3 questions about lingerie...
Q. Sooooo today I went shopping with my best female friend. She convinced me to buy some lingerie, it's a corset like thing, red with black lace, very sexy. It wasn't for a guy or anything, I am single, but it was just for me, ya know? I didn't have ...
A. 20 July 2011: 1) Does your mum go through your draws? At your age, I dont see any reason to hide it. Unless she is against her daughter being a sexual being.
2) If you've got the money, go get them before they go out of stock.
3) Normal in terms of what fr... (read in full...)
He's slapped me during sex. Do I need to be concerned about this sort of behaviour?
Q. Do men who like to slap women during sex have an anger issue? my boyfriend is a loving caring man but sometimes he likes to slap my backside which i don't mind during sex as i find it a turn on,but a couple of times he has just up and slapped me a...
A. 20 July 2011: This isn't an anger issue, he likes to be the dominant in sex and you to be the submissive, and slapping is his way of exerting his power.
If you don't feel comfortable with this, then tell him! Otherwise he will probably think that you like it!... (read in full...)
Do you think you can determine how attractive you are by how attractive the people who hit on you are?
Q. I think that the question pretty much says it all. Do you all think that you can only be as attractive as the most attractive person that hits on you or asks you out? So if people you consider good looking ask you out, you are probably good looking ...
A. 19 July 2011: No.... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he's verbally abusive? He's always so angry.
Q. How do you tell if you are being verberly abused by your husband??? Also when we are out with other people he ignores me and doesnt include me in conversation. He is under a great deal of stress. He owns three rest/bars and has several ...
A. 18 July 2011: Is he angry in general or angry towards you? Does he shout at you saying bad things about you? Or does he get angry and shout about his incompetent employees, and your just there to yell at about it?
Your husbands sounds like a very stressed... (read in full...)
Does being bisexual exist in some people?
Q. Where can I start. Growing up I kinda found guys more attractive and going through puberty I liked looking at gay porn. I never looked a sexually things with women involved. There were times when i liked girls also. But I never been just fully ...
A. 17 July 2011: What kind of porn you like I find has very little to do with your sexuality.
I am bisexual, however that doesn't mean I am attracted to any guy or girl. I am very picky in who I fancy. I have a boyfriend of 3 years, but I would say i'm 80/20 towa... (read in full...)
Are there any methods of temporary sterilization?
Q. What are some reliable forms of temporary sterilization for women? I'm on birth control, but I want something that's 100% without having to clip myself. I've never heard of one, but maybe others have? Are there anything out there? I'm currently ...
A. 13 July 2011: If you are using the pill properly (taking it every day) and using condoms, there is no reason why you should get pregnant. The reason why people do get pregnant is because they think not taking the pill once will not make any difference, or they ... (read in full...)
Circumcised vs. uncircumcised
Q. Is there a difference between a circumcised and an uncircumcised penis when it comes to giving a handjob or a blowjob? I've only ever been with a circumcised man, and I was just wondering if there is anything I need to know should I encounter a man ...
A. 13 July 2011: The foreskin is very sensitive. So make sure you dont pull it back to harshly, be gentle. I've only been with uncircumcised men (im british) and some are more or less sensitive than others.... (read in full...)
My GF wants me to remove a tattoo from my chest which spells my late sister's name, because my ex had the same name, and my GF doesn't want to be reminded of my ex!
Q. My twin sister died a few years ago in a car accident. I was really affected by her death. She wasn't just my sister but my best friend. I got a tattoo of her name on my chest so that she'll always be next to my heart. I have been seeing a...
A. 11 July 2011: Get rid of the girl not the tatoo!... (read in full...)
What's dating in university like? Are there any tips that might help?
Q. Heyya, I’m going to university in September and I was just wondering what the dating experience there was like. I’ve had two girlfriends in high school; one when I was fifteen and another shorter-term relationship last year when I was 17. Hopefu...
A. 7 July 2011: I agree with Cerberus. It's all about the getting drunk, hooking up and sharing a kebab. Relationships are temporary and short. Sex, sex, sex...that's what most people are after. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's family wont let her make her own decisions and she cant come to see me with my child!
Q. Hi everyone its been so long since ive post to you wonderful people. This now me and my girlfriend have a 1 month old daughter we stay about 15 minutes from each other. The problem is i want her to come and visit me sometimes now and her mom is ...
A. 4 July 2011: Abella, why are you so insistent on marriage? Its not the answer to everything! Especially if you are just marrying for the hell of it. Many parents provide their children a good home out of marriage.
OP DONT get married just to make others happ... (read in full...)
No pregnancy options?
Q. I haven't had sex, and I don't plan on it anytime soon, but I am curious. If I were to be on the pill, have the guy have a condom on, make him pull out properly, and take the morning after pill...what are the chances I would become pregnant? Is it ...
A. 30 June 2011: If you are using all these precautions properly, then there is no reason for him to pull out..
Lots of girls get pregnant on contraceptives yes, but this is because they think nothing will happen if they accidentally forget to take one pill or ... (read in full...)
What's the deal with guys and big boobs?
Q. What is it about big boobs that guys like so much? I have small breasts, small waist and a big, round butt! My friends tell me I have a great body and that I should be proud, but there's something I don't get. I don't seem to receive that much ...
A. 29 June 2011: I have big boobs, and my boyfriend likes them.
But, my boyfriend LOVES small boobs. He loves how the nipple is the centre of attention. His ex had very small boobs, pretty much all nipple because of the meds she was on and he loved them. He loved... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriend pamper his ex better than he does me because she was prettier?
Q. Be honest guys, do you treat women who are prettier better/nicer/ with more respect than average looking women? I ask because my current partner of four years spoiled his partner rotten! Bought her anything she wanted and got into a TON of debt an...
A. 28 June 2011: Sounds to me like hes learning from previous mistakes!... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel, or ignore him?
Q. I'm in year 10 at school ... I have liked my R.E teacher for almost four years. He's a great guy and we get on so well together. We have so much in common and we talk almost every day ... But recently he has been ignoring me in calss and just acting ...
A. 28 June 2011: I'm with k_c100 on this one.
I'm sure in the last 4 years he has noticed how you feel, even if you try to cover it up, your body unconsciously gives away signals.
He doesn't want to lead you on, he doesn't want to get fired or put in prison. ... (read in full...)
I've been seeing him for 2 weeks - do I buy him a birthday gift?
Q. Seeing a guy for about 2 weeks been on quite a few dates and chilled at his house a bit too, its his birthday this weekend, do I buy him a gift??? ...
A. 28 June 2011: I was in this position 2 years ago with my currant partner.
It was his birthday after a month of dating. I bought him a funny card and picked out a few truffles from the counter of a specialist chocolate store.
If your going to buy something... (read in full...)
Is Oral, sex ?
Q. Here it goes.. I was saving myself until I got married for the right man. I was making out with my boyfriend and I ended up giving him oral sex. Does that make me a non virgin anymore?...
A. 27 June 2011: Oral sex is sex, but it is not sexual intercourse and that is what virginity is based on.
You have not had sexual intercourse, therefore you are a virgin.
People can go on and on about "spiritual" virginity, the fact that you have lost your inn... (read in full...)
Guys: What's your type?
Q. Im just morbidly curious, other then men who are into the size 0 does it really matter if the girl has a bit of a belly, Im not talking like three hundred pounds really just a little bit of extra chub. And what would be your ideal girlfriend, is i...
A. 27 June 2011: Each man is different, each man has different tastes.
One man may say "I only date size 0-4 because I like skinny women. And I don't like women who watch tv or play on game stations because its boring and lazy. I want a women who goes to the gym ... (read in full...)
How can I stop people from asking when I'm getting married?
Q. I got a question. i have friends and a few family members who want to know when i'm getting married. i have already told them that i am NEVER getting married. but for some strange reason, they keep pestering me about it. how can i put a stop to ...
A. 27 June 2011: Hi, my brother has aspergers syndrome so I understand a little about how you're feeling.
My partner and I have been together for 3 years and he is at "that age" when most men get married and have kids (he's 34, im 21) and his mum is always a... (read in full...)
15 and might be pregnant......Help!
Q. i need help . i am 15 years old and there is a big chance that i may be pregnant . i come from a very strict household that doesn't even believe in sex before marriage we. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 7 months and i know we ...
A. 27 June 2011: If the tests are coming out negative then its 99% that you aren't pregnant. Also the symptoms you are describing are not ones you would get in early pregnancy. However, they are signs of normal teenage hormones.
Keep doing tests, if a positive... (read in full...)
Do you believe in spanking your child?
Q. Do you believe in spanking your child? I've heard people say they believe in it and others believe that its wrong. Personally, i believe in it if they are out of control and have been warned repeatedly. Don't judge, it was how i was raised and my ...
A. 20 June 2011: The role of parents is to maintain order, a sense of calm, continuity and morality in their children's lives. In my opinion smacking children is the antithesis of all of the aforementioned principles. Besides teaching children that physical violence ... (read in full...)
Do you believe in spanking your child?
Q. Do you believe in spanking your child? I've heard people say they believe in it and others believe that its wrong. Personally, i believe in it if they are out of control and have been warned repeatedly. Don't judge, it was how i was raised and my ...
A. 20 June 2011: Yes, I have seen may episodes of the "Jo Frost" program, although I doubt that you have actaully sat down and watched one then you would see what I see;
Parents not knowing how to parent and those who smack their childeren do so because of thei... (read in full...)
She will not let me see my son even though I pay child support. I can't afford lawyers. How can I legally see my child?
Q. My ex girlfriend has banned me from seeing our son for no reason at all. I'm 22, she's 21 and our son has just turned 1. It all started when we broke up because I found out she cheated on me before she got pregnant. I moved out but said I'd always ...
A. 20 June 2011: If you want to get as much free professional info as you can, go visit your local CAB (citizens advice bureau)
http://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/
There should be one in every town. Good luck x... (read in full...)
Is a vibrator useful to women. Is the orgasm better with a vibrator?
Q. Do women who enjoy having sex and have a vibrator enjoy using it??? If you do, Do you get a quicker 'Orgasm than with your partner?...
A. 20 June 2011: I use a vibrator because I dont orgasm with my partner. I use it on my clitoris and that brings be to orgasm. I dont blame this on my partner because I have never been able to have a penatrive orgasm.
I love my vibrator, If I didnt have one then... (read in full...)
Have any women on here gained breast size whilst on the pill?
Q. Hello all, I am posting in curiosity of the contraceptive pill and breast increase.. I have never taken any contraceptive pill before. I am 22, and I hate my breasts. They are very small, my boyfriend is not attracted to them, and I've become very ...
A. 19 June 2011: Yes, but only because I got fat..... (read in full...)
Do you believe in spanking your child?
Q. Do you believe in spanking your child? I've heard people say they believe in it and others believe that its wrong. Personally, i believe in it if they are out of control and have been warned repeatedly. Don't judge, it was how i was raised and my ...
A. 19 June 2011: Hugh.J - and what is he learning from his wrong doing? He gets a smack instead of his parent calmly explaining what he did wrong and why he shouldent do it again. He is punished physically for something he cant mentally understand.
My mum smac... (read in full...)
Lied about being pregnant now I have to fake an abortion
Q. I dont a very stupid thing My boyfriend and i broke up two weeks ago and i am absolutely heartbroken Wer were trying for a baby before we split Like a right idiot iv went and told him im pregnant and im getting an abortion even though i dont think...
A. 19 June 2011: Red Athena, I think we're getting our wires crossed due to the countries we live in!
I also work in the medical field and if you go into a GP's sugery and a test is negative, they will not doing anything else, and certianly wont do a pelvic e... (read in full...)
Anyone familiar with astral projection or travel?
Q. Hello there, I wonder,if anybody knows about astral projection, or astral travel. I have been reading a lot about this issue, as I meditate a lot, and tried to have this experience.But now ,I really wonder ,if it is a bunch of b.s, or I just don't ...
A. 19 June 2011: This isn't the right source to find your information from. I'm sure you could find a lit from simple googleing.... (read in full...)
Lied about being pregnant now I have to fake an abortion
Q. I dont a very stupid thing My boyfriend and i broke up two weeks ago and i am absolutely heartbroken Wer were trying for a baby before we split Like a right idiot iv went and told him im pregnant and im getting an abortion even though i dont think...
A. 18 June 2011: RedAthena, the test's done at a GP's surgery are the same as home pregnancy tests.
I can imagine you havent got your period because of the stressful situation you have put yourself in. When we are stressed, our bodies have a build up of cortisol... (read in full...)
Why do women care so much about men having a job?
Q. I am 39 and have never been able to get a job, so I have never been able to find love. And am still a virgin! Why do women care sooooooo much about this job thing? Why can't I be the one who does the housework and take the kids to school ect. ...
A. 18 June 2011: If you dont have a job then how do you afford rent, bills, food, clothes? I can only assume that you still live with your parents and get an allowance or you are on benefits. Or if you are lucky, you have inherited a big fortune. Personally, I ... (read in full...)
Are underwire bras bad for you?
Q. I'm 15 and a 34b and was wondering when it's ok to start wearing an underwire bra on a regular basis. I don't wear it that often like once every couple of months bit I have heard (especially from the ladies at m and s) that it's bad for developing ...
A. 18 June 2011: You're right, they can stunt proper growth of breasts.
I would put off wearing unerwire as long as possible, and with your size, its not really necessary anyway. Underwire helps support larger breasts (D+) but there is no need for you to wear it. ... (read in full...)
Can open relationships ever work?
Q. right, so I am a bloke with a massive attraction to this girl. she gorgeous and smart and funny and lovely and SINGLE and SHE LIKES ME...well, you know that with those combination then she's gotta have a problem if shes still single, right? right. ...
A. 18 June 2011: What you're describing isnt an open relationship..its not even a relationship..its DATING.
She isnt saying she wants to be with you and keep seing other guys, she's saying that she wants to see multiple people and have no commitment, live the free... (read in full...)
Advice on moving from the UK to America?
Q. I dont know if this is relevent but I want to move from the Uk to America, i'm just curious what I would need to do so? I would be living with a friend there please help!...
A. 17 June 2011: You need to get a working visa or a permanent residents visa, or you need to be accepted into a university there. If you dont do this you will be deported after 3 months.
For each of these visa's there are criteria to meet to enough points. You ... (read in full...)
What do guys prefer?
Q. Do guys who normally prefer the "bimbo" look on girls (meaning bleached or dyed long hair, tanned skin, skinny, revealing clothing,) also like "average" girls or not so much? ...
A. 17 June 2011: Depends on the guy..... (read in full...)
He gets horny over my baby bump. Is this normal?
Q. hey. i am 4 months pregnant. i have been with my boyfriend for 12 months, however it is not his baby. he knows, he's accepted it (i think) and he forgave me for cheating on him. anyway, now i am starting to get a bump. this seems to send my boyfr...
A. 17 June 2011: I agree with the consensus that this is normal APART from the "cum on my baby bit".
It sounds like he has no fatherly feelings towards this baby, which is surprising considering that he isnt the father.
It really doesnt sound like issues have ... (read in full...)
Can sex affect your period flow?
Q. I was just wondering if having sex the day before your period can effect your period flow? Mine is usually normal, and always starts the same day on my pill, but I've hardly bled at all today, though I did spot early yesterday and bleed a little, ...
A. 17 June 2011: The only way sex can effect your periods is if he ejactulates in you. Semen contains a hormone called "prostaglandins" which can stunt calm uterus shedding and bleeding.
However, there are so many things that can effect flow. E.g. amount of fluid... (read in full...)
Question about feminie hygiene
Q. well i have a situation. i wash my vagina area everyday more than once and it still smells i am a virgin and everything i just dont know why it doesnt smell good?...
A. 16 June 2011: Vagina's have a natural odour, some womens are stronger than others. Its something you may just have to deal with.
If you have itching and discharge thats another matter, but if your vagina seems healthy and just has a smell then its most lik... (read in full...)
I did not get pregnant after my partner ejaculated within me. Does this mean I won't be able to have kids?
Q. Helpppppppp!!!!!... I had unprotected sex with my partner and he ejaculated inside of me in June 5th, i got my period i believe on june 11th. may i not be able to have kids?...
A. 15 June 2011: Does your school not teach sex education?
NEVER have unprotected sex, especially when you dont want to be a parent or if you dont want to get an STD.
It takes fertile couples up to a year to conceive.
If you want to be stupid, keep having s... (read in full...)
Multiple orgasms must be amazing - WHY don't women want to have sex all day?
Q. Ever since I was with my first "serious" girlfriend, I've envied womens' ability to have multiple orgasms. When she got going, she'd have one after another with only a few seconds (if that) in between for a couple minutes, I'd have my one "little" ...
A. 14 June 2011: Because over 50% of women have never experienced an orgasm. You got a very lucky pick of the draw.
I have orgasms, not multiple, and even that can take a lot of effort and can only be attained with a sex toy, not with my partner. After, my hand ... (read in full...)
I was dismissed on my placement for being to sensitive and upset!
Q. Is it discrimination if you get fired from a job or a placement because of being too sensitive and getting upset easily? I was on a work placement, which was voluntary, as I was put on it through a training course i am on to help get me back into ...
A. 13 June 2011: OP I agree with Cerberus..you need some help.
You seemed to have this warped idea of the world, that everything is fair and your the only one who has problems.
The fact is, your boss was right to dissmiss you. From what I can see, you were di... (read in full...)
Alcoholic girlfriend - can I trust her that she will stop?
Q. My girlfriend is a self admitted alcoholic. 3 years into our relationship I saw it as a problem, and in year 4, after hidden booze and many booze-induced fights she finally admitted to it. After the initial phase of a breakup in year 4, she p...
A. 12 June 2011: An alcoholic cant just "stop" drinking. And they cant promise that they will ever drink again.
When you do the 10 step program with AA, the first step is admitting that you have an adiction and it has full power over you, the same with gamblein... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before asking another girl out?
Q. I broke up with my gf on Friday and I just wanted some peoples opinion on how long should I wait before i ask another girl out. I wasn't going to do it straight away but some others opinions please?...
A. 12 June 2011: 6/8 weeks. Respect the feelings of your ex girlfriend. Imagine how you would feel if she broke up with you and she found another boyfriend within a couple weeks. I can imagine feelings of being easily replacable and being unimportant.
You c... (read in full...)
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