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How can I know if a woman is sexually interested?

Q.   hi all, how can we understand that a woman is sexually interested on a man. as frequent guests we used to touch or sometimes stand closer etc. but I tend to feel that this woman has an attraction on me. but this is an intuition. are there indirect...

A.   30 August 2012: again to make it to a clear point.... I believe that when we are sexually interested in a person we may show involuntary behaviors and talks, without we knowing that we are expressing. I was wondering how women normally expresses it. this is not ... (read in full...)

Should I confront the man my wife had a one night stand with?

Q.   My wife had a one night stand behind my back. She was in school with this guy and he knew she was married. I know where this guy lives, my question is do i go round there and hit the shit out of him?...

A.   29 August 2012: instead you may talk with your wife and tell her that you did not like it. more to that try to ask her why she did this. ask her if she is feeling something less in your marriage. please remember, your wife is a person and a person have freedom ... (read in full...)

Indian society is very harsh on babies born out of wedlock but the man wants nothing to do with me. What do I do now?

Q.   Dear Cupid I am basically Indian, working in US. Had an affair with a guy, I was in love with him, obviously he just used me for sex and money. Now I am pregnant, he didn't use condom, since Indian guys hate condom. They never use one, I took morn...

A.   25 August 2012: yes Indian society may not accept a natural child. One way is to stay in US itself. or get married to a person who can accept the way you are and let him accept the kid in front of society Hope you will get a very nice partner. All the best.... (read in full...)

I caught my wife in the bathtub with my brother! What do I do now?

Q.   Dear friends, I am hoping to find a way on how to handle a situation. Me and wife (23) are married for 3 years now and for the last 2 years my youngest brother stays with us for study. He and my wife are close in their age. He is just 19 months l...

A.   23 August 2012: Dear All Aunts, In fact discussion went in a different line than where I started. My worry was "shall I ask her of the relation". or should I wait till she speaks by self. thank you all, as I got a place to speak out then I were able to make up m... (read in full...)

Men: When you have sex, how often are you thinking of someone that you're not with?

Q.   These questions are mostly for men but women can feel free to answer as well: 1. When you have sex with your gf or wife, how often do you picture another woman in your head while doing it? 2. Who are they? (friends, women you saw on the s...

A.   22 August 2012: in my case it is even. most time I am focused on my wife. but again several a time I used to think her of as other women. to list a few, her sister,my aunt, our neighbor, one of my close friend ... and yeah thats it. but I told her at times this... (read in full...)

I caught my wife in the bathtub with my brother! What do I do now?

Q.   Dear friends, I am hoping to find a way on how to handle a situation. Me and wife (23) are married for 3 years now and for the last 2 years my youngest brother stays with us for study. He and my wife are close in their age. He is just 19 months l...

A.   22 August 2012: I wish to reply to the anonymous user. "This might not make sense to you, but you wife is cheating on you!" --- she never cheated on me as their is no hide N seek. In fact if she really does not like me, she should leave me and go. But she will... (read in full...)

I am a cheater but is that really so bad?

Q.   I am cheating on my GF. should i stop. i cant help it i like the excitement of chasing new women and when i see a beautiful woman im curious how it feels to be with her. but i like having something guaranteed at home. but people make it seem like a ...

A.   22 August 2012: speak to your GF about it. really. and see what she tells. for me cheating is not good.... (read in full...)

I snooped. I didn't find evidence of cheating, but what I did find is really bothering me

Q.   I snooped. He always has said I could go through phone, email, anything whenever I wanted because he has nothing to hide. Something he said the other day raised some suspicion so I snooped somewhere I've never looked before. I did not find evidence ...

A.   22 August 2012: to believe you does not require proof. ask him directly. and love him more. a spouse should a mind that the counter part is not a cheat (unless very strong signals are shown). he may not be dishonest. might have forgot or something. ask him.... (read in full...)

How do you deal with pubic hair growing back?

Q.   For people who have sex regularly, how do you deal with the growing back of shaved pubic hair? It loses the smoothness after only 1-2 days, so doesn't it get uncomfortable for your partner with the stubble? Shaving the stubble creates hell for me. ...

A.   21 August 2012: person12345 gave the right suggestion. but if you are specific about shaving then keep the frequency of shave in high. I think then there are hair removers, creams, may be other techniques but all will have side effects. trimming is healthy ... (read in full...)

What are the laws of marriage, regarding sex?

Q.   Dear All, this is a general question about relationship. Does a husband and wife are really restricted to have sex only between them! If so what shall happen after a divorce. or in case of a demise. if they are getting remarried in either case the...

A.   21 August 2012: Hi So_Very_Confused, in fact you are not confused. you are pretty straight. to the point. very thanks for you. and yes we are all on board and comfortable. informing in advance is a correct point. last time as it was an accident she could not and ... (read in full...)

What are the laws of marriage, regarding sex?

Q.   Dear All, this is a general question about relationship. Does a husband and wife are really restricted to have sex only between them! If so what shall happen after a divorce. or in case of a demise. if they are getting remarried in either case the...

A.   21 August 2012: one more point. per me she did not cheat. she was quite open in telling me about all. All I insisted is not to run behind everybody. Consider these as just freaking out and not take it to heart. And any case to have these with only people we both ... (read in full...)

What are the laws of marriage, regarding sex?

Q.   Dear All, this is a general question about relationship. Does a husband and wife are really restricted to have sex only between them! If so what shall happen after a divorce. or in case of a demise. if they are getting remarried in either case the...

A.   21 August 2012: Dear friends, yes this is as per social norms. all points are valid. so as per society while married be only with that partner. As said So_Very_Confused was already into an open marriage. Could you please explain the 'cons'. All I am trying to cla... (read in full...)

How can I satisfy my sextual urge without cheating on my wife?

Q.   I am alone in a foreign land. My wife and family are not with me. How can I satisfy my sextual urge without cheating on my wife? ...

A.   20 August 2012: As told by older posters masturbation is the only way. you seem to wanting for more satisfaction. you may use sex toys of variety. or get consent from your wife to have sex with another partner available at foreign land. unless your wife accepts ... (read in full...)

I caught my wife in the bathtub with my brother! What do I do now?

Q.   Dear friends, I am hoping to find a way on how to handle a situation. Me and wife (23) are married for 3 years now and for the last 2 years my youngest brother stays with us for study. He and my wife are close in their age. He is just 19 months l...

A.   20 August 2012: hi dMartin89, the lines [ To some people, jealousy and possessiveness is a sign of love and care, but I really dont understand how you could attatch two such negative and destructive emotions to love. They are both emotions that stem from inadequa... (read in full...)

I caught my wife in the bathtub with my brother! What do I do now?

Q.   Dear friends, I am hoping to find a way on how to handle a situation. Me and wife (23) are married for 3 years now and for the last 2 years my youngest brother stays with us for study. He and my wife are close in their age. He is just 19 months l...

A.   19 August 2012: I must respect you all. I will talk with her regarding this and be heading towards close of this happenings. thank you all.... (read in full...)

I caught my wife in the bathtub with my brother! What do I do now?

Q.   Dear friends, I am hoping to find a way on how to handle a situation. Me and wife (23) are married for 3 years now and for the last 2 years my youngest brother stays with us for study. He and my wife are close in their age. He is just 19 months l...

A.   19 August 2012: yes Karlos, what you tell is correct. but i have another justification here, does that mean he cares my brother more than me when she do it. she told that it is a difference which interests. I never found her any less caring to me. actually ... (read in full...)

Why did I sleep with my best friend's husband? I know I betrayed my friend. How do I fix this?

Q.   My best friend, her husband and I have been friends since the 10th grade. My friend and I both got married 2 years after we left high school. I got divorced and they remained married. Throughout the 16 yrs that they've been married they both have...

A.   19 August 2012: do not worry! all you did was indulged in sex. for you being alone for these days it is a requirement. in a drunken state it happened. as a matter of fact if friend come to now about it she will not be easy. do not feel guilty about this. but from... (read in full...)

Does my husband love me like a sister?

Q.   I have been married to my husband for 7 months now. We've been in a relationship (mostly long distance) for almost 5 years. I would be able to see him 3 months every year until I moved to him last december. The past 3 months, he has given me no ...

A.   19 August 2012: it is confusing. i think you both have different perspectives (off course people will have). try to think as the way he thinks. i think he wants you to be more slutty kinda person. that could be the reason for him suggesting about sex with others. i ... (read in full...)

I caught my wife in the bathtub with my brother! What do I do now?

Q.   Dear friends, I am hoping to find a way on how to handle a situation. Me and wife (23) are married for 3 years now and for the last 2 years my youngest brother stays with us for study. He and my wife are close in their age. He is just 19 months l...

A.   19 August 2012: if I care for her I should respect her sexual feelings as well. Possessiveness can not be accounted as love. It is a point that as a family we should not be looking for sexual partners. Ladies please share your thoughts, in case if you find sex out... (read in full...)

I've had two boyfriends but never had an orgasm

Q.   Hi, i'm 21 an been having sex since I was 18. I have slept with 2 people, my ex and my current boyfriend. The problem is I have never had an orgasm. I dont know how to or what it feels like or anything, but i still really enjoy sex with my boyfrien...

A.   19 August 2012: when you can direct your boyfriend on how to please you it would help.... (read in full...)

I caught my wife in the bathtub with my brother! What do I do now?

Q.   Dear friends, I am hoping to find a way on how to handle a situation. Me and wife (23) are married for 3 years now and for the last 2 years my youngest brother stays with us for study. He and my wife are close in their age. He is just 19 months l...

A.   19 August 2012: thanks all of you. it was minds game. I should have asked her directly. I did that last night. I asked her "if you get a chance do you make love with another person". She told that she knows why I ask this. e she told my bro that she unde... (read in full...)

I caught my wife in the bathtub with my brother! What do I do now?

Q.   Dear friends, I am hoping to find a way on how to handle a situation. Me and wife (23) are married for 3 years now and for the last 2 years my youngest brother stays with us for study. He and my wife are close in their age. He is just 19 months l...

A.   18 August 2012: thanks bondgirl for responding, I do not mind she having sex with another person (even my brother). I am worried over why does not she tell me about it. Could be shyness or fear of how I will respond. But she knows that I am open. I can never le... (read in full...)

Should I tell my Bf that two friends, one being male, plus me, shared a bed during a sleep-over, but nothing happened?

Q.   So I slept in the same bed with two of my friends, one male and one female when I have a boyfriend. Nothing weird happened it was just a simple sleepover but I am worried that my boyfriend will be upset about it - even though they are both his ...

A.   18 August 2012: Not sure how your boy friend takes it. But if there is a possibility for him to know it from other sources then it is really good you speak out. Find a right time and pop out the topic. Tell him what happened. He may ask why you did not choose to ... (read in full...)

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