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My teacher kissed me! I don't know what to do or how to handle this!

Q.   I KNOW ITS KIND OF LONG BUT PLEASE I NEED ANSWERS. Ok well i get along great with my maths teacher. hes funny, easygoing and a great teacher! We always have a laugh in class as well as getting the work done, but one day some of my friends started ...

A.   26 April 2011: Urgh what a disguisting man!! I know you may be nervous but you really need to tell the head or some other teacher you may be close to than others. Imagine how grossed out you feel, and imagine other girls feeling like that. You dont know if... (read in full...)

If we're both fifteen...what happens if we want to have a baby?

Q.   What iF You're 15 And You And Your Boyfriend Want To Have A Baby?!?...

A.   26 April 2011: I think @k c100 said it all. I also want to add that anyone mature enough at that age to be a parent makes the decision to wait 10 years to do so. Choosing to have a baby before being finanacially and emotitionally stable is incredibly selfi... (read in full...)

With these two sexual encounters, what are my chances of getting pregnant??

Q.   i have had sex for the first time, without protection. but within two hours took plan b, as well as he pulled out. i know pulling out doesnt work. but what are my chances a of being pregnant? then i had sex a second time with a condom and pulli...

A.   23 April 2011: If you have to ask this then you are clearly not ready to have sex. The chances of getting pregnant after taking the plan b pill is minuscule. It works by not allowing anything to attach to your uterus. Condoms have blocked any sperm getting n... (read in full...)

Is it okay to ask my teacher a personal problem of mine?

Q.   so i really feel close to my teacher, like i can really trust him.i told him i needed to speak with him about something. we agreed on it. he still doesn't know what it is, its a personal matter and its really bugging me, is it a good idea to speak ...

A.   22 April 2011: Go ahead, as long as you're not going to tell him that you love him and cant think of anyting else lol. ... (read in full...)

Is my clumpy period a miscarriage?

Q.   My fiancée and i have been trying have been trying to get pregnant for 3 weeks now, i was due my period last friday and a week from then i started to bleed. i know that you can start bleeding but there was a clump of blood that i saw? did i miscar...

A.   22 April 2011: TBH as a pregnancy and birth professional, I dont think that this was a misscarriage. If you were prgnant, it would have been at such an early stage that the pregnancy would only be viable because of a matter of microscopic cells stuck to your ute... (read in full...)

Do fertility tests bought online actually work?

Q.   Hey everyone Does anyone know if these fertility test kits that you can buy online work? I know the dna tests work but do the fertility ones do the job My man wants to know if he is fertile but wont go see a doctor Thanks ppl...

A.   21 April 2011: Is there a specific reason why he doesnt want to see a doctor?... (read in full...)

Do fertility tests bought online actually work?

Q.   Hey everyone Does anyone know if these fertility test kits that you can buy online work? I know the dna tests work but do the fertility ones do the job My man wants to know if he is fertile but wont go see a doctor Thanks ppl...

A.   21 April 2011: Do you mean ones like this? http://www.fertilitystore.co.uk/Test-Point-Male-Fertility-Test.aspx There is only so much you can get from a test that costs less than £20. I dont know how these work exactely but I have some idea. Use this is yo... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend is shooting blanks

Q.   Hey guys I need a little help... Me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for 3 months now and wev still not got pregnant Im 21 and already have 2 kids from a previous relationship and my boyfriends 30 and doesnt have any kids Iv been pr...

A.   21 April 2011: Mama bear, you dont have to be married to have a happy family. Marriage also doesnt stop a man walking out.... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend is shooting blanks

Q.   Hey guys I need a little help... Me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for 3 months now and wev still not got pregnant Im 21 and already have 2 kids from a previous relationship and my boyfriends 30 and doesnt have any kids Iv been pr...

A.   20 April 2011: You dont have anything to worry about yet. Which is the reason why the nhs doesnt investigate infertility before 12 months of trying. In general it takes a noramlly fertile couple 6 months to conceive. It sounds like you just got lucky before. ... (read in full...)

Sex for the first time?

Q.   I am thinking about having sex for the first time. Does it hurt and can somebody give me details...

A.   20 April 2011: If you need to ask for details then you are too young and uneducated about it. Wait until you are older to understand the physical and emotional concequences of sex. You dont have to wait till you get married, wait until you find someone who... (read in full...)

What would you think of this age difference?

Q.   Please be as brutally honest as your thoughts might be. If you saw an 18yr old girl walking down the street holding hands with a grey haired 49yr old man what would you think? Thank you for your time xxx...

A.   18 April 2011: What a daddy's girl! ... (read in full...)

Erect penis is "shifted" to my left side...does anyone know how to fix it?

Q.   This is a very embarrassing question to be asking anyone face to face, so I hope people on the internet will provide me with an answer and not mock me. =$ When ever I have an erection, my penis would curve down slightly, but not only that, my wh...

A.   17 April 2011: No, that wont help. It can only be corrected with surgery. Go see your doctor ... (read in full...)

Erect penis is "shifted" to my left side...does anyone know how to fix it?

Q.   This is a very embarrassing question to be asking anyone face to face, so I hope people on the internet will provide me with an answer and not mock me. =$ When ever I have an erection, my penis would curve down slightly, but not only that, my wh...

A.   16 April 2011: This could be the result of scar tissue. go see your doctor... (read in full...)

Hot for teacher! What to do?

Q.   Hello right I have a mega mega problem. I am 1000000000000000000000% in love with my teacher and have been for 2 and a half years but I'm 13 he's 40 he's married and has a kid. So there is no way on earth that we will ever be together. And I'm only ...

A.   16 April 2011: I dont want to have to say this but you need to hear it.. Your teacher doesnt like you. He wont give you any private contact information. "He knows my first and second name!" - He's a teacher at your school, so isnt he supposed to?! You are 13... (read in full...)

I dreamt that my fiancee impregnated another girl! What does it mean?

Q.   I dreamed that my fiancee impregnated someone else. What does this mean?...

A.   16 April 2011: It means you were asleep and imagined something that isnt real. Are you worried this will actually happen? If not there is no point worrying yourself about it.... (read in full...)

Views on kids before marriage?

Q.   Hey Agony's :) I just wanted to get the older and younger generations views on premarital children. I see that a lot of people nowadays are having children before even thinking of marriage. I was just curious as to what all of your opinions wer...

A.   15 April 2011: I plan to have a large family, AND I plan on never getting married. Marriage isnt for me or my partner. Whats the point? We're not religious, we dont beleive in God or anything else, we dont see the need for our relationship to be "legalized".... (read in full...)

How's my diet schedule?

Q.   I would just like your guy's opinion on my diet and schedule an tell me if im doin anything wrong or what i can do better or things like that.I wanna lose weight basically(Im not fat just not at a healthy weight for my height :/ 150 and maybe like ...

A.   15 April 2011: This is the diet you are on to lose wieght? Are you KIDDING ME?! All I can say is bland blan bland bland bland.. I'm with Weight Watchers (not "dieting") and I'm losing about half a pound every day from eating this. This is what your diet s... (read in full...)

Pregnant and BF doesn't want the baby right now. What do I do?

Q.   I am only 21 and at Uni Bf still has a year or so to go till he finishes. I have just found out im pregnant and wasnt sure whether to keep it but decided to. I thought It wouldnt be easy but possible. Bf has told me he doesnt want kids... not yet ...

A.   13 April 2011: Hi, I just wanted to say that k_c100 answers are excellent, exactely what I would have written. Also to add, I was in this same position 2 years ago, I was 19 about to start uni, and I was in a stable relationship. Our contraception failed. ... (read in full...)

At what age is a woman no longer attractive?

Q.   When does a woman lose her "hotness"? What age is considered no longer attractive? I would love to hear all opinions from women, men, all ages. Thanks!...

A.   13 April 2011: "Hot" and "attractive" are very different things. My Grandma turned 70 this year is she is beautiful, she is very classy despite not being wealthy. I've seen pictures of her when she was younger and she was stunning. She has a map of her life ... (read in full...)

What is college life in America like?

Q.   hi everyone my question is aimed at people who have been to what they call college in America. is the experience like what the films and t.v programs make it out to be like drinking and sex as well as the education side of it. I was thinking ...

A.   12 April 2011: Hi, I dont know much about Colleges in America, but I do know that community colleges are not like "normal" collages. Your grades dont have to be as good to get into community college. At a univerity you get bachelors degree, at community college ... (read in full...)

My brother tried to kill himself over a girl, and because of that I refuse to talk to her now. Am I wrong?

Q.   hi aunts and uncles, i really need some advice. I'll start from the beginning. About four years ago my brother got together with a girl and they went out for ages and they started to argue. A lot went on and they split up after about two years....

A.   12 April 2011: How did SHE almost end his life? Did she tell him to kill herself? I dont mean to sound harsh, but it was your brothers doing, not hers. It is nobodys fault but his own that he is in the situation he is in. Relationships end all the time, any mo... (read in full...)

I have a crush on my teacher and I think he likes me also, but he's married to a woman who is way older than him!!

Q.   Ok, so at the beginning of the school year I didn't like him that much I just thought he was kinda cute so I thought I would get over it but then he started flirting with me! He started staring at me, smiling at me, and he just treated me ...

A.   12 April 2011: Urgh, I feel disgusted that men like this exist! Hes a peodophile, stay away from him unless you want to end up in trouble too.... (read in full...)

I just had anal sex. Am I still a virgin?

Q.   Okay I know this is a stupid question but am im still a virgin? I mean...my boyfriend and I just did anal...and im wondering if im still a virgin. I'm kinda naive about that subject. Im sorry...

A.   11 April 2011: "So acording to the scientific definition if a woman licks 40 penises, sucks 30 penises and takes another 20 penises in the ass, she is still a virgin!?" Yes, she is technically still a virgin because a penis has not entered her vagina. She may ... (read in full...)

Any advice for menstrual irregularities?

Q.   I am having bad menstrual irregularities, i used to be sexually active two years ago, i would take the morning after pill very regularly, however i totally went off sex, and last year my period was reasonably regular, this year however, i have had ...

A.   11 April 2011: Lots of people have irregular periods. We cant tell you what's up, we're not doctors. I know lots of things it could be but I wouldent want to fill you head with stuff. Give it some time, or go see your GP... (read in full...)

How do you say "How are you?" in Chinese and German?

Q.   what is "how are you" in chinese and german...

A.   11 April 2011: This isn't a translating service. Google it. ... (read in full...)

I just had anal sex. Am I still a virgin?

Q.   Okay I know this is a stupid question but am im still a virgin? I mean...my boyfriend and I just did anal...and im wondering if im still a virgin. I'm kinda naive about that subject. Im sorry...

A.   10 April 2011: Anonymous; does that mean when you lose your virginity when a man gives a women head? Or when a woman licks a mans penis? Losing your virginity is when a penis penetrates the vagina. The hymen may already be broken, it may break on penetration, ... (read in full...)

I just had anal sex. Am I still a virgin?

Q.   Okay I know this is a stupid question but am im still a virgin? I mean...my boyfriend and I just did anal...and im wondering if im still a virgin. I'm kinda naive about that subject. Im sorry...

A.   10 April 2011: Loss of virginity = penis in vagina. You are still a virgin. Though you have lost your "anal virginity'. YOU ARE A VIRGIN. ... (read in full...)

I think it missed her, but I am still worried that it could have gotten her pregnant.

Q.   Me and my girlfriend had sex last night, we wore a condom but I decided to pull out just in case. I eventually ejaculated 5 mins later from a handjob. Most of my semen landed on me or the bed whilst my girlfriend said none of it landed on her. She ...

A.   9 April 2011: No, as a pregnancy and birth professional..there is no chance she is pregnant. ... (read in full...)

I'm having loads of trouble finding an attractive, intelligent girlfriend!

Q.   I need some advice on how to find a decent girlfriend. I'm a really good looking, athletic guy. I'm a combat veteran, university graduate, and have a well paying corporate job for someone my age (23.) I will be a homeowner in less than 2 year...

A.   9 April 2011: Attractive and intelligent women don't "go out looking" for men. They are usually intelligent enough to know that there are better things to do with their time! My friends and I are intelligent, have our own businesses and are attractive and w... (read in full...)

Will my strange body movements during an orgasm turn off a guy?

Q.   This is kind of an embarrassing question for me. I haven't had sex in my relationships yet, but when I'm on my own (meaning masturbating) I feel that when I orgasm I squirm too much up until when I arch my back becoming stiff, and my lower body ...

A.   9 April 2011: Thats normal. Guys like it. ... (read in full...)

A Greek mythological name for my daughter?

Q.   I am 7 months pregnant with a little girl and im having a really hard time finding a name for her since i dont like traditional names much im looking for unique names does anyone have any suggestions. I love greek mythology and dark beautiful names ...

A.   9 April 2011: Selene/Sophie are really nice names.... (read in full...)

Can I satisfy and get her pregnant with this size?

Q.   dear mam i have penis in 5.8" and girth 5.5" is this penis can fully satisfy a women and get pregnancy with this size of penis ?...

A.   8 April 2011: I second that DB!... (read in full...)

Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?

Q.   My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?...

A.   8 April 2011: This maybe your fantasy but its not hers!! Tbh I dont know any women who dont gag at the thought of having cum on their face. Have you thought about a compromise? Like ejaculating on her breasts?... (read in full...)

Girls, thoughts on chewing tobacco?

Q.   Quick question for the girls on here. How much would it bother you if your guy dipped. By dip i mean used chewing tobacco. Enough to leave him or view him differently? What if you have been with him a while and you barely find out hes been dipping?...

A.   8 April 2011: Urgh no.. I'd rather find a guy who doesnt have a high chance of getting mouth cancer!!... (read in full...)

Is there any way our fooling around could have caused pregnancy?

Q.   I'm extremely scared, probably freaking out a little too much. But I need help. My boyfriend and I were in his car fooling around this past weekend. Clothes were on. By accident I put my hands on the inside of just the top of his jeans and it felt ...

A.   5 April 2011: NO! Bajeezus, questions like these make me worried what schools are teaching! If you're engaging in stuff like this, you need to BOTH be informed of keeping safe. Preferably, both get checked for STDs before having sex, and buy a pack of co... (read in full...)

Why am I having a period right after I just had one?

Q.   Hey there, I had my period about a week ago and now suddenly I have started another one. Today is when I started it April 3 2011. What does this mean?...

A.   4 April 2011: We aren't doctors, so we cant tell you exactly if causing this. However, I do know that birth control does completely mess up your normal cycle. I have had this problem for the last 3 years (i'm 21) you may just have to accept that you arn't g... (read in full...)

I love my family but I don't want to be their unpaid maid

Q.   I am 15years old and the only girl at home. My mother is a nurse and my father a teacher. We don't have a maid at home. When they went to work i get left with my elder brother who is 17years and my little brother who is 11years. I hate being left ...

A.   2 April 2011: Why do YOU have to do this? It sounds like they are taking liberties of your helpful nature. Stop doing it see how they like not being tidied up after. By doing without any payment or appreciation you are letting them push you over! Refuse to do... (read in full...)

Should I tell my parents I can hear them having sex?

Q.   I still live at home and my parents are in their 60's. I keep hearing them having sex and it's getting quite annoying and loud. Do you think I should say anything to them?...

A.   1 April 2011: Im thankful that my mum and step dad have sex, its a sign of a healthy relationship! If it bothers you that much, move out. Or plug some earphones into the TV.... (read in full...)

Am I still a virgin?

Q.   Am I still a virgin? I have a sex with my lesbian partner, she finger me. I am worried on what I should answer on my employer if they are asking me if I'm still virgin? I'm totally lost I don't know what to do.......

A.   1 April 2011: I'd like to note that the Hymen has NOTHING to do with virginity. You can be a virgin and not have a Hymen. This is only associated with virginity because it can sometimes break with penile penetration and back in the day it was the only method to ... (read in full...)

What is the problem? why does my boyfriend object? I put a pleasant picture of us together, on facebook.

Q.   okay so i put a picture of my boyfriend and i together on facebook nothing bad or unapropriate just a casual picture. then he got mad so i took it off he said the next time i put a picture of him on facebook, to ask him first. so i put the picture ...

A.   1 April 2011: Dont put pictures of people up for all to see without their permission, tbh its quite rude and disrespecting their privacy. Argh...now i'm mad. ... (read in full...)

Is it not normal for a girl to masturbate?

Q.   Before you say anything, yes i'm quite aware that i'm a girl, but i mean, from what people say (not online or anything, like in 'reality') it seems as thought girls don't. But i do... At least once a week, usually once a day... But fro...

A.   1 April 2011: It is very normal for girls to masturbate, just nobody talks about it when they are your age. Men are a lot happier talking about it, in the same way they like talking about farts and who they shagged last weekend. Us girls have a little more poi... (read in full...)

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