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I said yes to a threesome now I am second guessing this!

Q.   I'm almost 15 years old and i'm with an older guy. He's 16 turning 17. We've been together for a while about afew months. We fell in love, or atleast I did. And yesterday out of the blue he asked me to join in on a threesome he wants to have with ...

A.   1 October 2010: Maybe you need to find some that dont piss you off. Having sex at your age is irresponsible and illegal. ... (read in full...)

Does wearing a bra to bed, help your boobs grow?

Q.   Ok so usually I wear a bra to sleep. I hear that if u do your breasts won't grow. Mine are not the biggest so I'm wondering if that's true and if not, what are some ways that I can help them grow? Love, A...

A.   22 September 2010: The girls will only wear them at slumber parties because they feel self concious about their friends seeing the outline of their breasts and nipples. Nothing to do with it making them grow! ... (read in full...)

Does wearing a bra to bed, help your boobs grow?

Q.   Ok so usually I wear a bra to sleep. I hear that if u do your breasts won't grow. Mine are not the biggest so I'm wondering if that's true and if not, what are some ways that I can help them grow? Love, A...

A.   20 September 2010: LOL no this is not true! The only way you breasts grow is by the hormones your body produces..Whoever told you this is trying to get one over on you. Don't wear your bra to bed, its really bad for you. Under wired bras especially damage and stif... (read in full...)

Can you still have your period even if you are pregnant?

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend for four months and one month i didn't have my period but the beginning of the next month i had it but i still have the feeling that im pregnant. can you have your period even being pregnant?...

A.   20 September 2010: No, it is impossible to have a "period" of you are pregnant. Some women who say that they had bleeding when they were pregnant were experiencing light bleeding that sometimes comes with the stretching of the uterus to accommodate the baby. You feel ... (read in full...)

Question for the ladies

Q.   How many years after becoming sexually active did it take you to achieve an unassisted orgasm, i.e. an orgasm where the only stimulation is an erect penis, nobody's hands are being used.... I'm trying to find out how normal I am to have taken me 6.5 ...

A.   19 September 2010: I have never had an internal orgasm and ive been sexually active for 3 years. Its not the responsibility of the partner always, i am convinced I dont have a responsive G spot, or have one at all! The only way ive ever had one is with a very powerful ... (read in full...)

I said yes to a threesome now I am second guessing this!

Q.   I'm almost 15 years old and i'm with an older guy. He's 16 turning 17. We've been together for a while about afew months. We fell in love, or atleast I did. And yesterday out of the blue he asked me to join in on a threesome he wants to have with ...

A.   19 September 2010: You are only 14 years old..you are a child. I am 21 and I remember very vividly what it was like to be 14. Dont have sex, its illegal, your boyfriend will be put in jail if anyone finds out. Enjoy the rest of your childhood and teenage years before ... (read in full...)

Kids having sex!

Q.   OK lately I see a lot of questions here where children from the age of 14-16,17 years think that they are old enough to have sex. They don't understand anything about it. They think that they are ready. There are even parents who agree with the idea ...

A.   19 September 2010: "Odds" That is a ridiculous hurtful accusation. I was raised in a single parent home with my mum. And I didn't lose my virginity until I was 18 and I don't regret it!!... (read in full...)

Husband won't give me any money!

Q.   Hey my husband say we got to save money but we have money and he don't give me none at all what should i do ...

A.   19 September 2010: How are you not earning your own money? Is there a reason you have to rely on him for money? You havent given much info...... (read in full...)

Help! How can I stop becoming so wet?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for well over a year, before anyone starts going all judgemental on me- I've had my hands down his pants, he's had his hands down mine. No biggie... Just lately, he's been commenting on how wet I am down there, and how ...

A.   6 September 2010: This is normal vaginal lubrication. It happens when the body is sexually aroused, it thinks there is going to be intercourse so lubrication makes its easier for the penis to penetrate. You cant get rid of it or stop it, its a normal bodily function... (read in full...)

I really want to be pregnant! Do I have the symptoms?

Q.   hi,im married and i met my husband on my ovulation day after a week i started having symptoms of pregnancy like tenderness,soarness and fullness of the breast,a green outline below my ...

A.   3 September 2010: These are signs of a hysterical pregnancy. This is when the woman wasnts a baby so much that her physical symptoms will match that so the symptoms of a true pregnancy. If the test says no, then you are not pregnant. They are very sensitiv... (read in full...)

She's having a hard time should I send her flowers?

Q.   This girl I like just went back to college and she is having a hard time and I think I should send her some flowers to show her I care about what she is going through and I care about her wellbeing and it might send the message I like her more than ...

A.   3 September 2010: Yes :-) Thats a lovely thing to think of. Peronsonally I love flowers and looking at them makes me happy. If shes having a rough time then anything you can do is a help. Dont send anything like red roses though. Send something bright like pink... (read in full...)

Violence in the marriage, wondering about another guy

Q.   I am 34 have been married for 10 years with 2 young children. My marriage has always had problems especially violence on occasions, husband committed more to work than family and husbands porn addiction, lots of lying for the majority of our ...

A.   3 September 2010: Get out of there NOW! Do you want to be a punching bag?! Do you want your childeren to be around a violent man? My mum was married to a man who was very abusive, who we met at church. He ended up nearly killing her and mentally abused me. This is ... (read in full...)

Any tips for losing weight?

Q.   Need help if anyone can help me!!! I have had 4 kids and is over weight now. In 5'4" and weigh almost 210 pounds!!! I have tired to lose weight but don't ever seem to!!! If anyone could give me some excercizes that would help me out of any advise I ...

A.   3 September 2010: I have reduced my weight through hypnotherapy. I used hypnosis and NLP (i still do) to change by bad habits and improve my positivity. Now i'm going to the gym 90 mins every day and I eat healthily. Its easier than you may think. I've been... (read in full...)

Why have I been like this?

Q.   Hello! So! The Summer is ending. And A lot of stuff has happened. And I've been EXTREMELY moody. And on top of that, I haven't been taking my Depression pills for a LONG time. I stopped taking them in March. I don't think I need them. Right n...

A.   2 September 2010: Stop listening to everyone else on here telling you to take you medication. You havent been taking it which is good, you dont need to live off pills to make yourself feel human. I had been on antidepressants untill a few months ago when i starte... (read in full...)

What is the right type of therapy for someone with Borderline Personality Disorder? I am receiving conflicting advice and don't know what to do!

Q.   Hello Readers. I have been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder by my Psychiatrist. I am 41 and prior to this was diagnosed with Major Depression with Post traumatic Stress Disorder. My current Psychiatrist feels that CBT group therapy ...

A.   2 September 2010: It doesnt sound like this Psychiatrist has been much help at all. By the way that you have said things it seems she has enhoyed telling you what is wrong with you and why. Having a diagnosis doesnt help anything. You most likely do not have BPD,... (read in full...)

What is the best way to get my girlfriend into bed and to make sure she enjoys her first time?

Q.   Me and my lass are both virgins, but we've started to get serious. But, I'm not totally sure what's the best way to get her into bed, and what...foreplay and position that will pleasure her the most. I know it's an awkward topic, but any help?...

A.   2 September 2010: You shouldent be "getting" her into bed at all! This is a conversation you need to have with her. If you dont feel like you can have it, then you arnt ready for sex yet! All women are different in what they like, you wont know what she likes un... (read in full...)

I think my older cousin might like me! Should I play along with her?

Q.   I'm 15 years old male and my cousin is 21 years old female I've liked my cousin for well over about 2 years and ive kept it a secret. I always knew that she wouldn't like me back but recently over the last few months when i've been with her shes ac...

A.   2 September 2010: No she doesnt like you. Just because she has a cleavage it doesnt mean its there for you. She is talking to you about relationships/sex because you are a young boy and she just wants to get stuff out of her head. If you were a girl she would be doin... (read in full...)

Surely its up to me if I watch porn! Isn't it?

Q.   Men are visual when it comes to sex! Its a fact..so if your girlfriend will not do sertin things in bed then is it really that rong to watch porn? Insted of tryin to make her do sertin things that she don't wanna do I think she should be fine with ...

A.   1 September 2010: Yes it is up to you and I dont see anything with watching porn as long as it is not an addiction or something you would do instead of doing something special with your girlfriend. If your girlfriend doesnt like it then she needs to asess her own ... (read in full...)

Does anyone find dating and getting into a relationship easy?

Q.   Does anyone find dating and getting into a relationship easy? I'm 22 and although I've flirted with loads of women and made out with several in nightclubs. However I've only dated 5 women and had a relationship with 2. It does seem difficult f...

A.   22 August 2010: Making out and meeting men in a nightclub is NOT the way to meet men for a relationship! Sex yes..commitment no. I met my boyfriend of 2 years on-line, I recommend it to anyone. I used a site called plentyoffish.com The nice thing about on-lin... (read in full...)

Incredibly passionate first and second date is scaring us both.. please advise!!

Q.   I've seen this girl now 2 times, and both dates we have made a tremendous connection. Neither of us have ever felt such passion towards another person so quickly and its really scaring both of us. We have both said that it feels like we have been ...

A.   21 August 2010: Yes, two years ago a met a guy on a dating site. We clicked instantly, I could talk to him like i've never been able to talk to anyone before. At the end of the first date I knew that I never wanted him out of my life. 2nd "date" I stayed at his h... (read in full...)

Headache after Sex... Should I be worried?

Q.   Recently, after having sex, when i'm having an orgasm,i get this shooting pain in my head followed by a headache that last for at least thirty minutes sometimes longer. Is this something i should be worried about?...

A.   19 August 2010: This is most likely because of the blood rushing to your genitals reduces your blood pressure. This isn't uncommon. Although if it gets any worse, go see your GP, he will have the answer.... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant?

Q.   Dear Cupid, So exactly one week ago i had sex for the first time, it was August 12, 2010. My partner had a condom and i dont think it had a hole on it, he ejaculated inside of me and pulled out right after. I was suppost to get my period a few days...

A.   19 August 2010: Your friends are right, you are paranoid. YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT. You cant get pregnant if there isnt any sperm ejaculated into you. Condoms prevent that. If it was split, trust me you would know about it. Cramps and sore boobs - pre menstrual ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to get pregnant when your not ovulating??

Q.   me and a friend were fooling around two days ago and i gave him a blow job and then he went and wiped his penis and then a while after that he fingered me, but not untill after did he realise that he didnt wash his hands so i started to panic, then ...

A.   19 August 2010: You're being paranoid! - I mean in the nicest way If there is no ovulation there is no egg, no egg, nothing for sperm to fertilise. Its simple anatomy. No you are not pregnant. Your period will come along soon... (read in full...)

How do I make my body smaller and my boobs bigger?

Q.   i am 14 and i have small boobs (38A). i am about 5'6'' and i weigh almost 200 lbs. people always make fun of my weight. and my friends talk about how my boobs are smaller than theirs. most of my friends are C's and DD's. i was wondering how i can ...

A.   19 August 2010: I am 200lbs too and this is obese. I have been making an effort to reduce my weight and am now 20lbs lighter. I think it is very important for you to exercise and eat healthily. I cant imagine you feel comfortable at the moment, I dont, but it is ... (read in full...)

Marriage - why should any man bother?

Q.   Women… why should any guy propose marriage? Full disclosure: I have never been married, but several family members and friends have been hurt by divorce, and I know of only a handful of happy marriages over one year old. My feelings for the...

A.   19 August 2010: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and I am sick of people asking "So when are you getting married?" I have come around to the idea of never getting married. I don't believe that love should be contracted and then you are punished by ... (read in full...)

Trying for a baby at 15. Could I be pregnant from these symptoms?

Q.   i am 15 and i have been with my 16year old boyfriend for a year and 1month and we are trying for a baby, and i am nearly 2weeks late for my period and i have done 3 test and yet all neg and i am really scerd, i dont want to tell my mum and friends ...

A.   19 August 2010: Its nice to see where my taxes are going.. Why on earth are you TRYING for a baby? You think that because you produce eggs and have sex that you're mature enough to raise a human being? You cant even string a sentence together.. ... (read in full...)

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