight loss tips needed

Q.   Hey there ,I'm trying to lose some weight, but my weight it is very stubborn, and does not want to move. I tried to eat healthy , 1200 calorie, and walk everyday, but it just not going anywhere. Is there any idea what works to start to drop the ...

A.   20 May 2012: You should be using a measuring tape, not a scale. I have recenly lost 6 inches off my waist and 8 from my hips by doing these simple things. 20 mins intensive exercise a day - get running! 10 minutes of resistance work - get a kettlebell! 3... (read in full...)

A man wearing pink skinny jeans?

Q.   First reaction/ thought that comes to mind when you see a male wearing red/pink skinny jeans???...

A.   14 May 2012: Someone your age? Trying to make the most of their youth while they still have it! Although I would expect teenage boys to wear skinny jeans..not 26-29 year olds... (read in full...)

I'm going to pharmacy school. Will that get me more girls?

Q.   So my friend told me that seeing that i'm going to pharmacy school girls will be more intersted or is this just a myth? and girls don't care about this stuff? or do you say that it does help you get that girlfriend?...

A.   12 May 2012: As a girl who is your age...I dont see why you have been told that. Girls don't care what your studying!... (read in full...)

Why did this girl say she would never go out with me? Is it because I'm ugly?

Q.   Today at lunch I was hanging out with my two friends, their girlfriends, and their girlfriend's friends. Well my friend Alex asked this girl something that I overheard, it was either "Would you go out with josh?" or "would you **** josh?" and she ...

A.   11 May 2012: You said it yourself, you are a lonely depressed looking guy with what appears to.be low self esteem. ... (read in full...)

Hungry after drinking coffee?

Q.   I only drink coffee occasionally because I like the taste but I don't want to become addicted. It's always sweet coffee from Starbucks. Cafe mocha is my favorite and it gives me good energy for the entire day. However recently I had a vanilla latte ...

A.   11 May 2012: Its the sugar...its making you crash. Get black coffee, no sugar or syrups and you will see a difference.... (read in full...)

What kind of porn do straight girls watch?

Q.   What kind of porn do straight girls watch? And how often do they do it?...

A.   10 May 2012: What kind of porn do straight girls watch? Gay porn Lesbian porn BDSM Anal Blow job Amateur Hentai Masturbation Teens Public None And how often do they do it? Once a day Once week Once a month Several times a day Several times... (read in full...)

What kind of porn do straight girls watch?

Q.   What kind of porn do straight girls watch? And how often do they do it?...

A.   10 May 2012: Both of those questions depend on the girl in question. There really is no answer.... (read in full...)

Are men put off by women who have given birth?

Q.   question for the men on here.. Are men put off by women who have given birth? either because they watched their partner give birth which has put them off sex and can't get the image of their head of seeing partner being stretched and watching som...

A.   8 May 2012: xgod - you get stretchmarks or you dont, no amount of cream or exercise will prevent it! Some creams help to moisturize the skin so stretch marks are less itchy and uncomfortable but they cannot prevent! The appearance of stretch marks can be ... (read in full...)

Why does this girl think I'm ugly?

Q.   So I was on myyearbook and I sent this girl a message telling her she was beautiful, and shortly after that she posted a status saying "Dear guys, just becuz you call me beautiful doesn't mean I'm gonna get past how ugly you are, and cream in my ...

A.   6 May 2012: Why are you telling her she's beautiful if you think she's superficial and a super stuck up bitch?... (read in full...)

Is it true men love stockings and suspenders?

Q.   Hi everyone I just need to ask a quick question I am planning on surprising my boyfriend. Is it true that men love stockings and suspenders? I just need some answers as I am unsure whether he would like it or not thank you ...

A.   1 May 2012: Different men find different things sexy. My boyfriend cant stand all the stocking, suspenders and ann summers like clothing or any type of neglige. He also dislikes make up. However he cant resist me fresh from the shower wearing one of his over... (read in full...)

Why do married men look at other women?

Q.   why do married men look at other women? I have a husband who does this and I'm so upset about it. I don't look at other men because I'm happily married with the man I'm with. He tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, bodacious, the whole nine yards, but ...

A.   1 May 2012: This is a problem with your own self esteem! Nothing to do with your husband - who sounds like a lovely man. He's human, and as a human he's eyes are attracted to good looking things. Do you really think this intinct dissapears when you sign a l... (read in full...)

I'm 21 but I still have to ask my mom if I want to go anywhere! How do I get more freedom?

Q.   I'm 21 but I have to ask my mom whenever I want to go somewhere. Whether it's going out with friends, to a school event, or even going to the library after class. Although they usually say OK, she will sometimes pester me about where I'm going. I ...

A.   30 April 2012: Move out.... (read in full...)

Air conditioning sickness?

Q.   Hi everyone, I just want to know whether anyone else has this problem. Over the past 10 years, I've worked in a variety of places, but I notice a pattern when I'm working in air conditioned buildings - I always seem so pick up wierd stomach bu...

A.   28 April 2012: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sick_building_syndrome... (read in full...)

Is this normal for a menstrual cycle?

Q.   Hi this is a question for the women I am 25 I started my periods when I was 13 they have always been irregular but I was just wondering if this was normal the past two months I have had my period that lasted three or four days and then four days ...

A.   28 April 2012: Our menstural cycles can be effected by a whole range of things; Food we eat Intake of fluid Stress Sleep Frequence of sex Exercise Change of diet Nutrients in our body This sounds quite normal to me, it has happened to me on several occ... (read in full...)

He cheated and had a baby with another girl, we broke up because of this but he still thinks he can get me back! How do I tell him he has no chance?

Q.   This guy and I were together for almost a year from 2010-2011. While we were together I thought everything was fine until 2011 came and he told me he had a baby. After finding that out, I ended it with him because the baby was a newborn meaning that ...

A.   25 April 2012: If you dont want him bothering you then block his phone number and remove him as your friend from any social networking site. If you don't want to do that then just ignore him. My ex was like this, I ignored him for a week and he stopped bothing ... (read in full...)

What are the confidentiality rules in U.K. schools?

Q.   I've just found out I'm pregnant! I'm 16 and I'm really happy because I was trying for a baby. My form tutor at school has somehow figured it out and keeps asking if I'm pregnant. I'm reluctant to tell her because I dont want the information getting ...

A.   23 April 2012: "I'm not going to answer any judgemental comments as it's my life and I will choose how to live it" I will not be apologising for what I am going to say. Your behaviour is absolutely disgusting. You are an incredibly immature, selfish and ... (read in full...)

Why do men get in relationships?

Q.   This is a question for men. Why do you get in relationships? I'm not just talking about the companionship aspect. A lot of women seem to ask questions about porn and or strip clubs and their boyfriends/husbands using or going to them. Some women, ...

A.   23 April 2012: Women feel like they arnt enough because of their own shitty self esteem problems...this has NOT got anything to do with the behaviour and choices of their partner. "Obviously the average woman can’t compare to those women and for a lot of men, ... (read in full...)

Do I have a chance with my English teacher?

Q.   Hi! I'm 14 years old, I'm a lesbian, and I deeply and honestly feel like I am in love with my English teacher. Now I know, I know you will say it's a "crush" or I'm just "infatuated" with her but I really feel this is love. At my school, we have ...

A.   23 April 2012: She does not have any romantic feelings for you. You are a 14 year old CHILD! She brags about you because you are a good student, you bring her things and give her compliments which makes her feel good as it means she is doing her job well. Sh... (read in full...)

Is it fair that my family smoke around me when I'm pregnant?!

Q.   Dear cupid aunts im 22. and pregnant. And have moved back.in with my parents because the babys dad left and as i was living.with him in a rented house i now cant afford the rent on a single wage. I love my parents and am grateful for all.they ...

A.   20 April 2012: Hi OP, have you gone to your local Citizens Advice Beauro? They should be able to find you some housing as you are in a high category of need. If your family is not going to stop smoking, even for the health of their grand child, you need to make a ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend only lasts 5 minutes!

Q.   My bf is 14yrs older. I notice now that I dont get more thsn 5 mins of sex with him. He lasted longer before. I dont know why. I just want an orgasm too. But I never get it....

A.   20 April 2012: The average time a man lasts with penatrative sex is from 2-7 minutes, so he is completely normal. Why is it ending sooner now? He's got you, he doesnt feel the need to try an impress you in bed because you are comfortable with eachother. How long ... (read in full...)

How can I protect my sister from her 40 year old boyfriend?

Q.   1.) My sister's boyfriend is 40+ years old and i think he is racist because of the way he interacts with other people including us. btw my sister is only 26. (the guy is british, my sister is filipina), my sister claims that he loves the guy. 2.) ...

A.   18 April 2012: Considering she works on a cruise ship it wouldn't make sense to NOT have travel insurance!!... (read in full...)

I'm 19 and my parents are super strict!

Q.   This is probably going to sound immature but i have to do this. I'm 19 years old and my parents are super strict. According to them I have to be home by 10 pm until I move out. I can't sleep over guys houses nor party or basically anything a 19 ...

A.   17 April 2012: Then don't live with them.... (read in full...)

I'm 19 and my parents are super strict!

Q.   This is probably going to sound immature but i have to do this. I'm 19 years old and my parents are super strict. According to them I have to be home by 10 pm until I move out. I can't sleep over guys houses nor party or basically anything a 19 ...

A.   16 April 2012: I know it sucks like hell but their house their rules! If you want to live independently, move out! You're an adult now, you could either be at college living in doorms or have a full time job so you can pay rent somewhere else. ... (read in full...)

Why do guys go to strip clubs when they have a hot chick at home?

Q.   My boyfriend went to a stag party and ended the night at a strip club. He said he didn't get a lap dance but bought the stag one. Now a week later, I have been trying to put it aside but its just at the back of my head whenever I look at him or w...

A.   15 April 2012: Variety is the spice of life. Humans are visual beings. Although this is about your boyfriend, it is quite gender biased. I'm a woman and I like going to "strip" clubs because I love feminine beauty and being able to go to a place to experience that ... (read in full...)

I told I'm pregnant, he said "I'll talk to you tomorrow, I don't want to say the wrong thing right now" what does that mean?

Q.   Hello, Men! I need your advice, ladies your welcome to opinions as well. I've been dating a man long distance, known him for a year, dating for 5 months, we are not in a committed relationship but we do go and visit each other every 2 months, we ...

A.   14 April 2012: It sounds like he needs a bit of time to think things through. Just because he did not say "omg that's so awesome!!" it does NOT make him a bad person. He is a human being, just because he is already a father and a "grown-up" that doesnt mean he ... (read in full...)

Guys, are women with big boobs more 'valuable' than the rest of us?

Q.   I was talking to my BF and he said that he was more inclined to treat a woman with big boobs with more care, respect and spoil her than a woman with smaller boobs. Of course I have a small B cup, and I asked him why he was with me. He said that I ...

A.   14 April 2012: That says a lot more about your boyfriend than male society as a whole. My boyfriend shows all women with kindness and respect - nomatter if they have large breats, small breats, are very attractive or are very "ugly". You boyfriend sounds like an ... (read in full...)

I like this girl. Should I try to destroy her relationship with her boyfriend?

Q.   ok, well, myself and this girl were really good friends 2-3 years ago and were kind of seeing each other. We stopped talking for about 2 years and have started talking again recently. We meet up a few nights ago and we got along great together, ...

A.   13 April 2012: If you actually liked her you would not even be thinking about destroying her relationship. ... (read in full...)

Should I press charges because she uploaded a photo of us on facebook?

Q.   Hi. I'm new, here. Last week, I have had a photograph of me with a female friend. I thought she would NOT post the photograph on the internet. However, just yesterday, I check her Facebook, just to see her photo album, as she mentionned a nea...

A.   12 April 2012: No...you just ask her to take it down.... (read in full...)

How can I protect my sister from her 40 year old boyfriend?

Q.   1.) My sister's boyfriend is 40+ years old and i think he is racist because of the way he interacts with other people including us. btw my sister is only 26. (the guy is british, my sister is filipina), my sister claims that he loves the guy. 2.) ...

A.   12 April 2012: What do you mean by having her insured? It does make sense, he doesn't know what he wants yet or he does and doesn't want to tell his girlfriends judgemental family. Not everyone has a life plan, and that may not be ok for you but that's how he ... (read in full...)

Why does he press on my bladder area during foreplay?

Q.   Hi, My new partner likes to press down on my bladder area just above the bikini line during foreplay but this really makes me want to pee. Is there any reason why a man would like to do this? I'm so worried I will eventually pee on him but I als...

A.   9 April 2012: Ask him... (read in full...)

How can I protect my sister from her 40 year old boyfriend?

Q.   1.) My sister's boyfriend is 40+ years old and i think he is racist because of the way he interacts with other people including us. btw my sister is only 26. (the guy is british, my sister is filipina), my sister claims that he loves the guy. 2.) ...

A.   9 April 2012: Have you asked your sister how she feels about what's happening? You are leaving out a lot of important information. If neither of them are working together and they haven't seen eachother in a while it can't really be helped, and you would usually ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and I fancy my woodshop teacher!

Q.   I'm 13 and I do woodwork in school. It's very hard,and the teacher lets me away with EVERYTHING!I take out my phone in class,and he doesn't mind. I walk around the classroom all the time and I never do my work! And I didn't do my homework,and ...

A.   8 April 2012: First of all, even if this man does like you and it's not all in your head he's still not a pedophile - pedophiles are people attracted to prepubesant childeren, of which you are not. Still this man's behavior is extremely innapropriate IF he is ... (read in full...)

What size penis do women prefer?

Q.   I am a man aged 34, iam just wondering on what penis size do women prefers. Is big, small or just average and if big how big. What do women enjoy most while having sex. Do they like when a man comes from the back or when he is on top....

A.   8 April 2012: My boyfriend has a 5.5 inch penis and a 3.5 inch girth. I am reasonably satisfied but wouldent say no to it being bigger. The size for me has nothing to do with orgasms or skill, its the feeling of fullness and when I'm very wet i get a less full ... (read in full...)

How can I protect my sister from her 40 year old boyfriend?

Q.   1.) My sister's boyfriend is 40+ years old and i think he is racist because of the way he interacts with other people including us. btw my sister is only 26. (the guy is british, my sister is filipina), my sister claims that he loves the guy. 2.) ...

A.   8 April 2012: 1) In this day and age that age gap really isn't that unusual, it works for some people. Why do you think he is racist? 2) So what if he's an Athiest, just because you and perhaps your sister are Catholics he doesn't have to change his beliefs to ... (read in full...)

Could his steroid use affect his fertility?

Q.   I am in a relationship with my partner for 3 years. We have been trying for a baby for over 1 year without succsess, my partner has had a semen test and it has come back that he has high vicosity and low fluid concentration and they have asked for ...

A.   1 April 2012: Yes, they will definitely effect his sperm! You should really ask your doctors what he can do to improve his semen viscosity. He should be living as healthily as possible. If he isn't willing to give up steroid use I would really question his ... (read in full...)

I now regret taking him back after his fourth cheating episode!

Q.   my partner of two years has technically cheated on me and i have taken him back for the fourth time and now i am regretting it what should i do?...

A.   31 March 2012: Breaking up with him and removing him from your life might be SN idea..!... (read in full...)

How long does it take to concieve after being on the depo shot

Q.   I was wondering if anyone could share their experience after recieving the depo shot staying on it a few years and their ability to concieve afterwards. How long it took that kind of thing. My fiancee and i already have two young children and ...

A.   31 March 2012: It can take a year for your body to be as fertile as it was before the shot. Even after a year it may take a while longer because only a small amount of people conceive the first month of normal fertility.... (read in full...)

Do men stop using porn when they have a girlfriend?

Q.   Hi everyone, us women need hope is there any men here who stop using porn/looking at it when they have a girlfriend? ...

A.   21 March 2012: My boyfriend started watching more porn with me. Its fun to watch together!... (read in full...)

Virginity and being fingered

Q.   Am 17, been fingered b4, and am wondring......even after being fingered, is the hymen still in place??? Can you stil say u r a virgin?...

A.   19 March 2012: Your hymen has nothing to do with your virginity. You lose your virgninity when a penis enters your vagina, even if it's just an inch. If you don't know this then you should hold off on any sexual activity until you are better educated. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to go to a strip club and I'm not sure how to handle it

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now and he is going away with some friends in august. I know it is awhile away but lastnight we were all sitting around a fire and his buddies brought up going to a strip club while they were gone ...

A.   18 March 2012: No matter how you feel about strip clubs you don't really have the right to tell him not to go, you arn't his parent and you do not own him. Tell him how you feel and that it's his choice whether he goes or not (because it is). If he goes kno... (read in full...)

*martin89's friends

These are mutual friends, so *martin89 has added them and they have added *martin89!

hopeful31 agony aunthopeful31
Jizzpudding agony auntJizzpudding
mystiquek agony auntmystiquek
Selvi agony auntSelvi
StarryEyes101 agony auntStarryEyes101
sunilal agony auntsunilal
SweetSmoochy agony auntSweetSmoochy
tink29 agony aunttink29
tony479 agony aunttony479
tori1993 agony aunttori1993
Welsh Uncle Dave agony auntWelsh Uncle Dave
Zach2013 agony auntZach2013

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.140659500000766!