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reader, Serpico  +, writes (3 November 2010):
From ages 13-19, there is no such thing as fate.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): I believe in fate, but any relationship has its ups and down and no matter what as long as you and your love are happy through everything, you'll always be happy knowing you'll have some one to hold your hand and take every sharp turn in life with you. C'mon lol my best friend is my boyfriend and he's been there through everything for years even when he wasnt really there.
And as for your update, "If you love something let it go, if it doesnt back it wasnt ment to be"
I heard that somewhere and dont remmeber. But i believe its true. You cant hold on to something forever and hope that you'll get your wish. Everything has an experation date, even you, love, me and the milk in the fridge.
"Shit happens" You cant live like that sweetie. It isnt good for you ok.
Xoxo Hang in there and Take care sweetie
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (3 November 2010):
 Original Poster don't worry sweetheart you are not alone feeling like this. We have all had these horrible crushes on someone that is not requited and it's hell but I promise every day it will get just a little easier to eat and get out of bed and be normal. Just take baby steps and you will get there.
God bless you sweetheart
Dirtball I guess CaringGuy and I are showing our age :-0
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (2 November 2010):
 I believe that fate is like luck; You make your own.
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reader, Blod +, writes (2 November 2010):
 I think it's a combination of fate and our choices. I believe fate provides us with opportunities. It's up to us what we do with those.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (2 November 2010):
 T2 to be specific. MM and CG get bonus points!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the comments, I think fate is real just stories I've heard from people I know. I just wish the same happend to me.
I really love this guy but he left me and its literally killing me I don't even feel hungry anymore. I must force myself to eat.. I have dreams about him. Everynight!!! I miss him so much. I Know I'm very young but I really fell hard for this guy.. I would give anything to have him again.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 November 2010):
I don't believe in fate. You make decisions yourself, and by making those decisions you map out your own life.
Dirtball - It was Terminator.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): I belive fate is real. If it's meant to be, it will be.
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (2 November 2010):
That rings a bell Dirtball was it John Connor in the terminator?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (2 November 2010):
"There is no fate but what we make for ourselves." I know you've probably never seen the movie this quote came from, but I believe it to be true. Bonus points to anyone who can name the movie.
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (2 November 2010):
Yes I believe in fate, but I also think relationships take work and care to make sure fate was right in the first place.
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