Is it not normal for a girl to masturbate?
Q. Before you say anything, yes i'm quite aware that i'm a girl, but i mean, from what people say (not online or anything, like in 'reality') it seems as thought girls don't. But i do... At least once a week, usually once a day... But fro...
A. 1 April 2011: It is very normal for girls to masturbate, just nobody talks about it when they are your age.
Men are a lot happier talking about it, in the same way they like talking about farts and who they shagged last weekend. Us girls have a little more poi... (read in full...)
The tests say no, but I think I've convinced myself that I'm pregnant!
Q. the past couple months i have been really convinced that i may be pregnant, and as each day passes ive been more and more convinced. i have taken tests and they have come back negative, but i still cant help but wonder. i would love to become ...
A. 29 March 2011: Engross yourself in something else.
Only you can control your thinking. Whenever you're thinking of pregnancy or babies, so something to disrupt that thought pattern. ... (read in full...)
No matter what I can't cum
Q. I never come during sex. Even if my clit is being stimulated. I find my clit is less sensitive during sex. Is there something wrong with me? ...
A. 28 March 2011: Do you orgasm by yourself out of sex?
It is normal not to have an orgasm during sex, 90% of the womans population do not orgasm.
Try something different, invest in some fun sex toys. Get your sex partner to touch you differently.... (read in full...)
The tests say no, but I think I've convinced myself that I'm pregnant!
Q. the past couple months i have been really convinced that i may be pregnant, and as each day passes ive been more and more convinced. i have taken tests and they have come back negative, but i still cant help but wonder. i would love to become ...
A. 28 March 2011: This is known as a hysterical pregnancy.
The woman wants to be pregnant so much that her body mimicks the usual signs of pregnancy. A lot of women put on a lot of weight, just because they want to be pregnant. They can also become sick and tire... (read in full...)
I've not had sex, but I think I have an STI! Help!
Q. I am only 13 years old, I have never had sex or done anything sexual apart from masturbating but I have an sti! I don't know what to do and I'm to embarrassed to tell my parents what should I do?...
A. 27 March 2011: Oh yes, whoops! Sorry OP!
... (read in full...)
Needy or neglect... That is the question!
Q. Hey. My boyfriend said im being needy but i feel like im being neglected and i dont know witch of us is right, sorry if this is long but i really need help to figure it out thank you. Well thursday i wanted to talk to him on the phone and he said no ...
A. 27 March 2011: The issue here is that you both have very different ideas as to what you want a relationship to be.
He wants space, you want more contact.
Unless you can accept that this is how he is going to be, then its not going to work. Trying to change h... (read in full...)
I've not had sex, but I think I have an STI! Help!
Q. I am only 13 years old, I have never had sex or done anything sexual apart from masturbating but I have an sti! I don't know what to do and I'm to embarrassed to tell my parents what should I do?...
A. 26 March 2011: Why do you think you have an still? If you have a sore itchy vagina with discharge then its thrush. ... (read in full...)
Are lap dances now different from 11 years ago?
Q. hi i am trying to find out if anyone knows what is the difference between a lap dance now in 2011 and a lap dance back in 2000 has it changed do the do more now ...
A. 22 March 2011: @chris, it will have increased in price in the same way that milk and bread has increased in price. Inflation effecrs everything unfortunately!... (read in full...)
Did this pill mess with my period? What do I do??
Q. So, I've been having periods for like 7 years now and I think I know mine pretty well. They're usually pretty heavy. I've been on the birth control pill for nearly a year and they've stayed pretty much the same. This month, however, something's been ...
A. 22 March 2011: Nothing to worry about. THE ECP is a 'harsh' concentrated hormone thsb effect the body in strange ways. I've taken it once, I got quite sick and had a heavy period when I usually only get spotting. ... (read in full...)
Did this pill mess with my period? What do I do??
Q. So, I've been having periods for like 7 years now and I think I know mine pretty well. They're usually pretty heavy. I've been on the birth control pill for nearly a year and they've stayed pretty much the same. This month, however, something's been ...
A. 22 March 2011: Nothing to worry about. THE ECP is a 'harsh' concentrated hormone thsb effect the body in strange ways. I've taken it once, I got quite sick and had a heavy period when I usually only get spotting. ... (read in full...)
My Girlfriend still lives with her ex and child, and now she's pregnant with mine!
Q. Right....I need advice cause I don't feel I can talk to anyone else right now. I am seeing a girl and have been for a month or so, she is still living with her ex who she split up with a month before we started seeing each other(she moves ...
A. 22 March 2011: We can't tell you what to so as we are not intimately involved I'm the situation.
what you do need to do however is to have a proper conversation with her to weigh up your options and the concequences of each.
... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room?
Q. What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room? I share an office with a woman, and it seems that every time she leaves she touches her butt on the way out. Three possibilities come to mind for me: 1. Sh...
A. 21 March 2011: I do they because I have a habit of letting my arms swings into the sides of doors, then get bruised. Poor spacial awareness!... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants to shower with me but we are virgins and I'm afraid it will lead to sex!
Q. My boyfriend and I are going on a holiday together which means that we are going to stay in the same room. He wants to shower with me but I don't know if I should as we are still virgins and I am afraid that that will lead to sex. Although, we h...
A. 21 March 2011: There's a simple answer to your problem; if you don't want it to lead to sex then don't let it.
If you feel like you can't control your desire in that situation, lthen don't let yourself get into that situation. ... (read in full...)
Worried my weight will be a turn off
Q. Im a 24 y/o female and recently got into a relationship with a 32 y/o guy. I really like him alot and want this to work out really bad. Problem is I'm worried that my weight will be a turn off, plus I've only ever been with one other guy and I ...
A. 20 March 2011: Well, as you're in a relationship, I assume that you two have met face to face. There's only so much that clothes can hide, unless you are a magician he already knows what size of body you are. He's most likely fantisized about you naked, and he ... (read in full...)
Guy I once liked talked trash about me behind my back. Should I confront him about it?
Q. So i liked this guy (a massive jerk) and he ended up knowing i liked him by the way i acted around him. Anyway we have a mutual friend so she tried to get him to ask me out (she was telling him how cute we'd look together). then he says 'she aint my ...
A. 20 March 2011: No, don't confront him, you'd just be wasting your time. Arrogant guys like this wont care what you have to say.
You will appear to be more mature to just leave him to his own devices. You sound like a nice girl, don't spend your time focusing on p... (read in full...)
Am I bipolar?
Q. Is this bipolar disorder or what? My mood swings have been all over the place since i was young... but i'm not sure if that is hormones or an actual disorder. For example, i'll be really happy and hyper and then next minute boom! I'm depressed fo...
A. 19 March 2011: This is not bi-polar. I experienced what you're describing all through my teens and still sometimes now 2 weeks out of the month. And it is just hormones. Some of us are just more susceptible to mood swings than others! I'm a CBR hypnotherapi... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to my girlfriend's body. Should I leave her?
Q. Hi. I don't know what to do. Please read the whole question before cursing me and telling me what an idiot I am. You can do that after you've read the question. Well, I am not attracted to my girlfriend's body. We've been together for several mont...
A. 19 March 2011: I would say take the last option. You are wasting both your times being in this relationship. Why be with her when you are already planning the end. And don't tell her you don't love her because she isn't athletic, this is how girls get eating... (read in full...)
My boyfriend flirted with a girl in a bar and then told me!
Q. Hello everyone. Please help me, I’d appreciate some honest feedback. Me and my bf have had a tricky relationship at the best of times. We are both complex artistic people. I was a heroin addict years ago and I probably have mild mental health i...
A. 19 March 2011: I am a CBT hynotherapist, and all I can say that will help is that you need to sort your own personal issues before you start any kind of couples therapy. The problem you have here is how you are perceiving and processing things. You're feeling the ... (read in full...)
I have been trying to squirt and it just wont happen
Q. I have been trying to squirt and it just wont happen. My husband hits my gspot and I feel like I have to pee but when I try to let it go I cant! I push it out like if im peeing and nothing comes out. Im frustrated because I want to experience that ...
A. 19 March 2011: Only about 5% of women can squirt, I have no idea why you think all women can... I suggest you do some research on Google. Wikipedia should give you satisfactory results. Also there is a very big difference between getting "wet" and "squir... (read in full...)
I miscarried and it was HER fault!!!!
Q. recently i fell pregnant now im only 14 so initially i was freaking out about it. i had told my boyfriend and he was going to support me on wanting to keep the baby. i told my best friend everything and she was happy for us although i never told my ...
A. 16 March 2011: I'm so sorry that you are in this situation, it must be a very sad and confusing time for you.
The misscarriage was not the girls fault, unless it happened immediately after. Did you know that misscarriage occurs in 1 in 10 women before 12 weeks... (read in full...)
My wife is pregnant and our sex life has stopped. Is this normal?
Q. Me and my wife had a great sex life but shes pregnant one and half months from now. We both missings our days but we're afraid of losing pregnancy. What should we do?...
A. 15 March 2011: Sex in pregnancy is only an advanage when you want to ge labour going, the prostaglandins in the semen helps to soften the cervix.
If you have misscarried many times before, then I would say stay away from penetrative sex until you clear it with ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 yet from time to time I long for a baby. Can I get over this?
Q. Hey. So I'm only 16 but sometimes I get like really hormonal and obsessive about having a baby. Its not all the time, but when i do get it its like unbareable - like I just want a baby so badly. Its really scary and upsetting - why do i feel like ...
A. 14 March 2011: Ok people calm down! She didnt say she was planning to have a baby, she just said she wanted one. There is a slight difference!
I can really relate to how you are feeling. I started having those urges when I was 17 and now that i'm almost 22 and m... (read in full...)
Is there REALLY an age limit on love???
Q. Hi! My boyfriend of almost six months is 19 turning 20 in August and I`m 15 turning 16 in September, I look older for my age and I`m also more mature than most 15 year old girls. I know a lot of teenagers say that, but, no, I REALLY am. I`m going to ...
A. 13 March 2011: " I`m also more mature than most 15 year old girls. I know a lot of teenagers say that, but, no, I REALLY am" -Pfft! First red flag I think we would take you a little more seriously also if you wernt having illegal underage sex... It is... (read in full...)
Men: would you be turned on or freaked out or something else by this?
Q. Hello lovely men of DearCupid :D How are we today? So, picture this... You wake up in the morning with a hard on only to find your girlfriend/mrs was already 'attending' to it... Reaction please? Would you be turned on? Freaked out? ...
A. 13 March 2011: I apololigise @odds for if it seems I was not being fair. I just wrote it how it was in my head and didnt have time to go back and edit.
Obviously, both are very wrong, unless there is an agreement beforehand. ... (read in full...)
How can women be so cruel as to keep guys who like them in the "friend zone"??
Q. Reflecting on the "friend zone" on a lonely Friday night, I am deeply troubled by a question about women: There are many women out there who know guys who like them romantically but they themselves are not attracted to them. Ok, this is fine. Th...
A. 12 March 2011: I think it's about time to grow up.
I see some obvious problems with your question content.
"But then...a lot of these women place the man in the "friend zone" and begin to treat them accordingly, all the while knowing the guy likes them!" - The... (read in full...)
Men: would you be turned on or freaked out or something else by this?
Q. Hello lovely men of DearCupid :D How are we today? So, picture this... You wake up in the morning with a hard on only to find your girlfriend/mrs was already 'attending' to it... Reaction please? Would you be turned on? Freaked out? ...
A. 12 March 2011: To be honest I dont really understand what your saying exactely!
Are we talking sex, blow job, hand job? or is she playing with herself?
e.g. A man has woken up to find his girlfriend sucking him off. It is likely because she wanted to wake h... (read in full...)
Is squirting fake?
Q. Hi guys!! Do women really squirt?? i read many articles stating that it is fake?...
A. 11 March 2011: I completely disagree with person12345.
Squirting is NOT possible for all women, a true "squirter" is very rare. It's not to do with how turned on you are, it is how your anatomy works. Most women cannot build up enough fluid pressure to squirt. ... (read in full...)
My penis size insecurity is driving me completely paranoid!!
Q. I love my girlfriend, I absolutely love her, and she and I are both virgins and aren't going to have sex until we're married. But I'm super self conscious about the size of my penis..I'm 5 1/2 inches fully erect, but if I flex it gets to 6 inches, ...
A. 5 March 2011: I dont think I can take this question seriously. 5.5 inches and your commplaining?! ... (read in full...)
Do these signs point to an orgasm or is she faking it?
Q. I had this fear until last week that my girlfriend was faking orgasms. We are each other's first sexual partners, and I relied on my fingers/tongue, rather than my woefully average 5 inches in girth to get the job done. I don't see a reason why she ...
A. 4 March 2011: Also bear in mind, that women can experience sexual pleasure WITHOUT having an orgasm.
If sex was all about the orgasm, then I wouldent be doing it every day!... (read in full...)
Do these signs point to an orgasm or is she faking it?
Q. I had this fear until last week that my girlfriend was faking orgasms. We are each other's first sexual partners, and I relied on my fingers/tongue, rather than my woefully average 5 inches in girth to get the job done. I don't see a reason why she ...
A. 4 March 2011: During foreplay and sex I get red, sweaty, my muscles contract in my back and pelvis, I moan and grind my hips up to my boyfriend and my pelvic floor contracts.
I enjoy sex, but i have NEVER had an orgasm by someone else.
I know what orgasm... (read in full...)
Overweight and unhappy!
Q. Okay I'd really like some help on this. Something that has got me down for about 4 years. I'll shoot straight into it. I'm overweight. I'm not huge but I feel it. I don't wear anything that reveals my arms (because they are gross), and i don't wear ...
A. 3 March 2011: I will give you some simple pointers which just helped me drop 20lbs of body fat and put on 10lbs of muscle in the last 6 weeks. I went from 220lbs to 210lbs and im still going! I had gone down almost 2 dress sizes.
1. Eat 30g of protein within 3... (read in full...)
Is grinding with other guys considered as cheating?
Q. I have a boyfriend and I have girls night out sometimes. So here's my question: Grinding/dancing with other guys considered as cheating? I mean, i wouldn't want my bf to be upset if i dance with other guys but my gfs tell me it's fine... what are ...
A. 1 March 2011: Would you mind him grinding up against other girls behind your back?
You're going against his trust in you to behave when you're out without him. You may not be "cheating" but you ARE betraying his trust. ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to take the plan b twice within 2 days?
Q. Ok my boyfriend and I had sex for the firts time with out any protection, no condom and I am not in any birth control pill, I was my firts time and he didn't come inside me, I was so freak out because I defenately didn't want to end pregnant so I ...
A. 1 March 2011: It may not protect you the second time.
The best thing to do would be to see the pharmacist and take it again, although it will prob make you very nauseous, that is better than unwanted pregnancy.
I have an implanon, and its really great. Limit... (read in full...)
Bra size.... how do I measure myself for correct sizing??
Q. how can i measure myself to make sure i am wearing the crrect bra size?...
A. 28 February 2011: It really depends where you go..
Most people say to measure your bust then add 4 inches. But that would make me 42inches!! Which is HUGE! I find that I 36/38 fits perfectly.
Also shop around to see what stores bras fit you the best.
For examp... (read in full...)
I want to sneak my boyfriend into the house tonight
Q. I want to sneak my boyfriend over tonight. I have a house with one story and a basement. My room doesnt have a lot of hideing space so i though he could hide under my bed or behind my dresser. And if needed, jump out my window. I usually keep my ...
A. 26 February 2011: This is rediculous, immature and irresponsible.
Dont sneak him in and give your parents a reason not to trust you in the future.
You will get caught, your moms not an idiot.
Wait till your older. ... (read in full...)
Contraceptive implants
Q. Hey Everyone, So this question is directed at any woman who has/had a Contraceptive implant. I'm interested in getting one, and have read up a little about them but would like to hear a review from someone who has really had one. Thanks! ...
A. 24 February 2011: I have had implanon for almost 2 years now and generally its been fine.
For the first year i had constant bleeding but then my doctor gave me progesterone pills which made it stop.
I still get all my period symptoms, PMS and all but at least... (read in full...)
How do I convince her that I won't break her heart?
Q. There is this girl that I know, and we have been best friends since we've met. We started talking again after a year and I came to realize that she has liked me since the 6th grade, and so have I. I have asked her out and she said no because she was ...
A. 19 February 2011: How do you know you wont break her heart?
You may love her deeply now, but what about in 5 years time?
She sounds like she knows what she wants and shes still getting over her last relationship.
Dont force romance on her, let her know that if... (read in full...)
Baby in June and we need some names!
Q. Me and my boyfriend are having a baby in June and we need some good names for it . I all ready thought of the names Patrick after Patrick Swayze or Morticia after Morticia Addams . But we can't decide. ...
A. 12 February 2011: Is there anyone special in your family whos name you like? How abouta name that reflects where you originate from? Your favourite colour, flower, place, song lyric or basically anything that means anything to you.
Personally i dont like all thes... (read in full...)
Baby in June and we need some names!
Q. Me and my boyfriend are having a baby in June and we need some good names for it . I all ready thought of the names Patrick after Patrick Swayze or Morticia after Morticia Addams . But we can't decide. ...
A. 12 February 2011: Is there anyone special in your family whos name you like? How abouta name that reflects where you originate from? Your favourite colour, flower, place, song lyric or basically anything that means anything to you.
Personally i dont like all thes... (read in full...)
My friends dislike my boyfriend and want me to dump him. What should I do?
Q. hi :) I'm 15 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months. He is quite rude to most people and he is always really rude to some of my closest friends. He is always getting into arguments and insulting them, especially 'Amy'. Amy is qu...
A. 11 February 2011: In that case, I think the best idea would be to sit them all down and have a conversation about it.
If they want you as s friend and if he wants you as a girlfriend they should be able to compromise to behave more maturely around eachother.
I thi... (read in full...)
My friends dislike my boyfriend and want me to dump him. What should I do?
Q. hi :) I'm 15 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months. He is quite rude to most people and he is always really rude to some of my closest friends. He is always getting into arguments and insulting them, especially 'Amy'. Amy is qu...
A. 11 February 2011: What exactly does he say to be rude?
Is he verbally aggressive to them or do they just not like his opinions and likes/dislikes? I.e. she says "I love Justin beiber" he says "I dont, his music is boring and too mainstream for me" ... (read in full...)
| *martin89's friends
These are mutual friends, so *martin89 has
added them and they have added *martin89!
|
